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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,i would,nt worry your a very good lookin girl,im sure some handsome guy will snap you up soon enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol,,i would,nt worry your a very good lookin girl,im sure some handsome guy will snap you up soon enough"

Thanks lovely, but my God I find it tiring, constantly trawling the Internet for new meat though!

I was happy with any or all of the others lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you won't stuggle for offers

I can imagine finding some Regular is quite hard though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see you waiting to long babe absolutely stunning

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I tend to find them, and then they decide they want to date someone seriously and so, it stops - I genuinely wish them well though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a semi regular fuck buddy. We both live busy lives and it's not easy to coincide meet times. It's easier for her as she's single.

It's not easy finding a 'friend with benefits'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's your age preference that's the problem, if you just want a fuck buddy maybe look a little higher in the age range?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location usually doesn't help either

I would love one who lives within a 10-15 minute radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to disappoint but I have managed to find a regular meet who is wonderful and she messaged me first (which makes a change on here) so go figure I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site.

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)"

Yeah its probably you, you seem mental...but in a good day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you won't stuggle for offers

I can imagine finding some Regular is quite hard though! "

I can find one offs or two offs no problem!! Haha thank you though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe relax your wills and wont's on the type of guy, you're expecting a miracle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to find them, and then they decide they want to date someone seriously and so, it stops - I genuinely wish them well though. "

Ok men struggle too. Sucks eh! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site."

She didn't say they had to be exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to disappoint but I have managed to find a regular meet who is wonderful and she messaged me first (which makes a change on here) so go figure I guess."

Wow! Not disappointed at all. Very happy for you! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site."

Im not fussed about exclusivity - as long as I get a weekly servicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The struggle is real, OP.

I feel your pain x

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Been looking for 2 years most on here want the thrill of the chase, also think that's why so many don,t turn up for meets the thrill has gone once they have caught you and you agree to meet.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I tend to find them, and then they decide they want to date someone seriously and so, it stops - I genuinely wish them well though.

Ok men struggle too. Sucks eh! x"

I'm quite good at arranging casual sex..... I did get pissed once and had a moan about it with my mates most of whom are married and unsurprisingly got no sympathy and some threats of violence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)

Yeah its probably you, you seem mental...but in a good day "

Hahaha I knew it! I guess I am! Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secrets to keep them coming back for more

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm a nun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol."

What????

What happened to 'patience'?!

Shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

What????

What happened to 'patience'?!

Shag!!"

He left her behind the bush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe relax your wills and wont's on the type of guy, you're expecting a miracle. "

But the guys I've met previously all fit this...then the circumstances change...

There's nothing I can do about my tastes...I'm just as picky on nights out etc....

I just wondered how many other had a regular fuck buddy really? Or if it was difficult for others too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site.

She didn't say they had to be exclusive."

No I didn't.

Thank you x

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Still looking. Would be nice to meet someone local for regular fun.

oh well, having a good time here in the mean time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The struggle is real, OP.

I feel your pain x "

BEEE GEEE!!

How bloody hard is it! Someone's laughing at me somewhere haha

The last guy I think wanted a regular - but I upset him...I apologised but that's the end of that unfortunately. I hold my hands up about that one! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)"

Hahaha it seems to be the norm. The best is the guy who's too busy too have a relationship so just wants sex but has no time for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been looking for 2 years most on here want the thrill of the chase, also think that's why so many don,t turn up for meets the thrill has gone once they have caught you and you agree to meet."

Yes I definitely think there's an element of that. Then they are like 'onto the next'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just like one or two more!

I have one- but availability is a problem- so I completely understand. I too am picky/ specific and have no intention of dropping my standards either x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These absolutely stunning guys youve met off fab may be searching for a absolutely stunning fuck buddy on fab but just not found her yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

What????

What happened to 'patience'?!

Shag!!"
lol I do have patience still if I would find one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

What????

What happened to 'patience'?!

