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"Depends whether it's just a charge to help with the cost of renting an apartment (and associated costs) for the evening or a charge with the aim of making a profit." This, depends how much they're charging, as there will be certain expenses, condoms, laundering etc. | |||
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"why how much u been asked to pay ?" Not even looked into it - im in agreement with paying to go to a club etc. If its a private party everyone chips in to cover the organisers costs not just sgl guys - thats what made me a bit suspicious. | |||
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"Depends whether it's just a charge to help with the cost of renting an apartment (and associated costs) for the evening or a charge with the aim of making a profit." Thats the crux of it for me | |||
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"single guys always have to pay more into clubs for some strange reason tho " Probably as there are hundreds of single guys looking and not so many cples and sgl ladies. | |||
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"If it's just to cover costs then everyone should pay, not just single blokes. It's not the same as a club. " Agreed x | |||
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"single guys always have to pay more into clubs for some strange reason tho Probably as there are hundreds of single guys looking and not so many cples and sgl ladies. " it still seems unfair tho | |||
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"If someone is advertising a greedy girls party in a private house ( not a swingers club) and charge sgl guys entrance - is that actually a swingers party or something else? Whats your views? " They're struggling with money to pay the bills or it's a closet brothel, like most brothels | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy " I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx | |||
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"I'm inclined to think these parties are to make money. I can't think why anyone would organise this kind of thing on a regular basis,if they weren't earning out if it. I've seen people say they don't meet,they just organise the parties. That would be extremely charitable of them. " I quite agree to be honest. So say a small fee is £10 for every fella and 5 turn up that's £50. Condoms on offer at Tesco £7 couple Bottles of water or soft drinks £5 that's what £38 of prostitution. Quite a little money making afternoon in honesty. | |||
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"I'm inclined to think these parties are to make money. I can't think why anyone would organise this kind of thing on a regular basis,if they weren't earning out if it. I've seen people say they don't meet,they just organise the parties. That would be extremely charitable of them. " Lol yes very kind hearted! x | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx" Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet. | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet." Could be because you are a couple that you dont get asked to contribute - i'm more than happy to chip in as parties are a great way to meet people - but I do see ads that are quite obviously somethings different | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet." . £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really" I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. | |||
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"am i invisble here ?? " Oooh who said that?? Lol. No I read what you said and yours are the type if parties I have no issue with at all - genuine awingers organising social events for other genuine swingers. | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. " Some ads seem pretty obviously 'different' from what you would expect on a swingers site xx | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. " As far as I'm aware contributions towards rooms for parties aren't against rules. I don't see how it's any different from clubs charging tbh. | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet. Could be because you are a couple that you dont get asked to contribute - i'm more than happy to chip in as parties are a great way to meet people - but I do see ads that are quite obviously somethings different " No-one (singlies of either sex or cpls) that has attended any of the parties we have been to has ever been asked to pay. | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. As far as I'm aware contributions towards rooms for parties aren't against rules. I don't see how it's any different from clubs charging tbh. " if ur travelling 250 miles are u sure there gonna turn up ? | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. As far as I'm aware contributions towards rooms for parties aren't against rules. I don't see how it's any different from clubs charging tbh. if ur travelling 250 miles are u sure there gonna turn up ?" If it fails I'll go to a club. Always have a backup plan lol | |||
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"I'm inclined to think these parties are to make money. I can't think why anyone would organise this kind of thing on a regular basis,if they weren't earning out if it. I've seen people say they don't meet,they just organise the parties. That would be extremely charitable of them. I quite agree to be honest. So say a small fee is £10 for every fella and 5 turn up that's £50. Condoms on offer at Tesco £7 couple Bottles of water or soft drinks £5 that's what £38 of prostitution. Quite a little money making afternoon in honesty. " Or larger fees of say £50-£80 psm,which is what is often quoted. Off site of course. | |||
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"why how much u been asked to pay ? Not even looked into it - im in agreement with paying to go to a club etc. If its a private party everyone chips in to cover the organisers costs not just sgl guys - thats what made me a bit suspicious. " I've held plenty parties in the past (not GG ). I don't charge at all. I provide food, soft drinks, condoms, wipes n towels. I make it clear I don't charge but I do let people. Know there is a "donations" box....people put in what they feel is appropriate. | |||
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"Definitely Something else all we ask is that everyone brings a bottle and we lay on snacks and soft drinks " Stocking up on bottles here!! | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy how much will you be charging? " £5 | |||
