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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

He's saying that you're all tarts. that will go well for him.

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By *ood will huntingMan
over a year ago

s/west & yeovil

Not at all ... At least if you meet then date from here you have things in common! Share an interest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Marc's not gunna stick with me either. Says he wants a "laaaddyyy" and ladies don't ask him for threesomes on valentines day. Ppffttt.

-Courtney

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

So it's OK for him to have multiple sexual partners, but he wants his future partner to be 'innocent'? Double standards.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Not at all ... At least if you meet then date from here you have things in common! Share an interest ?"

Read what he said again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. Marc's not gunna stick with me either. Says he wants a "laaaddyyy" and ladies don't ask him for threesomes on valentines day. Ppffttt.

-Courtney "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't do, but I don't date anyway.

But if I did, not from the Internet and here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

I'd say he is possibly insecure about himself. But definitely sees the women on fab as 'lesser' people.

In other news, I am dating someone I met off here and am very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This attitude really pisses me off!

I would be interested if it's mostly a male attitude or evenly spread across the sexes?

It smacks of men wanting a virgin type to date/meet mother and a slut in the bedroom!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Quite a lot of guys think like that and quite a lot of women as well. So maybe they should get together and not date each other.

Seriously, I'm not here to "date" but if a guy said that to me he can sling his hook I'm not here to be thought of as second rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do, but I don't date anyway.

But if I did, not from the Internet and here,"

But View!

I fort yu wuvd me?

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I suppose if he wants a vanilla relationship with someone that's not a swinger, he wouldn't date a swinger from Fab.

I won't date vanilla men and will only date from the swinging or fetish scene so there is no point in me looking elsewhere.

I guess it's what suits individuals.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I wouldn't do, but I don't date anyway.

But if I did, not from the Internet and here,

But View!

I fort yu wuvd me? "

I do, I do

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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London

I think that true love will make people change their ways. It's irresistible. After all as humans we do have feelings and it doesn't matter where people meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets?

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By *ood will huntingMan
over a year ago

s/west & yeovil


"Not at all ... At least if you meet then date from here you have things in common! Share an interest ?

Read what he said again. "

I did thanks and as I said dating from here could be a good idea therefore he's an idiot .. Maybe you should read what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that."

But I would like it to be 1 on 1 for awhile, Spending some time together maybe a few holidays etc while we get to know each other before including other people in the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've know couples who have met off here as singles and gotten together, one of my best friends met her now husband on fab, definitely not a _iew shared by them or myself.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'd like to meet someone to date.

If I had to be monogamous to be in a relationship I would pay that "admission price".

But if I met someone on fab, who wanted a relationship I'd be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhhh he says that now but if he did meet this wonderwoman - he might just change his mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd date someone on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that."

Gotta agree ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that.

But I would like it to be 1 on 1 for awhile, Spending some time together maybe a few holidays etc while we get to know each other before including other people in the relationship "

Yeah agreed! If I met someone I thought might be permanent I'd want to take some time off to get to know each other - then come back with a couple profile if they're happy to continue swinging! Xx

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I met a lady in real life. We did stuff together and things were progressing beautifully. I told her of my extra curricular activities but did not mention the word "fab" nor "swinging". I even showed her "proof"

Then I saw her profile on here. I came out of the "closet" and then she flipped.

Things have never been the same again. We are still both on here and we are still in touch.

If you ask me a direct question, I'd say not a good idea to date someone from on here. Better to step away and get one from elsewhere who might not be so innocent anyway.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I wouldn't want to date that guy anyway.

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

For me, it would be perfect to meet someone from here and have a r/ship with. I agree take a bit of time of to get to know one another better and come back with a couples profile.

My experience dating women outside of the swingers world soon gets boring.

Saying all of that I am also realistic, its hard enough to get a meet here, so finding a life partner is even less likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a lady in real life. We did stuff together and things were progressing beautifully. I told her of my extra curricular activities but did not mention the word "fab" nor "swinging". I even showed her "proof"

Then I saw her profile on here. I came out of the "closet" and then she flipped.

Things have never been the same again. We are still both on here and we are still in touch.

If you ask me a direct question, I'd say not a good idea to date someone from on here. Better to step away and get one from elsewhere who might not be so innocent anyway.

"

difference is you met her out of fab and although you told her she never told you -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he didn't phrase it properly.

I wouldn't be able to date someone that I used to fuck casually. The transition just wouldn't work for me.

I am, however, dating someone I met from here. It was decided before meeting that we'd like it to be more than just a fuck. That established difference is what was needed for me to see him differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really, really depends.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have heard this so many times! Just goes to show their double standards and I drop them as fast as possible.