Shag!!lol I do have patience still if I would find one "

You've got more patience than all of us on this site collectively!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a nun "

I think I'll join you love!

Seriously looking like another barren spell is on the cards. Started off the new year so well too!

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"These absolutely stunning guys youve met off fab may be searching for a absolutely stunning fuck buddy on fab but just not found her yet "

ohhhhh meoww lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to find them, and then they decide they want to date someone seriously and so, it stops - I genuinely wish them well though.

Ok men struggle too. Sucks eh! x

I'm quite good at arranging casual sex..... I did get pissed once and had a moan about it with my mates most of whom are married and unsurprisingly got no sympathy and some threats of violence. "

They know you're on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site.

She didn't say they had to be exclusive."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)

Hahaha it seems to be the norm. The best is the guy who's too busy too have a relationship so just wants sex but has no time for sex "

Lol!! So what does that make him?!

A wanker?! Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would just like one or two more!

I have one- but availability is a problem- so I completely understand. I too am picky/ specific and have no intention of dropping my standards either x"

My thoughts to a tee.

I could do with two or three to call upon :- )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These absolutely stunning guys youve met off fab may be searching for a absolutely stunning fuck buddy on fab but just not found her yet "

Ouch! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah op, if only you were nearer. I'm having trouble trying to find someone regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found having more than 1 fb to be better. You get a choice of what's on offer that way. Also there's no chance of either parties becoming attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)"

we cant even get a meet let alone a regular fuck buddy, it's been 6 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx"

Me too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with sundae! Try and get 5 fb's then you can run some sort of rota!

Regular sex for you, if their circumstances change switch the rota for the other 4!

Win win!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found having more than 1 fb to be better. You get a choice of what's on offer that way. Also there's no chance of either parties becoming attached "

Absolutely agree. That's my plan! Would love to get one that sticks first haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with sundae! Try and get 5 fb's then you can run some sort of rota!

Regular sex for you, if their circumstances change switch the rota for the other 4!

Win win! "

Hahahaha!!

If some people lived nearer, could meet at night (not only day times) etc...I'd be laughing.

But I'm liking the rota idea. Just need number 1 to surface!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your a stunning looking young woman, whom will be inundated with offers I'm sure and in a few weeks / months all your current problems will have subsided and you'll wonder what the problem was

Keep smiling ( because I'm sure it suits you )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)

we cant even get a meet let alone a regular fuck buddy, it's been 6 years!"

Say what!!!!

Jesus. I'll shut up now!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It's not easy finding a regular FB, it can quite easier slip so that one side wants it to turn into a proper relationship or slips the other way into not meeting regularly which is obviously the point

Finding that happy medium is a bit of an art!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your a stunning looking young woman, whom will be inundated with offers I'm sure and in a few weeks / months all your current problems will have subsided and you'll wonder what the problem was

Keep smiling ( because I'm sure it suits you )

"

Ah thanks for your kind words. x

It's not a really a problem - I'll get over it. Just an itch that needs scratching.

I just took the liberty of venting my ongoing sexual frustrations on a public forum!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not easy finding a regular FB, it can quite easier slip so that one side wants it to turn into a proper relationship or slips the other way into not meeting regularly which is obviously the point

Finding that happy medium is a bit of an art!"

Haha! One that I haven't mastered yet clearly!

Another month with BOB (battery operated boy) awaits then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

What????

What happened to 'patience'?!

Shag!!lol I do have patience still if I would find one

You've got more patience than all of us on this site collectively! "
Yes and ty, you are right there I do as well, which is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)

we cant even get a meet let alone a regular fuck buddy, it's been 6 years!

Say what!!!!

Jesus. I'll shut up now!"

yup, no one wants us, are we that fkn ugly dammit

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Your profile might put a lot off...just saying

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'd prefer a friend with added benefits, I find the idea of just sex a little cold, I'd prefer some social and other activities as well as sex..

So any ladies want a friend with benefits near Leeds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying "

who's profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying "

I get the meets - and plenty of messages - just the circumstances of the dudes change.

