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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You called?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ...plenty on here! !!!...also called up their own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

There are rude and arrogant people everywhere, of every gender. Fab is no different.

However...

Some guys always think that women who don't want to meet them are up themselves, the problem couldn't possibly be them not fitting the lady's preference or not being appealing to said lady, because they're absolutely perfect!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this l

ight. What's the _iews on this?"

there is a lot of women like that on here and guys i suppose but having said that there are some lovely chatty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are - some aren't. it's life.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?"

I'd say that a few ladies (maybe 1 in 6 or so) are like this.

I had a lady a few weeks ago give me a right roasting for not 'giving her the attention she deserves' (her exact words). She explained that hundreds of men love her and that I should be paying a lot more attention to her if i was expecting to have sex with her!

This sort of thing happens some times.

Ofcourse, it was an instant, "thank you very much hun, you're not my type" from me... Followed by a block from her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness us men out number women by millions 2 1 , if a single women was to give the same amount of attention to every bloke on fab they wouldn't even get time to eat let alone have sex with any of them , of course some folk not just single women are a bit stuck up , I find it quite good tbh , I like the chase I am a predator , king of the jungle :p

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I question any one not being self important in this game, you may be foolish not being......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?"

I've hardly ever had shitty messages on here but the ones i have had came from guys i haven't replied to instantly. They're the ones with illusions of grandeur...like i should reply to them the instant they demand attention. Fuck those guys, they're knobs.

I do not do the 'polite' thing and reply to guys i have no interest in either. If i am up my own arse then i'm happier up here than out of it and replying to every single guy who thinks he's entitled to a reply.

People have their reasons for doing what they do on here and i'm sure lack of communication makes it confusing for some people to understand why. But people have reasons for hiding how they work on here so that others can't get round their selection process.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

I've hardly ever had shitty messages on here but the ones i have had came from guys i haven't replied to instantly. They're the ones with illusions of grandeur...like i should reply to them the instant they demand attention. Fuck those guys, they're knobs.

I do not do the 'polite' thing and reply to guys i have no interest in either. If i am up my own arse then i'm happier up here than out of it and replying to every single guy who thinks he's entitled to a reply.

People have their reasons for doing what they do on here and i'm sure lack of communication makes it confusing for some people to understand why. But people have reasons for hiding how they work on here so that others can't get round their selection process.

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I have heard this a lot even away from fab , I don't get why some blokes do it though ?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I started this single fem profile to meet women on my own but soon gave up on that idea as it was just too much hassle, they talk a good game but that is it.... like many single men in many ways

So have given up with the ladies, I don't have the time or the patience to play silly games, if they feel they are deserving of more than I am willing to give then good luck to them, I wish them well.

Right now where's the sausagefest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand women who are up their own arse.....its so restrictive....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I question any one not being self important in this game, you may be foolish not being......"

A wise observation.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014. "

Not true at all! I've chatted with you and you're lovely. X

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

One or two might be; just as in real life;

Others are very " direct". That's OK with me; but a lot of men can't cope with women who are direct ; usually because they lack self confidence or are insecure; and want women to be subservient. ( not in a sexual sub/ Dom way; that's a different matter.)

The majority are just normal women.

Other men are " up themselves " and think that they are god's gift, when they aren't .... And then get all bitter when they are knocked back.

And of course, given the ratio of men to women, then the women can be choosy ; the equivalent of a " buyer's market" for them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

I've hardly ever had shitty messages on here but the ones i have had came from guys i haven't replied to instantly. They're the ones with illusions of grandeur...like i should reply to them the instant they demand attention. Fuck those guys, they're knobs.

I do not do the 'polite' thing and reply to guys i have no interest in either. If i am up my own arse then i'm happier up here than out of it and replying to every single guy who thinks he's entitled to a reply.

People have their reasons for doing what they do on here and i'm sure lack of communication makes it confusing for some people to understand why. But people have reasons for hiding how they work on here so that others can't get round their selection process.

I have heard this a lot even away from fab , I don't get why some blokes do it though ? "

I get why they do it. Just fucking impolite, impatient, demanding, abusive even, and think that anyone with a profile on the internet is available for them. They don't understand the meaning of mutual either.

