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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No heights no big deal for me but for a lot it is. Im only 5ft 1 so everyones taller than me anyway lol xx

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm 5ft so I'd rather have the cock length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

As Long as they not shorter then me or need to bend down walking through open doors then height don't matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height's never something I really look at on a profile as it doesn't bother me how tall you are, but if I had to pick I'd rather have someone around my height than a foot taller.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 5'8 and i have found that height can be a barrier not just here but on dating sites too, think I might have to start wearing heels

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Yes height is a factor for me. I like tall men. 5ft 10 would be the lowest I would go down to. My exs from relationships have been 6ft+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only 5" 5" so really quite short and I think if I was taller I would get more interest. Definitely would not trade cock length though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down. "

I agree. We're all the same size laying down.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

At 5'8 I'm a bit of a short arse...I definitely miss out on some women who prefer taller guys, but, there are plenty around who are happy to meet us shorties

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer tall guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short arse here and had plenty of meets.

If I have missed out on any I haven't noticed, so yeah am happy to hold onto my cock inches.

Besides with having short legs, it looks bigger anyway

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"[Removed by poster at 23/01/16 11:37:34]"

LMFAO.

"It's down by your fucking KNEES! Oh, wait..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6'4" and never have got meets from being tall, I guess if a guys shorter it may hamper him but it certainly doesn't get me attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down.

I agree. We're all the same size laying down. "

Who only has sex while prone?

C

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is really important to me, to be honest I rarely ever consider anyone under 6 foot. I'm much taller than that in heels and I don't like being taller than the man I'm with. I've got big hands and big feet and all that goes with being tall, and I just feel enormous next to a small man.

Much more important to me than cock size.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've seen a few profiles requesting the guy to be taller than myself at 5 10, I've seen far more requesting vwe so I'll stick with my cock length ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down.

I agree. We're all the same size laying down.

Who only has sex while prone?

C"

Touché

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Height isn't important, personality is.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Height not an issue for me as I'm a short arse lol. Nor is the guy getting the extra cock size unless he can actually use it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered by height. I've met smaller guys than me (yes really!). It's actually quite nice to feel tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find the female preference for height amusing.

I've met several stunning tall women (5 ft 11+) who had boyfriends / husbands that were fugly / thick as shit / bums, but they were tall (as in it was the only thing they had going for them).

I think it's an inevitable consequence when a large-ish group of people have such a rigid criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a tall man but it's not the only thing I take into consideration

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why worry about something you cannot change? Being short has never held me back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do find the female preference for height amusing.

I've met several stunning tall women (5 ft 11+) who had boyfriends / husbands that were fugly / thick as shit / bums, but they were tall (as in it was the only thing they had going for them).

I think it's an inevitable consequence when a large-ish group of people have such a rigid criteria. "

Rather presumptuous of you to declare what someone else's partner had as "the only thing going for them" as a partner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do find the female preference for height amusing.

I've met several stunning tall women (5 ft 11+) who had boyfriends / husbands that were fugly / thick as shit / bums, but they were tall (as in it was the only thing they had going for them).

I think it's an inevitable consequence when a large-ish group of people have such a rigid criteria.

Rather presumptuous of you to declare what someone else's partner had as "the only thing going for them" as a partner...."

Sorry, I forgot to put 'in my opinion' but I felt it was implied. Hope that clears things up for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do find the female preference for height amusing.

I've met several stunning tall women (5 ft 11+) who had boyfriends / husbands that were fugly / thick as shit / bums, but they were tall (as in it was the only thing they had going for them).

I think it's an inevitable consequence when a large-ish group of people have such a rigid criteria.

Rather presumptuous of you to declare what someone else's partner had as "the only thing going for them" as a partner....