I don't think guys in that age range read profiles anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put exactly what you want in your profile (not read it so I hope it doesn't already say this haha)

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying

who's profile?"

The OP who started the thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals "

Oh dear you sound like you've had some bad experiences,

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying

I get the meets - and plenty of messages - just the circumstances of the dudes change.

I don't think guys in that age range read profiles anyway lol

"

Oh we know they dont read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals "

Yeah the last one got arsey about another meet and that was the end of him! Didn't realise young men on here were so serious!!

How in earth have you not found anyone in two years? You're stunning!! I was looking at your pics the other day actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals "

I'm easy going and like hearing about meets, And what's wrong with my shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying

who's profile?

The OP who started the thread lol "

oh, lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site.

Im not fussed about exclusivity - as long as I get a weekly servicing "

try kwikfit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exclusively doesn't work on a swinging site.

Im not fussed about exclusivity - as long as I get a weekly servicing

try kwikfit "

Clever dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals

Yeah the last one got arsey about another meet and that was the end of him! Didn't realise young men on here were so serious!!

How in earth have you not found anyone in two years? You're stunning!! I was looking at your pics the other day actually.

"

Thanks lovely lady, very nice of you to say xx

If you find a great fb...& he has a twin....inbox me hahaha x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It's very difficult. Guys definitely enjoy the chase and if they want repeat meets it can be very infrequent.

I recently met a guy who I didn't realise wanted to be fbs but didn't tell me. So after I had a meet he went mad and blocked! I'm not a mind reader and I would have happily have been fbs.

So I know how you feel. The search continues!

Great advice about female buddies on here too that's what keeps me sane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)"

Like buses. ... when you don't need them they're queued up, when you need Em bad theres none in sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here 2 years now. Was looking for a fwb. Still haven't got one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to find that one elusive regular fuck buddy?

For one reason or another the guys I have met off here haven't turned out to be the regular fuck buddy I was hoping to find; that person you can call on in your hour of need; that horrible hungover state on a Sunday when only a slow comfortable screw - or hard pounding - will do.

I've not really got the time - or the desire - to shag randoms every week...but every time I've met someone...seriously it has been a bloody joke!

All my meets have been absolutely stunning in the flesh - and genuinely nice lads - but one now lives in Scotland, one has gone down South (although I'll see him again, just not regular as I'd like) one then had ex girlfriend problems which I couldn't be arsed with, one was a bit 'wet' - although we're still mates, I wouldn't shag him again...the last one I liked but admittedly I've made him run a mile by fucking it up!!

Seriously, it must be me!! Gonna give up sex for lent I think!

(And no Clem, I don't want a damned boyfriend haha)"

I've just moved from Manchester too...

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find tbe main issues are distance (why is everyone i end up being fwb with miles away?) or the other person developing feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats wrong with over 28s.....

but yeah good luck!

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde


"I feel your pain xx"

Me too, I'm getting bored witless with all the first auditions

I find most of the men I've met want to work their way through the site

I'm really not that bad .....really !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One near me would be fanfuckingtastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought Fabs would be the perfect place to meet a regular FB but so far (due to various reasons, mainly logistics!) it's proven to be rather elusive.

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde


"I thought Fabs would be the perfect place to meet a regular FB but so far (due to various reasons, mainly logistics!) it's proven to be rather elusive.

"

The north west is proving pretty barren , so I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One near me would be fanfuckingtastic."

They would have to be a mindreader too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals

Yeah the last one got arsey about another meet and that was the end of him! Didn't realise young men on here were so serious!!

How in earth have you not found anyone in two years? You're stunning!! I was looking at your pics the other day actually.

"

Keep your chin, and your standards, up.

You are gorgeous, it's unfortunate that things haven't turned out. Hopefully you won't have to single yourself out to BOB for too long.

Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One near me would be fanfuckingtastic.

