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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Gee. Must be a tough situation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What are you doing, if it happens on more than one occasion maybe it's something you are doing or your picking the wrong women.

I don't think I've ever given cause for someone to start falling in !love with me.

Apart from one guy along while ago and that just made me so angry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do they actually tell you they've fallen in love?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

so many people are using this site to look for a long term loving partner, feelings can be misconstrued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by strings?

I don't like feeling used and having guys think they can order me whenever they fancy sex, most guys aren't like that but some are and it's not strings to be wanted to be treated like a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!"

What's a fuck buddy?

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!"

You must just be an irresistible catch I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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You must just be an irresistible catch I guess

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This.... my heart bleeds for you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

What's a fuck buddy?"

A buddy that fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's hard to be emotionally detached, I can understand that. You need to be confident in what you are looking for,and be prepared to step away from anything that is going beyond that.

How often do you meet with these women that can't help fall for you?? Too often and it can turn into something other than what it started out being.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!"

Well you must indeed be struggling.

My heart bleeds for you- got a plaster?

Lets hope they don't read this hey!

It must be hard wading through all that emotional foof!

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

Maybe you need to go guy? Have a male fuck buddy?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!"
I didn't see it as though you thought you where gods gift. Plenty ask why they can't get relationships.

Look at what you are doing to make them want a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't like repeat meets, if I meet someone more than once it's because I like them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!"

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is why I don't like repeat meets, if I meet someone more than once it's because I like them!

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That is fine, you seem to know your limits, some don't!

I'm not wading through anything, I just can't understand why it's happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time let them buy their own chips + you should be ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

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Unlucky I'd say, I'm very clear from the start!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Next time let them buy their own chips + you should be ok "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people I have slept with that I haven't developed some sort of feelings for have been one night stands. Personally if I have that intamacy with someone more than once I can find it hard to not feel something!

Guess this is why I've not done the fb thing yet either!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Clear communication on what you want.Don't see them too regular and the lines get blurred from fuck buddy to maybe relationship material.Look at how you are projecting your wants maybe you are giving the women mixed signals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only people I have slept with that I haven't developed some sort of feelings for have been one night stands. Personally if I have that intamacy with someone more than once I can find it hard to not feel something!

Guess this is why I've not done the fb thing yet either!

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I'm not saying you can't have any emotional attachment, but it's knowing that nothing is going to come from it!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Unlucky I'd say, I'm very clear from the start!"
some people laxkmthe emotional maturity to understand the difference between having regular sex and being fond of some one and having regular sex and thinking it means more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr used to have this problem with ladies he met.. it's partly why I dislike him meeting alone now as when they get attached I become the enemy.

He liked to wine and dine a lady, take his time, make her feel special... This is what he liked about it. Having the intimacy and passion with people that after the meet chances are it would never happen again... A few weeks of build up too... However very very few women didn't seem to see it as him wanting more x x

Sometimes being nice to people or being sensual and tactile can be misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!"

I can answer you , it might be you promising and convincing them too much in order to get them in bed

Another real reason is that most women can experience and feel much better sex when they are in love with a man and that means more better connection as women's mind needs to be stimulated more than men's mind. that's difference between men and women, as for men it's more simple by nature.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Unlucky I'd say, I'm very clear from the start!some people laxkmthe emotional maturity to understand the difference between having regular sex and being fond of some one and having regular sex and thinking it means more.

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I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

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some women, not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

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Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?"
i didn't get that from the op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?"

You'd be wrong, I want someone to have the joys of sex, friendship etc but without having to tie it down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all"

So how do you feel about the FB thing, something you can separate from true feelings?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?

You'd be wrong, I want someone to have the joys of sex, friendship etc but without having to tie it down."
that's how I read it. There are plenty of woman that do want the same.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all

So how do you feel about the FB thing, something you can separate from true feelings?"
what are true feelings? I'm quite capable of having great sex with people in have a connection with without calling in love

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I just can't understand why it's happening!"

