FabSwingers.com forum: would you want to meet a slut?

By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im deffo a slut mmmmmm x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't meet someone who called me slut, some women like it some don't. I'm one that doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

For instance - at a party I went to before Christmas there was a really good looking guy who I liked the look of immediately! However - during the course of the night I saw him play with woman after woman that he'd shared barely a sentence with! When I walked past him later and he invited me to play he was genuinely shocked when I turned him down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sluts are fun

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"I wouldn't meet someone who called me slut, some women like it some don't. I'm one that doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a fucking trick question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet someone who called me slut, some women like it some don't. I'm one that doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just someone nice and normal ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?"

What is your definition of a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes someone a slut ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my playmates to play like a slut! I don't see it as a bad thing just fun is all!

Some like and some don't! All personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

and the fact I'm no man's slut.....instant turn off (for me) to be called one

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a fucking trick question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

Curious as to what made you turn him down... As surely it showed he was a confident male and others were enjoying his company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define slut

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

I'm glad you stood to your morals, not may if any do on here but it is a sex site after all. If someone leads with their cock, fanny or tits then you can't really expect anything less can you?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Someone can call themselves a slut, and if I fancied them, I would meet them. I would not call myself a slut, I certainly wouldn't appreciate anyone calling my wife a slut.

I wouldn't call anyone on this site a slut.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not only met 1 but I married her

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

Ah well Peachy thats my point to some extent and one of the reasons i dont tend to do parties. I will regrade to conservative slut.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Is this a fucking trick question?

You won't find it on Eggheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

Curious as to what made you turn him down... As surely it showed he was a confident male and others were enjoying his company"

Good question!

The only way I can answer it is that I don't like mechanical sex or 'sex for its own sake'! I like to get to know someone a little and have mind-blowing sex with them! Being at the end of some kind of 'shagging production line' does nothing for me!

I've no right to call him a slut though, admittedly, and didn't insult him in any way - just turned him down politely!

The swinging world is diverse and people are free to sleep with as many people as they wish - but I'm more comfortable with men and couples who, like me, prefer to get to know people a little before they have sex with them. To me it simply makes the sex far better!

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

What is your definition of a slut? "

Hey i asked you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Princess in the streets and a whore between the sheets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

I'm glad you stood to your morals, not may if any do on here but it is a sex site after all. If someone leads with their cock, fanny or tits then you can't really expect anything less can you?"

Yep - I can! There all types of people on fab! That's the beauty of it! I've met loads of brilliant people on here who are happy to get to know me for a few hours before we have bloody amazing sex - and many of them have become good friends too!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

I'm glad you stood to your morals, not may if any do on here but it is a sex site after all. If someone leads with their cock, fanny or tits then you can't really expect anything less can you?

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Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't like the term slut or its use, everyone on here is looking for something different and how we choose to behave whilst using this site is totally different to how we are in real-life.

So talk the talk as long as you can walk the walk I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general I wouldn't want to be called a slut to be honest

As I'm a swinger and have a high sex drive I consider myself a dirty horny slut which I am I don't mind I guy fucking me and calling me his slut I actually love it

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Am I a slut myself? No. I would have no problem meeting a slut, who am I to judge another person? It may be different in a relationship but would depend on circumstances.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?"

I don't think I am a slut at all.... If anyone ever called me a slut, they would certainly see another side to me, believe me nobody wants to see that side .... Slut and slag are the most derogatory words in the English language which I hate with a passion....

Yes we swap partners and have sex with guys, we are swingers for goodness sake, that's what we do....don't ever, ever call me a slut though xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a meet would do doesn't have to be a slut been a couple of months now. Even my old nosey arse hole of a neighbour is starting to look fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not only met 1 but I married her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be horrified if someone called me a slut. It's not a term I like at all. (And I mention it on my profile)

Like Peach, I wouldn't play with someone who moves around person after person in one night, no.

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Not only met 1 but I married her

You married my ex wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the word at all its derogatory to me.

