FabSwingers.com forum: Women messaging first?

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It unnerves me, what do these women want?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want? "

your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens so rarely that when it does it naturally arouses suspicion - M pretending to be F, or what?

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Yarm

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

Be my guest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a jolly rare occurrence, so ladies cone say hello to Pooch and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always such a lovely experience to receive a message from a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always wonder why

I messaged you once

I can't remember why either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

Okay, try to leave it how you found it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I always wonder why

I messaged you once

I can't remember why either

So you did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a nice message from a lady...I'd even take a nasty one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare, but by all means msg me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged one of you

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message. "

It's always a nice thrill. I don't know why more women don't do it. I imagine they could save themselves a lot of time and effort if they made the first move more often.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message.

It's always a nice thrill. I don't know why more women don't do it. I imagine they could save themselves a lot of time and effort if they made the first move more often."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a nice and rare surprise when women message first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message.

It's always a nice thrill. I don't know why more women don't do it. I imagine they could save themselves a lot of time and effort if they made the first move more often."

I meant I agree

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first. "

It would scare the shit out of me if you messaged me!

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Yarm

"I've messaged one of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is rare and surprising but would be nice sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first.

It would scare the shit out of me if you messaged me!"

Don't worry, it gets boring after her 50th message that day ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I wish a lady messaged me be very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadie asked me to send a chap a message on her behalf tonight.

It's the first one, so here's hoping!

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By *etsorderpizzaMan
over a year ago

dyce

Mwaha I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only message Women first to comment on something they have said in the forums or a status update, I haven't said anything more for a very long time,

So if I get message it's usually them who have started it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the best meets with those I messaged first, we seemed to click better. Plus I was never rejected, it was a great confidence boost.

I also messaged my now partner first, and that's worked out incredibly well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first.

It would scare the shit out of me if you messaged me!"

What!? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message. "

Yes I've had one, only one though

Off to bed now would be lovely to find a bulging box when I wake up in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first.

It would scare the shit out of me if you messaged me!

Don't worry, it gets boring after her 50th message that day ... "

Ssssh don't tell everyone mun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

I have been called that a lot of times when I've messaged first

I send out at least one a day

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've done it a few times. Nothing ventured and all that. Been ignored quite a bit too. C'est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message guys first. It's the only way I secure my targets cos they can't message me first.

It would scare the shit out of me if you messaged me!

Don't worry, it gets boring after her 50th message that day ...

Ssssh don't tell everyone mun!"

Haha, mun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged one of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all fun and games until they bloomin ignore ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This very rarely happens to me. Would be great if it happened more..any ladies feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent a couple

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I get a few from ladies ... There's always room in my box for more though.

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I would love a lady to message me first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a first!!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I had a thanks but no thanks once, I hadn't event sent a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message. "

They can do this!?

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

And I wonder how many of us will refresh our inbox every 30 secs just in case a real live woman messages us!

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

I have been called that a lot of times when I've messaged first

I send out at least one a day

It's probably is unfair to assume like I do. But I like to think it's because I've learnt from my mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy to receive a billeted doux

In fact I do a little dance of joy around the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a thanks but no thanks once, I hadn't event sent a message

Haha I actually lol'd then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I wonder how many of us will refresh our inbox every 30 secs just in case a real live woman messages us!"

Im not a 'real woman' so f5 wont work

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

Of course it's great to receive a message from a lady first. It's so much more exciting than the yellow message that turns out to be a guy who wants to do something unspeakable to/with me.

Most of us are here to be desired, and an unsolicited message is a very strong start.

I'm waiting to see the post from the first gentleman who doesn't like it. He might well be a Victorian or something.

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want? "

A shag?

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a pleasant surprise

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Well I went to send a message or two but I already have. Third time lucky!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I've messaged one of you

I know who!

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By *etsorderpizzaMan
over a year ago

dyce

Better than Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many to choose from

You can just choose me

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

It's always nice to get a message completely out of the blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want? "

Probably want a piece if that ass!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it's great to receive a message from a lady first. It's so much more exciting than the yellow message that turns out to be a guy who wants to do something unspeakable to/with me.

Most of us are here to be desired, and an unsolicited message is a very strong start.

