FabSwingers.com forum: Oooh I've been too rude for this site

By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Am amazed at what passes for rude here....

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Am amazed at what passes for rude here...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely on a sex site 'go fuck yourself' is just a kink request, not an insult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When chatting to couples who say they're into really kinky sex..we say what we want (mainly mild stuff) and it's not for them hahah..but according to their profile nothing shocks them?

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Surely on a sex site 'go fuck yourself' is just a kink request, not an insult?"

Lol might of been better... FAF ??!!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

The in shockable always seem to balk at blood letting for some reason. My knife is not that rusty

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Am amazed at what passes for rude here....

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Why?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Rude boys rude boys!

Got me thinking of prince Buster and the specials now.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

We find messages not rude enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude boys rude boys!

Got me thinking of prince Buster and the specials now. "

Or the Ruts, staring at the rude boys......

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here.."

And what exactly were you doing?

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here..

And what exactly were you doing?

Sitting naked in the bath, nothing on show and male friend was introducing me to water sports? But you'd have of looked really closely to see that...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here..

And what exactly were you doing?

Sitting naked in the bath, nothing on show and male friend was introducing me to water sports? But you'd have of looked really closely to see that..."

Watersports pics aren't allowed.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Rude boys rude boys!

Got me thinking of prince Buster and the specials now.

Or the Ruts, staring at the rude boys......"

Forgot about that one. A lot of ska and reggae references in the ruts music, babylons burning being another one.

When are we doing that club visit?

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here..

And what exactly were you doing?

Sitting naked in the bath, nothing on show and male friend was introducing me to water sports? But you'd have of looked really closely to see that...

Watersports pics aren't allowed.

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

Nothing nasty. The photo can't show anyone who might be being hurt, or who has been hurt. It also can't show anything that is outside the norms. If it's too rude, taboo or unpleasant, or if it puts us off our dinner, it is not welcome here.

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me..."

I'd guess watersports is outside the norms and would put some off their dinner.

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me...

I'd guess watersports is outside the norms and would put some off their dinner.

Giggles

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Our profile pic was rejected as being too rude at one point. Then it was deemed okay, presumably by someone else.

Don't think it could be classed as rude, taboo or unpleasant really...and when you see some pics on here it seems positively innocent by comparison!

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Our profile pic was rejected as being too rude at one point. Then it was deemed okay, presumably by someone else.

Don't think it could be classed as rude, taboo or unpleasant really...and when you see some pics on here it seems positively innocent by comparison!

Hence my post... My thoughts exactly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude boys rude boys!

Got me thinking of prince Buster and the specials now.

Or the Ruts, staring at the rude boys......

Forgot about that one. A lot of ska and reggae references in the ruts music, babylons burning being another one.

When are we doing that club visit?"

Soon I hope. I've been saving pound coins.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Not sure what your talking about op but if your talking about having photos rejected there are laws that the site adhere to.

If your talking about what others see as rude then different people have different ideas of what rude is.

Yes a picture rejected... Don't understand how it can be approved by someone then a few weeks later deemed too rude? Specially when what I was doing is listed in the activities you do on here..

And what exactly were you doing?

Sitting naked in the bath, nothing on show and male friend was introducing me to water sports? But you'd have of looked really closely to see that..."

Oooh (tut, tut, tut)

Watersports are listed in Tony Blair's "Isnt anything other than the missionary position a dangerous perversion" legislation of 2003 (I may have the exact title of the Act wrong

)

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/uk-porn-legislation-what-is-now-banned-under-new-government-laws-9898541.html

You can talk about it, you can do it, but the site isn't allowed to knowingly have pictures of it.

Sadly, if you have a pic rejected after a long time, it normally means you have (ironically) 'pissed' (

) someone off in the forums.

Mr ddc

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me...

I'd guess watersports is outside the norms and would put some off their dinner.

would make your chips soggy..

then again may improve my mum in laws cooking..

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me...

I'd guess watersports is outside the norms and would put some off their dinner.

would make your chips soggy..

then again may improve my mum in laws cooking..

You've had her Christmas dinner too? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 4 pics rejected after 3 months...I must have pissed someone up high then. Granted they did allow one back for me but ironically it had less of me in it than the other 3...lmao.

We're not to reason why, we're but to do or die...into the valley of death rode the fab 600....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

It doesn't say that? All I could see was this..

I don't want to be awkward but I suppose it's a learning curve for me...

I'd guess watersports is outside the norms and would put some off their dinner.

would make your chips soggy..

then again may improve my mum in laws cooking..