I wouldnt meet someone who thought i was one, because they clearly dont get the game.....and are probably being conpletely hypocritical.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

A slut is one who fucks more than one person and goes on to fuck a previous fuck and fucks others along along the way.

Oh wtf am I saying?

And oh yeah, it has a feminine sound to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?"

I don't believe in shaming someone for their sexual appetite and I think calling them a slut is a negative, so wouldn't choose to use that term, but I do understand what you mean.

My preference is for repeat meets rather than one offs- so not sure how to qualify that?!

Is it as in quantity of sexual encounters, or as in quantity of different partners??

If the former then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut. "

I'm on Fab but I doubt that anyone would ever have any reason to call me a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who will shag anyone, anytime and does not discriminate is not an attractive person imho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very interested reading this as I worry that if anyone knew I was on here and why I'd be called a slut or a slag

It's nice to know I can be myself and not be judged here!!

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I'm very interested reading this as I worry that if anyone knew I was on here and why I'd be called a slut or a slag

It's nice to know I can be myself and not be judged here!!"

Everyone knows you curious you live in wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slut noun [C] (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN)

› slang disapproving a woman who has ?sexual ?relationships with a lot of men without any ?emotional ?involvement

Based on the above I don't see how anyone here can actually be a slut. Part of Swinging is casual sex without emotional involvement. And we all approve of the act of non emotional casual sex. I have not found a definition classing it as somone being easy with no standards.

It also specifically states a women. This mans no man by definition in the English dictionary can be called a slut.

There is however a second definition

slut noun [C] (LAZY WOMAN)

› UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually ?untidy and ?lazy

I have never known it to be used in this way perhaps the two definitions over time have crossed paths

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"slut noun [C] (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN)

› slang disapproving a woman who has ?sexual ?relationships with a lot of men without any ?emotional ?involvement

It also specifically states a women. This mans no man by definition in the English dictionary can be called a slut.

There is however a second definition

slut noun [C] (LAZY WOMAN)

› UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually ?untidy and ?lazy

I have never known it to be used in this way perhaps the two definitions over time have crossed paths

Yes but i asked for personal definition not the dictionaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not slut

i may be on here but i do have morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a slut but I have met a manwhore

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't judge someone on there past sexual encounters. Let's face it we all love sex that's why we're here. Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"slut noun [C] (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN)

› slang disapproving a woman who has ?sexual ?relationships with a lot of men without any ?emotional ?involvement

It also specifically states a women. This mans no man by definition in the English dictionary can be called a slut.

There is however a second definition

slut noun [C] (LAZY WOMAN)

› UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually ?untidy and ?lazy

I have never known it to be used in this way perhaps the two definitions over time have crossed paths

Yes but i asked for personal definition not the dictionaries."

People's personal definition is the reason people get offend by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name the the time and place and ill be there

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I wouldn't judge someone on there past sexual encounters. Let's face it we all love sex that's why we're here. Xxxxxx"

You are quite bold. Many would deny it with their last breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't judge someone on there past sexual encounters. Let's face it we all love sex that's why we're here. Xxxxxx

You are quite bold. Many would deny it with their last breath"

I think you just inadvertently....

no never mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on the dictionary's definition can you call your self a slut if you disapprove of your own actions?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I still don't understand why a woman who enjoys sex with a variety of partners is called a derogatory name (I know people are trying to reclaim it but lets be honest, most people who call women sluts are other women), but a man who does the same is considered some kind of hero.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I still don't understand why a woman who enjoys sex with a variety of partners is called a derogatory name (I know people are trying to reclaim it but lets be honest, most people who call women sluts are other women), but a man who does the same is considered some kind of hero."

Not often I agree with you.

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Not often I agree with you.

Man name calling never womans domain

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm more of a tart than a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a slut but I have met a manwhore

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thanks a lot gyppo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree!

And I totally admit, when I'm at parties I will play with most of the men, men who I might have turned down if a private one on one meet! Its a party! So there! Think of me as you will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a generic word within this lifestyle...no offence intended by its use and meant in a complimentary way..again within the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a slut when playing.. but that's my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?"