I'm waiting to see the post from the first gentleman who doesn't like it. He might well be a Victorian or something.

James "

I thought I sent you a very reasonably request

Sometimes I think walkingtaff is from the Victorian era by the way the way he types

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

i have had none in last 8 months that i have been back.

But i have had two in the last 24 hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried it

It doesn't work for me, I find I have greater success in replying to men who mail me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged one of you

I know who!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had a few ladies message me n meet them . I don't have a problem with ladies messaging me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few but never enough

Waits for my inbox to go wild

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I message guys first if I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that's a very rare thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

I have been called that a lot of times when I've messaged first

I send out at least one a day

It's probably is unfair to assume like I do. But I like to think it's because I've learnt from my mistakes!

Ooo hello Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to see it happen, just for the novelty value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message men I think are hot!!!

Don't want them to get away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is fantastic when a lady messages first, they chose you from many. I would suspect somethings not right if it's a pure filthy message but a bit of witty sexual banter is right up my street!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

I just seen your pics, I can see why!

I message first if I like the profile

L x

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Yarm

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

Typical that star likes a comment and I'm out of her age range!!

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

"And I wonder how many of us will refresh our inbox every 30 secs just in case a real live woman messages us!

Im not a 'real woman' so f5 wont work

I seem to get a lot of a real men msg and you certainly don't look to be on of them! F off 5 doesn't work on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always message men I think are hot!!!

Don't want them to get away "

That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is fantastic when a lady messages first, they chose you from many. I would suspect somethings not right if it's a pure filthy message but a bit of witty sexual banter is right up my street! "

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look through profiles and choose my own meets rather than those that message me!! Xc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I usually assume they're fake or picture hunters if they message first.

Maybe I should be more trusting!

I just seen your pics, I can see why!

I message first if I like the profile

L x"

I'm guessing you two get the same sorts! Lovely pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

Typical that star likes a comment and I'm out of her age range!!

we can have an online liason...that will save you making the 160 mile journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

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By *etsorderpizzaMan
over a year ago

dyce

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By *etsorderpizzaMan
over a year ago

dyce

"Never had one

More pics dude!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

count me in

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Yarm

"It unnerves me, what do these women want?

your arse

Typical that star likes a comment and I'm out of her age range!!

we can have an online liason...that will save you making the 160 mile journey

Woo hoo! Winner winner chicken dinner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I've sent 2 now, one replied and one hasn't so that's it for this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Yarm

"well I've sent 2 now, one replied and one hasn't so that's it for this year

Aw and I thought we had something special! And there you are messaging in front of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

count me in

is that a small bottle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A first message from a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

Ahh but that's how I caught you out,

You called me by another name, Probably the last person you messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

count me in

is that a small bottle?

No standard size bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one first message from a woman and she was quickly blocked... Who in there right mind gives out a mobile number in message 3! Obviously trolling an ex or something

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

Are people really stupid enough to send messages like that and expect a reply of yes pop by now and just slip it in ?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

They are rare, but still very welcome and cause a buzz of excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

Ahh but that's how I caught you out,

You called me by another name, Probably the last person you messaged

Like i say one mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only had one first message from a woman and she was quickly blocked... Who in there right mind gives out a mobile number in message 3! Obviously trolling an ex or something"

or desperate for a shag maybe? it is a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

Are people really stupid enough to send messages like that and expect a reply of yes pop by now and just slip it in ?

Daily! Ive had some hilarious ones today i wish i could share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A first message from a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Shut the front door.....!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I might get a rub thanks to this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking I'll message first. I'm not at the moment so there seems little point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rare for me... but I sent one first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be quite pleasant, yes.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

I have had three messages from three completely gorgeous women.

I'll sleep with a smile on my face tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a roll... winked someone too... go me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had three messages from three completely gorgeous women.

I'll sleep with a smile on my face tonight. "

None for me, I will be sleeping with a

expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had three messages from three completely gorgeous women.

I'll sleep with a smile on my face tonight.

None for me, I will be sleeping with a

expression "

Il swcond this sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of my meets with women come from them messaging first

I tend to be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most of my meets with women come from them messaging first

I tend to be shy"

What was my first message to you?