Sorry, I forgot to put 'in my opinion' but I felt it was implied. Hope that clears things up for you. "

That's better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5ft so I'd rather have the cock length "

Trust you

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Im happy with my height but if i was shorter my cock may appear bigger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft and over for me plz x

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

My radar doesn't sweep anything under 6'; at 6'2" I make eye-contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attracted to someone because of his height.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I am 5'9, so average height;

Never bothered me one way or the other, and had women shorter and taller than me.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I am 6' 2" I wouldn't want to be any taller I have to duck enough already and i thought I had a normal sized cock but apparently not at 8" and thicker than average so why change perfection

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I am 6' 2" I wouldn't want to be any taller I have to duck enough already and i thought I had a normal sized cock but apparently not at 8" and thicker than average so why change perfection "

My cousin is 6'7" and he thinks he needs to stoop going through doorways. But that is not true; doorways are almost 7' in height

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere


"I am 6' 2" I wouldn't want to be any taller I have to duck enough already and i thought I had a normal sized cock but apparently not at 8" and thicker than average so why change perfection

My cousin is 6'7" and he thinks he needs to stoop going through doorways. But that is not true; doorways are almost 7' in height"

Very true but you get the odd one that catches you out , I have the scares to prove it and i am sure your Cousin does too, ask him about double decker buses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5 foot 6 and no way would I trade accept me for who I am I have too.

Yes I find my height can be a disadvantage but if it was not height that was a fault something else would be.

Being bald too much hair.

Hairy chest bald chest.

The list is endless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6ft3 I think majority of girls like the tall man for the whole protection feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

Yes.

Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

its important to me as I am 6ft tall, and I really am not a fan of shorter guys (and its not true....we are not all the same lying down )

apart from that, taller men turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

6 ft or over for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5 foot 5..so I guess I look like I am always standing in a hole...I think it may help if I were a bit taller..

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


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My cousin is 6'7" and he thinks he needs to stoop going through doorways. But that is not true; doorways are almost 7' in height"

standard doors are 6'6" ... so your cousin would be right about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only find it an issue on here, but this is the same space where the most unlikely of people have the most demanding expectations.

As for giving an inch - I don't have enough to lose either way, so I'll stick thanks

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Yes height is a factor for me. I like tall men. 5ft 10 would be the lowest I would go down to. My exs from relationships have been 6ft+ "

this is the only honest answer. Why do women lie about these things.

I am 5'4" and it has always been a handicap. All the ads on lonely hearts sites specify 5'11" or over. If I were to specify only C cup or over tits I'd be castigated - quite rightly - but women are allowed to set a similarly arbitrary target of 5'11"....

And I can tell you, from experience, that height is no guide - no proportionality at all - to penis size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes height is a factor for me. I like tall men. 5ft 10 would be the lowest I would go down to. My exs from relationships have been 6ft+

this is the only honest answer. Why do women lie about these things.

I am 5'4" and it has always been a handicap. All the ads on lonely hearts sites specify 5'11" or over. If I were to specify only C cup or over tits I'd be castigated - quite rightly - but women are allowed to set a similarly arbitrary target of 5'11"....

And I can tell you, from experience, that height is no guide - no proportionality at all - to penis size.

"

For me, that's true but it's all about the fact that I'm tall. It's not that I find small men inherently unattractive, if I was 5'0 I'm sure any man over 5'2 would be fine for me. But I'm 5'10 so they need to be over 6'0.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"I'm 6ft3 I think majority of girls like the tall man for the whole protection feel "

Lol, and women want equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew it was a big deal either until internet dating. I'm average height but luckily I like short women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes height is a factor for me. I like tall men. 5ft 10 would be the lowest I would go down to. My exs from relationships have been 6ft+

this is the only honest answer. Why do women lie about these things.

I am 5'4" and it has always been a handicap. All the ads on lonely hearts sites specify 5'11" or over. If I were to specify only C cup or over tits I'd be castigated - quite rightly - but women are allowed to set a similarly arbitrary target of 5'11"....

And I can tell you, from experience, that height is no guide - no proportionality at all - to penis size.

"

not always but sometimes someone comes along and more than makes up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called heightist before now...so its also on my profile...but I don't care, I would look stupid with anyone under my height in my opinion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 6ft3 I think majority of girls like the tall man for the whole protection feel

Lol, and women want equality. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Height is important for me, I like tall men and you're not all the same height lying down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important for me, I like tall men and you're not all the same height lying down."

that's a rumour that's been put about by the vertically challenged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why it bothers blokes. There's no shortage(!) of short women and personally I mostly find them fitter anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important for me, I like tall men and you're not all the same height lying down.

that's a rumour that's been put about by the vertically challenged "

I may be vertically challenged but I have never agreed with that saying. I have had relationships with women taller than me and women shorter than me and yes we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important for me, I like tall men and you're not all the same height lying down.

that's a rumour that's been put about by the vertically challenged "

I hate it when I say no thanks to guys based on the height and they say that to me.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him. "

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why it bothers blokes. There's no shortage(!) of short women and personally I mostly find them fitter anyway."

