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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And what is getting in the way if being genuinely happy?

I'm mostly happy, the only things that are stopping me from being 100% happy are the lack of funds for my start up, and two people in my life need to stop relying on me for everything, and learn to stand in their own two feet.

But I would say that, all of these issues will be resolved one way or another by the end if the year.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm quite happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm quite happy. "

Good, I'm glad

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

like Jonathan Livingston Seagull...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm super happy

Life is pretty good, I'm honest. I know how things have felt when I wasn't happy so I'll do my best to appreciate when I am.

-Courtney

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Life is good.

Fucking brilliant actually .

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Life is good.

Fucking brilliant actually ."
you come across in your forum posts as a sane and sorted and happy homme.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Mostly happy and feeling comfortable in my own skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy n contented these days xxx

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Super happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy, very happy . I've found the key to happiness is changing the things in your life you can change to make you happy and accepting the things you can't change and getting on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy most of the time

i have a good job, three beautiful daughters, a roof over my head, my eldest kids are doing very well at uni over all my life is ok

sometimes i feel a little fed up though and i dont know why

i put it down to the long hours i work

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"And what is getting in the way if being genuinely happy?

I'm mostly happy, the only things that are stopping me from being 100% happy are the lack of funds for my start up, and two people in my life need to stop relying on me for everything, and learn to stand in their own two feet.

But I would say that, all of these issues will be resolved one way or another by the end if the year."

I'm borderline happy. When im with Grey I'm 100% happy. Says it all really

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Most content with my lot.Health is good, finances not so but my health might suffer if they were too good.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'd be happier if I was able to return to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me."

I'm single and the same. Sex is great and can't be without but that doesn't beat spooning someone in bed or just cuddling on the sofa. Small things!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Very happy .. And grateful for the life that has been gifted to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy as can be. It's nothing at all I was expecting it be. In fact it's the furthest away it possible could be lol XXX never thought of just his voice sends me like a love structure teenager or the touch of hands make me weak at the knees. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a very happy bunny mostly there is things that r horrid and hurt your very soul but I pick myself up and dustmy self down and rebuild X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me."

Funny how we are all different, I split with my ex 8 years ago now and the thought of being with somebody else has never accured to me, I'm always happier when I'm alone

I always find it interesting how some people just have a need to be with somebody while others don't

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Life is good.

Fucking brilliant actually . you come across in your forum posts as a sane and sorted and happy homme. "

Sorted and happy, yes;

I am a little insane sometimes ( in a sane way Lolol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy on the outside....

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I'd be happy if I was happy.... But I'm not felling happy, so therefore I aren't happy xxxxx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

Funny how we are all different, I split with my ex 8 years ago now and the thought of being with somebody else has never accured to me, I'm always happier when I'm alone

I always find it interesting how some people just have a need to be with somebody while others don't "

I've spent most of my life alone. I'm just sick and tired of it now. Sick and tired of a lot of things in fact. They say you can't miss what you never had. Well that turns out not to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy in life but would be happier if the bills would pay them self's every month and I could spend my time swanning off round the world

now that would be a happy life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

Funny how we are all different, I split with my ex 8 years ago now and the thought of being with somebody else has never accured to me, I'm always happier when I'm alone

I always find it interesting how some people just have a need to be with somebody while others don't

I've spent most of my life alone. I'm just sick and tired of it now. Sick and tired of a lot of things in fact. They say you can't miss what you never had. Well that turns out not to be true "

I have sent a big portion if my life in relationships, and that might have something to do with not wanting one, I just don't want to live in anyone else's pocket, I like being free to make my own choices, and not have to consult anyone on every decision I make, would I run from a relationship?, no, as long as we lived in our own homes, and gave each other the space to be ourselves, and do our own thing, and of course have sex with other people, but I think I'm asking too much there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm medium happy right now. Good job etc but I hate sleeping alone

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

Funny how we are all different, I split with my ex 8 years ago now and the thought of being with somebody else has never accured to me, I'm always happier when I'm alone

I always find it interesting how some people just have a need to be with somebody while others don't

I've spent most of my life alone. I'm just sick and tired of it now. Sick and tired of a lot of things in fact. They say you can't miss what you never had. Well that turns out not to be true

I have sent a big portion if my life in relationships, and that might have something to do with not wanting one, I just don't want to live in anyone else's pocket, I like being free to make my own choices, and not have to consult anyone on every decision I make, would I run from a relationship?, no, as long as we lived in our own homes, and gave each other the space to be ourselves, and do our own thing, and of course have sex with other people, but I think I'm asking too much there."

