FabSwingers.com forum: Women who are unhappy with their inbox

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have always wondered why so many women don’t start the ball rolling. So many sit back and wait to see who messages them and then go with one of them who seems the best.

But why?

Is it because you are inherently lazy?

Is it because you are shy?

Is it because you lack confidence in yourself and have such low self esteem that you don’t message for fear of rejection?

I have to ask because you see over and over and over again women complaining about messages sent to them being this or that. Guys only sending a phone no, messages from out of your area, messages from out of your age range, uys sending a generic message etc.

Well as I see it the answer is so easy yet you don’t do it.

First you block all single males. This stops all the crap in your in box.

Second you search for what YOU want not what is offered.

Thirdly you mail the men who appeal to you not the ones who mail you.

This isn’t that complicated!, It would solve half of your problems when you are unhappy over the messages they get.

Wake up and smell the coffee, empower your self!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women will get 100's of messages regardless of how they conduct themselves - it's just a fact of life.

How they conduct their account is no business of mine or anybody elses for that matter.

Don't really see the problem, here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women will get 100's of messages regardless of how they conduct themselves - it's just a fact of life.

How they conduct their account is no business of mine or anybody elses for that matter.

Don't really see the problem, here"

Then we differ in our point of view which isn't common an a forum.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm clearly too lazy.

I just reply to people who contact me. Occasionally I do rake through profiles but to be honest, there aren't many men who bother to fill it in with anything of interest. I appreciate there are exceptions to that but they're in the minority.

But I don't moan about it. Sometimes I'll make a comment when other people do or give an example of the shite that passes through my inbox but generally I'm capable of deleting/blocking/replying as and when I see fit. I don't care how other people swing. That's entirely up to them. If they want to whinge about it and it makes them feel better then who am I to say that they shouldn't? I'm quite happy to drop in some sarcasm or a witty comment but I don't think slating other people for their choices is a good way to behave. I just potter along and do what works (or doesn't work) for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta be honest ive always made the first move wich i kindda like really.If the lady is interested they will msg me back,trouble is this hardly ever happens,so either i need to change my msgs or im plain bloody ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm clearly too lazy.

That's a good way of viewing it. There is nothing wrong with being lazy, you just might miss out on some males more suited to you who haven't mailed you that's all. But if it works for you and you don't feel the need to put up threads complaining about your inbox then i can't fault that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any so not a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol "

That might be how you think it is but do you think every male who mails you is desperate? I rarely meet people who mail me. I would rather seek men who fit my personal tastes, you will be surprised at how many will say yes to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"gotta be honest ive always made the first move wich i kindda like really.If the lady is interested they will msg me back,trouble is this hardly ever happens,so either i need to change my msgs or im plain bloody ugly lol"

But if a woman messaged you first you wouldn't be complaining though? Or would you and would you think she was being desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always wondered why so many women don’t start the ball rolling. So many sit back and wait to see who messages them and then go with one of them who seems the best.

But why?

Is it because you are inherently lazy?

Is it because you are shy?

Is it because you lack confidence in yourself and have such low self esteem that you don’t message for fear of rejection?

Well as I see it the answer is so easy yet you don’t do it.

First you block all single males. This stops all the crap in your in box.

Second you search for what YOU want not what is offered.

Thirdly you mail the men who appeal to you not the ones who mail you.

This isn’t that complicated!, It would solve half of your problems when you are unhappy over the messages they get.

Wake up and smell the coffee, empower your self!

pure logic in my opinion, well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general, if I want to meet a single guy. I'll contact him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly its not quite as easy as just using the single male filter unless you've used it from the start, because once you've replied with a no thanks they become immune to it.

Would be good to see an option to reset filters.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I have always wondered why so many women don’t start the ball rolling. So many sit back and wait to see who messages them and then go with one of them who seems the best.

But why?

Is it because you are inherently lazy?

Is it because you are shy?

Is it because you lack confidence in yourself and have such low self esteem that you don’t message for fear of rejection?

Well as I see it the answer is so easy yet you don’t do it.

First you block all single males. This stops all the crap in your in box.

Second you search for what YOU want not what is offered.