What a sweeping generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it stems down to people's egos and yes I know I'm not the tallest man in the world but you never know what you could be missing by being narrow minded about someone's height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why it bothers blokes. There's no shortage(!) of short women and personally I mostly find them fitter anyway.

What a sweeping generalisation "

Yep. So?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive"

Sorry I don't understand what you're saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it stems down to people's egos and yes I know I'm not the tallest man in the world but you never know what you could be missing by being narrow minded about someone's height. "

I feel self-conscious about my height. I hate being tall and big, it makes me stand out and feel unfeminine. Next to a man smaller than me, all that is magnified a hundred times over. I want to meet a tall man so I feel normal.

Egotistical? Narrow minded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'8", but I normally wear boots that take me up 5'10" so I prefer men who are 6'+.

Also, in my experience SOME men SOMETIMES lie about their height on here. For example I met a man once who claimed to be 5'10" but when we met he was shorter than me when I was in flats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it stems down to people's egos and yes I know I'm not the tallest man in the world but you never know what you could be missing by being narrow minded about someone's height. "

It's not narrow minded. It's preference? When people on here get all uppity about the no black guys/Asians or whatever, they get told people are allowed their preference. My preference is a taller man. That's all there is to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel self-conscious about my height. I hate being tall and big, it makes me stand out and feel unfeminine. Next to a man smaller than me, all that is magnified a hundred times over. I want to meet a tall man so I feel normal.

Egotistical? Narrow minded?"

Exactly this.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive

Sorry I don't understand what you're saying?"

well. I might be the best man you've ever met. My penis might be a beautiful 7" which it is our personalities might gel perfectly but I'm a couple of inches shorter than acceptable...so it's a no. You've just rejected so many good looking successful men.. So now which sex is judging on an arbitrary body type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5'8", but I normally wear boots that take me up 5'10" so I prefer men who are 6'+.

Also, in my experience SOME men SOMETIMES lie about their height on here. For example I met a man once who claimed to be 5'10" but when we met he was shorter than me when I was in flats. "

Why lie makes me laugh if someone has to lie about their height to get meets. If they lie about their height what else would they lie about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really."

What a load of bollox this has made me laugh

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Do we.need to start an over six foot club ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we.need to start an over six foot club ? "

Carry on its one club I will never be a member of oh unless on stilts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we.need to start an over six foot club ? "

best make it 6'2 to allow for the fab creepage on stats

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really."

SMS? that's texting isn't it. Can you suffer from text? and Im hearing that it's women who feel self conscious and insecure about height. I'm just angry that I am rejected ...and for what, the want of a couple of inches? sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'10" in my socks. Now, where are my Cuban heels???...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really.

SMS? that's texting isn't it. Can you suffer from text? and Im hearing that it's women who feel self conscious and insecure about height. I'm just angry that I am rejected ...and for what, the want of a couple of inches? sheesh!"

It's a sweeping statement about all small men and you know what it's a typical hightest remark.

No I don't have small man syndrome thank you.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"SMS? that's texting isn't it. "

not short message service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down. "

Wow, 5'10" is quite tall for a woman!

I'm not bothered by a women's' height, but I do find something very attractive about very tall women!

I'm 6'2" for the record, but I don't think being tall has done me any favours on here!

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really."

I suspect most people have a hang up, at some time. I'm tall (6'5") but I can sympathise with the tall women on here. Hopefully there is someone for all of us!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"It's a sweeping statement about all small men and you know what it's a typical hightest remark.

No I don't have small man syndrome thank you. "

that's an irrational response.... if it was a statement about all small men i would've started the post by "saying all small men" .... but i started the post with the words "a lot of men".

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

I dont think height is important at all

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really.

I suspect most people have a hang up, at some time. I'm tall (6'5") but I can sympathise with the tall women on here. Hopefully there is someone for all of us!"

there's someone for everyone .... which is why i mentioned it was a shame that some blokes feel inadequate about being short.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people I know (including the short/average blokes) fancy tall (slim) women - or at least they like long legs!

