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By *ove2play6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

South

Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Welcome to the forums.

You might not get many replies to your thread as most will have gone to bed but if you bump it tomorrow I'm sure there will be some couples round to answer your queries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers "
not related to your topic but awesome pictures you both have

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We met some first timers. We found it refreshing. Watching their looks of excitement and "oh is it ok if?" If you are honest and verified You'll have a great time. Both be in it together or it won't be as good.

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By *idseysCouple
over a year ago

redditch


"Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers "

Communication with each other is the key, talk to each other about any feelings, concerns etc. Nerves are natural to start with.

Do things your way and how you want, at your own pace and when your ready.

And have fun !

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Scrap that I just looked at your verified profile and smoking hot pictures. You're gonna have a great time. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scrap that I just looked at your verified profile and smoking hot pictures. You're gonna have a great time. Xx"
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers not related to your topic but awesome pictures you both have "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers not related to your topic but awesome pictures you both have "

Yes agreed Fab pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to this in a way not had a meet yet, not through any fault of mine, very time iv got down to arrangements they pull out...is to s normal/common? Also I changed my date of birth to try seduce a lady with an age restriction... Sneaky I know but now it's hindering me with everyone else in my age range is there a way to fix this or do I now have to lay in the bed i made lol....also as a newbie to swinging site am I wrong to think it should be more open and clear cut, because from my experience If I wanted to chat and get to know someone before I arranged an intimate meet, would a dating site te not be more suitable.... Advice welcom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the poor grammar and typo's I'm very d*unk lol can't wait to see what nutter has the empathy to relpy...pmsl never come on here whilst under the influence....just my advice xx good luck people life is a one off so do what makes you happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....sorry lol, looking forward to the remorse and trying to work out how to delete these posts tomorrow. Hoping some fit hory bird finds me ridiculously amusing and offers to take me out for lunch followed but fithy sex, but Im not going to lie I'd be happy with Just the lunch, preferably some kind of burger.....

If you have read this to this point you owe me the lunch just for the entertainment anyways I'm off to powder my nose.....

Too be continued....

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Oh dear! I'm not buying you lunch as you didn't buy me a drink. Your head will be the only thing banging in the morning!

Fancy sabotaging someone's thread like that. Shame on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well everybody has a first time - chat first to each other and discuss boundaries - chat well to who you meet - dont do anything in any rush - best to leave wanting more than regret something- and best of all have fun and enjoy

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By *ussgbrMan
over a year ago

Burton


"Welcome to the forums.

You might not get many replies to your thread as most will have gone to bed but if you bump it tomorrow I'm sure there will be some couples round to answer your queries

"

I'm sure with a profile as hot as theirs there won't be a lack of replies. Anyway swinging is a 24/7 activity surely lol

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By *ussgbrMan
over a year ago

Burton


"Welcome to the forums.

You might not get many replies to your thread as most will have gone to bed but if you bump it tomorrow I'm sure there will be some couples round to answer your queries

I'm sure with a profile as hot as theirs there won't be a lack of replies. Anyway swinging is a 24/7 activity surely lol"

And same goes for yours too Goddess!!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Best advice we could give you guys...

Swallow your concerns and worries, bite the bullet and go to the vanilla alternative on a Saturday night. You'll not be expected to play, you can stay in the bar all night if you want. But you will get to meet people face to face and talk to those that actually do play on the scene.

We're there 13th with a special friend. You will learn more and figure out where you guys are at in one night, what it will take you weeks to do here.

Good luck guys as other have said stunning pictures

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Hi guys. Hope you have a good time around here and find the meets you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums newbies

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hello everyone, first time posters here! We are M and C and we are very new to fab and very new to the whole swingers scene! We've never actually met anyone else as a couple (yet), and basically what we are wondering is, how was your first time meeting (particularly couples who were seeking females)? What were your apprehensions and how did you conquer them? And what advice would you give to us?

Many thanks for your answers "

I tried not to overthink it, dressed as sexily as I could and pretended I was twenty times more confident than I was.

Actually I probably still do this

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By *ove2play6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

South

Aww such kind words. Thank you guys very helpful xx

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