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"Funny you should say that , we arranged a play meet at ours the other day with a guy who only had web veris, guess what he was a no show.no contact not heard from him since but he has been online ." That seems to happen a fair bit, must be a few genuine ones though | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20')" We have met a couple of guys,no veri's and been on here over a year,they were lovely.. The reason why they had been on here so long without a veri was because people on here are too hung up over veri's,the longer a guy is on here without meeting people more people wonder why they been on here so long without meeting someone,the funny thing is one of the guys has been verified a couple more times since we verified him so goes to show that a lot of people wont meet anyone unless they are verified. | |||
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"Could be a catch 22...tho I stand ready to be corrected ...I`m a newbie, so don`t really know.... It took a little while fer us to be taken seriously ..some suspicion etc ...but hey ..." Yor right there,it is catch 22 x | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20') We have met a couple of guys,no veri's and been on here over a year,they were lovely.. The reason why they had been on here so long without a veri was because people on here are too hung up over veri's,the longer a guy is on here without meeting people more people wonder why they been on here so long without meeting someone,the funny thing is one of the guys has been verified a couple more times since we verified him so goes to show that a lot of people wont meet anyone unless they are verified." Ive met single guys with no veri's, been there first meet, just seems alot who want to play on cam and not meet | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20')" took me 7 months to get my first meet... and i know that some people it takes longer than that..... assumptions are dangerous things to have... | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20')" Ya trying to meet up with the wrong fellas dcup, lol, slip on ya fingerless mitts and put kettle on, I'll be round in 10mins, lol | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20') We have met a couple of guys,no veri's and been on here over a year,they were lovely.. The reason why they had been on here so long without a veri was because people on here are too hung up over veri's,the longer a guy is on here without meeting people more people wonder why they been on here so long without meeting someone,the funny thing is one of the guys has been verified a couple more times since we verified him so goes to show that a lot of people wont meet anyone unless they are verified. Ive met single guys with no veri's, been there first meet, just seems alot who want to play on cam and not meet " Some people do use the site for cam fun and dont want to actually meet anyone,we dont play on cam does nothing for us prefere the real thing | |||
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"is there anything wrong with single men joining this site just to have a wank on cam? i don't think it's a site rule that you have to meet. or get verified. or explain to others why you've got no verifications..or too many verifications" Exactly,just what i wanted to say x | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20') Ya trying to meet up with the wrong fellas dcup, lol, slip on ya fingerless mitts and put kettle on, I'll be round in 10mins, lol " You and ya fingerless glove fetish mucky!! lol i dont want to get them all sticky, will shrink in the wash lol | |||
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"is there anything wrong with single men joining this site just to have a wank on cam? i don't think it's a site rule that you have to meet. or get verified. or explain to others why you've got no verifications..or too many verifications Exactly,just what i wanted to say x" Im not saying there is a problem with that, im saying when guys arrange to meet and dont show, by all means wank away!! | |||
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"is there anything wrong with single men joining this site just to have a wank on cam? i don't think it's a site rule that you have to meet. or get verified. or explain to others why you've got no verifications..or too many verifications Exactly,just what i wanted to say x Im not saying there is a problem with that, im saying when guys arrange to meet and dont show, by all means wank away!! " But you never mentioned no shows in your OP | |||
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"It's i suppose when they wanna meet up is when its becomes a problem!! nowt wrong with coming on ere for a good old tug!!" Indeed!! | |||
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"is there anything wrong with single men joining this site just to have a wank on cam? i don't think it's a site rule that you have to meet. or get verified. or explain to others why you've got no verifications..or too many verifications Exactly,just what i wanted to say x" Me too!! Verifications do not = Genuine people! I met a guy from here who was a member for over a year and was not verified...yet he was an absolute honey and 100% genuine...and I myself was a member for 5 months before I decided to go ahead and meet...I had my reasons, as all others may have too...ie, not on here often, work, having a life outside Fab, not obsessed with getting verified to name a few! | |||
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"I would never allow a total stranger make my mind up about who I meet." It's not just me then! | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20') took me 7 months to get my first meet... and i know that some people it takes longer than that..... assumptions are dangerous things to have..." 7 months!? My right arm will be like Popeye's if it takes me that long! I'm not in a massive rush but it does feel like waiting to lose my virginity all over again.As some have said the content of a verification may not be important-but I'd like it to be seen that I do actually meet! | |||
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"I would never allow a total stranger make my mind up about who I meet. It's not just me then! " Nope , us too | |||
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"Ok, lately ive had a few single guys message me and have noticed they have been on site a year and only had webcam verifications.....would you think thats either a) theyre not meeting and just after a sly one off the wrist on cam...or b) just bloody unlucky!! javascript:doSmilie('%20')" If i was to hazard a guess i would say they are very very ugly! | |||
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"And to add to this I'd arranged to meet a lady i think last week, we bad arranged a bar, so I got there, got a drink and sat down, she didn't show, it wasn't till the next day.that I found out she was.waiting outside and I was in side, these things happen" Yes, they do. I recall arranging a meet for 1pm, saying text me when you arrive as my office is literally a minute away. Ipm...nothing, so I assumed it was my first no show. 1.30 he texts asking if I'd changed my mind. He arrived at 12.45 and thought as I'd said 1pm I'd turn up at that time. When I didn't show he thought it was some sort of test - bless him - and didn't confirm he'd arrived. All well that ends well and a fun playmate! | |||
