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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Basically i started speaking to the female half of this couple who just joined fabs online last night, she said she wanted to meet me then went offline.

Now she started speaking to me today saying she wants to meet me tonight by 7pm. Then by 5pm she just suddenly started deleting my messages. I would like to know is she fake or is it me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They only joined last night

Give them a chance to find their feet, it's early days yet

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"They only joined last night

Give them a chance to find their feet, it's early days yet "

She messaged me saying she wanna meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instincts

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

has she provided her phone number to verify she is actually a female? If not, pass on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your instincts"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Maybe a phone call to confirm things might be a good idea

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"has she provided her phone number to verify she is actually a female? If not, pass on by."

No but She gave me an address tho. I dont think shes real keen on meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she just clearing out read messages

But if your unsure just go with your gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has she provided her phone number to verify she is actually a female? If not, pass on by.

No but She gave me an address tho. I dont think shes real keen on meeting."

Could be a random persons adress they are wanting to annoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said she? But they are couple, so he is coming too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has she provided her phone number to verify she is actually a female? If not, pass on by.

No but She gave me an address tho. I dont think shes real keen on meeting."

If you don't think she is keen, then you have answered your own question

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Take a phone number and chat to her on the phone.

If she doesn't do that then its up to you if you go to an address.

But me I'd want to be reassured before hand

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

So she's given you an address and now she's ignoring/deleting messages from you?

I don't think I'd persue it any further, either it's dodgy or she's changed her mind for some reason.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Maybe she just clearing out read messages

But if your unsure just go with your gut instinct "

I thought so then i gave her a few hours before messaging but she keeps deleting

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"So she's given you an address and now she's ignoring/deleting messages from you?

I don't think I'd persue it any further, either it's dodgy or she's changed her mind for some reason. "

Id say dodgy cuz one time we were talking then suddenly just started deleting and ignoring me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Maybe she just clearing out read messages

But if your unsure just go with your gut instinct

I thought so then i gave her a few hours before messaging but she keeps deleting"

How many times have you messaged her since she deleted the first one?

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"has she provided her phone number to verify she is actually a female? If not, pass on by.

No but She gave me an address tho. I dont think shes real keen on meeting.

If you don't think she is keen, then you have answered your own question"

But I am unsure

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"So she's given you an address and now she's ignoring/deleting messages from you?

I don't think I'd persue it any further, either it's dodgy or she's changed her mind for some reason. "
sounds like some sort of setup to me

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Maybe she just clearing out read messages

But if your unsure just go with your gut instinct

I thought so then i gave her a few hours before messaging but she keeps deleting

How many times have you messaged her since she deleted the first one? "

Normally i just stop but 3 times.ive stopped now

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"So she's given you an address and now she's ignoring/deleting messages from you?

I don't think I'd persue it any further, either it's dodgy or she's changed her mind for some reason.

Id say dodgy cuz one time we were talking then suddenly just started deleting and ignoring me"

Maybe you said something she didn't like that put her off? She could be just ignoring you as she changed her mind, some people don't take that too well so she might be thinking it's easier to just blank you now.

Either way I wouldn't bother messaging again

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"So she's given you an address and now she's ignoring/deleting messages from you?

I don't think I'd persue it any further, either it's dodgy or she's changed her mind for some reason.

Id say dodgy cuz one time we were talking then suddenly just started deleting and ignoring me

Maybe you said something she didn't like that put her off? She could be just ignoring you as she changed her mind, some people don't take that too well so she might be thinking it's easier to just blank you now.

Either way I wouldn't bother messaging again "

Nah i didnt say anything.. she said 'I want u to cum to me' and started to sound fake then i was like 'are we still meeting tonight'

Yea i stopped lol.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

If she is keen, she will message you. I would say if she has deleted a message from you on more than one occasion, it suggests she has changed her mind.

Send a message saying you will leave it to her and move on. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New forum post tomorrow

Just joined fab and let down on first meet...is this normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who deletes messages is a massive time waster, I'd invoice them for your time backdated to first contact

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Perhaps her husband found out she was messaging you on her own? I wouldn't go if I was you ... it does sound like a set up. Move on ...

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