FabSwingers.com forum: It's nuts

By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're not interested in you plus a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some chaps are intimidated by couples , heaven knows why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples don't get the same interest as single women. Not even close. I think this is something many single women find out when they open a couples profile with a partner or fb.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah! The wonderful world of Fab! Always expect the un-expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why you are very hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some chaps are intimidated by couples , heaven knows why. "

Would be nice to get an invite to find out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't understand it

Shame I'm out of your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops forgot to say...

Would happily travel the distance mmmm

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What would shag say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys won't be interested in a cuck watching

Some will, but given the choice of meeting a woman alone or meeting one with a guy sat in the corner, most will go for the first option

You need to accept that by being here as a couple with a cuck husband you reduce your playing field dramatically

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

When I first joined Fab I made this profile while my ex partner ran our couple profile. I hadn't even put a picture up and got 40 messages instantly. I had to keep redirecting traffic to our couple profile, but men or couples were only interested in meeting me. I think that's pretty typical of most single women profiles here. Then couples get the attention after. If all women in couples had singles profiles they would get all the attention.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Couples don't get the same interest as single women. Not even close. I think this is something many single women find out when they open a couples profile with a partner or fb.

-Courtney "

Yup totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a club this week and overhearing some of the "younger" lads gossiping/ boasting about their activities.

I was ashamed by what they said and their conquests, as they see it. One thing for sure was that they were not into sharing, and certainly wouldn't swing with their girlfriends or partners or allow them to visit clubs.

It was all about them and what they get out of it, and not what the person they were with would get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot the look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in a club this week and overhearing some of the "younger" lads gossiping/ boasting about their activities.

It was all about them and what they get out of it, and not what the person they were with would get

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

"Don't know why you are very hot!

Thank u !

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

"Spot the look at me post "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is like timbuktu here, where is the water? lol

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

Just mad as I was so sort after as a single girl top hot pics etc hundreds messages same pic as now but now I'm

On here with my man they don't wanna know

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

[Removed by poster at 16/01/16 22:29:26]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just mad as I was so sort after as a single girl top hot pics etc hundreds messages same pic as now but now I'm

On here with my man they don't wanna know "

If you just want more fabs, perhaps ask for them in your status updates when you upload new pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!"

Why did you set up a single profile as a couple anyway, is there any gain other than misleading people.. to be honest it is annoying when a single girl on a profile winks us, sends messages, arranges a meet and then out of the blue sends a text asking to bring her BF/Husband!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dumb founded. What a strange world the world of fab is. What are people thinking? Smh.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!"

I've read through this and I'm quite puzzled because the exact opposite has happened in my case. As you've probably noticed, I'm a crossdresser/tv and as a single cd/tv I found it quite hard to get a meet but I've now found a lovely tgirlfriend that I meet and we have a profile together on the sister site and its gone ballistic! As a single cd I got the odd message and mediocre Fabs on my pix but now they the Fabs have quadrupled and offers for meets is impossible to keep up with.

Yet at the end of the day, the one thing your partner and I have in common is a willy! Strange how people see exactly the same thing differently.

Tell him to put some stockings on. Lol. You never know it might work!

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just mad as I was so sort after as a single girl top hot pics etc hundreds messages same pic as now but now I'm

On here with my man they don't wanna know "

Does it really mean that much to you to have strangers fab your pics or write inane messages with the hope of getting in your pants ?

If it does, then get yourself a single fem profile.

Keep this one for your couples activity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!"

Your requirements are quite specific that could be the reason.

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

Maybe yes

Maybe I shouldn't be a couple but I am

And looking for way more fun d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe yes

Maybe I shouldn't be a couple but I am

And looking for way more fun d"

Would be happy to arrange to come over some time, looking for my first meet with a couple, PM me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Couples don't get the same interest as single women. Not even close. I think this is something many single women find out when they open a couples profile with a partner or fb.