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"And to add to this I'd arranged to meet a lady i think last week, we bad arranged a bar, so I got there, got a drink and sat down, she didn't show, it wasn't till the next day.that I found out she was.waiting outside and I was in side, these things happen" Ya donut, didnt you think to go outside at some point, just in case? always best to meet outside, then you can stop them doing a runner | |||
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"What surprises me most is that it seems to be such an issue for some. If you see a profile you like what difference does it make if they have verifications or not?...if you don't like it why bother. Everyone on here has had someone take a 'leap of faith' when we had no verifications." Doesn't surprise me at all. I've come to understand that a lot of people on here will only meet someone if they've been verified by total strangers instead of finding out for themselves. Still unable to get my head around THAT one...buy hey ho! | |||
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"And to add to this I'd arranged to meet a lady i think last week, we bad arranged a bar, so I got there, got a drink and sat down, she didn't show, it wasn't till the next day.that I found out she was.waiting outside and I was in side, these things happen" Why did'nt you ring her or text her to say you were there? | |||
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"Could be a catch 22...tho I stand ready to be corrected ...I`m a newbie, so don`t really know.... It took a little while fer us to be taken seriously ..some suspicion etc ...but hey ..." the first veries are hard to get we found , we got ours through socials arranged by the site. we dont consider a"ive talked to this lady on the phone" a genuine verification ..or ive seen this couple on cam! we find the only people that verify couples and singles that readilly are the ones hoping they are for real | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been." How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been. How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? " I don't think so. | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been. How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? I don't think so. " I`m sure thats what happened when we received our verification (although it was some time ago now. | |||
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"Wahoo, verified" You seem to be putting a lot of stock on your verification. I hope you're not disappointed. Good luck! | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been. How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? " yes the green tick shows. It stays even if the person who gave the verification leaves the site. So someone may have been verified, they dont have a verification to actually display, but the green tick remains. | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been. How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? yes the green tick shows. It stays even if the person who gave the verification leaves the site. So someone may have been verified, they dont have a verification to actually display, but the green tick remains." That's all well and good but not the question. The question is 'do you have to do anything to make the verified tick show on your profile or does it just happen automatically when someone verifies you?' I think we all accept you can choose which, if any, verifications you show. | |||
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" That's all well and good but not the question. The question is 'do you have to do anything to make the verified tick show on your profile or does it just happen automatically when someone verifies you?' " And as I answered the green tick if you are verified... | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been. How???? If a profile is verified by a n other, correct me if i`m wrong. Doesn`t the green verification "tick" appear on the said profile regardless of if they wish to display that verification or not? yes the green tick shows. It stays even if the person who gave the verification leaves the site. So someone may have been verified, they dont have a verification to actually display, but the green tick remains. That's all well and good but not the question. The question is 'do you have to do anything to make the verified tick show on your profile or does it just happen automatically when someone verifies you?' I think we all accept you can choose which, if any, verifications you show." the green tick will not show until you click on the manage verification option and choose to read it | |||
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"Just because someone doesn't show their verifications or even that they've been verified doesn't mean they haven't been." Maybe your post was a little missleading, I read it as it was also an option not to show your verification "tick" if you so wished together with the verifications. Yes, everyone has the right to "hide" their verifications, as we do ourselves. | |||
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"There are an awful lot of unverified people meeting other unverified people some just like to keep out of the verification network altogether. " Oh no, not the "non-tick clique". | |||
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"There are an awful lot of unverified people meeting other unverified people some just like to keep out of the verification network altogether. Oh no, not the "non-tick clique". " yeah thats them - individuals | |||
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". The question is 'do you have to do anything to make the verified tick show on your profile or does it just happen automatically when someone verifies you?' the green tick will not show until you click on the manage verification option and choose to read it" Are you sure? I think it's the exact opposite.... the green tick appears as soon as the verification is left, regardless of whether the profile holder has read it or not. There was a young lad in the chat room at the weekend BEGGING everyone to give him a cam verification..... obviously hadn't read his own profile recently, as he had the green tick "verified genuine profile" | |||
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"Does feeling smug come with having verifications ? " Yup! *nods smugly* | |||
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"You're right sunny, the green tick appears intantly whether you have accepted it or not" That doesn't seem quite right somehow. It means there's something on your profile over which you have no control and, unless I'm mistaken, it's the only thing like that. | |||
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"You can't rule out aliens. They come here to observe us therefore are not interested in our 'earth meets'. Even if they do meet, you will never remember it, you will just wake up with a sore arse and an electronic beeping sound in your brain." I'm sorry but thats just hilarious | |||
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"You're right sunny, the green tick appears intantly whether you have accepted it or not That doesn't seem quite right somehow. It means there's something on your profile over which you have no control and, unless I'm mistaken, it's the only thing like that." Nope, wrong again, Mrs Eastshare`s on my profile, and I have absolutely no control over her. | |||
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"Wahoo, verified You seem to be putting a lot of stock on your verification. I hope you're not disappointed. Good luck!" Don't get it.... a lot of stock, I'm verified | |||
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