They would have to be a mindreader too! "

It's part of my selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These absolutely stunning guys youve met off fab may be searching for a absolutely stunning fuck buddy on fab but just not found her yet

ohhhhh meoww lol "

Ouch why was that necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One near me would be fanfuckingtastic.

They would have to be a mindreader too!

It's part of my selection process. "

Bet you get over run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One near me would be fanfuckingtastic.

They would have to be a mindreader too!

It's part of my selection process.

Bet you get over run! "

I've even had to sharpen my stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there not also a tendency to always want something more or greater than what we can already get.

I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP I feel the same.

I was never here to shag a ton of different guys. Just to find one or two who would make good booty calls.

I did see a guy for 18 months but that didn't suit me any more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's very difficult. Guys definitely enjoy the chase and if they want repeat meets it can be very infrequent.

I recently met a guy who I didn't realise wanted to be fbs but didn't tell me. So after I had a meet he went mad and blocked! I'm not a mind reader and I would have happily have been fbs.

So I know how you feel. The search continues!

Great advice about female buddies on here too that's what keeps me sane. "

Ah, yes FQ!

I believe that's what's just happened to me, albeit I probably went about telling him in the wrong way. Still, I got blocked and now ignored on here. Was a tad gutted as the sex was so good and he was bloody LOCAL!! I live and learn.

Shit!

PS. congrats on Hot Pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been here 2 years now. Was looking for a fwb. Still haven't got one "

Oh no haha...I have approx one more year to go then! X

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality. "

Just because you're on Fab doesn't make you like the club scene or be a 'kinkster'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course "

But that's my preference? I don't shag for the sake of shagging you know!

Nor do most of the ladies on this forum post it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find tbe main issues are distance (why is everyone i end up being fwb with miles away?) or the other person developing feelings "

Yes I'd agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bit barren"

the NW aint that bad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats wrong with over 28s.....

but yeah good luck!"

Nothing at all...just into the younger ones right now! Personal preference!

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By *eeDee25Woman
over a year ago

crook

I have trouble also trying to find a fuck buddy. I tend to get plenty of offers off men who are eager to meet regular. However this neva happens. They either change their minds or after two or so meets i never see them again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx

Me too, I'm getting bored witless with all the first auditions

I find most of the men I've met want to work their way through the site

I'm really not that bad .....really ! "

You're not!

We should all get together somewhere central and go out on the pull, as a collective! No man would stand a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

But that's my preference? I don't shag for the sake of shagging you know!

Nor do most of the ladies on this forum post it would appear."

Nor should either of you lovely women. You have the choice of who you make your affiliations with and who you want to be a regular meet.

I guess our aim is to find the right regular fwb that meets the most of your criteria.

Nobody is perfect; almost but not quite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club chicky! Nearly two years I've looked....two sodding years!! Given up!

My advice.....find female Fbs instead...they are fun, easy going, actually like hearing about your meets without getting arsey, you can borrow their shoes & they will never want a relationship beyond being gal pals

Yeah the last one got arsey about another meet and that was the end of him! Didn't realise young men on here were so serious!!

How in earth have you not found anyone in two years? You're stunning!! I was looking at your pics the other day actually.

Keep your chin, and your standards, up.

You are gorgeous, it's unfortunate that things haven't turned out. Hopefully you won't have to single yourself out to BOB for too long.

Enjoy yourself

"

Thanks - I just thought it would be easy. That phrase about throwing enough shit at the wall is bollocks - just doesn't stick with me! Haha

Only kidding - no offence to any of my meets - they've all been lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx

Me too, I'm getting bored witless with all the first auditions

I find most of the men I've met want to work their way through the site

I'm really not that bad .....really !

You're not!

We should all get together somewhere central and go out on the pull, as a collective! No man would stand a chance! "

Blimey that could get well messy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I feel the same.

I was never here to shag a ton of different guys. Just to find one or two who would make good booty calls.

I did see a guy for 18 months but that didn't suit me any more."