I'm in the minority preferring smaller women (in my world anyway).

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really.

SMS? that's texting isn't it. Can you suffer from text? and Im hearing that it's women who feel self conscious and insecure about height. I'm just angry that I am rejected ...and for what, the want of a couple of inches? sheesh!

It's a sweeping statement about all small men and you know what it's a typical hightest remark.

No I don't have small man syndrome thank you. "

no, Im not insecure at all either but I have had this thrown in my face since the first girl - as a teenager - told me, and I quote "I could really fancy you if you were taller". If I were fat or dirty or unfit, I could do something about it, all I can do is stay fit and slim and in good proportion. But it's still not enough because prehistoric women want a neanderthal whose only advantage is that they can reach the higher shelf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I could be 9" taller and still have a 7" cock..... Worth considering?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer tall guys 5'11 or above but it's not a massive issue. As long as I'm not taller than them with or without heels anyway. I don't like looking down on a man, unless I'm on top of him obviously it just doesn't feel right.

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By *ary baileyCouple
over a year ago

basildon


"Most people I know (including the short/average blokes) fancy tall (slim) women - or at least they like long legs!

I'm in the minority preferring smaller women (in my world anyway)."
i like shorter women. A women has to be shorter than me even with heals. Our preffence on men is tv same as women. Men under 6ft cause kats only 5ft

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No heights no big deal for me but for a lot it is. Im only 5ft 1 so everyones taller than me anyway lol xx"

same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we.need to start an over six foot club ? "

can I join? I'm a smidge over 6ft

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"Do we.need to start an over six foot club ?

can I join? I'm a smidge over 6ft "

you're in ...... we can call the club Swingers With Altitude

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Apparently after being measured not so long ago twice in the same day in supposed to be 6 ft 3, now mind you yes I'm slightly above average height and try have a laid back attitude but I try to bring more then just that. It's not like I'm ripped or well endowed I'm just average/bulky which I'm okay with but I'd say my luck is probably okay when it comes to women? It's not like I got model/pretty boy looks or rock hard abs......nah I'm just me really and think it just comes down to luck or who you have a connection with you know?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely have to have a man who is taller than me for the whole feeling protected thing! It's one of the first things I check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we.need to start an over six foot club ?

can I join? I'm a smidge over 6ft

you're in ...... we can call the club Swingers With Altitude "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average height for men is 5ft 8"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like shorter women. A women has to be shorter than me even with heals. Our preffence on men is tv same as women. Men under 6ft cause kats only 5ft

"

I don't like heels either, not so much because of the height, more because most women look ridiculous tottering in them. Having said that a fit woman that walks well in heels is good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been with a man who was 5'4", and it meant he could stand when in doggy position with me on a bed or deep window sill. Ive also had the same position with a 6'5" with both of us on the bed. His height meant he could kiss me at the same time n wrap me up in his body. Each was fun. But they were both the same when I was riding. Variety spices it up! So no height doesn't bother me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are treated so harshly becasue they are as they are. A woman's too short, she puts on some heels, a woman's got poor skin, puts on some makeup, rubbish hair, get some extensions, no cleavage, wear a wonder bra. Men have no cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men can wear heels and makeup nowadays.

So I'm told anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive

Sorry I don't understand what you're saying?

well. I might be the best man you've ever met. My penis might be a beautiful 7" which it is our personalities might gel perfectly but I'm a couple of inches shorter than acceptable...so it's a no. You've just rejected so many good looking successful men.. So now which sex is judging on an arbitrary body type. "

I couldn't give a toss if someone didn't want to meet me based on my boobs. I don't find your comment offensive in the slightest. It's a preference and I am exercising my right to choose who I meet and don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a short arse and it doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys to be a lot taller than me cos it makes me feel all small and cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like guys to be a lot taller than me cos it makes me feel all small and cute!"

You're pretty tiny anyway dude, I'm a little surprised you are an 8 and over gal.

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

The UK female average adult height is 5'9, suppose Aslong as a gent is taller than that they shouldn't face too much difficulty.

Then again though introducing heels into the equation might complicate matters, those who enjoy wearing them prefer not to tower over guys.. Generally.

