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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. .......

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

More like just a bit of fun

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends who how and when

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was just for shits and giggles...I was being ironic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More like just a bit of fun "

Yes this .....it's especially difficult to psychoanalyse someone you don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More like just a bit of fun "

Agreed.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We did this once, got mixed re_iews it was a serious post but had hoped it would be taken a bit lighter too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do enjoy their ego being rubbed, just saying.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohh just be tolerant , who cares if they want attention sometimes you just DO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for more customers

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Depends who how and when

"

This. All sorts of reasons. Possibly a little of those suggested in the OP on occasion. Often not. Without knowing every single poster well, the day they've had or their personal circumstances at that moment it's impossible to tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss."

Fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't most of us on here want our profiles to be looked at in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Don't most of us on here want our profiles to be looked at in the first place?"

No, Not alot of point when you have nothing to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of fun..

And 'selling' themselves/profile .. But that is what everyone is here for.. To get attention and noticed..... No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably just a bit of fun and also gives a little boost. I don't mind threads like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab "

Would you consider it for a Magnum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes like to show myself, Sometimes I can be a exhibitionist and depending how my day/week or even year has gone I can have low self esteem,

But mostly it's just for fun

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Very clever OP, I like your style

Only kidding, there are lots of reasons people start those kind of threads I guess. Just a bit of fun though I like to think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a re_iew my profile.was genuinely asking for advice,took the advice on-board and rewrote it.Although the grammar police will still not be happy I guess lol,oh well.

Still not got round to posting new pics yet though.

A bit hard to kinda group all the "look at me" requests in one category,as it could be for any number of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab

Would you consider it for a Magnum? "

Is it recognised currency?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of fun..

And 'selling' themselves/profile .. But that is what everyone is here for.. To get attention and noticed..... No? "

That's what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh just be tolerant , who cares if they want attention sometimes you just DO.

"

Yeah...and isn't that why everyone is on here...for attention. Some get it in different ways...some get what they are looking for on here others need to find other ways. It's just fun. Enjoy and enjoy it that others are getting it too. Best way all round.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab

Would you consider it for a Magnum?

Is it recognised currency? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam it, I forgot to say look at me and fab my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of fun..

And 'selling' themselves/profile .. But that is what everyone is here for.. To get attention and noticed..... No?

That's what I said "

Just seen that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab

Would you consider it for a Magnum?

Is it recognised currency?

No "

Damn

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but im not fucking anyone for a fab

Would you consider it for a Magnum?

Is it recognised currency?

No

Damn "

They caused huge problems with the tills in Sainsbury

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They probably want to rid the forum of the negative stuff... oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very clever OP, I like your style

Only kidding, there are lots of reasons people start those kind of threads I guess. Just a bit of fun though I like to think "

I hope no one looked at me

Was just interested in different thoughts - that's all.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some people do enjoy their ego being rubbed, just saying. "

Everybody enjoys their ego being rubbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney "

Wish there was a hand going over the top of a head , face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney

Wish there was a hand going over the top of a head , face "

O gosh. Did I misunderstand something in the OP?

That will teach me to comment without reading the entire thread.

-Courtney

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Very clever OP, I like your style

Only kidding, there are lots of reasons people start those kind of threads I guess. Just a bit of fun though I like to think

I hope no one looked at me

Was just interested in different thoughts - that's all."

Well I looked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney "

I just googled post modern but I'm not really any the wiser. Can you give a simple definition for me Courtney?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney

I just googled post modern but I'm not really any the wiser. Can you give a simple definition for me Courtney?"

Yeah, well, post-modern is a whole school of thought, but in this context I was referring to "death of the author" theory. If you Google that you should have better luck.

I just find it interesting that the forum seems so interested in analysing itself. The act of reading author intentions into a thread when interpreting the thread. It seems to happen quite a bit. A form of self reflection with author attributions. It's really interesting here.

-Courtney

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney

I just googled post modern but I'm not really any the wiser. Can you give a simple definition for me Courtney?

Yeah, well, post-modern is a whole school of thought, but in this context I was referring to "death of the author" theory. If you Google that you should have better luck.

I just find it interesting that the forum seems so interested in analysing itself. The act of reading author intentions into a thread when interpreting the thread. It seems to happen quite a bit. A form of self reflection with author attributions. It's really interesting here.

-Courtney "

Thank you. I'll do that.

I've noticed that too but wouldn't have been able to express it as well as you . No idea why it happens though.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

We live in a world looking for a reaction, nothing more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, lots of people put pictures up because they like them being looked at. I think these threads are a way of them being looked at. Fabs are indicative of them being looked at and liked. Makes sense to me on a sex site.

