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"When you see this on a profile do you find it confusing, i do cos how the fuck do they meet, i am sure i will be enlightened by the forum users." it means you get a hotel within walking distance of them simple | |||
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"I dont drive so i meet people around the general manchester area. " wish you met couples | |||
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"When you see this on a profile do you find it confusing, i do cos how the fuck do they meet, i am sure i will be enlightened by the forum users." I sometimes struggle with the Countdown conundrum...... | |||
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"I am one of the don't accom don't travel profiles. The don't accom is easy, I do not have people to my family home. The don't travel bit means I won't go to Scotland for a shag but I will travel to my local swingers club. Others may only use public transport of taxis so will go across town but not 50 miles away. Pretty simple when you think about it really." Not always. You clearly spell it out in your profile but some others don't. 100 yards or 100 miles is still travel so unless made clear in profiles it can be ambiguous. Of course it is always a talking point and may lead to a meet once the intent is clearly understood. | |||
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"I am one of the don't accom don't travel profiles. The don't accom is easy, I do not have people to my family home. The don't travel bit means I won't go to Scotland for a shag but I will travel to my local swingers club. Others may only use public transport of taxis so will go across town but not 50 miles away. Pretty simple when you think about it really. Not always. You clearly spell it out in your profile but some others don't. 100 yards or 100 miles is still travel so unless made clear in profiles it can be ambiguous. Of course it is always a talking point and may lead to a meet once the intent is clearly understood." Not really. That's like saying I travel to go over the corner shop or round the back to take out the bins. Travelling implies a reasonable distance is covered not walking to the other end of the street. | |||
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"Local hotel or someone else local who can accommodate. -Courtney " | |||
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"When you see this on a profile do you find it confusing, i do cos how the fuck do they meet, i am sure i will be enlightened by the forum users." I just skip past their profile or if they message they get a no thanks. Just sounds like to much hastle xxxxx | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why?" Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. " That's generally what happens in the " real" world, except that you usually have to buy dinner etc too: so if that's not required; you are quids in; and in Swinger mode, lots of ladies share their part of the hotel costs, and deal with their own transport costs. Despite all that; I often have dinner with a meet ( before or after - or at " half time"!). And many ladies happen to offer to go halves on that too . | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. That's generally what happens in the " real" world, except that you usually have to buy dinner etc too: so if that's not required; you are quids in; and in Swinger mode, lots of ladies share their part of the hotel costs, and deal with their own transport costs. Despite all that; I often have dinner with a meet ( before or after - or at " half time"!). And many ladies happen to offer to go halves on that too . " If you can't accommodate or travel, then you have to be adaptable! | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. " If I thought for a minute that a meet was expecting to get a free night out I wouldn't be meeting them at all. | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. If I thought for a minute that a meet was expecting to get a free night out I wouldn't be meeting them at all. " Though there are people like that on fabs... | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. " It's a bit of an assumption to make and more reflective of the type of women they're choosing to message then. Nobody pays my way, and I wouldn't get in a car with anyone I didn't know well either! | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. " Exactly my thoughts... | |||
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"I see it as it's going to be an expensive meet Why? Because more often than not, guys are expected to foot the bill. For example: drive to meet's location, book a hotel and collect the meet from meet point. Sad but that's what some are expecting. Exactly my thoughts... " I wouldnt meet them then. Its split halfway here or in vanilla | |||
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"Perhaps it would make sense to have more options on the profile? Hotel meets only, local meets only perhaps?" I don't see how that helps. It doesn't change that i can't travel or accommodate. If someone can't work out what that means then i really don't think we'll get on | |||
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"Perhaps it would make sense to have more options on the profile? Hotel meets only, local meets only perhaps? I don't see how that helps. It doesn't change that i can't travel or accommodate. If someone can't work out what that means then i really don't think we'll get on " | |||
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"Maybe we just need more options than yes or no, such as Yes, no, not meeting, hotel or elsewhere only for accom And no, yes and a few options for travel, like up to 5 miles, up to 30, up to 150, countrywide etc. " A very sensible response. | |||
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"I've met people who don't drive....they have in the extreme, travelled over 100 miles by train! Others too have used train or buses etc..." But some people don't want to. I'm quite aware of public transport. | |||
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"I don't drive so I'll travel for men I've got to know and trust. I'm happy to go halves on a hotel in my city too but again until I trust you, you're not coming to my yard." Its bery confusing makes me wonder if i am going to beamed on to a space ship | |||
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"When you see this on a profile do you find it confusing, i do cos how the fuck do they meet, i am sure i will be enlightened by the forum users." tramps... | |||
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"Can't accommodate - I don't want you round my house/I have kids at home! Can't travel - I'm too tight to pay to get to see you. Both = I am more than happy for you to pay for a hotel room, and lunch, or dinner, or both .......but not breakfast, there will probably be no breakfast Personally, I would hate that - a meet doesn't guarantee sex for me, and if someone had paid for a hotel room, I would feel pretty bad if the click fairy didn't visit " That's not my understanding or experience, thankfully. | |||
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"Can't accommodate - I don't want you round my house/I have kids at home! Can't travel - I'm too tight to pay to get to see you. Both = I am more than happy for you to pay for a hotel room, and lunch, or dinner, or both .......but not breakfast, there will probably be no breakfast Personally, I would hate that - a meet doesn't guarantee sex for me, and if someone had paid for a hotel room, I would feel pretty bad if the click fairy didn't visit That's not my understanding or experience, thankfully. " Hey ho go with the flow | |||
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