Your best hope is to find a heelphobic type or someone that prefers kittens to stilettos....if you're vertically challenged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The UK female average adult height is 5'9"

!!! 5'3 actually!

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"The UK female average adult height is 5'9

!!! 5'3 actually! "

/googlefail. I was wondering about that.. In Northern Ireland it's not completely unheard of for women to be that height but usually 5'3+.. Considering that, a 6ft+ guy seems like.. Effort. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

For me height is important a man has to be taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The UK female average adult height is 5'9

!!! 5'3 actually! "

Yep was about to say 5'8 is tall for a woman.

I'm my experience height is only a hang up for women who are tall and some don't care to much even then. I'm 5'8 which is avg for my age bracket apparently, but I find it much easier to pull hotties who are shorter than me compared women who are the same height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No heights no big deal for me but for a lot it is. Im only 5ft 1 so everyones taller than me anyway lol xx"
you short arse love that pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it's not just my height that puts women off. I also have a bald head, tattoos and a shit personality.

I would not sacrifice a millimetre from my cock, it's the only thing about me my Mrs likes.

Shorty

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport


"Yes height is a factor for me. I like tall men. 5ft 10 would be the lowest I would go down to. My exs from relationships have been 6ft+

this is the only honest answer. Why do women lie about these things.

I am 5'4" and it has always been a handicap. All the ads on lonely hearts sites specify 5'11" or over. If I were to specify only C cup or over tits I'd be castigated - quite rightly - but women are allowed to set a similarly arbitrary target of 5'11"....

And I can tell you, from experience, that height is no guide - no proportionality at all - to penis size.

"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm 5 ft 8 .. Happy with my height and satisfied with the length of my cock .. So all you heightist cock length Nazis out there its you who are missing out on a great time with me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6'4"..... Makes fart all difference on here, i still can't get to meet anybody lol

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

I'm a shortarse 5'6" 5'7" on a good day. Only downside is getting clothes - don't get much jeans in the 28" waist 30" inside leg size and denim is so hard to sew in a normal sewing machine so nit easy to take the legs up. Also, being slim, there's less 36" or size Small tops left in the sales lol

Small man syndrome? Nah! I've been blessed with a bigger than average appendage. I don't witness much small man syndrome - what I do see all the time is small appendage syndrome - the attractive taller men that have to have a fast or large car or body build to make up for a feeling of inadequacy in the trousers department lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Height is one of the first things I look for. A tall man will always have the advantage with me. I don't feel "comfortable" with short men, just don't find them sexually attractive at all.

There are men that don't like fat women, doesn't mean they're shallow or think any less of them, their cock just won't hard.

My partner is 6ft 1: perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down.

I agree. We're all the same size laying down. "

Good point x

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport


" I don't feel "comfortable" with short men, just don't find them sexually attractive at all.

There are men that don't like fat women, doesn't mean they're shallow or think any less of them, their cock just won't hard.

"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive"

Why do people get their panties in a bunch if they are excluded in some way for crying out loud?!!

No one on this thread has been offensive or derogatory: go and look at any bbw thread to find offensive!

Get.. Over...yourself!

NONE of us has universal appeal: did you get that: none! The sooner some people realise that and knock the chips of their shoulders the happier they'll be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes in a partner , I prefer taller so I can wear heels without towering over them. B is 6ft 1 and the ideal height for me.

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By *rower1977Man
over a year ago

IOW

I'm 6'6, so I wouldn't mind being a little bit shorter!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"a lot of men who suffer from SMS on account of their lack of stature say irrational things in an attempt to make themselves feel less self conscious. it's a shame they feel that way really.

SMS? that's texting isn't it. Can you suffer from text? and Im hearing that it's women who feel self conscious and insecure about height. I'm just angry that I am rejected ...and for what, the want of a couple of inches? sheesh!"

I'm intelligent, solvent, own my home, raised three children all well educated and successful, government ministers know me by name, will retire this year and join forces with my partner and form our own company yet I'm rejected on here by unemployed gym bunnies because I'm fat and old, they only want people who take care of themselves.