Yes there does seem to be a lot of serial shaggers on here, clearing notches. I don't mind that as long as they come back when I need it...and I need it more frequently than this. Maybe gigilos are the way forward for us?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have trouble also trying to find a fuck buddy. I tend to get plenty of offers off men who are eager to meet regular. However this neva happens. They either change their minds or after two or so meets i never see them again."

Yes!! Exactly!! Thank you!!

Do you think we drive them away? I think I must be a terrible shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe gigilos are the way forward for us?! "

Really? Is it that bad?

Try the other side of the fence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx

Me too, I'm getting bored witless with all the first auditions

I find most of the men I've met want to work their way through the site

I'm really not that bad .....really !

You're not!

We should all get together somewhere central and go out on the pull, as a collective! No man would stand a chance!

Blimey that could get well messy!!

"

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx

Me too, I'm getting bored witless with all the first auditions

I find most of the men I've met want to work their way through the site

I'm really not that bad .....really !

You're not!

We should all get together somewhere central and go out on the pull, as a collective! No man would stand a chance!

Blimey that could get well messy!!

"

Yes...doesn't that sound great!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality.

Just because you're on Fab doesn't make you like the club scene or be a 'kinkster'."

Yeah I'm kinky as fuck, happy as Larry but don't feel the need to visit a club? Would I like more sex? Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

But that's my preference? I don't shag for the sake of shagging you know!

Nor do most of the ladies on this forum post it would appear.

Nor should either of you lovely women. You have the choice of who you make your affiliations with and who you want to be a regular meet.

I guess our aim is to find the right regular fwb that meets the most of your criteria.

Nobody is perfect; almost but not quite. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality.

Just because you're on Fab doesn't make you like the club scene or be a 'kinkster'.

Yeah I'm kinky as fuck, happy as Larry but don't feel the need to visit a club? Would I like more sex? Absolutely!"

I like the sound of this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality.

Just because you're on Fab doesn't make you like the club scene or be a 'kinkster'.

Yeah I'm kinky as fuck, happy as Larry but don't feel the need to visit a club? Would I like more sex? Absolutely!

I like the sound of this "

But who - on Fab - wouldn't like more sex eh PJ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think those that are happiest on here are the people who go and meet fellow kinksters at the local clubs. Straight away you identify with a sense of commonality.

Just because you're on Fab doesn't make you like the club scene or be a 'kinkster'.

Yeah I'm kinky as fuck, happy as Larry but don't feel the need to visit a club? Would I like more sex? Absolutely!

I like the sound of this

But who - on Fab - wouldn't like more sex eh PJ! "

Haha of course we all would G. But I particularly like "kinky as fuck"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying "

Then they're not suitable are they? It's not as if she's struggling to find a fuck buddy! Oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile might put a lot off...just saying

Then they're not suitable are they? It's not as if she's struggling to find a fuck buddy! Oh wait... "

Hahaha. Fair play!

If in doubt though, I'd rather have a lady wank!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course "

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought. "

Hmm I would agree. I do use my profile as a filter and I am purely here to meet people who fit in with my ideal, as I do ok in the real world. I did have one regular for months (met at work) but he's currently in Australia! Thought it would be easy to find his replacement on here but it's not happened...yet!

I've tried widening the age but I didn't fancy any old the above 30 ones who contacted me, nor the ones I tried to find myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought. "

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

"

I know they do! Met a 22 and 24 year olds off here recently and had great conversations with them. Very intelligent lads they were and had clearly been raised well! Makes all the difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

I know they do! Met a 22 and 24 year olds off here recently and had great conversations with them. Very intelligent lads they were and had clearly been raised well! Makes all the difference! "

I believe it makes the difference too. Where's the harm in using manners and treating people as you would like to be treated. First impressions are key, especially on Fab. The initial message and profile text paints a picture of who you are.

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over a year ago


"The initial message and profile text paints a picture of who you are. "

I quite agree.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

"

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unapproachable comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them! "

I understand what you mean with that point.