Thirdly you mail the men who appeal to you not the ones who mail you.

This isn’t that complicated!, It would solve half of your problems when you are unhappy over the messages they get.

Wake up and smell the coffee, empower your self!

Ahhh but then those who are seeking a confidence boost by buying into the facade that they are desired by so many (all be it wankers), would not get their ego fix.... and they would have to face up to..... the dreaded knock back!... which might bring a few back down to earth in Muntershire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if a woman messaged you first you wouldn't be complaining though? Or would you and would you think she was being desperate? "
I would be very happy and would asume she was actually likeing what she has read and seen,so i would definately meet up .

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"In general, if I want to meet a single guy. I'll contact him

*waits by inbox clutching airline tickets*

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Ahhh but then those who are seeking a confidence boost by buying into the facade that they are desired by so many (all be it wankers), would not get their ego fix.... and they would have to face up to..... the dreaded knock back!... which might bring a few back down to earth in Muntershire."

PMSL You crack me up Polo, tremendous!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I agree with Queen Bee and im laughing at what Polo said

I think if you know what you like and you know what you're looking for then get out there and find it

I have no problems mailing someone that I like the look of everynow and then and Ill never moan about the ones that mail me even if they're not suitable I have a ad on a swinging site im going to get messages

I wonder if the ones that moan all the time about the unsuitablity of the messages they get would prefer an empty inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always wondered why so many women don’t start the ball rolling. So many sit back and wait to see who messages them and then go with one of them who seems the best.

But why?

Is it because you are inherently lazy?

Is it because you are shy?

Is it because you lack confidence in yourself and have such low self esteem that you don’t message for fear of rejection?

Well as I see it the answer is so easy yet you don’t do it.

First you block all single males. This stops all the crap in your in box.

Second you search for what YOU want not what is offered.

Thirdly you mail the men who appeal to you not the ones who mail you.

This isn’t that complicated!, It would solve half of your problems when you are unhappy over the messages they get.

Wake up and smell the coffee, empower your self!

Sheer class! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't search profiles or message men, and it has nothing to do with being lazy.

On this site finding a man that has "sub" on his profile is as rare as hen's teeth. So I wait for them to contact me.

It's the same on all the sites I'm on, and the "specialist" sites...well...the sub men there are usually a little too extreme for me, and that's saying something.

I sit and wait like a Venus Flytrap...I don't have to move a muscle really...and I have more playmates than I have time to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I sit and wait like a Venus Flytrap... "

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't search profiles or message men, and it has nothing to do with being lazy.

On this site finding a man that has "sub" on his profile is as rare as hen's teeth. So I wait for them to contact me.

It's the same on all the sites I'm on, and the "specialist" sites...well...the sub men there are usually a little too extreme for me, and that's saying something.

I sit and wait like a Venus Flytrap...I don't have to move a muscle really...and I have more playmates than I have time to play with!

Don't you ever go looking for the innocent and corrupt them? Granted most males on here will not put submissive on their profiles and often it can be less time consuming filtering out the dross but seeking out and bending a good looking male to my will is lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol "

Confidence in a women is very attractive to most guys. It must be so easy to sit and sift through messages hoping to come across one you like so I understand why most would just do that, but some women are confident enough to 'pitch'. I think it says a lot about them as individuals and their mindset.

Also the fact that they approach may effect their attitude when being approached.

That said I suppose some guys would find it intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol

oh i still send mail to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't search profiles or message men, and it has nothing to do with being lazy.

On this site finding a man that has "sub" on his profile is as rare as hen's teeth. So I wait for them to contact me.

It's the same on all the sites I'm on, and the "specialist" sites...well...the sub men there are usually a little too extreme for me, and that's saying something.

I sit and wait like a Venus Flytrap...I don't have to move a muscle really...and I have more playmates than I have time to play with!

No, to me it would be akin to a bi male contacting a man with straight on his status. You know they're not all straight, but hot damn, what a lot of wasted time contacting one on the off chance.