That's not how people are. They put themselves out there in the hope of finding what they want and it's not gonna be every single guy looking for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

I'd say that a few ladies (maybe 1 in 6 or so) are like this.

I had a lady a few weeks ago give me a right roasting for not 'giving her the attention she deserves' (her exact words). She explained that hundreds of men love her and that I should be paying a lot more attention to her if i was expecting to have sex with her!

This sort of thing happens some times.

Ofcourse, it was an instant, "thank you very much hun, you're not my type" from me... Followed by a block from her!"

Good luck to her being like that rude woman!!.

And yes I find loads on here like that no idea why as no one is any better than anyone else at all.

I can't stand the 'oh I'm so much better than you' tones in some comments.

Or some of the sly digs I've seen to other women on here which they clearly have issue with.

the women trying to make a point that they have been with someone make me chuckle So what seriously get over it he will when he's fucking someone else.

Half the comments I've seen on here from women to women they wouldn't dare say if sat in the same room so why bother on here?.

It goes the same for msgs I try to reply to everyone even if I don't fancy the guy manners cost nothing and to be honest rather have a decent conversation with a nice fella that the 'fancy a fuck' love type.

But I guess some don't do that as here for there own reasons.

Hey ho such is life, hope your all having a nice Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that due to the ratio of men to women on here and the amount of smoke blown up birds arse holes *some* women might get an over inflated ego. But that being said, must never ever knock a fellow female cos we must never turn on each other.

I'm arrogant in real life and on here so I'm not doing any harm.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014.

Not true at all! I've chatted with you and you're lovely. X"

Damn! Busted

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*pulls head out of arse*

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't promote yourself do you think anyone else is going to do it for you?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I do try to reply to as many unsolicited messages as possible, even if it's, 'thanks, but no thanks'. Even though it states on my profile that I am not meeting anyone new,. Most times I get a polite thanks back, but sometimes I receive a load of abuse - result sender blocked.

Yes, I can be up my own arse when someone hasn't bothered to write a half decent message and all I get is Hi or How you or the classic, Wanna fuck. In these cases, am I up my own Arse?

YOU BET I AM X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation, I think some statuses should come with a snickers bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are rude and arrogant people everywhere, of every gender. Fab is no different.

However...

Some guys always think that women who don't want to meet them are up themselves, the problem couldn't possibly be them not fitting the lady's preference or not being appealing to said lady, because they're absolutely perfect! "

Unfortunately, in this world, nobody is perfect.

There are a few, however, that come pretty close to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been told 'I'm up my own arse' on many occasions I've given up worrying about what light other people see me in, I know I'm a good person.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, the only way they are it, is cos the site is swamped with men, if the ratio would be much lower, don't think they would be it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, the only way they are it, is cos the site is swamped with men, if the ratio would be much lower, don't think they would be it lol."

Don't necessarily agree with you there. I'm guilty of many of the things above aimed at the arrogant females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time I've been told I'm up my own arse is when I've been messaged by single guys from couple profiles.

I've asked them why they are contacting me and told them I've reported the profile.

Apparently that makes me "up my own arse ". Oh dear never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think all the ladies of fab are lovely; genuine and accepting..

Except the arrogant guys pretendin to be arrogant girls on fake profiles

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That's lots of women like it on here, there's a lot of women not like it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014. "

Lmao, you definitely don't look like a bottom dweller to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally.....id rather be up my own arse than anyone elses....might never find my way back down other wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I have always found people in the forums to be rather jolly. Always friendly and up for a chuckle.

I am sure there are some.women on the site and men too who hold them selves in high esteem.

Though chatting to my female chums on here , they get so many messages from men it would be a full time job just replying.

I work on the principle, if I send a message and no reply. Then that person is not interested and move on .

Best way to be , just enjoy the site for what it is and don't worry about people who don't find you attractive their age limits dont meet your age

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"To be honest I have always found people in the forums to be rather jolly. Always friendly and up for a chuckle."

This bit made me laugh!!!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I think many start to believe their own hype and string you along, while they wait for a better offer to come along. Not that we care, we fuck eachother regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to get crucified for this...but

It's a British female trait, you see a good percentage of women in the UK walking around as if they are gods gift. The majority of whom are scruffy, or badly made up, out of shape with their noses in the air and a self belief of over-inflated attractiveness that they don't deserve.