Maybe because you're dealing with the kind of woman who mistakes sex with a nice guy as something 'more'.

Not all are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!

I think that many people enter into fb relationships thinking they can turn it into a permanent romantic relationship.

If you make it clear from the start that you want no emotional ties beyond friendship and they still aren't understanding I would say you've been unlucky.

Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?"

I have men who do that and we arrange to meet up. Been doing today years and it works for us. Didn't meet any of them on a fetish site.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do laugh at the whole ' the ladies need their mind stimulated ' and I read the utter pish some are swooning and tittivating themselves to on here.

Oh dear god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all"

Let's be more precise, most

and it's OK as by nature.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all

Let's be more precise, most

and it's OK as by nature."
I wouldn't have thought they would be on a NSA swimging site if they needed to fall in love every time they had sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all

Let's be more precise, most

and it's OK as by nature."

So are you one to take hold of the emotional train?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do laugh at the whole ' the ladies need their mind stimulated ' and I read the utter pish some are swooning and tittivating themselves to on here.

Oh dear god. "

There is no connection with God

and you need to catch the idea not sticking to every word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all

Let's be more precise, most

and it's OK as by nature.I wouldn't have thought they would be on a NSA swimging site if they needed to fall in love every time they had sex.

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But they are, and there's plenty about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know women need more emotions together with sex, without emotions it's not THAT awesome for a woman

some women, not all

Let's be more precise, most

and it's OK as by nature.I wouldn't have thought they would be on a NSA swimging site if they needed to fall in love every time they had sex.

But they are, and there's plenty about"

I get your thought maybe they just do not realize that

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Swinging seems to be more of a minefield than it once was. No strings uncomplicated fun was exactly that nothing more nothing less. Respect, rapport, mutual fun issue free.

It's almost like there's been an influx from dating sites. Saying saying one thing yet chasing for another.

It certainly it seems to be the case more than it once was.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! "

You just have not found your right one Swinger

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! "
that's different from needing to be in love to have great sex. I'm sure alot of us need our mind stimulating

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body!

You just have not found your right one Swinger

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I know and I will continue to look.....

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'm currently looking for a new playmate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! that's different from needing to be in love to have great sex. I'm sure alot of us need our mind stimulating

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How can anybody get the best stimulation in one swinging night when no one has explored the buttons before ? It's uthopy to expect it from one night swing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Swinging seems to be more of a minefield than it once was. No strings uncomplicated fun was exactly that nothing more nothing less. Respect, rapport, mutual fun issue free.

It's almost like there's been an influx from dating sites. Saying saying one thing yet chasing for another.

It certainly it seems to be the case more than it once was."

And dating sites are full of perves only wanting sex.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I do laugh at the whole ' the ladies need their mind stimulated ' and I read the utter pish some are swooning and tittivating themselves to on here.

Oh dear god.

There is no connection with God

and you need to catch the idea not sticking to every word

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Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! that's different from needing to be in love to have great sex. I'm sure alot of us need our mind stimulating

How can anybody get the best stimulation in one swinging night when no one has explored the buttons before ? It's uthopy to expect it from one night swing

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We rarely meet anyone sexually more than once... And yet have great times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean by strings?

I don't like feeling used and having guys think they can order me whenever they fancy sex, most guys aren't like that but some are and it's not strings to be wanted to be treated like a person."

I find that when guys go on and on about it being no strings nsa they mean free prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing"

You just have "it" fella. You're just going to have to accept that once you fuck a lady they are just going to fall in love with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean by strings?

I don't like feeling used and having guys think they can order me whenever they fancy sex, most guys aren't like that but some are and it's not strings to be wanted to be treated like a person.

I find that when guys go on and on about it being no strings nsa they mean free prostitute.

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There must be very naive and silly self degrading women out there ..they just try this site to catch their easy luck and then you hear complaining from them they just do not understand women psychology and physiology that's nothing new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing

You just have "it" fella. You're just going to have to accept that once you fuck a lady they are just going to fall in love with you. "

Good advice, but he can not bother, too much for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say."

