FabSwingers.com forum: Bi-sexuality

By *trr21 OP Man
over a year ago

EAST SUFFOLK

How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women are more open to experimenting in this area than men.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I just don't like cocks, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

Come on its easy. Women are sexy and hot! Men are......well we are not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't like cocks, sorry!

God that must be awful for you!....you have on attached to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one even....ffs!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"one even....ffs!"

Oh I love mine, although it's a bit broken at the minute. Needs some R&R.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

People tend to see a woman being bi on sites like this pretty normal. I tend to forget to ask the lady now if she is bi!

For a man to admit he is bi seems different tho I think it totally wrong. Some men think it questions their manliness and wouldnt admit to being interested in another mans cock at all.

I adore the men that have the confidence to say they are bi.

Those that hide it in my opinion I feel are being very dishonest with themselves and everyone else.

Just be honest and be done with it, tho I know sooooo many wont.

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By *trr21 OP Man
over a year ago

EAST SUFFOLK

You have knocked the prick, sorry nail on the head there.

I am proudly Bi-sexual.......there you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have knocked the prick, sorry nail on the head there.

I am proudly Bi-sexual.......there you go!"
and you should be proud about it your just being who you are x i am having my first mmf with two bi men this week .. one meet before ..i think its lovely i am very bi myself been so from 14. xx jo

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

good on ya hun,i think men should not be scared anymore about experimenting coz its not as frowned apon now.i have been bi since i was 16

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

I shouldn't really tell you this, but hey why not...

A lot of single women say they are bi as they think it will be appealling to men ... especially the guys who want to live out their MFF fantasy. So their you have it, it's all a ploy to bag a fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one even....ffs!

Oh I love mine, although it's a bit broken at the minute. Needs some R&R."

Why what's wrong with the little chap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i mention what i feel i am on my profile which is hetro-flexible, i know some people will see it as a copout but this is personally what i think i am. so yes in a basic way if someone asked me if i was bi i do reply with yes but then i explain to them i am more so het

exible so they understand

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By *xonswingersCouple
over a year ago

Close to Oxford

I'm Bi and OxonFem gets off on seeing me with another guy (or 2) just in the same way guys get off seing their partner with another girl......In fact, we have had single ladies asking to join us just becuase they want to see 2 guys together as part of their fantasy.

Its all fun and damned sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't like cocks, sorry!

I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

Just because your open with it don't expect others to be. I bet most men that message you are probably straight business men in town for the night on business lol.

But being serious some men won't admit it even with a cock in their ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had bi-curious on my profile for a while but I've tried it and it's not for me so now changed it back to straight. It's what I am and will stick by that until I feel I want to explore again as that is all I think it is with a lot of people.

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By *trr21 OP Man
over a year ago

EAST SUFFOLK

Makes me laugh when it says "Not looking for single guys" when they are looking for TV/TS on their profile or have reviews from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when it says "Not looking for single guys" when they are looking for TV/TS on their profile or have reviews from them. "

Oh I agree there maybe they think a bloke in a dress means they are not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when it says "Not looking for single guys" when they are looking for TV/TS on their profile or have reviews from them. "

Well you can always get the mac 3 out then, ann summers still have a big sale on

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"You have knocked the prick, sorry nail on the head there.

I am proudly Bi-sexual.......there you go!"

bt, well done that man, it takes some man so open up and be honest about their sexuality. Well done you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have knocked the prick, sorry nail on the head there.

I am proudly Bi-sexual.......there you go!"

Out and PROUD...very refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!

I shouldn't really tell you this, but hey why not...

A lot of single women say they are bi as they think it will be appealling to men ... especially the guys who want to live out their MFF fantasy. So their you have it, it's all a ploy to bag a fella."

Hell yes...its become almost the "norm" in swinging now...having had lady love with a few of these "BI" women...I can say it wont be something I will be repeating anytime soon...its hard blooming work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tri sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual here, maybe I should change my profile to straight though, apparently you get more meets then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its just more acceptable for women to play together

take clubs for example women can go to a club any night and play with other women in open rooms while men have to go on special bi nights, personally i think its wrong

i think all men should be bi and the hot ones should let me watch lol

i love 3sums with 2 bi guys its my all time fave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think its just more acceptable for women to play together

take clubs for example women can go to a club any night and play with other women in open rooms while men have to go on special bi nights, personally i think its wrong

i think all men should be bi and the hot ones should let me watch lol

i love 3sums with 2 bi guys its my all time fave"

im afraid it is fact women are more open on this subject and more honerst generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when it says "Not looking for single guys" when they are looking for TV/TS on their profile or have reviews from them. "

mine says not looking for couples but i have verifications from couples

i dont meet couples off here but have met couples who use the site at clubs/house parties etc who have verified me, that dont mean id meet one from off here

people spend far to much time analysing other peoples profiles

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"one even....ffs!

Oh I love mine, although it's a bit broken at the minute. Needs some R&R."