You've had her Christmas dinner too? Lol"

only the once..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"When chatting to couples who say they're into really kinky sex..we say what we want (mainly mild stuff) and it's not for them hahah..but according to their profile nothing shocks them?

A good tip is to not report upon your interactions with others, especially if someone's not the happiest.

People may not be shocked by anything, though they may be offended or upset.

And fab has rules for what is permitted in profiles, photos, the forum etc. It's worth us renewing our knowledge of the conditions regularly, so that we don't make mistakes.

Many of us can make mistakes here, it can be part of becoming established.

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"I had 4 pics rejected after 3 months...I must have pissed someone up high then. Granted they did allow one back for me but ironically it had less of me in it than the other 3...lmao.

We're not to reason why, we're but to do or die...into the valley of death rode the fab 600.... "

Poetic too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had no end of pics rejected .

Some fisting and watersports don't get approved at all , and others have been rejected a week later after being approved .

I don't see why if watersports is an acceptable interest that pics are rejected .

Nor fisting to be honest .

But th a ts how it is .

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"We have had no end of pics rejected .

Some fisting and watersports don't get approved at all , and others have been rejected a week later after being approved .

I don't see why if watersports is an acceptable interest that pics are rejected .

Nor fisting to be honest .

But th a ts how it is ."

It is strange specially with some of the more graphic pics on here.. But as you say I'm sure everyone gets pix rejected at some time...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Fisting and face sitting are against the law.

C...

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"We have had no end of pics rejected .

Some fisting and watersports don't get approved at all , and others have been rejected a week later after being approved .

I don't see why if watersports is an acceptable interest that pics are rejected .

Nor fisting to be honest .

But th a ts how it is ."

It is a bit strange come to think of it, that fisting and watersports are two of the listed interests but you can't show them in photos.

I think they should have an extra category for pics like that. We are all grown adults after all. Some (like myself!) would love to be able to see the more extreme stuff.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"We have had no end of pics rejected .

Some fisting and watersports don't get approved at all , and others have been rejected a week later after being approved .

I don't see why if watersports is an acceptable interest that pics are rejected .

Nor fisting to be honest .

But th a ts how it is .

It is strange specially with some of the more graphic pics on here.. But as you say I'm sure everyone gets pix rejected at some time..."
well I,ve either seen pictures of watersports on here before they were Rejected or missed all together, but not just on here.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Possession of an image depicting...
"...Fisting and face sitting are against the law.

C..."

(Amongst others)

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"We have had no end of pics rejected .

Some fisting and watersports don't get approved at all , and others have been rejected a week later after being approved .

I don't see why if watersports is an acceptable interest that pics are rejected .

Nor fisting to be honest .

But th a ts how it is .

It is strange specially with some of the more graphic pics on here.. But as you say I'm sure everyone gets pix rejected at some time..."

It's not our thing but if we saw pics it's wouldn't bother us and as has been said more graphic pics on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The in shockable always seem to balk at blood letting for some reason. My knife is not that rusty

No its just the fact you leave it in a pot of piss and shit for an added danger value...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still shicked by most things

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My avatar keeps getting reported!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Who,s told you that

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"My avatar keeps getting reported!

I'm not surprised, I've always thought that bloke with the Top hat looked a bit shifty, exactly the sort who'd be into...[post partially deleted]

Mr ddc

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Fisting and face sitting are against the law.

C..."

that's a bummer..

quite partial to the latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some photo mods are stricter than others. I've seen pics of people with their pets and single male profiles with full face pics of fems.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"The in shockable always seem to balk at blood letting for some reason. My knife is not that rusty

No its just the fact you leave it in a pot of piss and shit for an added danger value..."

I do wipe it on my sleeve before it goes to work

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By *uzzy Navel OP Woman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"My avatar keeps getting reported!

I'm not surprised, I've always thought that bloke with the Top hat looked a bit shifty, exactly the sort who'd be into...[post partially deleted]

Mr ddc"

Ha ha ha

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"My avatar keeps getting reported!

I'm not surprised, I've always thought that bloke with the Top hat looked a bit shifty, exactly the sort who'd be into...[post partially deleted]

Mr ddc"

And here was me thinking it was my moustache that was offensive!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Fisting/peeing pics are not allowed on the site after advice Admin have had. Yes, it is in the interests, but mentioning it is totally different than seeing it in pics.

If you have had pics rejected after they had been approved for a week or so then the pic must have been reported and taken down.

However, if you think that decision is wrong then the best thing to do is leave the rejected pic in the gallery and ask Admin from the CONTACT button to review

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