I think it's just degrading women asking for NSA, they just do not want to pay for prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean by strings?

I don't like feeling used and having guys think they can order me whenever they fancy sex, most guys aren't like that but some are and it's not strings to be wanted to be treated like a person.

I find that when guys go on and on about it being no strings nsa they mean free prostitute.

There must be very naive and silly self degrading women out there ..they just try this site to catch their easy luck and then you hear complaining from them they just do not understand women psychology and physiology that's nothing new

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Your statement doesn't make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean by strings?

I don't like feeling used and having guys think they can order me whenever they fancy sex, most guys aren't like that but some are and it's not strings to be wanted to be treated like a person.

I find that when guys go on and on about it being no strings nsa they mean free prostitute.

There must be very naive and silly self degrading women out there ..they just try this site to catch their easy luck and then you hear complaining from them they just do not understand women psychology and physiology that's nothing new

Your statement doesn't make sense. "

Who will understand it will get it! Please people do not stick to words and to expression, I do my best Ok?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only people I have slept with that I haven't developed some sort of feelings for have been one night stands. Personally if I have that intamacy with someone more than once I can find it hard to not feel something!

Guess this is why I've not done the fb thing yet either!

I'm not saying you can't have any emotional attachment, but it's knowing that nothing is going to come from it!"

Perhaps you're just unlucky.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! that's different from needing to be in love to have great sex. I'm sure alot of us need our mind stimulating

How can anybody get the best stimulation in one swinging night when no one has explored the buttons before ? It's uthopy to expect it from one night swing

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the more I meet someone the better the connection I don't class having a sex connection with someone as falling in love with them which is what the ops post is about.

I can have the best sex ever with someome then once they leave that's it until the next time some people are giving the impression they need romantic feelings to have amazing sex I'm not one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust me, I've been looking for over 6 years on here and find the men become clingy!

I can do NSA, just a shame the men can't or wont and yes I do need my mind stimulated not just my body! that's different from needing to be in love to have great sex. I'm sure alot of us need our mind stimulating

How can anybody get the best stimulation in one swinging night when no one has explored the buttons before ? It's uthopy to expect it from one night swing

the more I meet someone the better the connection I don't class having a sex connection with someone as falling in love with them which is what the ops post is about.

I can have the best sex ever with someome then once they leave that's it until the next time some people are giving the impression they need romantic feelings to have amazing sex I'm not one of them

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Well explained, I get your thought, I think the same and I am the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread lastnight. Rockchick Is looking for a regular fuck buddy. Must be absolutely stunning thou. Send her a pm and take it from there

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

" If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say.

I think it's just degrading women asking for NSA, they just do not want to pay for prostitute

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what are they supposed to ask for on a NSA swinging site then? If a guy says do you want a fuck. Then I wouldn't even respond. If a guy messages me says he's looking for uncomplicated fun with a like minded person I can not for the life of me see as that is degrading

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over a year ago

" If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say.

I think it's just degrading women asking for NSA, they just do not want to pay for prostitute

what are they supposed to ask for on a NSA swinging site then? If a guy says do you want a fuck. Then I wouldn't even respond. If a guy messages me says he's looking for uncomplicated fun with a like minded person I can not for the life of me see as that is degrading

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They just can not reach NSA status because of their approach to women

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!"

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

" If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say.

I think it's just degrading women asking for NSA, they just do not want to pay for prostitute

what are they supposed to ask for on a NSA swinging site then? If a guy says do you want a fuck. Then I wouldn't even respond. If a guy messages me says he's looking for uncomplicated fun with a like minded person I can not for the life of me see as that is degrading

They just can not reach NSA status because of their approach to women

"
your always going to get the idiots on here that think because they sign up they are going to get a shag, the ones that think it's a free prostitute site but from my experience they are the ones that don't get meets. It's not what you do or want its how you go about it

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go? "

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

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over a year ago

" If you want that warm fuzzy feeling with no feelings whatsoever then try sex with an apple pie. Heck if it looks at you funny after,you can eat it so it's not even there then enjoy flushing it away several hours later. Proper NSA I say.