Go to the USA, Italy, Scandinavia, Russia etc. The women are more approachable, better dressed, stylish, demure, elegant, more well groomed, more polite, less arrogant...the list goes on.

On the flip side there are some beautiful people out there in the UK who's personalities outshine appearance or they have great attitude, but as a rule, I prefer other culture's female attitudes.

Just my opinion...for what it's worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

I suppose for some women, considering many get a zillion messages a day from men trying to sleep with them it's easy at first to let it go to your head, hence the inflated ego. When 50 guys coming onto you every day becomes an everyday thing it's kind of unsurprising.

All the women I've spoken to have been lovely, though! Haven't seen anything like that. (Or maybe the ones like that look down on me enough to ignore me entirely, heh!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014. "

Did you have to pay for the advertisement on this page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found the the women on the forum to be quite chatty to be honest

I suppose it depends on your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people that have ever said I'm up my own arse are those who I have either not replied to.. Or said they are not for me...

Funny that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say some women are up their own arses - I'm not convinced they're talking about ladies who aren't interested in sleeping with them!

My interpretation is that they mean the ones with the demanding, arrogant profiles, some of which are downright narcissistic, which ask for virtual perfection but offer very little in return!

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

It's a sellers market.

The women here can afford to be arrogany and choosy. There's another 10 messages to reply to after yours....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only times I'm arrogant and up my own is when people don't read profile and assume just because you are on fab you want to fuck anything with a pulse. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I usually give more time, attention and care to each person contacting me than they - usually single guys - have to me. I am fairly typical of the single females here and feel we all largely deserve to be in the Queens honours list, for our services to mankind.

All genders have people who feel entitled, up their own arses etc. Spend more of your energy invested in being thoughtful and attentive than projecting the reasons for being dissatisfied onto others. You are as good, or as good, as you allow yourself to be. Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are rude and arrogant people everywhere, of every gender. Fab is no different.

However...

Some guys always think that women who don't want to meet them are up themselves, the problem couldn't possibly be them not fitting the lady's preference or not being appealing to said lady, because they're absolutely perfect! "

Never a truer word said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are rude and arrogant people everywhere, of every gender. Fab is no different.

However...

Some guys always think that women who don't want to meet them are up themselves, the problem couldn't possibly be them not fitting the lady's preference or not being appealing to said lady, because they're absolutely perfect!

Never a truer word said "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to get crucified for this...but

It's a British female trait, you see a good percentage of women in the UK walking around as if they are gods gift. The majority of whom are scruffy, or badly made up, out of shape with their noses in the air and a self belief of over-inflated attractiveness that they don't deserve.

Go to the USA, Italy, Scandinavia, Russia etc. The women are more approachable, better dressed, stylish, demure, elegant, more well groomed, more polite, less arrogant...the list goes on.

On the flip side there are some beautiful people out there in the UK who's personalities outshine appearance or they have great attitude, but as a rule, I prefer other culture's female attitudes.

Just my opinion...for what it's worth "

Sorry but mass generilisation there. In your experience maybe but i disagree x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Gaaarrhhhnnn!!! geddardavit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to get crucified for this...but

It's a British female trait, you see a good percentage of women in the UK walking around as if they are gods gift. The majority of whom are scruffy, or badly made up, out of shape with their noses in the air and a self belief of over-inflated attractiveness that they don't deserve.

Go to the USA, Italy, Scandinavia, Russia etc. The women are more approachable, better dressed, stylish, demure, elegant, more well groomed, more polite, less arrogant...the list goes on.

On the flip side there are some beautiful people out there in the UK who's personalities outshine appearance or they have great attitude, but as a rule, I prefer other culture's female attitudes.

Just my opinion...for what it's worth "

How many sweeping generalisations can you possibly make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014. "

Only 2014? Amateur.......

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read quite a few female profiles and thought who the hell would want to meet a woman like that?? Then I look at the verifications and go ahhh,those kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also disagree. On my travels, I have met with a fair share of varying cultures. All places I've visited, have had a mixture of both modest and arrogant people. Yes, both men and women.

Although our experiences give us a basis to form our thoughts and future actions, we should be open minded. Don't single out a large group of women based on a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!"