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Think I might get a rub thanks to this thread! "

Think you might get more than a rub!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

A big smile lights up my little face when the message box goes yellow ..on the very rare occasions this happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started using the forum I got a fair few first messages from women. However that has pretty much stopped now ..not meeting any more is probably not the only factor as when I stopped initially I got more messages... go figure.

I think my twatishness is more obvious these days which probably acts as a good repellent

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"I'm on a roll... winked someone too... go me!!"

Go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a rare occasion a lady will message me first . In fact come to think of it ive never been messaged first before!

Come on dont be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies messaging first? Don't be daft! Next single fellas will be turning down meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened on the odd rare occasion.

Usually straight men who seem to have given up on women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete fail

Goodnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want my words back thread doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies messaging first? Don't be daft! Next single fellas will be turning down meets

Believe me they do that's why I don't mail first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I might get a rub thanks to this thread!

Think you might get more than a rub!

A poke in the back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign me up get messaging you wonderful ladies. Very rare women message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most of my meets with women come from them messaging first

I tend to be shy

What was my first message to you?"

I can't remember i think it was about my penis.

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Think I might get a rub thanks to this thread!

Think you might get more than a rub!

A poke in the back?"

That's how it all starts. Then you might get a rub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most of my meets with women come from them messaging first

I tend to be shy

What was my first message to you?

I can't remember i think it was about my penis."

Standard! On paper then I probably do come across as a picture collector, I actually said to you "fancy sending me some penis please?"

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Its purely just a numbers game, for sure woman mail first, but the sheer volume of single men on here means the chances of getting one are slim so yes its great when it does happen.

Moving on, id love a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me..

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I have had a few this week and they made my year

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By *andingo16Man
over a year ago

london

Wouldn't mind a cheeky msg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Ok, I've sent some xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

I've never ever had a single reply to any man I have messaged first, and I used to send a fair few

I come to the conclusion I was punching above my weight in the guys I liked enough to mail first so stopped

I've seen a few guys lately I have liked the look of but see no point in mailing them if they aren't going to reply

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Its bit of a shock when I get a message first from a lady...very very rare...hoping for a few unexpected messages now after posting in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

Some one ignored you?! Surely not!!

As said above its so rare I'd say he got over excited, had some sort of melt down resulting in him forgetting how to type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's give it another try...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to any message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually a very pleasant experience when I get a message from a woman that I haven't made contact with.

Gents sign up below if you like this.

Ladies, be bold and send one of the fine fellows below a message. "

I sometimes do message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

I've never ever had a single reply to any man I have messaged first, and I used to send a fair few

I come to the conclusion I was punching above my weight in the guys I liked enough to mail first so stopped

I've seen a few guys lately I have liked the look of but see no point in mailing them if they aren't going to reply "

With you on that, I'm the same there's been a few I'd like to speak to but I just don't even bother now

its pretty solid destroying to be ignored on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx""

And did you?

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

I love it but hate to say it does not happen that often.

I am not surprised considering the split of men to women.

I do or would like it to happen.

So please fill my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

Some one ignored you?! Surely not!!

As said above its so rare I'd say he got over excited, had some sort of melt down resulting in him forgetting how to type!

I like that excuse I'll stick with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

And did you?

As flattering an offer as it was, I was too busy rearranging my underwear drawer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

I've never ever had a single reply to any man I have messaged first, and I used to send a fair few

I come to the conclusion I was punching above my weight in the guys I liked enough to mail first so stopped

I've seen a few guys lately I have liked the look of but see no point in mailing them if they aren't going to reply

With you on that, I'm the same there's been a few I'd like to speak to but I just don't even bother now

its pretty solid destroying to be ignored on here lol "

To be honest it wouldnt bother me if it was a few I mailed that ignored me, I know I'm not for everybody so I wouldn't expect them all to reply but when noone of them reply it makes you think I'm I really that bad

Just makes more sence to reply to guys who mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

And did you?

As flattering an offer as it was, I was too busy rearranging my underwear drawer

These middle aged fat women are a nightmear aren't they, the cheek of mailing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

Don't believe everything you read, Who do you think started the copy and paste type messaging

A girl makes one mistake

im going back to fancy a fuck messages its easier

I thought fancy a fuck was your copy and paste message

Nooooo its fancy a fuck [insert name here]? Please

so much different

Are people really stupid enough to send messages like that and expect a reply of yes pop by now and just slip it in ?