Nope, my Venus Flytrap method works a treat. I get the new and nervous as well as the experienced and confident...win/win for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol

oh i still send mail to men

And why not! You can look through profiles and in 90% of the time find someone who you find more appealing than the ones who have mailed you. On here its not the women who are desperate and the men know it. Often they are more extremely happy you contacted them first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't search profiles or message men, and it has nothing to do with being lazy.

On this site finding a man that has "sub" on his profile is as rare as hen's teeth. So I wait for them to contact me.

It's the same on all the sites I'm on, and the "specialist" sites...well...the sub men there are usually a little too extreme for me, and that's saying something.

I sit and wait like a Venus Flytrap...I don't have to move a muscle really...and I have more playmates than I have time to play with!

No, to me it would be akin to a bi male contacting a man with straight on his status. You know they're not all straight, but hot damn, what a lot of wasted time contacting one on the off chance.

Nope, my Venus Flytrap method works a treat. I get the new and nervous as well as the experienced and confident...win/win for me!

Well i don't see you moaning about your messages so it must be. Some of the nervous ones who make contact can be so much fun to take on a path of discovery don't you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of mail 100s a week here i dont put blocks on people so get all sorts and can never tell who i may like .... if i go on my web cam in chat rooms i can get over 100 mail a day.... looking a reading them all is a long job at times .. but i read everyone ..... I am a very confident woman love people and really very rear i find people here intimidating on this site .... We have to be who we are end of the day i am a flirty fun loving woman just having fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its pretty simple why women dont message on here ..its because they dont need to and they havent got the time to after wading through the millionth male message of hi nice tits fancy a shag ..from a no pic male under the delusion and illusion that women on here are desperate.... Ive been on here for over a year and i can say hand on heart that ive messaged no more than 5 fems as its a pretty pointless exercise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL You crack me up Polo, tremendous!

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We love her for it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laughed at this at first, then was slightly saddened by the thought that some completely believe the 'facade'.

Another gem from Polo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regarding a post ..why would a man find it intimidating to be messaged by a woman on here i dont get that my mind boggles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive messaged first myself at times, some of the guys though seem to act then as though your desperate lol

I agree with you there the ones I've met I've actually mailed them. As you said you know what you want they don't. Well some men seem to think they do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect..Made us laugh.

Single female friend's feigning with " I logged in & had 50 new messages!"

So many thinking it & perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reply to that its much safer on the site than in real life rejections cool and less painfull than pulling yr nuts back down after some ladeee has kneed u in em or stuck her stilletoe in your head lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I laughed at this at first, then was slightly saddened by the thought that some completely believe the 'facade'.

Another gem from Polo. "

I did smile when I read it too but also felt the twinge of the truth in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muntershire love it x let's add chavshire and mingershire to that. All lovely counties

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

No one takes me seriously! I add a valid point and you feckers start laughing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laughed at this at first, then was slightly saddened by the thought that some completely believe the 'facade'.

Another gem from Polo. "

The facade is why I don't even open 98% of messages and why I message people I want to meet direct. It's easier, saves me time and means I can get on with meeting folks I'm pretty sure I'll have fun with

Stress free and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one takes me seriously! I add a valid point and you feckers start laughing!

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you made a good point x and we laugh as we wish we had writen that , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one takes me seriously! I add a valid point and you feckers start laughing!

you made a good point x and we laugh as we wish we had writen that , lol"

Too right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laughed at this at first, then was slightly saddened by the thought that some completely believe the 'facade'.

Another gem from Polo.

Stress free and simple

Only simple if your confident.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I'm sure we have all had messages from people saying I know you'll delete my message as I'm not your type but thought I'd try anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laughed at this at first, then was slightly saddened by the thought that some completely believe the 'facade'.

Another gem from Polo.

Stress free and simple

Only simple if your confident....."

I am confident. I wouldn't be on a swingers site or meet strangers if I was the shy retiring type.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Oh god just imagine the mayhem if single females blocked the males in order to hunt meets themselves.

The boards would be full of shite, single males moaning they cant mail anyone, single females moaning no one replies to mails!

shall I go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god just imagine the mayhem if single females blocked the males in order to hunt meets themselves.