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status?? "

Looking as good as your pics, you may be able to claim that status

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status?? "

No, you need the holy trinity. In your case you also have a fantastic arse so Alleluia, your deification is complete.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status?? "

Might do but some of em aint even dainty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status??

No, you need the holy trinity. In your case you also have a fantastic arse so Alleluia, your deification is complete. "

Yay! Go me.....do i get a crown ...or maybe some wings... or something??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!"

Speaking for all women are you?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status??

No, you need the holy trinity. In your case you also have a fantastic arse so Alleluia, your deification is complete.

Yay! Go me.....do i get a crown ...or maybe some wings... or something?? "

Ask, and ye shall receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

You mean that doesn't elevate me to deity status??

No, you need the holy trinity. In your case you also have a fantastic arse so Alleluia, your deification is complete.

Yay! Go me.....do i get a crown ...or maybe some wings... or something?? "

I believe it's a halo and a set of wings. They are in the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From now on you shall address me Goddess of Seduction

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"You see its they believe they are gods because.......... they have boobs n pussy!

Speaking for all women are you?"

No only the ones that the cap fits (or is it crown)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From now on you shall address me Goddess of Seduction

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That's sounds strangely hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen a few demanding profiles and ive read many posts from guys complaining of this.

We dont expect guys to jump through hoops to meet us. If we like you and we have free time to indulge then we will.

However I dont suffer fools. I dont do demands from others and I dont care how I come across to others as im not changing anything. This will be ok to some, and will be obnoxious to others.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I went on a date recently where the man was so arrogant I made my excuses after 20 mins and left.

His profile (on a dating site) was charming.

So, lesson is, profile might be arrogant pish and person is lovely, or vice versa, or the person really is an arrogant knob. Profiles really don't give enough away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not up anyone's arse, let alone my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From now on you shall address me Goddess of Seduction

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Profile name change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just women there are single guys and couples who think they are something special

you just have to spend a couple of hours browsing the forums to realize this

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Just don,t let them bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not just women there are single guys and couples who think they are something special

you just have to spend a couple of hours browsing the forums to realize this "

Some of us are special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not just women there are single guys and couples who think they are something special

you just have to spend a couple of hours browsing the forums to realize this

Some of us are special "

Really, really, special

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

There are men, women and TV/TS that are full of their own importance. Just move on as there are plenty that are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the ones that don't reply that annoy me, that's taken as a "no thank you".

It's the ones who do reply or who post in the forum and you think , Someone's been reading their own press again. inflated egos are never a pretty thing in any walk of life (male & females included here)

Ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it simply a case as someone pointed out to me and I quote: 'its a woman's world on this site and any dating site and women will always hold all the aces where sex is concerned. Some women abuse this power however'.

I think there's a grain of truth in that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it simply a case as someone pointed out to me and I quote: 'its a woman's world on this site and any dating site and women will always hold all the aces where sex is concerned. Some women abuse this power however'.

I think there's a grain of truth in that...."

Maybe.....

But then some men should fuel their fire just to get sex.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

If I receive a one-liner, I delete

If I am not attracted to him, I delete

If he doesn't fit my requirements, I delete

If that makes me arrogant, then guess what; I don't give two hoots, here or anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to get crucified for this...but

It's a British female trait, you see a good percentage of women in the UK walking around as if they are gods gift. The majority of whom are scruffy, or badly made up, out of shape with their noses in the air and a self belief of over-inflated attractiveness that they don't deserve.

Go to the USA, Italy, Scandinavia, Russia etc. The women are more approachable, better dressed, stylish, demure, elegant, more well groomed, more polite, less arrogant...the list goes on.

On the flip side there are some beautiful people out there in the UK who's personalities outshine appearance or they have great attitude, but as a rule, I prefer other culture's female attitudes.

Just my opinion...for what it's worth

How many sweeping generalisations can you possibly make?"

You're all a bunch of wankers?

Any woman that doesn't reply is gay

All other men (competition)are gay or bi

All muslims are terrorists..or own shops

All men with asian girlfriends have laid for them

Blondes have more fun

Daily mail readers are arseholes (possibly true)

Sun readers are thick (possibly true)

MPs are cnuts (actually true)..

I could go on

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014.

Lmao, you definitely don't look like a bottom dweller to me "

Seriously, I'm so aloof...