I'm all for a beautiful strong minded woman handing me my balls, so to speak. Preferably they can stay physically connected. But not everything is guaranteed in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is an attractive trait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them! "

If they don't have the confidence to approach me - and many do - then they're not right for me really.

Not like any dudes read profiles anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them!

I understand what you mean with that point.

I'm all for a beautiful strong minded woman handing me my balls, so to speak. Preferably they can stay physically connected. But not everything is guaranteed in life "

Hahaha sounds like you're actively looking for a ball buster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them! "

Im curious what it says now _

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unapproachable comes to mind "

I wish I was more unapproachable...then I wouldn't get so many messages. I've filtered and filtered to no avail ('oh - woe is me' I hear you say!)

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over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Diamonds in a coal mine

Don't rule us all out. Some do have the articulation and the intellectual capacity to attract the attention of you fine intelligent women.

I won't count myself amongst that minority just yet, that would be rather egostical and naive of myself. But young intellectuals do exist.

It's not about intellect though is it? My youngest (24) is a PhD student who lectures at university, is a published author, has an online magazine, is getting married in October but I still have to tell her to tidy her room, not leave food cooking on the hob whilst she goes to her room and Skype her mates!

I meant young men who read the ops profile would probably lack the confidence to approach her as I don't think they'd like having their balls handed to them!

I understand what you mean with that point.

I'm all for a beautiful strong minded woman handing me my balls, so to speak. Preferably they can stay physically connected. But not everything is guaranteed in life

Hahaha sounds like you're actively looking for a ball buster! "

Hahaha the position is vacant.

You're right no guy reads a profile

Why would we, when most of us are after spontaneous wild filthy sex and doing disgusting things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile.

Then looked at the pictures and forgot what I read... I messaged you and got pied haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read the profile.

Then looked at the pictures and forgot what I read... I messaged you and got pied haha "

Why would you call me 'unapproachable' when you've admitted you read the profile and THEN APPROACHED me!

I've not replied to anyone tonight as I've been in the forums - but your comment on here would certainly make me want to 'pie' you, whatever that means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*application for the position of "fuck buddy"

I'm not in Manchester but I'd give the flash a run for his money! So I could be in Manchester in....well a flash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you turn people down without hearing them out. Making you unapproachable, I meant no harm anyway so apologies if you construed my message in an offending way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be more unappeasable than unapproachable...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*application for the position of "fuck buddy"

I'm not in Manchester but I'd give the flash a run for his money! So I could be in Manchester in....well a flash

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Hahaha I've checked your application and seen that you're part of a couple! And I don't want a couple. No ties wanted!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you turn people down without hearing them out. Making you unapproachable, I meant no harm anyway so apologies if you construed my message in an offending way. "

Possibly but then I don't need to hear out people if there's no physical attraction.

Just being honest now, seeing as you think I should be acting in a certain way. If someone's not interested, is it about them being 'unapproachable' or is it just down to them sticking to what turns them on, God forbid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you turn people down without hearing them out. Making you unapproachable, I meant no harm anyway so apologies if you construed my message in an offending way.

Possibly but then I don't need to hear out people if there's no physical attraction.

Just being honest now, seeing as you think I should be acting in a certain way. If someone's not interested, is it about them being 'unapproachable' or is it just down to them sticking to what turns them on, God forbid."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not still trying it with you.

Just enticing you to think outside the box.

It's not working now so maybe changing things may help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me you are gorgeous and sound like a right catch I wouldn't worry. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not still trying it with you.

Just enticing you to think outside the box.

It's not working now so maybe changing things may help. "

I'm all up for thinking outside the box but I will never meet people (off here, for sex) I'm not physically attracted to. Never - ever - going to happen!

I would rather go without.

Likewise....If thinking outside the box is 'lower your standards and you'll get a fuck buddy'....then I'm off for a wank!

Goodnight my Fab friends! Thanks for some lovely comments and great advice x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust me you are gorgeous and sound like a right catch I wouldn't worry. X"

Not really worried dude, just frustrated and horny hahaha!