Not another set back with the time machine again I hope Funky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my profile has always stated Straight although I have had a few Bi experiences with other Bi couples, I only ever play Bi with couples never single 1-1 stuff as that for some reason would freak me out. After reading all the forum posts on this subject I am now changing my profile to Bi,

Just waiting to see how many people look at my profile now LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny isnt it as a couple we have been with other couples both straight and bi and the funest meets have been were the guy is bi as im straight more to my guys disappointment lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"people spend far to much time analysing other peoples profiles "

That's providing the profiles been read

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By *laything1966Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"i think its just more acceptable for women to play together

take clubs for example women can go to a club any night and play with other women in open rooms while men have to go on special bi nights, personally i think its wrong

i think all men should be bi and the hot ones should let me watch lol

i love 3sums with 2 bi guys its my all time fave"
what a great thought why should we only be allowed to play bi on bi only nights as a lot of women tell me they love watching 2 guys together then they get twice the fun aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both bi, i totally adore watching mr sj with a guy and he has no problem saying he is bi, why should any guy not admit it, your sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of and if a person judges you soley on that then pft! to them lol foursomes are ace when every one is bi, a free for all with no holes barred ..er hermmmmmmmm lol

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

mmmmmm i really love seeing two guys playing xx

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By *anny9840Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

Have you ever thought ..just maybe its beacuase the majority of men are ...hetrosexual...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find a lot of men pretend to be heterosexual on here lol i wish everyone was bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

hmmmmm not so sure about the 80%. Many of we women are bi-playful rather than bi-sexual. Some people seem to object to this "partial" bi-sexuality but I think it's all part of the erotic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!

Have you ever thought ..just maybe its beacuase the majority of men are ...hetrosexual..."

I never get contacted by bi or gay men on here, just those claiming they're straight on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are both bi, i totally adore watching mr sj with a guy and he has no problem saying he is bi, why should any guy not admit it, your sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of and if a person judges you soley on that then pft! to them lol foursomes are ace when every one is bi, a free for all with no holes barred ..er hermmmmmmmm lol"

*sits quietly hoping for an invite*

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By *anny9840Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

If your saying 80% of females on here are bisexual i think the truth is that 75% of the female bisexuals on here are men posing as female bisexuals ...sad but true

must not forget the smiley face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when was the survey? where are these percentages coming from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people pluck percentages out of the air to try and 'prove' a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed bertie but i also agree with danny, lots of guys on here pretending to be bi females, we've had a few experiences of that..i am going to be different and use a cool face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why people pluck percentages out of the air to try and 'prove' a point."

I agree,,,, and what I'm about to say proves absolutely zilch,,,, however just out of interest,,, the following statistics are not plucked from thin air..... 73 % of the last 100 people to view my profile were straight males....and 31 out of the last 40 messages I've received asking for sex were also from men with straight profile's.... Which is canny frustrating really,,,,, ahhh sigh,,,,,,,, still mustn't grumble

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By *eengazCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I believe most men just like woman have a bi tendancy but will not admit it, its a masuline thing, especially in front of their partners. They probably dont realise that their partners would probably love to watch.

I had thought about it before and it wasnt until my wife told me it was a fantasy of hers to see me suck cock that i decided to try it. I must say that when you have 3 or 4 bodies all together in a very horny environment all together it seems to be a natural act when the girls are doing it too. Lets all be free and just have fun. Fuck what society thinks we should do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come 80% of women admit to being bi-sexual when very few men do? Talk about equality, is it now in reverse? lol!"

Because women are far more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, that is not just the case...we get loads of emails from "straight" guys emailing to say there ARE bisexual but dont want to say on their profile or they "didn't realise" that it was not on their profiles!! It drives us mad! We state on our profile not to email or invite us if you are straight songle guys...they should be honest in the first place!

We are a couple, married and both bisexual and proud of it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is straight and single by the way...lol!! typos!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Have been bi since I was mid teens & have kept it secret from all of my girlfriends & mates over the years, but told my current g/f as soon as I met her (pissed off with all the secrecy) She doesn't mind but won't join in, (damned shame!) Still get messages off "straight guys" though bi clearly stated on my profile!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Bi guys have always been the norm to me, my ex husband was bi, Jay is bi and quite a few of my other long term relationships as well. Either i attract them or guys feel they can be honest with me and dont have to hide anything

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It really wasn't all that long ago that being a practicing male homosexual could get you locked up in prison. As a youngster, although I didn't truly understand what homosexuality was in hind site I can see I was conditioned to be homophobic in a homophobic society.

Even nowadays, certainly in the vanilla world homosexuality is considered filthy, dirty and disgusting. Whereas female homosexuality has generally considered erotic by both sexes, be they straight or not.

In swinging it seems that 'stating' bi-fem is the fashion like all the people who claim not to smoke to improve their chances of a meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My chuckle in profiles that go something like this.

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Female Bi, but not a must, can play straight.

Male straight, so we won't meet bi men

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Guess bi men can't play straight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey, that is not just the case...we get loads of emails from "straight" guys emailing to say there ARE bisexual but dont want to say on their profile or they "didn't realise" that it was not on their profiles!! It drives us mad! We state on our profile not to email or invite us if you are straight songle guys...they should be honest in the first place!

We are a couple, married and both bisexual and proud of it!!!!

Ditto. It's rude in my opinion - so it's ok for Alex to say he's bi and take a risk someone will recognise him but not for whichever "straight" male messaging? I just tell them to do one....and if they did, i might reconsider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from married...way too soon for that!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

*Sarcasm Alert*

Society is so accepting of sexuality and all its variations and nowhere more so accepting and understanding as on a sex related site.... that's why people still use phrases like "admitting" and "being honest" and "won't own up", instead of 'identify with'.

Generally speaking, do we not tend to "admit" to things which we have done wrong... "be honest" about things we are doing wrong and "own up" to things we have done wrong.

The underlying message in the language often used when discussing sexuality speaks volumes.

In most cases people will state the sexuality they most identify with… it is their sexual identity not anyone else’s, they know how they feel. Far too many people apply outdated definitions and beliefs about sexuality… usually because they like putting people in neat tidy boxes, it brings order to things. Sexuality does not sit in 3 or 4 tidy boxes. Some sexuality is fixed and rigid, whilst some is transitional and less easy to define. For some sexuality is much more fluid and changes over long and short periods of time.

To coin a management phrase…. until people learn to think outside the box, there will always be people saying “why won’t they admit to being bi”

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