FabSwingers.com forum: one meet and no more.

By *eeDee25 OP Woman
over a year ago

crook

I find this happens a lot. Guys message me for a meet then move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes alot guys on here are like that but without sounding awful this is a swinging site and not match.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are your expectations?

Perhaps you weren't what they wanted, but they only realised after the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do the same lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

An awful lot of guys I meet seem to find a girlfriend just afterwards.

Its the ones who I meet and who keep saying they want to meet again but are never free for a meet when I message them that get me cross. Either fess up or fuck off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

it's the nature of the site. If you want regular meets put it on your profile I don't say this will work but lots of men seem to indicate that they want more than one off too.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never meet with the intention of it being just once but if they want to come back then that's good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be a fine thing

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a shit shag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa"

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Remember, a man will always tell you he had a great time and you give great head etc even if you're a shit shag. His continual return demonstrates his true thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And lots of men on here feed you shit to get a lay we have come across when we asked for a reg bloke for the wife all they wanted really was a one off shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa"

What if the sex is great, but afterwards she shouts "I'll cut your fucking cock off if you come near me ever again"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

That's so true must be a lot of shit stags on here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa"

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets "

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I rarely meet the same bloke twice, if they weren't that good 1st time round I'm not going to waste my time giving them another go. If I enjoyed myself then yes.

*Not saying they think you are a crap shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to."

Maybe the people she meets also choose not to.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What is a good fuck though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to."

Dave is always good for repeats

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to.

Maybe the people she meets also choose not to. "

Aaaaand we're back to "shit shag".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a good fuck though? "

Could be a number things to that question we all have own ideas to what we call a good fuck

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"What is a good fuck though? "

The opposite to a bad one?

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

What if the sex is great, but afterwards she shouts "I'll cut your fucking cock off if you come near me ever again"?"
I doubt that would actually happen

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What is a good fuck though? "

I know it when I feel it

Getting to feel it is the challenge on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have a crap meet, we don't want a second for obvious reasons.

If we have a great meet, we don't want a second in case it doesn't match the first.

Variety is the spice of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet with the intention it will be more than once but I make that abundantly clear when we chat.

Sometimes it's works out that way sometimes it doesn't ~ bloody logistics more than anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are here because they just want an anonymous person to spice up their relationship. Some for one off fun. Some like to get to know the people they play with. All are valid providing everyone is happy with the arrangement.

Communication about intent is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I on my singles profile tend to meet the same guys often. Depends on the guy. But I was always upfront about wanting regular guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me. Some want to meet again and I don't.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"What is a good fuck though?

The opposite to a bad one?

No shit Sherlock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably think it's the luck of the draw whether they want a repeat and goes for all

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

But doesn't good sex grow over time, I know I'm not no porn star and I don't want to me I'm now questioning myself whether I'm a shit shag, however my mojo left me a while back and it's just returned so I guess I'm just getting back in the saddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's becoming more of a challenge to find a regular friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But doesn't good sex grow over time, I know I'm not no porn star and I don't want to me I'm now questioning myself whether I'm a shit shag, however my mojo left me a while back and it's just returned so I guess I'm just getting back in the saddle

Dam I wish I was that horse you were on

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'd be more than happy to assist you in getting back into your stirrups and give you an in-depth written report on your performance.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd be more than happy to assist you in getting back into your stirrups and give you an in-depth written report on your performance."

Will we have a score board?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can have awesome sex the first time. I've always believed the best sex you can have comes from knowing the person a long time and getting to know each others bodies.

A really good fuck makes me cry!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'd be more than happy to assist you in getting back into your stirrups and give you an in-depth written report on your performance.

Will we have a score board?

Headboard scoreboard, potatoes patartoes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Have you experimented with those guys that you do a social meet with first and those without op?

Is there a running theme (no pun intended) with the type of guys that you meet? Eg, how long they've been on fab, their relationship status etc?

Consider varying things a bit, to see what changes, if anything.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Some people can have awesome sex the first time. I've always believed the best sex you can have comes from knowing the person a long time and getting to know each others bodies.

A really good fuck makes me cry!"

There is only one man I've had awesome sex with like I said I need to get back in the saddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to."

.maybe the people the op meets are like us... And I was pointing out that just because someone maybe good doesn't mean you will keep meeting ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rare I meet anyone just once as I prefer regular meets

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"If a woman is a good fuck the bloke always returns for more and visa versa

No matter how good we prefer in general to meet new people x

We sometimes bump into the same people or are friends with them... But rarely repeat meets

Yeah, but the OP wants repeats and isn't getting them, you choose not to.

.maybe the people the op meets are like us... And I was pointing out that just because someone maybe good doesn't mean you will keep meeting ...

Perhaps... I'm still going with the shit shag theory though.

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