On a related note, I am very interested by the post-modern nature of the forums. Does anyone know why they are so? I find it fascinating.

-Courtney

I just googled post modern but I'm not really any the wiser. Can you give a simple definition for me Courtney?

Yeah, well, post-modern is a whole school of thought, but in this context I was referring to "death of the author" theory. If you Google that you should have better luck.

I just find it interesting that the forum seems so interested in analysing itself. The act of reading author intentions into a thread when interpreting the thread. It seems to happen quite a bit. A form of self reflection with author attributions. It's really interesting here.

-Courtney

Thank you. I'll do that.

I've noticed that too but wouldn't have been able to express it as well as you . No idea why it happens though. "

The lady does write very well. I must admit I do tend to anaylise things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill start a if you fab my pics you dont have to fuck me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill start a if you fab my pics you dont have to fuck me lol"

I was going to start one with a "you can spank my bum". You go first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not post modern.

I post because I feel like it- no reason other than to get a reaction/interaction.

For fun. And attention- yes!

I am a needy insecure attention whore

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I am not post modern.

I post because I feel like it- no reason other than to get a reaction/interaction.

For fun. And attention- yes!

I am a needy insecure attention whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not post modern.

I post because I feel like it- no reason other than to get a reaction/interaction.

For fun. And attention- yes!

I am a needy insecure attention whore

"

I like your posts! You remind me of my mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss.

Fuck"

Delighted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss.

Fuck

Delighted."

Avoid- not into incest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss.

Fuck

Delighted.

Avoid- not into incest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

harmless fun,,,,,ooooooh fab me fab meeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. ......."

Most people including myself who post or begin threads have a degree of look at me . You started the thread so you tell us are you arrogant or so low in attention and esteem you feel you need your words to be scrutinised?

To break your false dichotomy sometimes I just need to shout xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. .......

Most people including myself who post or begin threads have a degree of look at me . You started the thread so you tell us are you arrogant or so low in attention and esteem you feel you need your words to be scrutinised?

To break your false dichotomy sometimes I just need to shout xx"

Def. Not arrogant and have enough attention and esteem. Just get curious and like to observe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. .......

Most people including myself who post or begin threads have a degree of look at me . You started the thread so you tell us are you arrogant or so low in attention and esteem you feel you need your words to be scrutinised?

To break your false dichotomy sometimes I just need to shout xx

Def. Not arrogant and have enough attention and esteem. Just get curious and like to observe. "

I was asking people's thoughts. Never actually mentioned mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. .......

Most people including myself who post or begin threads have a degree of look at me . You started the thread so you tell us are you arrogant or so low in attention and esteem you feel you need your words to be scrutinised?

To break your false dichotomy sometimes I just need to shout xx"

I don't post to attract attention. To me it's conversing with people.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes a little lightness and distraction or industrial strength ego stroking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They often end in meets or conversations I'd have never had before.

Othertimes i just want other people's opinions and its hard to get those opinions aithout asking for them so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not liking the brazen look at me statuses and threads - the ones where people beg for folk to fab their pics but even those can be fun to read - and some pics are very perv worthy but thats as far as we go with those - dont think they are all to do with low self esteem - fab is mostly an advert for yourselves and people choose to show themselves in many ways - nothing more or less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these "look at me" threads, thinly veiled or other wise. The please please fab my pics ones. (The best one being posted today )

Are they just show offs/exhibitionists or actually have low esteem ?

Thoughts. ......."

Depends on the thread and the person - all of the above I think!

Isn't this a market place to sell yourself? Most people most days are here to promote themselves and why not?

Me? I just like a bit of banter - I've not been one who's been flirted with throughout my life so it's nice on here now and then, even though I know it's not 'real' and all a bit of a game really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of all of the things mentioned in your OP I would think.

Fabs gives people the platform to share a side of them that maybe reality doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was just for shits and giggles...I was being ironic "

Eww.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Ohh just be tolerant , who cares if they want attention sometimes you just DO.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do enjoy their ego being rubbed, just saying.

Everybody enjoys their ego being rubbed.

"

I prefer other parts being rubbed.

Specifically my lower back...with tiger balm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do enjoy their ego being rubbed, just saying.

Everybody enjoys their ego being rubbed.

I prefer other parts being rubbed.

Specifically my lower back...with tiger balm "

Takes notes

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I did it because it's fun go fab my pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it because it's fun go fab my pics? "

There- you insecure needy attention whore- fabbed!

Oh- wait- thats me!!

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"I did it because it's fun go fab my pics?

There- you insecure needy attention whore- fabbed!

Oh- wait- thats me!! "

Fabbed yours I like your red knickers pics x

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