Men with that attitude just proves the type of person they are to be honest so in a way I am grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets? "

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By *ildhearted_womanWoman
over a year ago

Between the bridges - Forth n Tay

It's the typical Madonna/Whore syndrome men have - fuck the bad girl , date and marry the good girl who keeps her legs closed . No matter what women do,they're damned if they do and damned if they don't. Even in this liberated age of women,most men will still have that deep rooted thing going on in their head .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the typical Madonna/Whore syndrome men have - fuck the bad girl , date and marry the good girl who keeps her legs closed . No matter what women do,they're damned if they do and damned if they don't. Even in this liberated age of women,most men will still have that deep rooted thing going on in their head . "

I don't feel "damned if I do, damned if I don't" just because some people disapprove of promiscuity. I still have the choice in if I let silly things bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone that on fab & we have a couples profile now, I love what we have, open, honest & it's the best fun I have ever ....that guys a knob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't date anyone off here either.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I wouldn't date anyone off here either. "

But you see, you don't have double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't care where I met my future boyfriend, if I met him off here though his profile would be gone unless he just wanted to use the forums. He'd have to have all message filters on and I'd have to have access to his account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???

I'd say he is possibly insecure about himself. But definitely sees the women on fab as 'lesser' people.

In other news, I am dating someone I met off here and am very happy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't care where I met my future boyfriend, if I met him off here though his profile would be gone unless he just wanted to use the forums. He'd have to have all message filters on and I'd have to have access to his account. "

And would you do the same for him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't care where I met my future boyfriend, if I met him off here though his profile would be gone unless he just wanted to use the forums. He'd have to have all message filters on and I'd have to have access to his account.

And would you do the same for him ?"

Yeah, my message filters are on constantly anyway, I do my own searching but obviously wouldn't search for fucks if I had a boyfriend. If he wanted my log in details to check that would be fine with me. Doubt many guys would want to check though, that's just a me thing cos I'm paranoid as hell.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I wouldn't care where I met my future boyfriend, if I met him off here though his profile would be gone unless he just wanted to use the forums. He'd have to have all message filters on and I'd have to have access to his account. "

We met on here and we both still have our single accounts. Neither have access to the other, because we aren't that bothered as we trust each other. If there is no trust, there is no relationship in my book. We discuss everything and anything, and it was like this as soon as we met because we got on so well and had so many things in common ... I don't think I would feel the same about someone I haven't met on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club "

Some singles on here basically use it as a cheaper alternative to prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club

Some singles on here basically use it as a cheaper alternative to prostitution."

Same as some couples do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't date anyone off here either.

But you see, you don't have double standards. "

Why don't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I met my partner/boyfriend from fab I dont think there is anything wrong with fab dating

G x

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I wouldn't date anyone off here either.

But you see, you don't have double standards.

Why don't I?"

Simple; you are not a single guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club

Some singles on here basically use it as a cheaper alternative to prostitution.

Same as some couples do. "

Ummm how exactly would that work?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

More fool him. I for one am girlfriend material, I would be quite happy to walk away from fab forever if I started a full time relationship and I know many, many people on here feel the same. I take loyalty to an art form lol!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

He may have double standards or using that as a blanket statement to put you off the dating scent.

If you chat about dating with a guy some of them can assume you want to snare them in particular.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club

Some singles on here basically use it as a cheaper alternative to prostitution.

Same as some couples do.

Ummm how exactly would that work? "

Meet a single person from here just for sex, rather than pay for someone is my guess

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My personal _iews on dating from Fab is that it is a good idea because so many relationships fail or are crap because of differences in sexual appetite.

At least with Fab you've got that bit covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dated off here as I'm more relaxed around those who share a similar interest. However in a relationship I'm loyal and dedicated.

My ex probably had similar _iews, expected me to trust him but never trusted me. He was ok to chat to couples he classed as friends but would sulk if I did....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goes back to a statement I made a week or so ago

Overheard two guys in the sauna at a club talking about their conquests in a swingers club, and also girls they would take to a club. But they would never take their girlfriends to a swingers club

Some singles on here basically use it as a cheaper alternative to prostitution.

Same as some couples do.

Ummm how exactly would that work?

Meet a single person from here just for sex, rather than pay for someone is my guess "

When I say a single uses this site as a cheaper alternative to prostitution then I'm saying that they are just desperate for sex and don't respect the person they fuck. I don't see how a couple could really be desperate for sex since they could always fuck each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't date anyone off here either.

But you see, you don't have double standards.

Why don't I?

Simple; you are not a single guy!"

Good point!

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By *avebabeWoman
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets? "
good valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my boyfriend through Miss Cheeky's dating thread and I couldn't be happier.

I struggle to respect people who have a problem with a prospective partner's sexual habits/history while indulging in similar activities themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that.