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Seduced: Proud sponsor of being "up my own arse" since 2014.

Only 2014? Amateur....... "

How are you even speaking to me? Man know your place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep ...plenty on here! !!!...also called up their own arse "

I've been on and off fab over the past 3 years... And can absolutely say I'm guilty of having a rant about pompous women on fab. And not because they don't reply to your first message. I usually find they will chat arrange a meet or two and never turn up, or normally approach you but are absolute rotters, you decline politely and they go off on one about how I should be grateful of their interest.... It appears that there is this belief that men on fab won't turn women down....ive turned several down, for various reasons. There are I'm sure men here who are equally as arrogant.... Thank fuck for the BLOCK button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?"
every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this! "

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult! "

I thought that was a typo then!

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult!

I thought that was a typo then! "

now that I read it back it sounds stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very humble and truly grateful for any male attention I receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult! "
forgot about you lol your an exception

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Ban em!

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult! forgot about you lol your an exception "

How could you forget me *strops off in huff

There are lots of lovely Scottish women, you must be talking to the wrong ones

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I love these posts.. rejection leaves a bitter taste. However it's best to just move on.

I think there see lots of lovely people on here you just need to have the patience to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult! forgot about you lol your an exception

How could you forget me *strops off in huff

There are lots of lovely Scottish women, you must be talking to the wrong ones "

I agree. My second mum is a lively Scottish woman, as is her daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this!

Don't bother lumping me in with that Cult! forgot about you lol your an exception

How could you forget me *strops off in huff

There are lots of lovely Scottish women, you must be talking to the wrong ones "
foolish of me to ever forget you, "hangs head in shame" I must be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i think im more of the humble type

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"There are rude and arrogant people everywhere, of every gender. Fab is no different.

However...

Some guys always think that women who don't want to meet them are up themselves, the problem couldn't possibly be them not fitting the lady's preference or not being appealing to said lady, because they're absolutely perfect! "

This

It happens

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole

Deal with it fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x

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By *dog0215Man
over a year ago

east mids

Yeah a few rude women on here I have had the misfortune to come into contact with.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x"

I agree that this happens with some

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

every woman in Scotland that is on fab is like this! "

The forums are so useful for finding out what people are really like to save you the bother of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it simply a case as someone pointed out to me and I quote: 'its a woman's world on this site and any dating site and women will always hold all the aces where sex is concerned. Some women abuse this power however'.

I think there's a grain of truth in that...."

The power is not inate, any man who chooses to give a woman that power over him should question himself not her.

Different people have different experiences, but I genuinely wouldn't swop being a single guy on here with a single women's experience. Some of the women handle it better than others but that's one of the reasons some women are more attractive than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?

I've hardly ever had shitty messages on here but the ones i have had came from guys i haven't replied to instantly. They're the ones with illusions of grandeur...like i should reply to them the instant they demand attention. Fuck those guys, they're knobs.

I do not do the 'polite' thing and reply to guys i have no interest in either. If i am up my own arse then i'm happier up here than out of it and replying to every single guy who thinks he's entitled to a reply.

People have their reasons for doing what they do on here and i'm sure lack of communication makes it confusing for some people to understand why. But people have reasons for hiding how they work on here so that others can't get round their selection process.

"

Took the words out my mouth. People get arrogance mixed up with someone not fitting my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x"

This

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I would post here, but this thread isn't popular enough to dignify an appearance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it simply a case as someone pointed out to me and I quote: 'its a woman's world on this site and any dating site and women will always hold all the aces where sex is concerned. Some women abuse this power however'.

I think there's a grain of truth in that....

The power is not inate, any man who chooses to give a woman that power over him should question himself not her.

"

This.

And for the purposes of the thread...any ladies (in this example) who this thread is referring to need to apply the caveat that for all the 'you are so amazing blah blah' messages they are sent, the majority are sent purely by guys who are horny and want sex. Preferably now. Take that primal hormone driven urge away and you are just another set of pixels.

But it all depends how you want to play the game...