Daily! Ive had some hilarious ones today i wish i could share

Be careful you may end up on the naughty step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

And did you?

As flattering an offer as it was, I was too busy rearranging my underwear drawer

These middle aged fat women are a nightmear aren't they, the cheek of mailing you

I know, who do they think they are, turning me on with their foot pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

Oh I have loads on my hotlist I'd love to get my hands on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

I've never ever had a single reply to any man I have messaged first, and I used to send a fair few

I come to the conclusion I was punching above my weight in the guys I liked enough to mail first so stopped

I've seen a few guys lately I have liked the look of but see no point in mailing them if they aren't going to reply

With you on that, I'm the same there's been a few I'd like to speak to but I just don't even bother now

its pretty solid destroying to be ignored on here lol

Just makes more sence to reply to guys who mail me"

Definitely their loss as I'm sure everyone will agree here

yea it's easier just to stick to inbox I find

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

The flood of messages that i was "expecting" still hasnt happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged first a couple of times now, maybe three and the latest one ignored me so I'll just stick to replying rather sending from now on

I've never ever had a single reply to any man I have messaged first, and I used to send a fair few

I come to the conclusion I was punching above my weight in the guys I liked enough to mail first so stopped

I've seen a few guys lately I have liked the look of but see no point in mailing them if they aren't going to reply

With you on that, I'm the same there's been a few I'd like to speak to but I just don't even bother now

its pretty solid destroying to be ignored on here lol

Just makes more sence to reply to guys who mail me

Definitely their loss as I'm sure everyone will agree here

yea it's easier just to stick to inbox I find"

Well I wouldn't go that far, they haven't actually lost something they didn't want in the first place but thanks for the boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

And did you?

As flattering an offer as it was, I was too busy rearranging my underwear drawer

These middle aged fat women are a nightmear aren't they, the cheek of mailing you

I know, who do they think they are, turning me on with their foot pictures

I'll have a pic with my foot up your arse if you keep that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sign up 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

Oh I have loads on my hotlist I'd love to get my hands on

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

Liar

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i cant handle all these messages im getting ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

Liar

Oops

Haha! Shut it you! I only messaged you first because I felt sorry for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only happened once to me. At 2AM the other morning, a very ample 49 year old woman messaged me,

"Would you like to make me cum tonight?? xx"

And did you?

As flattering an offer as it was, I was too busy rearranging my underwear drawer

Sorry - that was my fake female profile

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

Liar

Oops

Haha! Shut it you! I only messaged you first because I felt sorry for you

Ouch that hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know."

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

Spare a thought for the guys that get this week in week out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

Spare a thought for the guys that get this week in week out! "

I know, I know. But in my defence, I always reply, to every respectful message, unless they clearly haven't read my profile. I'm always polite

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

"
why on earth would you look silly? They can either say yes or no

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

Spare a thought for the guys that get this week in week out!

I know, I know. But in my defence, I always reply, to every respectful message, unless they clearly haven't read my profile. I'm always polite

Polite and gorgeous. It's a great combination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send the first message tbh. But there are few on my hotlist that I definitely wouldn't message first incase they don't reply!

What's the worst that could happen? It's just a rumour that they fall off your hotlist never to return if they don't reply you know.

Well as a female on here, I'm not used to the knock back

No seriously, I just hate looking silly so I don't send the first message

Spare a thought for the guys that get this week in week out!

I know, I know. But in my defence, I always reply, to every respectful message, unless they clearly haven't read my profile. I'm always polite

Polite and gorgeous. It's a great combination.

Ah you're such a charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't be everyone's cup of tea so to speak, but if you don't ask you don't get. I got knocked back yesterday, it's gonna happen from time to time, comes with the lifestyle we lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually message first if im interested in someone. Obviously attaching a picture as I have none on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so refreshing a woman that makes the effort! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't experienced it yet, now that you've said it's so good, I'm like a big kid waiting for Christmas morning

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By *b586Couple
over a year ago

pemberton twp

Message sent

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