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"Also don't see how it's different from 2 singles going halfs on a room " The greedy girls aren't paying their part and someone is making a profit. All that aside,no one is forced to go and most men happily pay. If someone doesn't think they should be paying they don't have to go but they could be missing out on a good party. | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy I wouldnt have a problem with that as its covering your costs xx Depends how "small" the fee is tho doesn't it? Surely if you are organising something for yourself, then you should bear the brunt of the costs? It's a bit like us organising a hotel meet with another Cpl, or a single guy, and then saying "Oh, by the way, you'll be paying for the room". We have been to dozens of parties over the years, and NEVER been asked to pay anything, although one or two have asked for a plate for the buffet.. £5 isn't much to ask for tbh which is all im asking for so will not even cover all costs. Obviously pay my part too so I think asking for a contribution is fair. If I had the room anyway for another purpose I wouldnt ask though as its soley for that then I will ask. Plus I have to travel 250 miles to get there too so a little contribution for room costs is nothing really I find it all a bit strange if I'm honest I thought this site was about fun and meeting others who share the same interests. people being asked to contribute is like a transaction and they are effectively paying for the opportunity to have sex with you. I thought this site didn't tolerate that??. As far as I'm aware contributions towards rooms for parties aren't against rules. I don't see how it's any different from clubs charging tbh. if ur travelling 250 miles are u sure there gonna turn up ?" ... lol lol they would be mad not too .... | |||
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"I'm inclined to think these parties are to make money. I can't think why anyone would organise this kind of thing on a regular basis,if they weren't earning out if it. I've seen people say they don't meet,they just organise the parties. That would be extremely charitable of them. I quite agree to be honest. So say a small fee is £10 for every fella and 5 turn up that's £50. Condoms on offer at Tesco £7 couple Bottles of water or soft drinks £5 that's what £38 of prostitution. Quite a little money making afternoon in honesty. Or larger fees of say £50-£80 psm,which is what is often quoted. Off site of course." Hmmm expensive room that | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy how much will you be charging? £5" thanks realised it had been asked already.. | |||
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"Also don't see how it's different from 2 singles going halfs on a room " The orginal post was about charge for home meets not hotel | |||
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"Also don't see how it's different from 2 singles going halfs on a room The orginal post was about charge for home meets not hotel " I did go off on a tangent lol | |||
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"I'm having a ganbang I'm Friday and will be charging a small fee. Hotel room though along with condoms and refreshments can be quite pricy how much will you be charging? £5" That sounds very fair a little charge per person all adds up | |||
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"Something else." Now come on Miss Stars, I would expect you to explain exactly what you mean by "something else" afterall it's hardly like you to beat around the bush so to speak | |||
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"I'm inclined to think these parties are to make money. I can't think why anyone would organise this kind of thing on a regular basis,if they weren't earning out if it. I've seen people say they don't meet,they just organise the parties. That would be extremely charitable of them. I quite agree to be honest. So say a small fee is £10 for every fella and 5 turn up that's £50. Condoms on offer at Tesco £7 couple Bottles of water or soft drinks £5 that's what £38 of prostitution. Quite a little money making afternoon in honesty. Or larger fees of say £50-£80 psm,which is what is often quoted. Off site of course. Hmmm expensive room that " In a private house there would be no room charges. If no one turned up they wouldn't be too much out of pocket. | |||
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"to be honest I think some people blurring the lines between prostitution/escorting ,really have to think about what might be seen as a profit. I dont know going rates for having sex with a prostitute..but I imagine it'd be greater profit than guys contributing even £10,£20,£50 for a party or club....so I'm sure any normal business minded person would make sure they get the best out of their customers pocket and not undercut themselves so heavily." Ok, the fact I know this is going to make a few people go , but I'm reliably informed that the going rate up Attercliffe is £20. There was also once a thread where that OP (not this one) admitted the women were paid, and the organisers themselves made a tidy profit. OP: you have a choice, but ensure you make it with your eyes wide open.... Mr ddc | |||
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"to be honest I think some people blurring the lines between prostitution/escorting ,really have to think about what might be seen as a profit. I dont know going rates for having sex with a prostitute..but I imagine it'd be greater profit than guys contributing even £10,£20,£50 for a party or club....so I'm sure any normal business minded person would make sure they get the best out of their customers pocket and not undercut themselves so heavily. Ok, the fact I know this is going to make a few people go , but I'm reliably informed that the going rate up Attercliffe is £20. There was also once a thread where that OP (not this one) admitted the women were paid, and the organisers themselves made a tidy profit. OP: you have a choice, but ensure you make it with your eyes wide open.... Mr ddc" Thanks poster - was really just looking for opinions - house parties by gen swingers I'll definitely atrend but daytime organised events by 'members' charging big fees for attendance wont probably attract me | |||
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"Something else. Now come on Miss Stars, I would expect you to explain exactly what you mean by "something else" afterall it's hardly like you to beat around the bush so to speak " It's a party. | |||
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"im begining to think im a soft touch lol " no your brilliant X | |||
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"If someone is advertising a greedy girls party in a private house ( not a swingers club) and charge sgl guys entrance - is that actually a swingers party or something else? Whats your views? " greedy | |||
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"It's to make money.no other way around it.you can dress it up as covering costs etc but if it's something you want to do then you should pay the costs. We paid for the hotel when we met some guys.that's because we wanted to do this and we ain't whores " Its not really about making money of it doesn't even cover half of a hotel room never mind everything else. | |||
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"It's to make money.no other way around it.you can dress it up as covering costs etc but if it's something you want to do then you should pay the costs. We paid for the hotel when we met some guys.that's because we wanted to do this and we ain't whores " that someone who cant afford to pay all the costs enjoy's the same things as you, doesn't make them a 'whore'.. if no profit is being made and respect there are some on here coining it in with some 'meets', then its only the equivalent of going Dutch? or are some people on tighter budgets than others only limited to certain types of meet? | |||
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