The boards would be full of shite, single males moaning they cant mail anyone, single females moaning no one replies to mails!

shall I go on?

Would be funny though. The world ended for single males lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be 'safe' from rejection, I'd much rather be rejected in person than via a virtual world, at least the person would have seen heard and got a genuine impression of the real me.

Fear of rejection is a natural barrier that requires confidence and a desire to push past. I don't want it to be 'safer on site' because there's no barrier and you can just spam everyone with messages.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"Oh god just imagine the mayhem if single females blocked the males in order to hunt meets themselves.

The boards would be full of shite, single males moaning they cant mail anyone, single females moaning no one replies to mails!

shall I go on?

Would be funny though. The world ended for single males lol"

Could try it for 24 hours? hehehehehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double dare you, it would shut the site down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double dare you, it would shut the site down lol"

Why would it shut the site down? It would save a lot of server space because all these unwanted messages wouldn't be sent. It might make the site run better and stop the chat rooms crashing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double dare you, it would shut the site down lol

Why would it shut the site down? It would save a lot of server space because all these unwanted messages wouldn't be sent. It might make the site run better and stop the chat rooms crashing

I was being sarcastic if men could not message then there would be no one on here and yes it would run faster lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh god just imagine the mayhem if single females blocked the males in order to hunt meets themselves.

The boards would be full of shite, single males moaning they cant mail anyone, single females moaning no one replies to mails!

shall I go on?

Possibly but there and again you wouldn't have a full inbox to contend with. After all if admin hadn't intended for women to be able to do this they wouldn't have included a :Block single males: button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Double dare you, it would shut the site down lol

Why would it shut the site down? It would save a lot of server space because all these unwanted messages wouldn't be sent. It might make the site run better and stop the chat rooms crashing

I was being sarcastic if men could not message then there would be no one on here and yes it would run faster lol"

And you think mailing but getting no reply keeps them here? Do we inhabit the same universe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well something keeps them here as majority get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My universe is very nice thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double dare you, it would shut the site down lol

Why would it shut the site down? It would save a lot of server space because all these unwanted messages wouldn't be sent. It might make the site run better and stop the chat rooms crashing

I was being sarcastic if men could not message then there would be no one on here and yes it would run faster lol"

What an odd reply. There would be loads of people on here, there would still be couples and the men would still be here. Just coz they're blocked from messaging the females doesn't mean they wouldn't be here. What it might mean is that the more genuine swingers would be more prevalent as opposed to the "dreamers" you complain about so regularly filling up your inbox with messages you deem unsuitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you being funny for it was a joke, no need to attack my threads dear. If you don't like what I say ignore it rather then trying to start something that isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well something keeps them here as majority get deleted "

And if you blocked they would still be here. The only difference would be you would have to put some other topic other than single men to moan about. There is a common theme running as with your last 2 profiles here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for someone to belittle another or be sarcastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well something keeps them here as majority get deleted

I can post a thread about what I choose or are you the forum police if you don't like it don't comment it's very simple my dear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No need for someone to belittle another or be sarcastic. "

Maybe you will remember that for future use then as you openly admit you were being sarcastic a few posts above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well something keeps them here as majority get deleted

I can post a thread about what I choose or are you the forum police if you don't like it don't comment it's very simple my dear. "

Sarcasm again! Did you not just say there is no need for sarcasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will step away from this thread. I am a grown up there's no need to be nasty have I been that way with you? No. So attack all you want as you'll be arguing with yourself my dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No need for someone to belittle another or be sarcastic.

Maybe you will remember that for future use then as you openly admit you were being sarcastic a few posts above.

I made one sarcastic comment one. You can't stop or are you hell bent on trying to wind me up as it's not working dear. Have a great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you being funny for it was a joke, no need to attack my threads dear. If you don't like what I say ignore it rather then trying to start something that isn't there."

I'm not being funny or attacking your threads. I'm putting my point of view across. I'm not trying to start anything. Perhaps you should be as willing to accept other people's posts in the same vain you wish other's to accept yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No need for someone to belittle another or be sarcastic.

Maybe you will remember that for future use then as you openly admit you were being sarcastic a few posts above.