Other examples are available. Just trying to keep on topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would post here, but this thread isn't popular enough to dignify an appearance "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x"

What about women like me that are a little bit arrogant anyway and were before they joined this site and have all filters on so no bastard can message me unless I message them first? I don't get any of the fancy a fuck messages or you're the sexiest bird I've ever seen bollocks. Do I have an over inflated ego because of the attention I get on here? No because I don't get attention as nobody can contact me, my ego was big before I ever joined here and I think compliments from guys are as much use as tits on a frog.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x

What about women like me that are a little bit arrogant anyway and were before they joined this site and have all filters on so no bastard can message me unless I message them first? I don't get any of the fancy a fuck messages or you're the sexiest bird I've ever seen bollocks. Do I have an over inflated ego because of the attention I get on here? No because I don't get attention as nobody can contact me, my ego was big before I ever joined here and I think compliments from guys are as much use as tits on a frog. "

Ban em and give frogs tits!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x

What about women like me that are a little bit arrogant anyway and were before they joined this site and have all filters on so no bastard can message me unless I message them first? I don't get any of the fancy a fuck messages or you're the sexiest bird I've ever seen bollocks. Do I have an over inflated ego because of the attention I get on here? No because I don't get attention as nobody can contact me, my ego was big before I ever joined here and I think compliments from guys are as much use as tits on a frog. "

Me thinks the male frogs would like some female frog tits to suck on. Or even a froggy tit wank. Poor Kermit he's had to make do with Miss Piggy's pig tits for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block and move on sometimes i just read their profile and think nah then block just to make sure we never cross paths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen some right demanding and diva -like statuses/profiles on here so yup!

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x

What about women like me that are a little bit arrogant anyway and were before they joined this site and have all filters on so no bastard can message me unless I message them first? I don't get any of the fancy a fuck messages or you're the sexiest bird I've ever seen bollocks. Do I have an over inflated ego because of the attention I get on here? No because I don't get attention as nobody can contact me, my ego was big before I ever joined here and I think compliments from guys are as much use as tits on a frog.

Me thinks the male frogs would like some female frog tits to suck on. Or even a froggy tit wank. Poor Kermit he's had to make do with Miss Piggy's pig tits for years. "

What's green and smells of Pork?

KERMIT'S FINGERS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very much an issue on here without a way to address it, many of the ladies have discovered Fab and maybe for the first time in their lives they are getting lots of attention, this has an effect on them in that they can become intolerant, angry and develop an inflated ego, this is driven by the messages they recieve, so maybe the "wanna fuck?" Messages need to be toned down along with the "you're the sexiest lady I've ever seen" nonsense x

What about women like me that are a little bit arrogant anyway and were before they joined this site and have all filters on so no bastard can message me unless I message them first? I don't get any of the fancy a fuck messages or you're the sexiest bird I've ever seen bollocks. Do I have an over inflated ego because of the attention I get on here? No because I don't get attention as nobody can contact me, my ego was big before I ever joined here and I think compliments from guys are as much use as tits on a frog. "

I'll count myself lucky then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some VERY rude, arrogant women on here, but also men too.

Id looked at a female profile, just being nosey, and received a mail say saying 'how dare i look at her 'sexy'profile, and that i have no chance with her, and who do i think i am', so i pity any poor guy mailing her.

However, i also received a mail from a bloke telling me im missing out on his cock as its the biggest and widest cock on fab!!

Block and delete is all you can do, then get back out and enjoy yourself x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've read some women's profiles and am appalled..they still get meets though. Maybe the guys want to show they're that good they passed all the criteria.

I try not to be arrogant. I just carry on in my own little corner of fab in my own way having fun. If guys don't like me they can pass..I hate drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I found one of the biggest ones today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogant men who message me although they don't fit what my profile asks for

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I can honestly say there are some arrogant women on here but there are also some amazing women on here that I have met and spoken to.

Not everyone can be classed the same that would be unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read some women's profiles and am appalled..they still get meets though. Maybe the guys want to show they're that good they passed all the criteria.

"

Or maybe they are just desperate to fuck. I have seen that the more desperate a guy is to get a meet the more hoops they are willing to jump through..but also the likelihood of them jumping through hoops for all and sundry increases. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only message people with simple profiles that don't put the world to rights I mean this is supposed to be fun right

But I do get that women her get bombarded with messages everyday so I totally understand when I don't get a reply after all people don't spend their whole day on here do they

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I only message people with simple profiles that don't put the world to rights I mean this is supposed to be fun right

But I do get that women her get bombarded with messages everyday so I totally understand when I don't get a reply after all people don't spend their whole day on here do they "

Yes you have to put in the hours to get that that all important yearly meet

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress."

