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By *issy Nickers OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Does anyone else find fbs think they can borrow money off you because you're fucking? I seem to attract these sort of men and am wondering if other people find this?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never. They wouldn't be a regular fuck for long if they asked, either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never lend money to anyone, not even my own family.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Any guy would be soon advised that I am poorer than a church mouse, so its pointless asking me for cash.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had this experience and ended it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

That would be a fun avatar though..

But no. I will split a bill for food/hotel but thats it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

No swipping their card through my arse cheeks, that is for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither a borrower nor a lender be"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and we would give each other the money if the other was desperate but doubt either of us would ask the other

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange?

That would be a fun avatar though..

But no. I will split a bill for food/hotel but thats it"

Totally get the food and hotel thing, my parents taught me to pay my way and offer to pay for things and if they refuse then accept graciously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never lend money out, instead I just buy people things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No id never lend money to anyone who wasn't a family member or very close friend. But then I don't lend them money, if they need it I will either give it to them with no strings or buy them the essentials they need (I.e. do their weekly shop)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't & wouldn't! Send them to Wonga!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Never lend what you can't afford to give away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

Arse To Mouth!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange?

That would be a fun avatar though..

But no. I will split a bill for food/hotel but thats it"

I always go halves on food/hotels too x

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By *issy Nickers OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks all - I'll go half on hotels etc but this latest fb is taking the piss. Move him along...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think some guys think of you;re older and single you're sitting on a divorce settlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all - I'll go half on hotels etc but this latest fb is taking the piss. Move him along..."

Sounds like he is, don't let anyone do that

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"No swipping their card through my arse cheeks, that is for sure "

Time for an upgrade; it's all contactless these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

I thought I was on the cock tattoo thread again lmao

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By *ary baileyCouple
over a year ago

basildon

Really omg. Never ever i lent money to a 3 year longterm swing friend. Conned me big time.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Thanks all - I'll go half on hotels etc but this latest fb is taking the piss. Move him along..."

Hey I'm free

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The only folks I'd lend money to wouldn't ask me ..

I learnt the hard way money loaned to 'friends' causes problems with the friendship.

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By *issy Nickers OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

Checked flange and definitely doesn't take cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No swipping their card through my arse cheeks, that is for sure

Time for an upgrade; it's all contactless these days"

Good good...no barecarding

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By *st 1972Man
over a year ago

Kingswinford


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

I thought ATM involved the backside not the flange

Some cheeky sods around on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental note to steer clear of anyone op has met!!

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By *issy Nickers OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mental note to steer clear of anyone op has met!! "

It's ok my veris showing are from good people! One in particular deleted his account in a strop

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

Best opening reply ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol OP what kind of losers are you swinging with block delete and never repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mental note to steer clear of anyone op has met!!

It's ok my veris showing are from good people! One in particular deleted his account in a strop "

Well i know at least one is a good guy

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

guy enters a bank to see about getting a business Loan.

"What kind of business do you want to start?" asks the bank manager.

"I have some black powder. You sprinkle it on a woman's vagina and it makes it taste like a peach."

"I don't think we can give you a Loan." The banker replied.

So the guy left. A few months later he went into the bank with a wheel barrow filled with money.

The same bank manager said, "Congratulations, I guess that idea for black powder really paid off."

"Nah, that didn't go anywhere. I made my money with this white powder."

"Really?" replied the bank manager. "What does it do?"

"Give me a peach and I'll show you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pauper compared to my buddies,no danger of them asking me for money

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oh, Ruggers withdrew her comment which I was going to quote and add to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope id be wary if they did. Happy to pay halves infact i insist on it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm from Yorkshire so id never let my money go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close friends and family would get my last penny.

But not some random or a fb not a chance in hell.

I always split costs it would feel bad mannered not to.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"guy enters a bank to see about getting a business Loan.

"What kind of business do you want to start?" asks the bank manager.

"I have some black powder. You sprinkle it on a woman's vagina and it makes it taste like a peach."

"I don't think we can give you a Loan." The banker replied.

So the guy left. A few months later he went into the bank with a wheel barrow filled with money.

The same bank manager said, "Congratulations, I guess that idea for black powder really paid off."

"Nah, that didn't go anywhere. I made my money with this white powder."

"Really?" replied the bank manager. "What does it do?"

"Give me a peach and I'll show you""

bit random but ok

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Any spare change for the blind govna !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Does anyone else find fbs think they can borrow money off you because you're fucking? I seem to attract these sort of men and am wondering if other people find this? "
no, never has a fuckbuddy asked to borrow money.

I go halves on stuff. If they haven't got the money to be swinging then they shouldn't swing

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I fell for it in the past and unfortunately got ripped off by a playmate from here.

I have learnt my lesson then it won't happen again.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Shame on them. Personally I wouldn't have the nerve, lack of self respect or the audacity. Tell them where to go.

Him

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'll pay for services rendered, if he has a professional trade and I can't find someone - unlikely.

Otherwise lending money - the simple word 'no' is all it takes.

If you get it a few times op, consider what it is you're doing that invites this. The type of person, time of day you meet or behavior etc. The answer is still no, however many tears their sob story is meant to squeeze from your pretty eyes.

Consider meeting somewhere else, such as them getting a hotel or at a club, if anyone may make you feel pressured.

Keep no money on you and steer clear of guys who seem down on their luck somehow.

If they want drinks, supply tap water.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does anyone else find fbs think they can borrow money off you because you're fucking? I seem to attract these sort of men and am wondering if other people find this? "

What makes them think they can? My own kids don't ask, so sure as fuck wouldn't be subbing a stranger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll pay for services rendered, if he has a professional trade and I can't find someone - unlikely.

Otherwise lending money - the simple word 'no' is all it takes.

If you get it a few times op, consider what it is you're doing that invites this. The type of person, time of day you meet or behavior etc. The answer is still no, however many tears their sob story is meant to squeeze from your pretty eyes.

Consider meeting somewhere else, such as them getting a hotel or at a club, if anyone may make you feel pressured.

Keep no money on you and steer clear of guys who seem down on their luck somehow.

If they want drinks, supply tap water. "

Tap water?!

Everything else fine, but I couldn't give a guest just tap water. Seems so tight.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Time to get rid. I learned the hard way about lending money to friends. I'd never ask a fb for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my meets lent me the money to buy petrol to get home after my wallet fell out of my pants on the m6 on the way down lol

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By *inky karen 2Woman
over a year ago

East sussex


"No tell them to fuck off do you have ATM written across your flange? "

This is why I love you

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