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By *hy-tot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skellow

me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Chin up bro. Plenty more fajiners in the sea. Why they are in the sea I have no idea.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Welcome to singlesvill. Don't worry there is life after couplesvill

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Oh and expect your account to change to a singles account very soon

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By *hy-tot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skellow


"Welcome to singlesvill. Don't worry there is life after couplesvill "
hope your rite m8 I just cant see it

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

You know it doesn't have to be that way....Dust yrself down,create an interesting /different profile focusing on what you are looking for.(Lots of single males don't know what they want)

It is more than just a shag. have a special interest and promote it.....or convince yrself you are just like all the rest and indulge in self pity..It really is down to you and your attitude.

I wish you well

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Welcome to singlesvill. Don't worry there is life after couplesvill hope your rite m8 I just cant see it "

Sorry to joke mate but seriously life does go on and you will be happy again. I felt the same but now I look back and think thank God that happened. Obviously hard to see now but you will find I'm right. Good luck mate you'll be fine

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By *hy-tot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skellow


"You know it doesn't have to be that way....Dust yrself down,create an interesting /different profile focusing on what you are looking for.(Lots of single males don't know what they want)

It is more than just a shag. have a special interest and promote it.....or convince yrself you are just like all the rest and indulge in self pity..It really is down to you and your attitude.

I wish you well"
thank you angel im not realy sure what I want now but as time passes the scars wounds heal im sure I will bounce back at some point but ty wish you well and good fortune

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Can I ask how long ago you split ?

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"You know it doesn't have to be that way....Dust yrself down,create an interesting /different profile focusing on what you are looking for.(Lots of single males don't know what they want)

It is more than just a shag. have a special interest and promote it.....or convince yrself you are just like all the rest and indulge in self pity..It really is down to you and your attitude.

I wish you wellthank you angel im not realy sure what I want now but as time passes the scars wounds heal im sure I will bounce back at some point but ty wish you well and good fortune "
Thanks mr.... Yeah you are right,let the dust settle and re_iew,say,springtime,try and let go and move forward...Once you have let go of past hurts etc you will be clearer about what you want...This site may not be right for you at this time...Best wishes fella

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By *hy-tot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skellow


"You know it doesn't have to be that way....Dust yrself down,create an interesting /different profile focusing on what you are looking for.(Lots of single males don't know what they want)

It is more than just a shag. have a special interest and promote it.....or convince yrself you are just like all the rest and indulge in self pity..It really is down to you and your attitude.

I wish you wellthank you angel im not realy sure what I want now but as time passes the scars wounds heal im sure I will bounce back at some point but ty wish you well and good fortune Thanks mr.... Yeah you are right,let the dust settle and re_iew,say,springtime,try and let go and move forward...Once you have let go of past hurts etc you will be clearer about what you want...This site may not be right for you at this time...Best wishes fella"
thank you again and your probly rite due too some off the messages im getting from which was our so called friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets "

Why you split up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for your kind words ..I do honestly know how you feel

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By *hy-tot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skellow


"Thank you for your kind words ..I do honestly know how you feel "
hey and no need too ty as you need honesty as much as I do x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am sure you were lovely to single guys when you were a couple, it is a leveller

welcome and have fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's an opportunity for a new beginning and reinventing yourself if you think that will help and look to the future whilst being mindful of the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets "

Did she take the dictionary with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets

Did she take the dictionary with her?"

OUCH! That's harsh!

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

Chin up mate - it's taken me 3 years to come back after going through the same as you, but I got there/here.

Take a break if you feel you need to, give yourself time, and when you come back use the forums to re-establish old friendships and turn them into something new.

Hope that helps...

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!


"It's an opportunity for a new beginning and reinventing yourself if you think that will help and look to the future whilst being mindful of the past. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try looking in the real world and meet someone there. I'm sure it's been done before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being single isn't all that bad

this is the longest that ive ever been signal but i carnt see myself ever wanting another relationship tbh

just remember its a new start to reinvent yourself

and im sure that you will get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets

Did she take the dictionary with her?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not an easy time for you but reading your veris sounds like you were a great part of it all not just your partner - 10 meets in 7 months is pretty good going - some at clubs? maybe carry on going there and definitely change profile to single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go single profile m8 unless you can offer sommat better than the 786 million already on here.Compared to 455 single female

5 cpls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and my partner have split up as only 1 off us would be happy together and its proved a point too me ie mr tot that mrs shy was the attraction for all the meets looks like im now part off the 1000s of single males on here who wont get meets "

You sound almost surprised that the attention is mostly focussed on the women in this game we call 'swinging'

As a newly single male, I think you are about to realise that point more acutely than you had ever hoped to consider.

Good luck in your ventures however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as an aside and not aimed solely at the op.

If a couple split and one of the couple becomes a single member, should their 'dual' verifications not be removed ?

The dynamic of meeting them as a single is perhaps far removed from meeting them as a couple.

Yes, as a couple, they met and had fun : will this always transfer across to the single.

He/she might be shit at meets on their own.

Sometimes we act differently and have different priorities when taking part in something as a 'team' as opposed to a solo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go single profile m8 unless you can offer sommat better than the 786 million already on here.Compared to 455 single female

5 cpls "

You suggesting he keeps it as a lie then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha this site is like the time forgot.Theres ppl on here that were 45 5 yrs ago.They 44 now. no don't tell lies just get a life.

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