I think it's just degrading women asking for NSA, they just do not want to pay for prostitute

what are they supposed to ask for on a NSA swinging site then? If a guy says do you want a fuck. Then I wouldn't even respond. If a guy messages me says he's looking for uncomplicated fun with a like minded person I can not for the life of me see as that is degrading

They just can not reach NSA status because of their approach to women

your always going to get the idiots on here that think because they sign up they are going to get a shag, the ones that think it's a free prostitute site but from my experience they are the ones that don't get meets. It's not what you do or want its how you go about it

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over a year ago

I'm not sure you can find anything there.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

"

What utter rubbish

He wants to meet a lady for NSA sex on a regular basis, she will want the same

No complications,just respect based sex

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

What utter rubbish

He wants to meet a lady for NSA sex on a regular basis, she will want the same

No complications,just respect based sex

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over a year ago

"I'm not sure you can find anything there."

A great craic though if you do not have a company in real life

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What utter rubbish

He wants to meet a lady for NSA sex on a regular basis, she will want the same

No complications,just respect based sex

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

"

I haven't got that impression at all.

He wants someone he can have sex with, without a relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all, as long as he makes that clear to the women he has sex with.

If they want something more, then they need to look for it with someone else and not the OP.

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

I haven't got that impression at all.

He wants someone he can have sex with, without a relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all, as long as he makes that clear to the women he has sex with.

If they want something more, then they need to look for it with someone else and not the OP."

Sorry guys I meant not him but men who are looking for So called NSA

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

"
you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

I haven't got that impression at all.

He wants someone he can have sex with, without a relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all, as long as he makes that clear to the women he has sex with.

If they want something more, then they need to look for it with someone else and not the OP."

They should call it.... swinging...

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over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

I haven't got that impression at all.

He wants someone he can have sex with, without a relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all, as long as he makes that clear to the women he has sex with.

If they want something more, then they need to look for it with someone else and not the OP.

They should call it.... swinging...

"
don't think it would catch on

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over a year ago

This is why clubs are so good, rock up... Chat... Maybe play...go home and carry on with normal life and repeat... No games, no mind fucks just fun. Boom.

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him"

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am looking for no strings attached, I never date and I will never date

I want sex with people who want the same, now if some misinterprets that and thinks that I may consider dating them, I will not.

I am looking for women wanting the same and I would not suggest they should go to a male escort

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

"

You seem to know a lot about a stranger on a website.

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over a year ago

"This is why clubs are so good, rock up... Chat... Maybe play...go home and carry on with normal life and repeat... No games, no mind fucks just fun. Boom.

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Oh I agree, but here is no clubs in NI..

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

You seem to know a lot about a stranger on a website.

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I receive all types of attention and has some online experience its my sexy investigation going on here

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

I haven't got that impression at all.

He wants someone he can have sex with, without a relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all, as long as he makes that clear to the women he has sex with.

If they want something more, then they need to look for it with someone else and not the OP.

They should call it.... swinging...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

"
im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

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over a year ago

"This is why clubs are so good, rock up... Chat... Maybe play...go home and carry on with normal life and repeat... No games, no mind fucks just fun. Boom.

Oh I agree, but here is no clubs in NI..

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Not for you then but the op has plenty within driving distance..... Although I bet there will be some reason he couldn't possibly go....

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

"

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

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over a year ago

I'm after a FWB, and to me there is a difference between recreational sex and relationship sex....

However, in saying that, I do want the friendship part too, which I guess could be mistaken by some for wanting a relationship....

I tend to go for people who I know I wouldn't ever have a relationship with, because then there is no worry that you are going to develop feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is why clubs are so good, rock up... Chat... Maybe play...go home and carry on with normal life and repeat... No games, no mind fucks just fun. Boom.

Oh I agree, but here is no clubs in NI..