I made one sarcastic comment one. You can't stop or are you hell bent on trying to wind me up as it's not working dear. Have a great day

I find it insulting for someone to

say there is no need for others to be sarcastic yet do it your self. I do not like double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you being funny for it was a joke, no need to attack my threads dear. If you don't like what I say ignore it rather then trying to start something that isn't there.

As I said I've had enough so good day to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What you being funny for it was a joke, no need to attack my threads dear. If you don't like what I say ignore it rather then trying to start something that isn't there.

As I said I've had enough so good day to you x

I will await your return with another profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you being funny for it was a joke, no need to attack my threads dear. If you don't like what I say ignore it rather then trying to start something that isn't there.

As I said I've had enough so good day to you x

Um, okay then

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

That's it! I am buying a new over! This one doesn't get my buns d in time.... *mutter mutter mutter*

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Is it thursday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it thursday?"

Its tuesday but if your dyslexic its an easy mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it thursday?

Its tuesday but if your dyslexic its an easy mistake."

And big fat gypsy wedding night too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's it! I am buying a new over! This one doesn't get my buns d in time.... *mutter mutter mutter*"

I'll sell you one £1.50

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's it! I am buying a new over! This one doesn't get my buns d in time.... *mutter mutter mutter*

I'll sell you one £1.50"

Is your intention to troll every thread you do not like? It seams that way.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm really quite confused. So much so that I think I'll stop my professional job for an hour and go smoke!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

FFS ladies...chill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really quite confused. So much so that I think I'll stop my professional job for an hour and go smoke!

It does get that way when a thread gets hijacked. I will be joining you at this rate and i am supposed to be cutting down.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I'm really quite confused. So much so that I think I'll stop my professional job for an hour and go smoke!

It does get that way when a thread gets hijacked. I will be joining you at this rate and i am supposed to be cutting down. "

I cant come and join you sadly cos Im too busy sending out messages on the hunt for my prey

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"I cant come and join you sadly cos Im too busy sending out messages on the hunt for my prey

Just replied

hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's it! I am buying a new over! This one doesn't get my buns d in time.... *mutter mutter mutter*

I'll sell you one £1.50

Is your intention to troll every thread you do not like? It seams that way. "

what have I done to you? Please tell me?

Yes I have been on here before I have not hidden that fact by why you have it in for my god only knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's it! I am buying a new over! This one doesn't get my buns d in time.... *mutter mutter mutter*

I'll sell you one £1.50

Is your intention to troll every thread you do not like? It seams that way. "

Did I say I did not like this thread I actually agreed with your thread if you go back and look dear. You don't like me I can handle that but can you keep it out of the forums it makes you look very childish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really quite confused. So much so that I think I'll stop my professional job for an hour and go smoke!

It does get that way when a thread gets hijacked. I will be joining you at this rate and i am supposed to be cutting down.

I cant come and join you sadly cos Im too busy sending out messages on the hunt for my prey

The best meat is always the one you creep up and catch your self. On a serious note though if you do select your own it is often better than what is offered to you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never go searching profiles to message guys. Maybe im lazy or maybe im lucky that i have enough to choose from from those that send me messages. In three and half years dont think ive ever started a rant post about messages i get. May comment on a particular message i get but not often. I have my filters set and im quite capable of ignoring and deleting. Bores the arse of me women complaining about messages, the reason these messages are sent is one the guys dont read profiles two they read them but are chancers. Not sure why we have to have endless threads on why dont guys read profiles, they should message the guy that sent them the message and ask. Asking on here is only second guessing

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I cant come and join you sadly cos Im too busy sending out messages on the hunt for my prey

The best meat is always the one you creep up and catch your self. On a serious note though if you do select your own it is often better than what is offered to you. "

Totally agree with you there - Id guess about 75% of the people Ive met are ones that I have approached first. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never go searching profiles to message guys. Maybe im lazy or maybe im lucky that i have enough to choose from from those that send me messages. In three and half years dont think ive ever started a rant post about messages i get. May comment on a particular message i get but not often. I have my filters set and im quite capable of ignoring and deleting. Bores the arse of me women complaining about messages, the reason these messages are sent is one the guys dont read profiles two they read them but are chancers. Not sure why we have to have endless threads on why dont guys read profiles, they should message the guy that sent them the message and ask. Asking on here is only second guessing"

