FabSwingers.com forum: Help me

By *usiness guy OP Man
over a year ago

Ulster

Good evening, I know you fabbers are probably thinking what a nutter I am, but I don't care! That's how desperate I am, but totally genuine. I've been on fab for 5 months, no meets or real genuine contact been had despite trying and being polite and respectful also. Can all you genuine kind fabbers please give me some advice about my profile and what I should do. I'm not into real group parties but am a very fun, outgoing guy in stalker environments once I get to know folk. I've no experience at all and would love to gain some with a first time couple also. Sorry for my desperation! But thank you in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a stalker environment??! You need some pics my lovely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Profile is ok but could be better, you need some pictures though.

Day time meets only narrows the field considerably.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not many people will go beyond photos and profile. You need both to be top notch. Then follow up with good messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation is rarely sexy

Positivity, confidence and self respect might not get you the meets you seek initially, but they will interest people far more than 'woe is me'

Remember, people are here for 'fun'

If you sound like you could be hard work, most will zone out before even reading all your profile.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

The fact you don't accommodate will rule you out for alot of people straight away . As will that you do only day time meets .

Personally I'd avoid any meet as screams to me attached/married and cheating. I may well be wrong ,and if so then I'd consider a brief reason why you only meet during the day ect would help.

If I'm not wrong, then best fess up and at least people will have the chance to make a proper informed decision about meeting .

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Day time meets, can't accommodate and no pics we'd guess married and lots won't meet cheats.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Agree with the others you definitely need pics and not just cock pics. Your age range is quite small which will exclude a lot of people.

Not sure if there are any clubs near you, but you could try a club xx

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo needs pics - and youre asking for people equally as new to the scene as yourself - all in the same boat - get to socials and be seen -- meet some folk locally that way and get verified - its a start

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

People can give you feedback on your other thread in the Advice forum so Ill close this one

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