Very kind of you to say though

Goodnight, I'm up early and you have missed all the action! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not still trying it with you.

Just enticing you to think outside the box.

It's not working now so maybe changing things may help.

I'm all up for thinking outside the box but I will never meet people (off here, for sex) I'm not physically attracted to. Never - ever - going to happen!

I would rather go without.

Likewise....If thinking outside the box is 'lower your standards and you'll get a fuck buddy'....then I'm off for a wank!

Goodnight my Fab friends! Thanks for some lovely comments and great advice x x "

Goodnight G. Enjoy your lady wank.

See you in the forums again soon. x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not still trying it with you.

Just enticing you to think outside the box.

It's not working now so maybe changing things may help.

I'm all up for thinking outside the box but I will never meet people (off here, for sex) I'm not physically attracted to. Never - ever - going to happen!

I would rather go without.

Likewise....If thinking outside the box is 'lower your standards and you'll get a fuck buddy'....then I'm off for a wank!

Goodnight my Fab friends! Thanks for some lovely comments and great advice x x

Goodnight G. Enjoy your lady wank.

See you in the forums again soon. x x

"

I'll be back after a few hours kip!

Night night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes a nice refreshing change all this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no change. You guys are trying very hard to impress hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me you are gorgeous and sound like a right catch I wouldn't worry. X

Not really worried dude, just frustrated and horny hahaha!

Very kind of you to say though

Goodnight, I'm up early and you have missed all the action! x"
bugger lol and I've still got 5 hours before I can go sleep yawnnnn. Night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no change. You guys are trying very hard to impress hahaha "

I'm not

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By *ox......Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Regular fuck come and we sort something out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would it help if I lied about my age, wore a wig and shaved the beard off ;o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your going to hate me but I've 2 lovely guys I see reg..One I've been meeting over 4 yrs and the new guy...didn't go looking for a fwb but it happened...I'm sure it will happen for you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought only us gays had this issue.

I have been in a long term relationship and now have a couple of regular friends with benefits though must say I get bored with them and move on, use this site for one offs though some visit more than once. I like the variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe relax your wills and wont's on the type of guy, you're expecting a miracle. "

If she knows what she wants, why should she settle for anything less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it ok before but they we never local enough to meet spontaneously.

Now I'm too emotionally unavailable and busy to meet anyone and I find myself bored easily.

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over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Hmm I would agree. I do use my profile as a filter and I am purely here to meet people who fit in with my ideal, as I do ok in the real world. I did have one regular for months (met at work) but he's currently in Australia! Thought it would be easy to find his replacement on here but it's not happened...yet!

I've tried widening the age but I didn't fancy any old the above 30 ones who contacted me, nor the ones I tried to find myself. "

Did the men that you've met off the site match your profile?

I say stick to what you want. Seems a lot of guys are trying to get you to change what you're looking for. Instant turn off.

You never know when a gem will come along. I don't think you sound unapproachable, just that you know what you do and don't like.

They always say someone comes along when you least expect it. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to find someone to fuck. 6 months and counting on this site and no woman within my preference wants to touch me .

Annoyingly I get plenty of offers from Men and BBWS. Not for me thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would it help if I lied about my age, wore a wig and shaved the beard off ;o)"

Hahaha shouldn't have told me until the first meet!

But then you're changing who you are and I wouldn't find that attractive either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your going to hate me but I've 2 lovely guys I see reg..One I've been meeting over 4 yrs and the new guy...didn't go looking for a fwb but it happened...I'm sure it will happen for you lovely"

No that's great - gives me hope! Both off here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought only us gays had this issue.

I have been in a long term relationship and now have a couple of regular friends with benefits though must say I get bored with them and move on, use this site for one offs though some visit more than once. I like the variety."

Haha....I need more variety! I tend to get bored of the odd one too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe relax your wills and wont's on the type of guy, you're expecting a miracle.