I prefer the term manwhore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

I prefer the term manwhore

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"im deffo a slut mmmmmm x

I am 1000% a slut...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've been known to enjoy this lifestyle. I'm not into name calling though, infantile drivel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to use this word in any way. It's not for me judge others on their past experiences.

If you are lucky enough to meet a person who is willing to play with, don't worry yourself about past sexual relationships. Just be happy that you are fucking them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For most people don't like the word. I think it's a great turn on for both of us. We use it and I. Love it specially as I am one and love getting punished for being one

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?"

Yes, yes and yes, every day of the week and twice on Sundays!

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By *ollarCouple
over a year ago

granthamo

"Actually Phil I think I'm NOT a slut - and I wouldn't go with a guy I thought was a slut!

Curious as to what made you turn him down... As surely it showed he was a confident male and others were enjoying his company

Good question!

I've no right to call him a slut though, admittedly, and didn't insult him in any way - just turned him down politely!

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

Yes, yes and yes, every day of the week and twice on Sundays!

So perhaps i should have asked whore or slut?

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

Yes, yes and yes, every day of the week and twice on Sundays!

So perhaps i should have asked whore or slut?"

Now that is a different question!

The answer being just because I am a slut does not mean I am a whore!

I would go further and say being a slut is about flaunting sexuality and being promiscuous (I am promiscuous), while being a whore is about doing something you dislike purely for gain, I think a lot of people think (wrongly) that sluts are whores who do it for free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate derogatory names, if a guy called me a slut I'd smack the lips off his face.

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do you?

Yes, yes and yes, every day of the week and twice on Sundays!

So perhaps i should have asked whore or slut?

Now that is a different question!

The answer being just because I am a slut does not mean I am a whore!

Well thats sorted that confusion out, i think!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I don't think the word 'slut' has any real meaning. It's a judgemental word.

If you like to have sex with lots of different people, that's your choice. There doesn't need to be a label for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male or female would you want to meet a slut, that is, someone by your defination is a slut? By the same definition would the average person on fab be a slut.

I think that i am a slut, do

Yes we swap partners and have sex with guys, we are swingers for goodness sake, that's what we do....don't ever, ever call me a slut though xxxx

In total agreement with you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut, noun, a woman who has many casual partners.

There are of course other meanings and views on this word.

I don't see it as a derogatory word and neither do some women I hang around with. I know people who happily call themselves a 'Slut' and use the word with pride and empowerment. Fuck what society has done with the word and whether it's used as an insult or not. Why can't women have many causal partners be proud of their sexuality? Take back the word and use it with pride sisters!

During role play and dirty talk I have/ had partners who love to be called it, especially cum slut and anal slut etc. And why not. It's only a word. To answer the question I'll happy fuck and currently do fuck women who have multiple partners and encourage them to do so. As long as everyone is careful, gets tested and is having fun then yay. Sluts are fucking awesome.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I don't think the word 'slut' has any real meaning. It's a judgemental word.

If you like to have sex with lots of different people, that's your choice. There doesn't need to be a label for it. "

I think a lot of our words - and some attitudes - are leftovers from bygone eras. And they were typically misogynistic, attempting to shame people.

Today I'm just a happy good time girl. I love how many of us are very comfortable enjoying our passion for sexual exhilaration and sharing our freedom.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I don't think the word 'slut' has any real meaning. It's a judgemental word.

If you like to have sex with lots of different people, that's your choice. There doesn't need to be a label for it. "

Exactly how I feel xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh I'm no slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone refers to Miss C as a 'slut' or any other derogatory term she would instantly be turned off....or smack them in the face!

I guess its a question of personal preference. We don't like the thought of being treated like meat so those type of terms are a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone refers to Miss C as a 'slut' or any other derogatory term she would instantly be turned off....or smack them in the face!

I guess its a question of personal preference. We don't like the thought of being treated like meat so those type of terms are a turn off."

quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think R.A. Heinlein summed it up nicely:

"A true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires."

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I think R.A. Heinlein summed it up nicely:

"A true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires."

Get em off wench then off we go to luncheon

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