FabSwingers.com forum: Friends with Benefits

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I get a lot of people saying they looking for friends with benefits meet.. But none are specific what they mean.

Anyone here for FWB? Define pls...

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Some one who helps you out ... when you need a favour ????....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you are 'friends' with and you fuck regularly but theres no attachment or no strings attached

Think fuck buddy..

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

A regular partner you fuck ! But you don't date ! (Go to dinner or the cinema etc)

Turn up, fuck, chat, fuck some more and go... ?? Can be fun X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like one

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried this with along term friend

More of a head fuck

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x"

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I get a lot of people saying they looking for friends with benefits meet.. But none are specific what they mean.

Anyone here for FWB? Define pls..."

Well you know your friends.

Its like them exceot you also sleep together at time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

Yeah I see the difference. I guess it depends on the mood. I'd prefer FWB but the again sometimes your in the mood of meeting a FuckBuddy where the sole purpose of the meet is for both to have some fun and part way with no expectations..

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I'd like one

Me too............!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friends from where comes to mind mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Def of fwb is someone you go out with cinema, meals pub etc then you also get to have fab sex with them too. You develop a friendship with them. To me a db is just someone you meet for sex. No relationship, no socialising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you can chill with chat to and sometimes enjoy each other sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's kind of risky if you think about it, on paper it would be best if it was someone you trust, and there fore have known for a while, but that would suggest that it would be a close friend, and if you get emotionaly attached your going to fuck up a friendship, but on the other hand, I would say it would be more likely to develop an attachment to someone who you have just met, but sometimes it just works and sometimes I doesn't , I don't think there is a set in stone formula for it, you just got to get naked and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with definitions above

Fuck buddy = someone you just fuck

Friends with benefits = slightly more than fb but not a relationship, you fuck but you are also friends away from the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckery and banter without the hangups about whose turn it is to load the dishwasher.

Best found at clubs or on here where sexual interests brought you together in the first place. Ha.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I had a friend on benefits, never bought a round in the pub which wasn't a problem unless we were in company as he got embarrassed about not being able to pay his way. Nice guy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fb. It's new so who knows how long it lasts. We just meet up have sex chat have sex and that's it. We don't meet socially or anything

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Thanks for the offer but I'll clarify - a lady friend with benefits or fuckbuddy or regular for sex lady. NOT a man.

A man would be my keep fit friend and maybe a blow job

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

So would I!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Why are all the 1s wanting 1 always so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bestie ...we have done days away wknds away ..cinema , food and drinks ..he comes over sometimes just for cuddles in bed and chilling .I class him as my best friend first and he just happens to be amazing in the bedroom so one happy Zoya.

I also have a fwb who I meet for drinks and sex., food and sex ...films and sex ..talk every day and meet reg.I guess im a great friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

emojii

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pointless asking anyone else as everyone has their own idea of what it means to them. Ask the person you're interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm round at mine now , came last night chilled had a drink , played , slept , woke up breakfast and going to play again before going home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's kind of risky if you think about it, on paper it would be best if it was someone you trust, and there fore have known for a while, but that would suggest that it would be a close friend, and if you get emotionaly attached your going to fuck up a friendship, but on the other hand, I would say it would be more likely to develop an attachment to someone who you have just met, but sometimes it just works and sometimes I doesn't , I don't think there is a set in stone formula for it, you just got to get naked and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fb is someone you just fuck.a fwb is someone you go out for meals /drinks cinema regularly with its not just a fuck and go.....a but like dating but your not ......I'm looking for a fab

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

To me a fb is someone you see from time to time for great sex. A fwb is somebody you also have great sex with but perhaps more regularly who you chat with in between meeting up. You may also enjoy socialising with them outside of the bedroom to

I'm looking for a fwb

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

After reading this and not genuinely knowing the difference I'd like the fwb option please. Application forms are on my desk

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Hi I get a lot of people saying they looking for friends with benefits meet.. But none are specific what they mean.

Anyone here for FWB? Define pls..."

I have found a fwb. We have eaten out together and we use hotels together. We chat regularly too, found my ideal man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single and have a fwb. We meet for regular sex, team up and go to Clubs together. We have also had kids play dates lol. He's not single though! He wants more I don't!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a fwb. Not that easy finding one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I move around too often so either fwb or fb are elusive!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a work fwb's there's another one for you

We act completely normal in the office and in secret were always trying to work out our next meet up haha

It makes the working day do much more fun.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"I have a fb. It's new so who knows how long it lasts. We just meet up have sex chat have sex and that's it. We don't meet socially or anything "

That's what I am looking for too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need one of these... A friend I can hang out with, and fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need one of these... A friend I can hang out with, and fuck!

Move to wales :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a work fwb's there's another one for you

We act completely normal in the office and in secret were always trying to work out our next meet up haha

It makes the working day do much more fun. "

Are there any jobs going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone you are 'friends' with and you fuck regularly but theres no attachment or no strings attached

Think fuck buddy..

I think Fwb is different to a fuck buddy

A fuck buddy is just someone you're happy to have sex with on a regular basis. I see an Fwb as someone I might hang out with as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a work fwb's there's another one for you

We act completely normal in the office and in secret were always trying to work out our next meet up haha

It makes the working day do much more fun.