Do you think I spend a nanosecond giving them a thought and getting bent out of shape by their rejection?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not heightest when it comes to men, I've dated men from 5'4" upto 6'7". I don't like really skinny men though, personally I find they make me feel a bit butch and to me they kind of look like pre-pubescent boys. I have noticed I'm a bit self conscious if a woman is shorter than me though and it has put me off of play before if a woman is short and very petite.xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I love being small sometimes i feel like i want to make myself as tiny as possible i dont have to take mens height into consideration. I want to be small enough to fit in pockets

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm 5'10, and used to think height was a big deal.

What being on fabs has taught me, though, is that I don't really notice any height difference when lying down.

I agree. We're all the same size laying down.

Good point x"

It's bollocks actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never knew men's height was important to women until recently and from some posts on here. I guess because I'm about average height at 5'11" so it wasn't something I was aware of.

But is it important?

I have a conundrum for the men who might like to be a bit taller than they are.

If you were told you could be 3 inches taller but you had to loose an inch from your cock, would you take that option?

Note : Assumption here would be that if you had a 10 inch cock the choice is easier to make, but for the purpose of this question, let's say it's about average length.

Would you?

And to the women, do you consider height as being important in choosing a partner?

Lee"

Female half of the couple here....I don't mind what height the man is....I like variety in my sex life so different heights of different Partners is great. Any height is fine. I am only 4ft 11 so I can wear high heels for a different effect. My husband would not lie about his height. He says there is no point in pretending to be something he is not.....he is short, hairy and bald and I love him that way! M x

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By *aint steedMan
over a year ago

berkhamsted

I'm 6 ft and used to date a girl who had the second longest legs in the world , she was the longest till she was beaten before Guinness book went to print that year , either way some times having fun with a taller women can be fab it changes everything angles are different, positions change, sometime easier, or once impossible lol! it was defiantly worth while !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"men can wear heels and makeup nowadays.

So I'm told anyway.."

Andy Burnham wears loads of makeup.... Always makes me laugh on TV..can't take him seriously at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once had doggy with a lass about 9" taller than me. was like a jack russel trying to fuck a great dane !

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport


"

Do you think I spend a nanosecond giving them a thought and getting bent out of shape by their rejection?!! "

From your rant, it seems pretty obvious that you do. If you didn't care you wouldn't rant about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read this and was laughing my nuts off

Im just me 5'3" take it or leave it iv always gad issues from people for being short and now realise its their own problem not mine if you dont like short guys its fine plenty of women do

We are who we are and i would never trade cock lengh for leg inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much."

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel."

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men to be taller than me.

Just my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read this and was laughing my nuts off

Im just me 5'3" take it or leave it iv always gad issues from people for being short and now realise its their own problem not mine if you dont like short guys its fine plenty of women do

We are who we are and i would never trade cock lengh for leg inches"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Do you think I spend a nanosecond giving them a thought and getting bent out of shape by their rejection?!!

From your rant, it seems pretty obvious that you do. If you didn't care you wouldn't rant about it..."

Making a point and getting my panties in a twist: two different things but it's obvious from some of the comments people don't understand that.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much."

Is that any different to men not liking fat women or they'll fuck them on here but not be seen dead with them?

Or anything where we're excluded.

It doesn't always make sense, does it have to? I like riojka not merlot. Both red wine, one makes me go yum the other yuk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer tall guys "
I'm 6 feet so I don't have to cut anything off my cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes definitely a big deal for me, xx

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Yes height has always held me back but no, would never consider the alternative.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance."

It's not what others see as an imbalance. It is that I cannot see him at all, unless I look down to find him

Seeing eye-to-eye takes on a whole new meaning when I have to look at someone one who is 6" - 8" shorter than me when I am dressed to kill in a club with my 4" heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

Is that any different to men not liking fat women or they'll fuck them on here but not be seen dead with them?

Or anything where we're excluded.

It doesn't always make sense, does it have to? I like riojka not merlot. Both red wine, one makes me go yum the other yuk. "
but to exclude someone for being an inch out or a year out don't you think is a little trivial ,surely people are about personalities not inches ,we make such harsh decisions about such insignificant things and all based on a text message which gives no indication of anything except that they can spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance.

It's not what others see as an imbalance. It is that I cannot see him at all, unless I look down to find him

Seeing eye-to-eye takes on a whole new meaning when I have to look at someone one who is 6" - 8" shorter than me when I am dressed to kill in a club with my 4" heels"

perfect height for licking your fanny then

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally height is not an issue for me at all. It has no bearing on whether I find a person attractive or not.