But I would like it to be 1 on 1 for awhile, Spending some time together maybe a few holidays etc while we get to know each other before including other people in the relationship "

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone from here who was special enough to me, I'd only a relationship if we both left Fab & left the life style too. Possibly hypocritical, but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't get that attitude.

I'd have no issue if I liked the person on an emotional and sexual level having an relationship. If anything all the awkward what are you into questions are answered and you both know each others likes and desires.

It's all about trust...everyone has a past and if you trust them and love them who gives a monkeys how you met.

Just tell your family Pof though

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I think it can be seen both ways Yes u have shared interests but wot quite often happens wen things get serious could they see their partner enjoying intimate things with a member of the opposite sex or even same sex people standards change wen emotions are involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dated two women from Fab.

The first was an absolute basket case (and no longer a site user).

The second is my current girlfriend and the most amazing person I've ever met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I met someone from here who was special enough to me, I'd only a relationship if we both left Fab & left the life style too. Possibly hypocritical, but hey ho."

I'd only WANT a relationship, even.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd much rather meet someone on here but right now I'm not looking I'm more focused on getting fit and work than men. I've been on a few dates recently and wasn't in the right frame for the date

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By *hrisgrayMan
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol

I'd def date women from here. Hot and like sex and have the same swinger minds. Any day.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've dated two women from Fab.

The first was an absolute basket case (and no longer a site user).

The second is my current girlfriend and the most amazing person I've ever met.

"

Awwwwwww

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Really don't think I can do relationship any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more "

Honestly mate, I was exactly the same. Within ten minutes of meeting Nell though, I knew I was wrong.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more "

You will know when you have met the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why anybody would see that as a problem. I keep an open mind when it comes to relationships. Although I'm not actively seeking it, I won't rule it out, even whilst using fab. From the responses I've read, it is probably the best attitude to have with relationships, as it could happen anywhere.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more

Honestly mate, I was exactly the same. Within ten minutes of meeting Nell though, I knew I was wrong."

Awww

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

If I meet the "one" I won't care if she's from here or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will know when you have met the right person "

I totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's OK for him to have multiple sexual partners, but he wants his future partner to be 'innocent'? Double standards. "

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Let's face it. It's complicated!

This lifestyle brings people from all different walks of life with their own interpretations of relationships and sex. Sometimes they don't match and sometimes they do. It's not a case of double standards or being good enough. it's a case of falling for someone and they don't feel as strongly as you or you're not what they want long-term.

I'm not saying relationships are not possible on fabs but remember some people are not looking for that and have no interest.

Also, be honest with yourself. If you're interested in a relationship, pursue it. Don't expect it to fall into place because you're shagging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date have a relationship with someone from here. Vanilla relationships don't seem to work for me as I like spice in my life.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I wouldn't do, but I don't date anyway.

But if I did, not from the Internet and here,"

Oh View, you'vs shattered my illusions now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more "

Sare here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose if he wants a vanilla relationship with someone that's not a swinger, he wouldn't date a swinger from Fab.

I won't date vanilla men and will only date from the swinging or fetish scene so there is no point in me looking elsewhere.

I guess it's what suits individuals. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the complete opposite _iew, dating someone from Fabs would be great! Similar outlook on sex, and all that.

But I would like it to be 1 on 1 for awhile, Spending some time together maybe a few holidays etc while we get to know each other before including other people in the relationship "

Totally agree with this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

Yeah right. Like either sex has any choice when love comes knocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for a relationship, but, if I was I wouldn't be looking in the vanilla world, I like women who are opinionated, intelligent and value freedom to express themselves sexually, and I find from my previous experience when I was looking for a vanilla relationship, that there are mire women if my "type" in the swinging and bdsm community, than in the vanilla dating world

I love to.have sex, its like a hobby, and meeting a woman with the same _iew would be the ideal, I mean, if its not acceptable to ask a new partner to give up golf, why would it be acceptable to ask them to give up threesomes or safe anonymous sex with strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

Would you date someone from Fab OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely using fab to find people for sex is no worse than going to clubs or bars and meeting people there? Is the assumption then that people who use fab are somehow undesireable when compared to those who use 'vanilla' dating sites or just hit the local towns and pick people up in bars? It shows ignorance and a lack of understanding to assume fabbers are somehow moraly inferior.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more

You will know when you have met the right person "

So many times I've thought at last this is my 1 only for everything to turn to shit yet again. It's so easy to see what's right or wrong for anybody else but so hard for yourself and that's why I say I just don't think I can do it anymore

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Surely using fab to find people for sex is no worse than going to clubs or bars and meeting people there? Is the assumption then that people who use fab are somehow undesireable when compared to those who use 'vanilla' dating sites or just hit the local towns and pick people up in bars? It shows ignorance and a lack of understanding to assume fabbers are somehow moraly inferior."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely using fab to find people for sex is no worse than going to clubs or bars and meeting people there? Is the assumption then that people who use fab are somehow undesireable when compared to those who use 'vanilla' dating sites or just hit the local towns and pick people up in bars? It shows ignorance and a lack of understanding to assume fabbers are somehow moraly inferior."