It's funny how people who are in relationships or have just got out of a relationship are happy for the alone time or long for a bit more time to do their own thing. Just do things when they want.

As much as I love my own company and have genuinely enjoyed my time alone in the past, I just can't think of anything much worse than being alone right now. It's reached a point now where it's beginning to eat away at my soul and my very existence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting there. I've spent a lot of 2015 in the pits of depression, or manic, and with the help a proper diagnosis of bipolar, medication and therapy I'm slowly but surely finding a happy medium. I'm guilty of being quite impatient about my progress though, and some days I lose sight of the fact that I've come a long way in a short time, and instead focus on the fact that I'm not where I want to be just yet. My biggest wish is to be a useful member of society again with the ability to work and support my children properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

Funny how we are all different, I split with my ex 8 years ago now and the thought of being with somebody else has never accured to me, I'm always happier when I'm alone

I always find it interesting how some people just have a need to be with somebody while others don't

I've spent most of my life alone. I'm just sick and tired of it now. Sick and tired of a lot of things in fact. They say you can't miss what you never had. Well that turns out not to be true "

I've spent most of my life alone too, I've only ever been in one relationship in all my life and that only lasted a few years, they were the most unhappy years of my life and I don't miss being with anybody at all nor do I ever intend to be in a relationship again

There's somebody out there for everybody thought if you want it, your miss right will come, usually when your not looking x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not especially happy but that is how depression takes you..Cant actually think when I was last happy or laughing.

however I am blessed with a healthy family and a roof over our heads. Thankful for that at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall, I have the love of a good man, my kids are happy and healthy, I have a good job and moving to my new rented room soon (admittedly I'd love a place of my own, one where Ads and I can actually chill in a living room and stuff but that will come eventually)

G x

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I've hit rock bottom, so in the words sung by Yazz, "The only way is up".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy at the moment - a smile rarely leaves my face these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been happy for at least 5 Years. I do 'occasionally' forget my melancholy but 99% of the time I don't care if I live or die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy if I was fit and well again and back to work and a normal life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am happy, very happy . I've found the key to happiness is changing the things in your life you can change to make you happy and accepting the things you can't change and getting on with it. "

Essentially I would agree this is the key to happiness or contentment.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm contented, what makes me sad is when horrible life events happen that you have no control over.

I'm also content to know there are going to be mediocre days when nothing stands out.

I am also content that I know I won't live my life in a state of happiness.

I'm very very content and i have to say I'm at peace with myself.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I'm the happiest I've been in years - took a while to get to where I am from hitting rock bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, very happy with my lot.

(Would just like better weather and lighter nights though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely happy, first time in many yrs where I have a completely stress free life...long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me."

Eh why don't ya go on dating sites to find one, don't think that a swinging site is the best place to be looking for the "one" altho you may get lucky, but then if you do,are ya gonna be happy sharing her with other people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the happiest I've been for a long time, despite there being one person that brings me down and has a negative influence on my life. But it's all upwards from here I'm working my way back up from rock bottom and I'm feeling stronger everyday

How about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the exception of the anxiety my current skin outbreak is causing me I'd say I'm probably the happiest I've been since my kids were born. I have someone in my life who I love without condition (conditions may apply ) and Shea taught me that its OK to feel again, be my true self and that my flaws are acceptable.

So there you have it folks. Ice cold MrWho is actually a soppy old sod deep down, it just took the right woman to find him.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"A woman. Women. I can never be happy without women in my life. And I don't just mean sexual contact either. I'm not complete with them in my life. I need the love of a woman. Money, career and material things...they are all essentially worthless to me.

Eh why don't ya go on dating sites to find one, don't think that a swinging site is the best place to be looking for the "one" altho you may get lucky, but then if you do,are ya gonna be happy sharing her with other people..."

No I don't necessarily want a partner. I certainly wouldn't be on here if that was the case. Just looking to spend some quality time with some ladies and hopefully have some fun. And it's not just about sex either. That's more than enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mostly happy. If i could win the lottery I'd be completely happy as money worries would be a thing of the past.....oh and if i could pay someone to tidy up and clean for me I'd be in heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what is getting in the way if being genuinely happy?

I'm mostly happy, the only things that are stopping me from being 100% happy are the lack of funds for my start up, and two people in my life need to stop relying on me for everything, and learn to stand in their own two feet.

But I would say that, all of these issues will be resolved one way or another by the end if the year."

Yes i am so happy wit life now,this is the happiest ive been since the day i had my daughter...Im startin a new job 2moro,ive a great man i love,an so much more to luk forward to

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't be happier here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy enough i guess

thinking of my partner who passed last year stops me from being totally happy

i still feel guilty about even smiling some days

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