Not for you then but the op has plenty within driving distance..... Although I bet there will be some reason he couldn't possibly go...."
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Maybe the op wouldn't want to go with some on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a married one she's less likely to fall for you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

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I don't see amy argueing I'm just amazed at how you have anaylized the op for not wanting to fall in love

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

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You just need to keep digging!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Gee. Must be a tough situation.

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Grins.

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

I don't see amy argueing I'm just amazed at how you have anaylized the op for not wanting to fall in love

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That's your perception, my thought was different

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

"

Well maybe don't do the friendship thing then!! I met a guy that wanted NSA and then he moved in with me, talk about mixed signals!! It fucked my head up abit even though I didn't want a relationship him, be clear and don't send mixed signals.... Saying one thing then doing another will give people the wrong impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find me some as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be some sort of pheromones in your jizz dude.

Do you let them assume they are exclusive by any chance?

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

Well maybe don't do the friendship thing then!! I met a guy that wanted NSA and then he moved in with me, talk about mixed signals!! It fucked my head up abit even though I didn't want a relationship him, be clear and don't send mixed signals.... Saying one thing then doing another will give people the wrong impression"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be some sort of pheromones in your jizz dude.

Do you let them assume they are exclusive by any chance?"

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over a year ago

"This is why clubs are so good, rock up... Chat... Maybe play...go home and carry on with normal life and repeat... No games, no mind fucks just fun. Boom.

Oh I agree, but here is no clubs in NI..

Not for you then but the op has plenty within driving distance..... Although I bet there will be some reason he couldn't possibly go.....

Maybe the op wouldn't want to go with some on here..... "

Sorry? I don't understand?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If he wants friendships, he is giving mixed signals

If he doesn't, he is a fuck and go and should go to prostitutes

Yet women on the thread say they want the friendship

And another doesn't

It's a fucking crazy world this swinging

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

I don't see amy argueing I'm just amazed at how you have anaylized the op for not wanting to fall in love

That's your perception, my thought was different

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maybe that's where some go wrong on here typing one thing and meaning another.

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over a year ago

"If he wants friendships, he is giving mixed signals

If he doesn't, he is a fuck and go and should go to prostitutes

Yet women on the thread say they want the friendship

And another doesn't

It's a fucking crazy world this swinging "

Yes it is fucking mind blowing mind cracking

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over a year ago

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

I don't see amy argueing I'm just amazed at how you have anaylized the op for not wanting to fall in love

That's your perception, my thought was different

maybe that's where some go wrong on here typing one thing and meaning another. "

Not my purpose that would just be nonsense!

Maybe considering I am not British origin so my expression is not that perfect but I am not sorry for who I am just let it go!

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over a year ago

My hat goes off to the op. Some single guys get hardly any chats/meets on fab yet op is fighting them away.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"If he wants friendships, he is giving mixed signals

If he doesn't, he is a fuck and go and should go to prostitutes

Yet women on the thread say they want the friendship

And another doesn't

It's a fucking crazy world this swinging

Yes it is fucking mind blowing mind cracking

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But you have a partner so I would have imagined, what he was offering was right up your street

Regular meet with no strings.

You alone or with your partner, meet him, have fun and go home

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over a year ago

"My hat goes off to the op. Some single guys get hardly any chats/meets on fab yet op is fighting them away.

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Well he is very charismatic

ladies need more from him.. My partner said that's the way how ladies ask for more sex

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"My hat goes off to the op. Some single guys get hardly any chats/meets on fab yet op is fighting them away.

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Oh to be so popular must be difficult to manage

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

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My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

Maybe you do not want a fwb, more of a fuck and go?

Exactly , unmasking him he truly wants just fuck and go, and in this case send him to prostitutes, he just can not afford so is trying here

in a nicer way

you do realize you've gone into superdrive with your over analyzing he just doesn't want women to get the wrong idea and fall in love with him

Please do not stick to my expression, if you can not accept just keep it to yourself and behave nice?!

im sticking to words your typing on a screen and answering accordingly

You should try to feel through them lol and read between lines sometimes, I should do the same, let's just not argue

I don't see amy argueing I'm just amazed at how you have anaylized the op for not wanting to fall in love

That's your perception, my thought was different

maybe that's where some go wrong on here typing one thing and meaning another.