-Courtney "

I agree, though when I had a couple's profile we blocked single men and single women

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Maybe yes

Maybe I shouldn't be a couple but I am

And looking for way more fun d"

Why not have a single profile and mention your couple profile. Some men just search through single female profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the wording in your profile is putting some guys off?

I read it that you weren't certain about meeting, and were after camming? Just how I read it?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!"

Some of your pics look familiar. Think I know who you are and welcome back.

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!

Some of your pics look familiar. Think I know who you are and welcome back.

Thank you lovely xx

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

Changed text ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Changed text ?"

That's better. I read it that you only wanted to cam before.

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

Yes we did now we want more

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"As a single girl in here I have hundreds of messages hundreds of messages and now as a couple we have no interest

Even with the same pic ! The same pic that was in hot pics

Crazy !!"

Life just isn't fair, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As single try to write and select and never get response mm

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some guys just like to fab pics. They never message or meet. Just because your pic was popular doesn't always translate to messages and meets.

There's no pics of your hubby on the public photos. You have a limited age range and smoke.

If you want a cuckold relationship there are specific sites.

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By *-angel-X OP Woman
over a year ago

hell

Very true best out some pics of both of us

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well youve only been here 2 weeks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A lot of users are singles looking for fairly standard casual sex with other singles. The fact that many of us use swinging clubs and have parties is off their radar. There are many flavors of 'swinging' now, with some blurred lines and crossings over. The volume of users keeps fab active and fresh, in many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because, let's be honest, it's all about the women on this site innit!

And even in couples the inconvenient truth is that it's *usually* the female half that people are interested in - the male half is merely an obstacle to be tolerated to get access to the lady... (Sweeping generalisation and not true in all cases but c'mon we all know it's generally true ..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get some single men believing it gives them an advantage to pose as a couple. They make contact and mention that the 'other half' is away or 'not well' or is 'not up to playing at the moment' - strange as I am seeking men anyway.

Does posing as a couple really give them an advantage ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit that for me a woman is less attractive when she's taken. Maybe an evolutionary thing. And if the guys who were interested in you when you were single are straight then they might not find it a turn on for another guy to be there.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Because, let's be honest, it's all about the women on this site innit!

And even in couples the inconvenient truth is that it's *usually* the female half that people are interested in - the male half is merely an obstacle to be tolerated to get access to the lady... "

Even with the disclaimer I find it strange that you hold that opinion and would advertise it too.

Best of luck in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you were a unicorn and now you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some straight men won't meet bi men.It's hardly a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because, let's be honest, it's all about the women on this site innit!

And even in couples the inconvenient truth is that it's *usually* the female half that people are interested in - the male half is merely an obstacle to be tolerated to get access to the lady...

Even with the disclaimer I find it strange that you hold that opinion and would advertise it too.

Best of luck in the future.

Yet, using the forums as a cross section of Fab (albeit a small percentage cross section), you find repeated threads from couples bemoaning the fact that they receive a high volume of messages whereby the sender is only intent on talking to the female half of the couple, or is asking for a meet with just the female half (no male half involvement).

So, from a logical perspective, Dans (caveated) viewpoint holds some water based on past opinions expressed in the forums. Plus, when I played as part of a couple many years ago, I can also understand some of Dans sentiment - having experienced both both socially and during play, this exact phenomenon. No one is saying its the standard, but its more frequent than perhaps some people wish to acknowledge?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Whilst it's a swinging site not all profiles are swingers.

I've heard guys voice that if they had a partner they would not let them swing. So that attitude does exist.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why are you so suprised ?

If I wanted a single bloke to meet I don't go setting up a meet with him and his wife in tow......

If I sell out of cabbages one day and the next day I'm selling onions and people go to the next stall for the cabbage . would I be puzzled ? NO ... cos an onion isn't a cabbage.

Just like a woman alone isn't the same as a woman with her husband in tow.

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