If she knows what she wants, why should she settle for anything less?"

Thanks!!

People who aren't my type trying to get me to change that type...pfft!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found it ok before but they we never local enough to meet spontaneously.

Now I'm too emotionally unavailable and busy to meet anyone and I find myself bored easily."

I can definitely identify with being emotionally unavailable and too busy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain xx"

Struggling here aswell, arghhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Celibate works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have several that can meet less frequently....that's how i do it because of the distance....i can't meet spontaneously so I'm not sure how that side would work..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your profile Rockchick and you are very specific in your requirements.

Unlike the men that have commented, I think you should stick to your guns- except for 1 thing! The Average Joes bit! I have found that they can be Really hot! And photos do not always do them justice- maybe that would help widen your options without having to settle? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some guys ( who live actually very close ) are having trouble communicating with you because your age restrictions but that is your prerogative of course

Actually I thought that. I like the ops profile, but it's not for the fainthearted, and those that do read it in her age range would lack the acumen to contact her I'd have thought.

Hmm I would agree. I do use my profile as a filter and I am purely here to meet people who fit in with my ideal, as I do ok in the real world. I did have one regular for months (met at work) but he's currently in Australia! Thought it would be easy to find his replacement on here but it's not happened...yet!

I've tried widening the age but I didn't fancy any old the above 30 ones who contacted me, nor the ones I tried to find myself.

Did the men that you've met off the site match your profile?

I say stick to what you want. Seems a lot of guys are trying to get you to change what you're looking for. Instant turn off.

You never know when a gem will come along. I don't think you sound unapproachable, just that you know what you do and don't like.

They always say someone comes along when you least expect it. Good luck. "

Yes....every guy I've met off here has matched my physical needs and been mostly what I look for in a personality (one was a bit wet as mentioned, another had too much emotional baggage - but both still very charming)

I find it hilarious that the ones calling me unapproachable have actually approached me and it's just a case of not being my type!

I will continue as the picky woman that I am - thank you! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to find someone to fuck. 6 months and counting on this site and no woman within my preference wants to touch me .

Annoyingly I get plenty of offers from Men and BBWS. Not for me thanks "

Some people would have you widening your preferences to men...just to get a shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hve a fb who I only get meeting once a month with occasional meet in between. Not my decision & wld think is it me & his lack of interest that makes that decision. Usually it's a last minute decision when we're catching up then there's the rushing about of getn kids sorted & making sure there safe. If things were to end I just wldnt bother tryn to find anyone else. Most of my days are busy with 2jobs & kids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I looked at your profile Rockchick and you are very specific in your requirements.

Unlike the men that have commented, I think you should stick to your guns- except for 1 thing! The Average Joes bit! I have found that they can be Really hot! And photos do not always do them justice- maybe that would help widen your options without having to settle? x"

Ok - if that's the case I'll get that off there with immediate effect...haha. Thanks! x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe relax your wills and wont's on the type of guy, you're expecting a miracle.

If she knows what she wants, why should she settle for anything less?"

Read the "haven for bigots" thread. You sign up and HAVE to fuck anybody who asks. Didn't you get the memo?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to sound extremely harsh on you OP but I don't feel sorry for you. I am not one to criticize publicly and you haven't asked to be so I will bite my tongue and keep my thoughts to ones self.

You are looking for something quite niche. Very specific indeed.

There are many people on here who struggle to even find a fuck of any type.

If you are looking for a violin, I'm not going to get it out and start playing it.

IT sounds like you have been extremely lucky by finding guys to fuck that suit your preferences. Why don't you just go with the flow then? Keep a good thing going if you are getting something until you find this elusive "All singing and dancing, young, fit, VWE, regular FB".

Don't give us the "il just have to play with my toy for another month" sob story. That doesn't wash.

I'm sure there will be those who read this and think I'm an absolute bastard and those who will agree too.

Just wanted to have my say as reading your post, all the comments and your profile has seriously wound my Saturday morning up.

Good luck with your search

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