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FWB... is there is such a thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With all the brain chemistry and emotions involved with sex, is it possible to spend that amount of intimate time with someone and just keep it casual? In my mind, feelings are going to creep in on atleast one side of the relationship at some point - of not both. Thoughts and experiences?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Maybe not for you, if your personality isn't suited to that but yes, it works very well for some.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm good at compartmentalising, so although when I have sex with someone it's a hugely physically input mega overload, I can walk away after without a backward glance.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Mate of mine gets JSA

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"With all the brain chemistry and emotions involved with sex, is it possible to spend that amount of intimate time with someone and just keep it casual? In my mind, feelings are going to creep in on atleast one side of the relationship at some point - of not both. Thoughts and experiences? "

I would agree, sex is intimate, i also believe two people regularly meeting for sex will naturally develop emotions

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Yes I meet with someone regular and it has never gone further than been fwb xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the brain chemistry and emotions involved with sex, is it possible to spend that amount of intimate time with someone and just keep it casual? In my mind, feelings are going to creep in on atleast one side of the relationship at some point - of not both. Thoughts and experiences? "

Yeah it can work.

Sometimes feelings develop so you have to drop the WB bit but if youre both not looking it works great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is. I've never been without a FWBs but on occasion I have had to decline a full time offer.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Of cause it can work, depends on how your mind works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure. I've been 'dumped' (shall we say) by 2 seperate guys because they've had feelings for me (I'm not available). And I've gotten emotionally involved (not reciprocated) on one occasion. But I've had fun without complication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is easy and no there were no feelings of wanting more on either side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can work for sure - read about it all the time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's possible. I'm quite capable of coupling friendship and sex without any romantic interest as is a lot of others I know and meet.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Sharing a Man/Dom is good, my gf and I see different things with each scenario... Now how many times does 3 go into 2 again? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think it can to be honest as feelings and emotions do develop.

People get 'attached' and the start to 'claim' the Fwb seen it loads on here, the whole he's mine/she's mine (owned) the over gushy posts then when it ends the spats and fall out.

Is it really worth it???

the only way I can see it working is if both people are totally emotionless. And is that possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the brain chemistry and emotions involved with sex, is it possible to spend that amount of intimate time with someone and just keep it casual? In my mind, feelings are going to creep in on atleast one side of the relationship at some point - of not both. Thoughts and experiences? "

I don't see why you can't have feelings and be casual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the brain chemistry and emotions involved with sex, is it possible to spend that amount of intimate time with someone and just keep it casual? In my mind, feelings are going to creep in on atleast one side of the relationship at some point - of not both. Thoughts and experiences? "

Had two friends and benefits both were for sexual and social purposes. Neither had the time nor the inclination for a relationship so a friends and benefits was the perfect alternative. We met up whenever we both had the time or needed company etc. One even rescued me with my shopping after I couldn't get a taxi home which was kind of him as friends ought to be. One meet up with me in town for coffee and cake! I prefer friends and benefits. No nagging, no expectations, no stress, great care free company and a sex life too. No wham bam thank you ma'am then leave sex scenarios for me!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

The top and bottom of it is, if you can't separate casual sex from feelings then swinging isn't for you.

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