If you are happy with the people contacting you then I can see why you feel no need to go looking. And no I don't think I have seen you moan about messages so you are a good example to follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I'm the same re profiles. I can't be bothered searching through them. I watch people in the forums and chat rooms and if someone catches my attention and I'm looking to meet, I'll message them.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If I solely relied on my inbox for quality new contacts, I think my hole would close up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did someone say were meat ....how very very er sexist lol im sure if a man reffered to a woman as meat then that man would be verbally hung drawn and quartered ..oh hang on a min i keep forgetting im a single male so therefore im stereo typed as utterly sad and desperate that i have a need to sleep with anything with a pulse or furry tits or a gut that passes as a chastity belt ..anyway back to my meat packing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i reliedon my inbox for meets id be buggered ...literally

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

me the female of the couple always message female but hardly ever get replies so i have no clue why we dont get replies back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Burlesque ..i think what you have done to cause the other person offence is come across in your posts as both patronising and sarcastic ..you refer to others as less attractive than yourself such as muntsville etc ...i guess it just goes to show beauty is only sometimes skin deep theres more to a person than looks such as personality thank fook for that otherwise id be a virgin anyway id best get to the post office in muntsville.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't me that mentioned muntersville but i did mention the others. I'm nothing special I never thought I was. I make the best of what I've got my I'm no supermodel. Beauty is only skin deep and in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my previous posts having nothing to do with this thread. That was my point and if I came across like that then I'm sorry. I never disagreed with the OPs thread I agreed with it then it sort of went of the boil sadly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well id like a woman to msg me without it being a reply so please feel free anyone who wants to im open.lolxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always hunt my victims.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always wondered why so many women don’t start the ball rolling. So many sit back and wait to see who messages them and then go with one of them who seems the best.

But why?

Is it because you are inherently lazy?

Is it because you are shy?

Is it because you lack confidence in yourself and have such low self esteem that you don’t message for fear of rejection?

Well as I see it the answer is so easy yet you don’t do it.

First you block all single males. This stops all the crap in your in box.

Second you search for what YOU want not what is offered.

Thirdly you mail the men who appeal to you not the ones who mail you.

This isn’t that complicated!, It would solve half of your problems when you are unhappy over the messages they get.

Wake up and smell the coffee, empower your self!

I said before that i now block non site supporters and dont have a block on single guys.

And its stopped all those "wanna fuck" messages .

I still get mail but less in ya face and nicely worded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

not many men like fat women so i cant see the point in me mailing them, for me i feel it works better to put on my profile im fat and add pics then guys can read it and reply if my weight dont bother them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re unhappy with your inbox you could always try pelvic floor muscle exercises, however if this fails to improve the situation, then tell them just to stick it in the outbox instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

She aint ya know, she lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

lol yes

i cant see the point in me spending time going thro lots of profiles and mailing them only to be told im not what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

She aint ya know, she lovely

I am sure she is, I am just in shock that someone would not email because they are fat!....its a wind up isnt it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

lol yes

i cant see the point in me spending time going thro lots of profiles and mailing them only to be told im not what they are looking for

Ah, not a wind up...retains shocked face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to look at her ass

Now if i put mine up i would need a bigger box to stick it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i never message anyone first simply because im fat, pure and simple lol

seriously?!?!?!?

lol yes

i cant see the point in me spending time going thro lots of profiles and mailing them only to be told im not what they are looking for

Ah, not a wind up...retains shocked face lol"

lol i do ok on here, and im a happy person but at the end of the day i know im not going to be to everyones tastes so i feel the way i do it works for me, im not a very confident person and i just dont think i could handle being told im not their type on a daily basis, i guess the way i do it i know everyones who mails me is going to have some chance of liking me as they mailed me first, of course you always get the ones who doing read and just mail every woman so they may not like me but over all my way works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have to look at her ass

Now if i put mine up i would need a bigger box to stick it in

lol shut up

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