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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Other than attention. Is ther any other reason why anyone,and it's normally women, announce that they will be shortly leaving the site?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Why do you say it's normally women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To prevent people asking why?

Ads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because their hubbys find out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not just women, it seems pretty equal. Can't see anything wrong with putting a ?little goodbye thread and then leaving but it gets to the point where some of the goodbye threads are so long and drawn out they last longer than the people are away

Then the circle of welcome back threads start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who say they're leaving at least twice a week, or have a ranty status about how shit this place is (actually, that one tends to be men)...they're looking for attention. Some of the others, and they may well be in a minority, it's just to let people know who they've chatted with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you say it's normally women?"

Erm, because it's normally women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can.

Next question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no reason to leave, it is a free site lol.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd say the leaving threads are pretty gender balanced, to be honest. People post them for various reasons, I'm sure. I think the main ones are:

One because they've enjoyed forum banter and genuinely want to say goodbye.

Two because they want a mic drop toys out of the pram moment because they have been slighted (or feel like they have). Sometimes that one comes with a veiled 'fuck you' to someone specific.

Three because they're having a fab wobble and want everyone to pile on and reassure them they ought to stay.

That's just my opinion. If I ever leave and decide to post one on the way out I'll have to rejoin just to answer the question categorically, I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely a lot of I am leaving people, stay..

Go just go.

Dont announce it simply, Fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than attention. Is ther any other reason why anyone,and it's normally women, announce that they will be shortly leaving the site?"

and you're posting because?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no reason to leave, it is a free site lol."

Some people get into relationships away from the site... some people get bored of the scene... some people choose not to swing any more. There's lots of reasons to leave.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The stroppy 'I'm leaving' posts are usually men because they've found out they're not the irresistible lothario they always thought they were. Women tend to leave because they've met someone regular.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I go I will just go cause when I do go I won't be back and because it would seriously freak me out people talking about me like I was dead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is the odd one that puts in their update that they're informing friends but its more often along the lines of 'This site is shit, i'm going'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To say au revoir to people they have been conversing with over the years. That's the only reason I would do it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Men do it to say good bye to people they have interacted with, or the hope that someone will pity fuck them in an attempt to ease the pain of not being capable of getting a shag on a sex site...

Women, I guess for the same reason to say bye to people they have interacted with, or a hissy fit because the bad men have been horrid and they MAY not have utilised the site tools to minimise that pain..... and /or drama

and more reasons

they are very easily ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was ever to leave here I'd post a thread to say goodbye because I like the people. The only thing that would make me leave though is if I found myself a boyfriend and I would obviously share how I managed to trap him.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

To be fair I've been here that long I feel I've made some real friends on here so if I was going to leave and I'm not I think I'd put a thread up to say good bye

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Why do you say it's normally women?

Erm, because it's normally women"

Is it that you only see the women's updates?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too say bye

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