That is very concise and to the point. What are your double standards?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

That is very concise and to the point. What are your double standards?"

We probably have many but most people don't notice when they apply double standards, otherwise they wouldn't. It would be interesting to know what ours are.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

That is very concise and to the point. What are your double standards?

We probably have many but most people don't notice when they apply double standards, otherwise they wouldn't. It would be interesting to know what ours are."

Can't help, don't know you.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

That is very concise and to the point. What are your double standards?

We probably have many but most people don't notice when they apply double standards, otherwise they wouldn't. It would be interesting to know what ours are.

Can't help, don't know you."

What use is that??

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

That is very concise and to the point. What are your double standards?

We probably have many but most people don't notice when they apply double standards, otherwise they wouldn't. It would be interesting to know what ours are.

Can't help, don't know you.

What use is that?? "

I know honesry wasted concept

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over a year ago


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress."

You're just assuming people will only say things on here because they can hide behind a screen sort of thing. I don't say things to impress people or show off, definitely don't suppress any of my character traits and I would say exactly the same thing to someone's face as I would on here. If I net one one and they weren't my type in the flesh I'd say but in the nicest possible way and try and make out the fault is with me rather than them, the only thing in harsh about face to face is cock size because I say to guys before I meet them that I only want cocks a certain size, if I meet them in the flesh and they present me with a penis that's too small my fucking head goes because at the point of meeting I would have stressed so many times about how important penis size is to me and some punks just try and chance it and think I'll change my mind seems as they're there. No mate I won't.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Our experience is that in the forums, yes, many women fall into this category, but in person and meeting etc. women tend to be much less objectionable.

Many women (and men for that matter) exhibit blatant double standards and sexism especially on the forums, and that can be off putting for many. It is a shame because double standards and hypocrisy are very unedifying traits and make people seem very unpleasant. I wonder if the forums are worse because there is an air of detachment as you are a) showing off to others and b)not usually speaking directly to someone which means some may feel able to exhibit some of their base traits which they would otherwise see fit to suppress.

You're just assuming people will only say things on here because they can hide behind a screen sort of thing. I don't say things to impress people or show off, definitely don't suppress any of my character traits and I would say exactly the same thing to someone's face as I would on here. If I net one one and they weren't my type in the flesh I'd say but in the nicest possible way and try and make out the fault is with me rather than them, the only thing in harsh about face to face is cock size because I say to guys before I meet them that I only want cocks a certain size, if I meet them in the flesh and they present me with a penis that's too small my fucking head goes because at the point of meeting I would have stressed so many times about how important penis size is to me and some punks just try and chance it and think I'll change my mind seems as they're there. No mate I won't. "

No. I was not saying that all people act in the same way. Obviously that can never be true. I was giving an example of something which is common.

Your anecdote is how you would act which is different and part of your personality.

It doesn't invalidate what I wrote. What I wrote just does not apply across all humans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No. I was not saying that all people act in the same way. Obviously that can never be true. I was giving an example of something which is common.

Your anecdote is how you would act which is different and part of your personality.

It doesn't invalidate what I wrote. What I wrote just does not apply across all humans. "

Yeah I see what you mean and I wasn't tying to be argumentative or unkind, just don't like being lumped together with everyone else. I'm unique!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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No. I was not saying that all people act in the same way. Obviously that can never be true. I was giving an example of something which is common.

Your anecdote is how you would act which is different and part of your personality.

It doesn't invalidate what I wrote. What I wrote just does not apply across all humans.

Yeah I see what you mean and I wasn't tying to be argumentative or unkind, just don't like being lumped together with everyone else. I'm unique! "

That is undeniable.

We choose our words carefully as it is wrong to define an entire gender or race with one sentence. It is very difficult to do and not indulge in crass generalisations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, i'd rather have arrogant people on here, instead of those insecure people who are constantly seeking out validation or fabs or compliments (or all 3).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, i'd rather have arrogant people on here, instead of those insecure people who are constantly seeking out validation or fabs or compliments (or all 3).

