FabSwingers.com forum: any advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

What advice are you after? Advice about doing it at all, what to tell him afterwards, what kind of thing?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Do you want to?

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Only do what you want to do and not what someone else wants you to.

It's meant to be fun if it's nit then it's not worth it xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this something you want as well as your husband?

-Courtney

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, there's not really enough info about both of you, have you discussed it before etc to give any decent advice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"

Do it if you want; don't if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"

make sure it's something you BOTH WANT before anything else....

you doing it for you both or just for the hubby?

from the tone of your post it doesn't sound like your all that into the idea....apologies if i'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have someone lined up, or is your husband choosing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I always tell my wife is never lie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"

We have done this and it was really hot - we picked a trusted guy we'd met before so Mr knew I was safe. Take pics and video to show hubby - it will drive him crazy just knowing what you're doing never mind looking at pics of it. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have someone lined up, or is your husband choosing?"

I'm meeting someone we know

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."

Everything.

Communication is everything.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."

Start off telling him a little to gauge his reaction and play it by ear from there? Try telling him when you're in bed, then his reaction should be fairly obvious...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?

sounds amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sure your husband as not got a lass coming round when your out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him.

Start off telling him a little to gauge his reaction and play it by ear from there? Try telling him when you're in bed, then his reaction should be fairly obvious..."

sounds like a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sure your husband as not got a lass coming round when your out

if he's lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."

Ahhh! OK then. I would say to tell him as much as you and he want. If it were Marc he would want to hear everything. Then we can both decided whether it's something we want to continue doing. But in all honesty, it depends on your relationship and both of your expectations for the meet.

Maybe talk with him more about it before you do it. Ask him what turns him on about it and what he would like to know after the meet.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?

sounds amazing"

We loved it - Mr couldn't wait for me to get home and tell him all about it - we then had an awesome session too

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.

It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.

I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."

Remember he is male, therefore by definition probably has a fragile little ego inside a great big hairy arsed body (well I do).

As others have said, tread gently until you can properly gauge his reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.

It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.

I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me

more sex when I get home sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him.

Remember he is male, therefore by definition probably has a fragile little ego inside a great big hairy arsed body (well I do).

As others have said, tread gently until you can properly gauge his reaction. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.

It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.

I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If your hubby is the type of guy (like me) who is turned on by you telling him all the details of your meet, then he gets something out of this too.

Everyone is different and some partners don't want to hear what their spouses have been up to...but it sounds like he's excited by the idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your hubby is the type of guy (like me) who is turned on by you telling him all the details of your meet, then he gets something out of this too.

Everyone is different and some partners don't want to hear what their spouses have been up to...but it sounds like he's excited by the idea."

Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited

Definitely sounds like he is the kind of guy who will love hearing how it went. I love lying beside my wife as she talks me through a recent sexy meet. Maybe your hubby is similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited

Definitely sounds like he is the kind of guy who will love hearing how it went. I love lying beside my wife as she talks me through a recent sexy meet. Maybe your hubby is similar."

lets hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All a waste of time he's let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All a waste of time he's let me down

Shame you are so far away as I, like I'm sure many others, would be happy to step in....good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something the mrs and myself do all the time, at first she told me everything, but these days, i just asked if she had a nice time, her reply is usually a yes and we leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All a waste of time he's let me down

Shame you are so far away as I, like I'm sure many others, would be happy to step in....good luck!"

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Any advice please?

Do it if you want; don't if you don't. "

Exactly this

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"All a waste of time he's let me down

sorry to hear that. Seems to be increasingly the story of this site

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