Are there any jobs going?

Funnily enough 8 jobs going atm

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

That's my definition too....don't want a fuck buddy

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

FB's are great to have for regular sex and company but once they get jelous and start dictating to you that you can't fuck others that's when it goes down hill and fallout if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me Fwb means someone you are friends with first and foremost and you do all the stuff you do with your regular friends, except you also have sex.

To me a fuck buddy is something different. I'd consider someone looking for a fuck buddy as seeking regular sex, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me Fwb means someone you are friends with first and foremost and you do all the stuff you do with your regular friends, except you also have sex.

To me a fuck buddy is something different. I'd consider someone looking for a fuck buddy as seeking regular sex, nothing more."

I could do with either

Or both

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"To me Fwb means someone you are friends with first and foremost and you do all the stuff you do with your regular friends, except you also have sex.

To me a fuck buddy is something different. I'd consider someone looking for a fuck buddy as seeking regular sex, nothing more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with definitions above

Fuck buddy = someone you just fuck

Friends with benefits = slightly more than fb but not a relationship, you fuck but you are also friends away from the sex"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So would I love too have a FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a fb someone you have lots in common with and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree to me they are the same just different words but hey that's why we are all individuals

fab on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had one cos bodybuilding is a 24/7 job, gym and eating, would be fun to have one but the flat smells of tuna lol

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We prefer strangers with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a fb. It's new so who knows how long it lasts. We just meet up have sex chat have sex and that's it. We don't meet socially or anything "

He's such a Lucky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personally there is a subtle difference x but a lot is in your own definition x

I have a FWB but I think he'd say FB x

Not sure if that's true for all male and females x

Is it a gender definition?

Does it really matter?

Just another label to add to the other pile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A regular partner you fuck ! But you don't date ! (Go to dinner or the cinema etc)

Turn up, fuck, chat, fuck some more and go... ?? Can be fun X "

No that's a fuck buddy. Friends and benefits is different. Clue in the name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person you consider a friend and have sex with when the both need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with definitions above

Fuck buddy = someone you just fuck

Friends with benefits = slightly more than fb but not a relationship, you fuck but you are also friends away from the sex

Exactly

Agreed! Clue in the name... (friend!!). You don't use a friend for anything so no fuck buddy scenario there. Friends can hang out socially. Handy if you even fancy going for a drink or film or whatever but you'd prefer being accompanied by a man instead of your usual female friends. Even just pop round for coffee, chat, film and stay the entire night. Much more Respectful!! Just how friends should treat each other! None of this call, go running, quick leg over and then leave malarkey. One good quality friends and benefits is all I need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need one of these... A friend I can hang out with, and fuck!

Move to wales :p"

Sure.. No problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lover which is based on being good friends , going out together & away for weekends ...all topped of with amazing sex.

Iv also had Fwb which are cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like one. Had a good one a few years back. Trouble is, I have found, once the benefits stop the friendship ends. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

My definition exactly...and what I want too.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I thought it meant someone you shagged who shared their JSA with you

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I have a fwb and it works well as well as brilliant sex if I need jobs doing on my house he does them and my car and I cook for him sometimes xx

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

That's my definition only with a man lol.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

"Lol why can't they just say FuckBuddy (thumb

Thanks x

My definition of a fwb ... A lady who I socialise , go out for drinks and also have sex with..

Fuck buddy... We only meet for sex..

That's my definition... I'd like a fwb...

That's my definition as well...I too prefer fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tried this with along term friend

More of a head fuck

So fudgin true! Never again!

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By *edkent69Man
over a year ago

maidstone

OK, so I met someone from a different site just over a year ago. We've only met at each other's homes, never been out or anything. We meet, chat about life, kids etc, have sex, cuddle and chat some more.

FWB or fuck buddy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, so I met someone from a different site just over a year ago. We've only met at each other's homes, never been out or anything. We meet, chat about life, kids etc, have sex, cuddle and chat some more.

FWB or fuck buddy?"

If you stayed overnight and saw her for quite a fair bit then friend with benefits. If you left the same evening after you had sex, then fuck buddy

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By *edkent69Man
over a year ago

maidstone

FWB or fuck buddy?

If you stayed overnight and saw her for quite a fair bit then friend with benefits. If you left the same evening after you had sex, then fuck buddy"

OK thanks. Never stayed overnight at either's house, so fuck buddy she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB or fuck buddy?"

Definitely a FWB. After all what does it matter if you stayed over or not? What counts is what you said: 'chat about life, kids... cuddle and chat some more'. That is friendship, where you both trust each other. There is no content chat with a fuck buddy as that's all they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB or fuck buddy?

Agreed..Just like Inna said there is not substance to a fuck buddy, where as FWB is just the same as having any other friend over just with the bonus your comfortable enough to also have sex from time to time.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

FWB or fuck buddy?

This is what I have with one friend. Definitely a friend with benefits

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By *edkent69Man
over a year ago

maidstone

FWB or fuck buddy?

Well, when we meet its because we're going to fuck. Sometimes we chat first, sometimes after. But I get what you're saying.

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