Though I do understand why women would have a preference for taller men, especially if they are quite tall themselves.

At the end of the day it is simply a preference... something that seems to get some people on here strangely hot under the collar

Nita

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance.

It's not what others see as an imbalance. It is that I cannot see him at all, unless I look down to find him

Seeing eye-to-eye takes on a whole new meaning when I have to look at someone one who is 6" - 8" shorter than me when I am dressed to kill in a club with my 4" heels

perfect height for licking your fanny then "

"Dressed to kill", includes a skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance.

It's not what others see as an imbalance. It is that I cannot see him at all, unless I look down to find him

Seeing eye-to-eye takes on a whole new meaning when I have to look at someone one who is 6" - 8" shorter than me when I am dressed to kill in a club with my 4" heels

perfect height for licking your fanny then

"Dressed to kill", includes a skirt "

absence of knickers...NICE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally height is not an issue for me at all. It has no bearing on whether I find a person attractive or not.

Though I do understand why women would have a preference for taller men, especially if they are quite tall themselves.

At the end of the day it is simply a preference... something that seems to get some people on here strangely hot under the collar

Nita"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen many a ladies profile stating at least 6ft only, glad I am 6ft 1 tbh

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

Is that any different to men not liking fat women or they'll fuck them on here but not be seen dead with them?

Or anything where we're excluded.

It doesn't always make sense, does it have to? I like riojka not merlot. Both red wine, one makes me go yum the other yuk. but to exclude someone for being an inch out or a year out don't you think is a little trivial ,surely people are about personalities not inches ,we make such harsh decisions about such insignificant things and all based on a text message which gives no indication of anything except that they can spell "

Sigh...

This is fantasy for some. I do not play with black men. My ex husband, the father of my children is black: I adore black men. Yet during my time I've been contacted by black men asking what's wrong with them, why I'm not giving them a chance.

I don't see why I should justify my sexual preferences or give anybody a chance: it's not a charity event.

People need to park their egos, understand that they won't appeal to all and concentrate on those seeking them.

Works for me and my blood pressure remains normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With only being 5ft1, height really isn't important to me, as most men are taller anyways.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

At the end of the day it is simply a preference... something that seems to get some people on here strangely hot under the collar

"

(Shakes hand) Thank you: exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Im 5'4 so I'm smaller than alllll of you haha!

I just have to live with it, never been able to do anything about it, it's just genetics.

Luck of the draw! Turns out I should have folded haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Plenty of short men don't go short of women, billy Joel and Christie Brinkley spring to mind can't get more tall and leggy.

There's been two regular forumites who where/are short and very popular.

Not going to appeal to everyone but a lot is down to attitude, if you use your height as a hindrance then it will become one.

Lots of short girlies for you anyway

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I don't know why it bothers blokes. There's no shortage(!) of short women and personally I mostly find them fitter anyway.

What a sweeping generalisation "

That wasn't a generalisation it was an opinion a generalisation would have been saying short women are fitter anyway not "I mostly find them fitter anyway"

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers "

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Height is important to me. I'm 5ft 8 and it's unlikely I'd meet a guy shorter than 5ft 11 tbh. Definitely not shorter than me. It's non negotiable.

Why? I don't know. That's just my preference. I am conscious of my height, and want the option of wearing heels without towering over him.

yes, I see what you mean and I'd feel self conscious with a girl with breasts like yours...that is so offensive

Why do people get their panties in a bunch if they are excluded in some way for crying out loud?!!

No one on this thread has been offensive or derogatory: go and look at any bbw thread to find offensive!

Get.. Over...yourself!

NONE of us has universal appeal: did you get that: none! The sooner some people realise that and knock the chips of their shoulders the happier they'll be.

"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?"

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Height is a factor for me... in men. I want a bloke to be taller than me and at 5'5 that's not very difficult. When it comes to women, I don't care.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"met enough tall women for sex,and had a couple of relationships with some..

no issues for them or me regarding our height difference.

I do find it odd that a woman would feel insecure about sex/dating/relationship with someone smaller than themselve...insecure about what other people might think?

that tells me much.

It's not about what others think, it's about how i feel.

it is as fair enough to have the preference as many do on race,weight...

but as some have said, its about the perception of others seeing some kind of imbalance.

