FabSwingers.com forum: Shortest/Longest it took to get verified

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on fab a while now and jesus it's getting frustrating to get a meet and a verification.

How long has it took for you to get verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days

Last time I was here I didn't get one meet (didn't really put the effort in) for 8 months.

First time I joined it took me 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about a month -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone the first day I joined a few years back. Met a few others that week, then left for ages. When I came back, I did the same again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few years lol.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

My partner created our account in the morning.... He met me at lunch and showed me.. Only to find we had a veri... We barely knew what one was then...... We were confused but then realised it was a man who had watched us fucking in the woods earlier that week who had recognised us.... To get an early veri really helped to show people we were real... And meant business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks by cam but 11 months by going to a club for a social/meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined it took me ages to get a meet, people do not want to meet unverified women it seems we are all single men

took me months to find somebody to put their trust in me and meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took us 3 weeks. We got verified by going to a club, which we had done pre-fab in any case.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

"I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys "

Get yourself to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys "
That is right, saw a woman join and within a week already 3 meets, she must of been busy lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had my first verification within an hour, but that was from the guy that recommended the site to me.

From the actual site and not knowing the guy from else where (which I knew a few) it took me six months before I actually met a guy directly from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months the first and second time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at least 4 months and that was a social ~ took me ages to find anyone I liked but once I started.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys

Get yourself to a club"

Problem with that is its hit and miss that you bump into anybody in a club that's on here

Ive never had a verification on here from going to a club

unless you go round asking people if they are in fab and if they will verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think at least 4 months and that was a social ~ took me ages to find anyone I liked but once I started....."

Hussy

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

"I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys

Get yourself to a club

Problem with that is its hit and miss that you bump into anybody in a club that's on here

Ive never had a verification on here from going to a club

unless you go round asking people if they are in fab and if they will verify you

Sorry, we meant go to club if you want a meet.. Not for the veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined it took me ages to get a meet, people do not want to meet unverified women it seems we are all single men

took me months to find somebody to put their trust in me and meet "
That's understandable with alot of men pretending to women and cpls saddle that they are but it does spoil it somewhat for the few genuine ladies on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think it is a lot easier for ladies to get a meet than it is for guys "
the genuine ones agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day after I joined the site. Things were easier then. Hooking up in the chat room was relatively simple

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Two or three months on my first and only time. It was a lovely one, so worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a few weeks. Met a couple after messaging them just before they went on holiday. When they returned two weeks later we met up as arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet in about three days but didn't get a veri as I met a guy with a profile saying straight! It happens a lot and they don't want to give their games away. Does make me laugh. Bi is good for me! I choose not to display and have been rejected by some because I choose not to let everyone know who I meet. Works for me so sod them I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First profile I had took a few days to get verified. I've had this account over a year and haven't met anyone.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

first day, then the next 7 days - 7 meets.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Few hours - I was cross!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First hour then depends on how many straight/bicurious people who met me on the same day want to verify me...

I'm not a slut/escort, just have a high sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my first profile it took nearly a year......I had patience!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

A few hours, by my awesome friend who recommended I go to a club with her and sign up to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks but it was only a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months and still waiting for my first lady it does get frustrating being nice and no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies have it easier to have a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on fab a while now and jesus it's getting frustrating to get a meet and a verification.

How long has it took for you to get verified?"

Only got a cam veri.

Haven't found a willing victim yet who fits my criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 months and still waiting for my first lady it does get frustrating being nice and no reply "

Then don't be nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on fab a while now and jesus it's getting frustrating to get a meet and a verification.

How long has it took for you to get verified?"

About 14 months to get a meet veri, I think.

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

3 days this time. I have to say, this being my (I think) fourth profile since I first found Fabs, it seems to get easier/quicker each time. The first time I was on here waaaaay back, and with far, far fewer profiles on here, it still took me about 4 months.

Easiest for women, next easiest for couples, but the odds are stacked against you if you're a single guy on here - and even more so if you're my age (well, 50 or over).

Luck and timing have an awful lot to do with it though...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Same day I joined from my first meet who I'd not met before! I think it took about 6 hours to arrange, meet and get the veri.

I recommended the site to a male friend and veried him within an hour of joining so that might be one of the quickest, although we already knew each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same day I joined from my first meet who I'd not met before! I think it took about 6 hours to arrange, meet and get the veri.

I recommended the site to a male friend and veried him within an hour of joining so that might be one of the quickest, although we already knew each other. "

I was recommended by someone too, we'd both known each other from another site, and I had my arm twisted to join until I was begging for mercy

We'd also been on a "joint" social between fab and this other site and I got to know quite a lot of people quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on before and I got talking to a lass and when we traded photos I realised we had already slept together.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Took me 6 months to investigate the forums when I realised I needed Verification I went into cam room and a nice lady did it for me. so I guess 7 months.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We were lucky, we joined on the Wednesday looking for information on dogging sites, and went out on Saturday and met a guy who turned out to be on here too, so he verified us.

But it was just luck, could have been ages otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my single profile met someone the day i joined and got veried! This time round on the couples profile probably took us about three weeks.

Doll x

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I've been on fab a while now and jesus it's getting frustrating to get a meet and a verification.

How long has it took for you to get verified?"

Easy - York social Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I has my first meet the second day I Was on here...He said he didn't want to verify me cos he didn't want anyone else to have me! I thought he was joking but..no veri! !

My second meet was a few weeks later and still no veri..I must have been shit that time!!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

About 3 months, I had a few arranged meets fall thru before that though. First one was worth the wait though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day after I joined I had 3

my first ever mmmf. Hehe

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Within a week, I seem to remember. I'd been on other sites for months and months with no results, join here, and bam, threesome a few days later

1 verification though instead of 2, the other guy didn't seem to want anyone knowing :/ Lovely.

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

I should add, surely it's fairly easy to get one? Photo verification takes a few minutes and not much effort, and if you've got a webcam you can go on chat and ask someone to give you one (though of course not everyone has one).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 mins

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"10 mins

Really?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Think it took us nine months before we met anyone from here and got verified.

As for the fastest, noticed a lady on our Local feed join and get meet verified within ten minutes last week. That's pretty quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This profile...1day.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A couple of months. To start with that was because I wasn't making much of an effort but even when I did it was about a month.

I've had a short break and relocated an it's taken me a couple of months again. But I wasn't putting much effort in over Christmas.

I'm on my way to my first meet in a little while right now. So excited and a little nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on fab a while now and jesus it's getting frustrating to get a meet and a verification.

How long has it took for you to get verified?"
shortest two minutes longest never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 mins

Really?"

yes it was with the first person who looked at me, I mailed him my number n had a qwick chat n met up its happened on fab guys too

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