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Sexy fun - matter of mind or body?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

And another one... passionate about this one as I feel good sex has (almost ) nothing to do with looks... but so much more with the mind... This is where you guys have an opportunity to shine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a woman!...so leaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man I know good, no great sex starts in the head, builds in the head.. and finishes in both the head and the body.. I know a woman needs to feel certain things in places other than the obvious...

Men are visual.... we need to see just as much as you girls need to 'feel'

Make sense??

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Is a woman!...so leaves. "

Oh noooo, please dont leave... this is just to balance the domesticated man thread as I know I am going to get stick later ... please... express yourselves, guys AND dolls.... Lets face it we all got a bit of both in us... so to speak xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

came back in, and decided it was a bad idea...I think I just saw a man making sense!...shakes head and wanders off again!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"As a man I know good, no great sex starts in the head, builds in the head.. and finishes in both the head and the body.. I know a woman needs to feel certain things in places other than the obvious...

Men are visual.... we need to see just as much as you girls need to 'feel'

Make sense??"

Possibly, but "feel" was NOT what I was talking about... I AM Talking mind, brain, imagination... cerebal functining... not lovey dovey stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a man I know good, no great sex starts in the head, builds in the head.. and finishes in both the head and the body.. I know a woman needs to feel certain things in places other than the obvious...

Men are visual.... we need to see just as much as you girls need to 'feel'

Make sense??"

Yep makes sense to me

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"came back in, and decided it was a bad idea...I think I just saw a man making sense!...shakes head and wanders off again! "

No, lol.. now there is a contradiction in terms, a man making sense pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a woman!...so leaves.

Oh noooo, please dont leave... this is just to balance the domesticated man thread as I know I am going to get stick later ... please... express yourselves, guys AND dolls.... Lets face it we all got a bit of both in us... so to speak xx"

Well ok, but only as you asked so nicely.

Definitely the mind. I can stimulate myself to orgasm through my mind, it has also been known to happen with someone else.

The body however is a lot harder to stimulate and would not respond if the mind were not stimulated first.

diddly diddily diddly diddly dee...situation. (private joke with me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are Neanderthal idiots you know...

Most I meet in this scene know for us to have a great time.. we have to give a good time.

Nothing but nothing is hornier than taking a woman to the edge.. making her quiver to your very touch.. letting her imagination run absolute riot.... Then and only then move the guy doing that out of the way and take all the glory lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol"

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men are Neanderthal idiots you know...

Most I meet in this scene know for us to have a great time.. we have to give a good time.

Nothing but nothing is hornier than taking a woman to the edge.. making her quiver to your very touch.. letting her imagination run absolute riot.... Then and only then move the guy doing that out of the way and take all the glory lol..

"

PMSL...actually some of that actually caused a stirring...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant?"

personally...no. If the person who does it for you comes nicely packaged it is a bonus lol. There has to be some attraction, but that can and does come from the person they are, rather than how they look.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not all men are Neanderthal idiots you know...

Most I meet in this scene know for us to have a great time.. we have to give a good time.

Nothing but nothing is hornier than taking a woman to the edge.. making her quiver to your very touch.. letting her imagination run absolute riot.... Then and only then move the guy doing that out of the way and take all the glory lol..

PMSL...actually some of that actually caused a stirring... "

Agreed - nothing sexier than a guy who knows what he is doing and not afraid to do it without asking... Is that ok ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant?"
Well .. its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person looks,,, and lots of swingers dont get the time too really know the people thay shag x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men are Neanderthal idiots you know...

Most I meet in this scene know for us to have a great time.. we have to give a good time.

Nothing but nothing is hornier than taking a woman to the edge.. making her quiver to your very touch.. letting her imagination run absolute riot.... Then and only then move the guy doing that out of the way and take all the glory lol..

PMSL...actually some of that actually caused a stirring...

Agreed - nothing sexier than a guy who knows what he is doing and not afraid to do it without asking... Is that ok ??? "

or feel ego bruising if you show/tell them how and what you like.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant? Well .. its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person looks,,, and lots of swingers dont get the time too really know the people thay shag x"

Guess you are right there, I love to understand somebody's mind a bit first, otherwise well, my dildo is sometimes more intelligent and imaginative than some guys... (sorry, not really sexist) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant? Well .. its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person looks,,, and lots of swingers dont get the time too really know the people thay shag x"

I would not have sex with someone I had not got to know first.

I can look at someone and think, wow he is hot....would he do it sexually from that alone...no.

