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By *peration fun OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

ive got a hot meet arranged for friday morning.....

ive not met before, she has not been sub before, and loves the idea of being out of control. we have been speaking now for a week, so there is a lot of lust built up

so can people give me some ideas of things to do to her, and things that have been done to them.

thanks in advance

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Find out what she likes and get her to do it. Little things like touching herself gently. Make sure you ask her if she is enjoying it. Move it on slowly, any more than an hour at most for you will be physically and mentally tiring so don't feel the need to push too far. It's about trust and getting on the same wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun!

Not sure I'd jump in and be totally sub to a stranger off a first meet until I was totally trusting them but good luck with it and I hope you both have an awesome time!

Have you Dommed before? I guess it's all about making sure you're clear in advance her limits and agree a safe word etc.

Whilst she's relinquishing control, she needs to still be in control of how far you'll go and what you do within the limits she defines at the outset I'd say.

But I'm not into the whole sub/Dom thing so what do I know!?!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Having not been in a dom/sub scenario before maself, I would say play it by ear and discover exactly what she expects from the encounter.

Good luck and I hope it all goes well for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got a hot meet arranged for friday morning.....

ive not met before, she has not been sub before, and loves the idea of being out of control. we have been speaking now for a week, so there is a lot of lust built up

so can people give me some ideas of things to do to her, and things that have been done to them.

thanks in advance "

A out of control sub

Get a grip

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"ive got a hot meet arranged for friday morning.....

ive not met before"

Your profile has 4 meet veris ?

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By *peration fun OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

sorry.... i typed it wrong i guess, i ment with this lady

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By *peration fun OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

oh i agree too, im thinking tomorrow will be very light, just lots of teasing and tempting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not have a conversation with her and see how she responds to different ideas.

Also, maybe change your mindset from "do to her" to "do for her".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not have a conversation with her and see how she responds to different ideas.

Also, maybe change your mindset from "do to her" to "do for her". "

This and as a poster above wisely commented - limit it to an hour. Can be intense and that's a good benchmark time.

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

If it's who I think it is she loves anal but maybe that's a step to far on a first date

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