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Where is the fine line drawn between pleasure and pain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having once taken an unforgettable swipe across my arse with a whip, it made me think about where that fine line lies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think after "ouch !" , but before "aaarrgghh taxi to A and E !!!"

Not for me that game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines when oh becomes ow!

...such a wimp....

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

hopefully the fine line is the one drawn down my back by my mans nails. he he he ,

a serious answer.. the line actually moves and is dependent on a lot of things.. what i might class as a good pain/plesure one day will be to much another day.. which is why we have a rising scale of safe words.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Pleasure/pain....in equal measure yummmmmmmmmmmmm one can lead to the other....*femme goes off to cool down*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no fine line, each person is different, whats ouch for some is incredible pleasure to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you like it then its pleasure but if they like it its pleasure so its up to you do you make them happy or are you happy ...i know what i do..???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting programme on about this very thing last night.

Apparently they are both the same. Just on a continuum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one thing I do know is you can slap a womans ass while making love but not in the highstreet ouch!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

For me pain is pleasurable,when the line is crossed into pure pain,it is still pleasurable in one way,because it brings pleasure to my Master.

But i can come purely from a caning or flogging so do not separate the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as one half or ours2use pain and pleasure is dependent on the individual and pre-defined limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself love pain for pleasure in some cases. I find it a great turn on.... But this is only the case if you have the right person interacting with you, who knows you and your limits,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me pain is pleasurable,when the line is crossed into pure pain,it is still pleasurable in one way,because it brings pleasure to my Master.

But i can come purely from a caning or flogging so do not separate the two"

That's how my playmates look at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having once taken an unforgettable swipe across my arse with a whip, it made me think about where that fine line lies..."
Who ever done that to you could not have been very good .......whiping is a art and should start very very light and work up to leaves only gently at first with out that must real pain each persons diffrent some can take more then others. But you can still feel the rush of pleasure endorphines and it feels good can make you orgasm too .. I know its not for everyone but i like it now and again and can do it too. x jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having once taken an unforgettable swipe across my arse with a whip, it made me think about where that fine line lies...Who ever done that to you could not have been very good .......whiping is a art and should start very very light and work up to leaves only gently at first with out that must real pain each persons diffrent some can take more then others. But you can still feel the rush of pleasure endorphines and it feels good can make you orgasm too .. I know its not for everyone but i like it now and again and can do it too. x jo x"

i must agree with this in the 1st instance the person doing the caning/whipping did not know what they were doing. this is a pleasurable experience if done properly. and can bring on intence orgasm....... and often does.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouchies! fekk that malarky, someone causes me pain it gives me great pleasure to reciprocate with a punch in the face!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

The fine line is drawn different for each and everyone of us but for me it's a bit like below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fine line is drawn different for each and everyone of us but for me it's a bit like below.

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and a fine bum , mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"The fine line is drawn different for each and everyone of us but for me it's a bit like below.

_____________________________________________________ and a fine bum , mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm "

With my arse and your knockers we could rule the world Jo Muhahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fine line is drawn different for each and everyone of us but for me it's a bit like below.

_____________________________________________________ and a fine bum , mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

With my arse and your knockers we could rule the world Jo Muhahahahahahahaha "
we could and as long as there was lots of pleasure and little pain be ok , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont find find pleasurable, I dont like rough sex at all and sucking on my nipples can sometimes be too hard. I prefer sensual touch and stroking to pullng and slapping

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

the line i feel is fluid and will continually move .what i may love one day could smart another time. thats way having a partner who read you responses and gently builds up the pleasure/pain .

as people have said its also very indervidual as some have higher tolerences and thresholds and likes and dislikes .again all down to reading a persons responses .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most have said its a very personal line... for me their is no line as they merge...

I get great satisfaction and will orgasm from just a spanking, as yet not been flogged or caned but do love Master using his belt.

KAtie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont find find pleasurable, I dont like rough sex at all and sucking on my nipples can sometimes be too hard. I prefer sensual touch and stroking to pullng and slapping "

Some people like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me the line is when im supposed to bend over lol

thats enough for me im off

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