I would be more satisfied playing with myself. The build up, teasing and flirting are so much a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another one... passionate about this one as I feel good sex has (almost ) nothing to do with looks... but so much more with the mind... This is where you guys have an opportunity to shine.... "

Nice to see a woman state that a man has a mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant? Well .. its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person looks,,, and lots of swingers dont get the time too really know the people thay shag x

Guess you are right there, I love to understand somebody's mind a bit first, otherwise well, my dildo is sometimes more intelligent and imaginative than some guys... (sorry, not really sexist) xx"
lol. I like too feel more then a peace of meat when i have sex too.... and theres so much more too be had from sex when you give in too passion and lust for hours ,, lol SEX can be so much more then a 5 min shag,, do you know once i was in bed with a man 3 days only getting up to bath and eat ,,, and drink ,, was all sex ,, lol HEVEN , LOLOL JO XX

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Sex starts in the head and works it way down ,, lol and looks do come into it ,,,,,,,,, what ever turns you on at the time really. Can be a horny looking man ,,,, or woman lips ,, smile .. eyes can start me off ,, lol

So, serious for a moment... that means looks are not really that relevant? Well .. its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person looks,,, and lots of swingers dont get the time too really know the people thay shag x

Guess you are right there, I love to understand somebody's mind a bit first, otherwise well, my dildo is sometimes more intelligent and imaginative than some guys... (sorry, not really sexist) xx lol. I like too feel more then a peace of meat when i have sex too.... and theres so much more too be had from sex when you give in too passion and lust for hours ,, lol SEX can be so much more then a 5 min shag,, do you know once i was in bed with a man 3 days only getting up to bath and eat ,,, and drink ,, was all sex ,, lol HEVEN , LOLOL JO XX"

Where does he live, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will get him too mail ,, lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days in bed when there is the washing to do!....I would of beaten him...lol

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By *ongyaMan
over a year ago

aldridge..

good sex is all about giving .......then you can reap the rewards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good sex is all about giving .......then you can reap the rewards..."

giving what?

( I may have to disagree here lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 days in bed when there is the washing to do!....I would of beaten him...lol"
Going from one orgSam too the next drifting into a world of sex ,,, I was High on lust sex and passion. washing myself only to get dirty again , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god I would of been soooooooo bored!

there is a chicken wandering around my living room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god I would of been soooooooo bored!

there is a chicken wandering around my living room!"
Bored never i can be very kinky and chickens just not my thing ,, lolololol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"3 days in bed when there is the washing to do!....I would of beaten him...lol Going from one orgSam too the next drifting into a world of sex ,,, I was High on lust sex and passion. washing myself only to get dirty again , lol"

WOW lovely, been there myself not sooo long ago... not 3 days (had to get back to work) but that intensity... wanting more and more and more... could not sit for a while...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Oh god I would of been soooooooo bored!

there is a chicken wandering around my living room! Bored never i can be very kinky and chickens just not my thing ,, lolololol"

What did i just miss... where did the Chicken come from... I am vegetarian!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought you were going to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Thought you were going to work "

I am, I am , I am... just could not resist coming back once more.. but AM DEF going now... all yours to play .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey. "

Christ i have heard some late for work excuses but that ranks in the top ten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey. "
my god do you live on a farm ,, lol is there a cock. We have one around here could kill it at 3 in morning , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey.

Christ i have heard some late for work excuses but that ranks in the top ten"

day off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey. my god do you live on a farm ,, lol is there a cock. We have one around here could kill it at 3 in morning , lol"

nope, just a small holding...chickens, ducks, horses, goats, guinea pigs!, cats turkeys....cross between the darling buds of may and the dingles lol....no cock, we ate him at christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol....no cock, we ate him at christmas!"

Do you get many meets then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I was replying, and the back door is open and i heard a noise...bloody chicken wandered in for a nosey. my god do you live on a farm ,, lol is there a cock. We have one around here could kill it at 3 in morning , lol

nope, just a small holding...chickens, ducks, horses, goats, guinea pigs!, cats turkeys....cross between the darling buds of may and the dingles lol....no cock, we ate him at christmas!"
ooooo my that poor cock ,, hope he was not a family friend , lol i get so close too my pets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol....no cock, we ate him at christmas!

Do you get many meets then? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its diffeent strokes for different folks

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Its diffeent strokes for different folks "

Am I doing something wrong? I don't stroke cock....errrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said about stroking cock?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Who said about stroking cock? "

Ok, stroking ego then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol thats me out then as i dont have one

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

oooooooooooooooooooh

Has to be total pleasure of the body.

If i can be arsed to talk to him after 0 then the minds may have to meet at that point.

Easy solution is - kick em out once you are done

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over a year ago


"3 days in bed when there is the washing to do!....I would of beaten him...lol Going from one orgSam too the next drifting into a world of sex ,,, I was High on lust sex and passion. washing myself only to get dirty again , lol

WOW lovely, been there myself not sooo long ago... not 3 days (had to get back to work) but that intensity... wanting more and more and more... could not sit for a while..."

wow another of my old threads resurfacing ..what lovely memories that has brought back cant believe it...it was a great xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a pretty face and attractive other parts is a bonus.

But connect with a lady on several levels and then you'll know what great sex is all about.

And connected minds make a huge difference!

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