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Good point! I'd rather have neither though personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many typos so start again! Quite a few guys have stated to me that many ladies on fab are arrogant with delusions of grandeur! Presumably because they have declined to chat? Does anyone agree that many fab ladies are like this? I appreciate all messages and would hate anyone to see me in this light. What's the _iews on this?"

Be yourself and don't worry about what others think.

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over a year ago


"Tbh, i'd rather have arrogant people on here, instead of those insecure people who are constantly seeking out validation or fabs or compliments (or all 3).

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Do you think my profile is OK? Can you fab my pics please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, i'd rather have arrogant people on here, instead of those insecure people who are constantly seeking out validation or fabs or compliments (or all 3).

Do you think my profile is OK? Can you fab my pics please "

Lol, stop that.

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By *ztec101Man
over a year ago

durham

Who gives a fuck u sad bastards lol x

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By *at and his pussyMan
over a year ago

keighley


"You called?

-Courtney "

Haha that's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had the pleasure of meeting one. I lost her as she retreated further into her own ass !

It was a very nice ass tho

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Just had the pleasure of meeting one. I lost her as she retreated further into her own ass !

It was a very nice ass tho "

Tits, pussy and vanish up their own arses, magical

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Who gives a fuck u sad bastards lol x"

And the prize for the best most subtly nuanced troll of the day goes to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had the pleasure of meeting one. I lost her as she retreated further into her own ass !

It was a very nice ass tho "

No it wasnt...i was put off by the bareback anal pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine that with the huge amount of mail the majority of females will get,it's difficult not to be a bit arrogant,choosy,or whatever you want to call it...

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

"

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

"

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

They do get them..I have friends who will attest to it..generally from guys who are home and horny and just want a hole...

Thats why my advice is generally to crack one off before you start messaging. So then you are using the correct brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

Make a female profile and then see the messages you get. Feel free to use one of my pictures but any decent looking big dick guys refer them to my profile, you can be my pa,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance"

Make a female profile and then see the messages you get. Feel free to use one of my pictures but any decent looking big dick guys refer them to my profile, you can be my pa, "

Aw you beat me to it Seawitch - I was just going to make the same 'offer'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

I rarely feel compelled to say this - but you're a bit of a plonker really, aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've started to read this thread and lost the will a few times now. So succinctly...

1) Some women are arrogant. If you don't like it, don't message them.

2) Some women are needy. If you don't like it don't message them.

3) Some women have busy inboxes. If you don't like it...

I can see a theme developing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance"

Make a female profile and then see the messages you get. Feel free to use one of my pictures but any decent looking big dick guys refer them to my profile, you can be my pa, "

Don't even need to do this only on fab. Do it on any site ever, anywhere, where men can message women. Try kik, skype, facebook, games sites, anything.

Make sure your profile states single female and you're good to go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of them that's for sure, same as there is men and same as there is couples, it's a site based on inflated egos and high _iews of self importance, don't know why you're surprised op

Mr

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

Oh how I wish it was non existent and just our female imagination ! Why do you doubt these type of messages are sent? Do you think the large majority of ladies on here are in a conspiracy, and started this as an urban legend perhaps? ?

I'm afraid you can't imagine the types of "messages" that get sent on here .There are even single guys that have seen some of the messages ladies get and has been an eye opener for them .

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


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Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

I get mine from imaginary guys in my imaginary inbox every imaginary day

But I don't reply. I imagine my reply instead

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance"

I rarely feel compelled to say this - but you're a bit of a plonker really, aren't you? "

Yes Peachy you know best!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"If....

Knowing what I want and not being swayed from that.

Not replying to "wanna fuck " or my trucks going to be parked ..type messages

Having zero tolerance of any abuse.

Having self worth .

Any of those makes me up my own arse then I'm entirely happy to embrace that label .

Where do women get this "wanna fuck" imaginary message from. I bet it just doesn't exist and is just all part of the "arrogance""

From the fuglies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its still annoying though, that when i say "sorry not my type" i'm subjected to a torrent of foul mouthed rants by women on fab.

As i previously pointed out i am by no means Bradd Pitt however, i do know what i like and do not like. I wouldn't speak to these sort of women in real life, so i am only being consistent and exercising my right to say "NO"... Why do some women feel that men should feel grateful for there advances ????...

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