It shows ignorance and a lack of understanding to assume that is why people won't date someone from Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more

You will know when you have met the right person

So many times I've thought at last this is my 1 only for everything to turn to shit yet again. It's so easy to see what's right or wrong for anybody else but so hard for yourself and that's why I say I just don't think I can do it anymore "

I hear what you're saying but trust me, it happens.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always "

Isn't it "The older we get, the more immature we become"

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde


"Yeah it's some women too - not just men.

But when they've met and married this epitome of virtue - I wonder how long it'll be before they're bored with their sex life and back on here looking for 'discreet' meets? "

And this is exactly the reason I would never form an emotional attachment to anyone on here

How long before the withdrawal symptoms or they have a bit of time to kill so rejoin for a look see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always "

It's their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely using fab to find people for sex is no worse than going to clubs or bars and meeting people there? Is the assumption then that people who use fab are somehow undesireable when compared to those who use 'vanilla' dating sites or just hit the local towns and pick people up in bars? It shows ignorance and a lack of understanding to assume fabbers are somehow moraly inferior."

Damn straight!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

I think the explanation given was a polite round-a-bout way of saying he doesnt fancy you.

I dont share the above sentiments, I would be happy to date (as in BF/GF) someone I met on Fab.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more

You will know when you have met the right person

So many times I've thought at last this is my 1 only for everything to turn to shit yet again. It's so easy to see what's right or wrong for anybody else but so hard for yourself and that's why I say I just don't think I can do it anymore

I hear what you're saying but trust me, it happens."

Don't take this as knocking you I trust you know me better but I sincerely hope your still of the same mind in 12 months time

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always "

Well my dad's bigger than your dad so there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always

It's their loss. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

But tricky this 1. If she is a gangbang queen with 100's of veris I would say 'what happens of Fab stays on Fab' if I'm being honest.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I love the ' I wouldn't date them anyway'

Gets more like a school playground.

The indignation is fantastic, as always

It's their loss. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't think I can do relationship any more

Honestly mate, I was exactly the same. Within ten minutes of meeting Nell though, I knew I was wrong."

A www! How lovely!! Now I want one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd date someone on here ! "

Good to know

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"

I'm on a well known fishy site looking for a lady to have a relationship with fab is another opportunity to meet a lady for a relationship in my eyes.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been chatting to a guy for quite some time and the subject of dating has come up, he has said that whilst the women on fab are great to sleep with he would in no way consider dating one properly even if he met the woman of his dreams... I just wondered if that was an option shared by any others here???"
sounds like a excuse to me bin him off ! He's prob married or something !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't the opposite the worst? Take an arranged marriage where you become committed to your partner with no idea what the chemistry will be like and whether you are remotely compatible in bed.

Is it not better to know all this before you commit?

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

I don't see what the problem would be. I'd happily date someone I met from here. Not a problem at all.

People could meet someone from here and just click, same as they could meet someone anywhere and just click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely date a lady off here but when the subject did come up would need to do a lot of talking about like do we leave it behind or go forward together

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Dating ? What is that ??? Ha ha

I am brutally honest person and say as it is and put cards on the table .

How to say a vanilla man : " Listen I am cute and nice but I do have another side too. I am and have been a Femdom for years but don't want to date submissive men but vanilla or alphas !"

Or how do I say that even my vanilla side is kinky as I like kinky sex , breastfeeding , biting and being bitten and much more .

So I keep myself for myself and don't date as even guys from fab are frightened of me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would definitely date a lady off here but when the subject did come up would need to do a lot of talking about like do we leave it behind or go forward together "

Yeah I'm not sure how easy it would be to intergrate two single swingers into one couple, conversations would need to be had for sure, I mean would you swing as a couple only or would one of you start missing the single aspect of it, I suppose it could get complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a nice pair of breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose if he wants a vanilla relationship with someone that's not a swinger, he wouldn't date a swinger from Fab.

I won't date vanilla men and will only date from the swinging or fetish scene so there is no point in me looking elsewhere.

I guess it's what suits individuals. "

I think I know where you are coming from. I have made a couple of half hearted attempts at dating but it didn't feel right for me. As someone into both the swinging and fetish lifestyle it dawned on me that most vanilla women would be freaked out by the lifestyle even if I tried to stop. I wouldn't try to hide my past because frankly thats just not me.

So for me should I decide to date in the traditional sense. I would look for someone with a similar past that gets me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A date...... what's one of those? Xx

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"A date...... what's one of those? Xx"

If I lived closer I'd take you out on one

X

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