Not my purpose that would just be nonsense!

Maybe considering I am not British origin so my expression is not that perfect but I am not sorry for who I am just let it go!

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nothing to let go, you made an over reactive generalisation about the op, can't answer where your thought process came from but instead saying its because your non british

fairplay to you

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over a year ago

Friend with benefits most welcome here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

"

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!

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over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So my confusion continues...... Why is it so hard to get a fuck buddy, that doesn't want the strings? It seems every time you gain a new FB, they start to fall in love!

Is it something that I'm doing? Or is this just the general consensus?!

Any invites for a non bunny boiling, unicorn, with a good sense of humour welcome!

What's a fuck buddy?

A buddy that fucks"

Haha, succinct!

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"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!"

Op they just want more orgasms he meant to say, he thinks that's a mask how to get more from you that's how a man understands

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!

Op they just want more orgasms he meant to say, he thinks that's a mask how to get more from you that's how a man understands

"

I'm not so convinced....

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!

Op they just want more orgasms he meant to say, he thinks that's a mask how to get more from you that's how a man understands

I'm not so convinced.... "

then avoid them

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Swinging seems to be more of a minefield than it once was. No strings uncomplicated fun was exactly that nothing more nothing less. Respect, rapport, mutual fun issue free.

It's almost like there's been an influx from dating sites. Saying saying one thing yet chasing for another.

It certainly it seems to be the case more than it once was.

"

That works both ways round though. I would guess you mean women saying they want nsa when they are 'secretly' hoping to turn something into a relationship, but the other side of the coin is men pretending that they want a relationship, or acting in that manner,'wooing' a woman - solely in order to get a shag. Dating sites are crammed full of them, and many of them have infiltrated fabs!

My best guess would be the OP is sending mixed messages, or consistently choosing the type of woman who is 'on the edge' and will fall for almost anyone who is nice to her.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!"

But is your behaviour consistent with what you say?? If you say one thing but behave in another manner, they are liable to believe the behaviour.

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over a year ago

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!

But is your behaviour consistent with what you say?? If you say one thing but behave in another manner, they are liable to believe the behaviour."

I behave in a manner that I would have made clear at the start

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"All this talk of fuck and go, prostitution, etc. Utter bollocks.

This is my point......... They way some of you react to someone wanting a FB without being tied into a 'status'.

I know how to treat a lady, and I do so, I like to treat a lady, and I do so, I also like to make my intentions very clear at the start, and do so.

My partner said that's the way ladies are asking for more, give them more sex

Again people not paying attention!

I make my intentions clear at the start!!!

But is your behaviour consistent with what you say?? If you say one thing but behave in another manner, they are liable to believe the behaviour.

I behave in a manner that I would have made clear at the start"

Then you are likely to be picking a type. Doing the same thing over again and expecting different results is the definition of madness they say lol. The women you are picking may be a reflection of something inside of you you are not yet recognising I would say.

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over a year ago

I think im gonna move upto Newcastle. Seems the place to be for a single guy. Plenty of action and they come back for more.

Eva that or down a few newcastles brown ale and imagine it

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

"I think im gonna move upto Newcastle. Seems the place to be for a single guy. Plenty of action and they come back for more.

Eva that or down a few newcastles brown ale and imagine it "

Bloody hell you the real Clint Eastwood

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

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Friendship is still a relationship. I think he means he wants a fuck toy to just call up when he feels horny.

Fetishish site maybe?"

That's confusing fuck buddies and "friends with benefits" fuck buddies just meet for sex if they have more than just sex it's "friends with benefits".

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Look, I'm not saying I'm any gift from God or anything like that, but I have 5 FB in the last year, all of which wanted it to become a relationship!"

No? go on I don't believe you.

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