It's not what others see as an imbalance. It is that I cannot see him at all, unless I look down to find him

Seeing eye-to-eye takes on a whole new meaning when I have to look at someone one who is 6" - 8" shorter than me when I am dressed to kill in a club with my 4" heels"

If only the human body had a head on a neck that can adjust and pivot eh?? Damn you human body damn you to hell!!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers "
that's just as daft as people saying real woman when describing someone of a certain build..

I don't dispute SMS exists but to describe shorter guys as less manly can't do a lot of peoples confidence any good.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that "
I have a gentleman friend who amuses himself by getting on his knees to give me a kiss

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that "

6'2 = powerful looking hmmm I worked with a lad of 6'7 he weighed around 70 kilos,I am 5'7 and weigh 73 kilos put our photos side by side in lets say boxers and then say who looks more manly and before you think I am being harsh he is a mate and he would have no worries with me referencing him. Connor McGregor is around 5'8 Sylvester Stallone and Tom Hardy roughly the same,but alas they apparently are not manly due to their height in your opinion lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers that's just as daft as people saying real woman when describing someone of a certain build..

I don't dispute SMS exists but to describe shorter guys as less manly can't do a lot of peoples confidence any good."

I agree. However I think that post was aimed at a certain individual who'd made a snide comment and retorted in kind, not as a sweeping generalisation: that's how I read it anyway.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers that's just as daft as people saying real woman when describing someone of a certain build..

I don't dispute SMS exists but to describe shorter guys as less manly can't do a lot of peoples confidence any good."

Shorter guys are as 'manly' as taller guys. I regularly meet one guy in a club who is 5'6" and believe you me, he is as 'manly' as another guy I meet regularly who is 6'5". And they both give me a neck-ache, for different reasons

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that

6'2 = powerful looking hmmm I worked with a lad of 6'7 he weighed around 70 kilos,I am 5'7 and weigh 73 kilos put our photos side by side in lets say boxers and then say who looks more manly and before you think I am being harsh he is a mate and he would have no worries with me referencing him. Connor McGregor is around 5'8 Sylvester Stallone and Tom Hardy roughly the same,but alas they apparently are not manly due to their height in your opinion lol"

It is called a 'preference'. And you are showing an 'insecurity'

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that

6'2 = powerful looking hmmm I worked with a lad of 6'7 he weighed around 70 kilos,I am 5'7 and weigh 73 kilos put our photos side by side in lets say boxers and then say who looks more manly and before you think I am being harsh he is a mate and he would have no worries with me referencing him. Connor McGregor is around 5'8 Sylvester Stallone and Tom Hardy roughly the same,but alas they apparently are not manly due to their height in your opinion lol"

Why get so worked up? If you're not what someone desires does it matter? "Chastising" people and point scoring because you're excluded doesn't show you in a particularly good light.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

What I lack in height I make up with my smile and personality

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"SMS usually manifests itself as anger and tends to be expressed by insults publically directed toward men of a more manly height in an effort to counteract a sense of inadequacy. i for one feel sympathy for sufferers

More manly height?? what height qualifies as manly?

Will depend on the woman

At 6'2", he starts to look 'powerful' to me. At 6'5", I have to tip-toe and hang on his neck to kiss him; I love that

6'2 = powerful looking hmmm I worked with a lad of 6'7 he weighed around 70 kilos,I am 5'7 and weigh 73 kilos put our photos side by side in lets say boxers and then say who looks more manly and before you think I am being harsh he is a mate and he would have no worries with me referencing him. Connor McGregor is around 5'8 Sylvester Stallone and Tom Hardy roughly the same,but alas they apparently are not manly due to their height in your opinion lol

Why get so worked up? If you're not what someone desires does it matter? "Chastising" people and point scoring because you're excluded doesn't show you in a particularly good light."

not worked up far from it just pointing out that "manly" is not just about height it's about the man himself.As for showing myself in a good light well to be honest Idon't really mind how you view me as you would be looking down on me figuratively and literally anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would be a happier place for you if you realised that at least some of us are here to suit ourselves and our own needs. I have a reason to ask for same height or taller. Others might have theirs too. Respect that and move on - plenty of fish in the sea.

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