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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi...

I know this is probably a strange thing to ask considering where I'm posting it, but I'm desperate for ideas. Cut to the chase, me and the wife (in our mid thirties) love going out and playing the bar game. Back in the late 90s / early 00's we used to go clubbing every Saturday not to dance but so she could dress up in the smallest skirt she had and wander round pulling guys, dancing, flashing, getting fingered etc. I loved it because I love to watch her in action. I'd just follow her round and guys would be trying it on left right and centre. I saw all sorts go on!

Fast forward 10 years and nightlife has gone to the dogs, people just don't go out to pull anymore. We're fed up of having dead nights in town and no action. I know we're older now but the Mrs is still really fit so it's not that. Been on here before a few times, and had a few swings, ie we've had guys come round and fuck her. But neither of us have really enjoyed it, just feels awkward. It's not the sex part we love it's the exhibitionism and the naughtiness of it. We don't feel we want to go to a swingers club because me joining in isn't our thing... and to be honest we don't like going anywhere where there is an 'expectation' of sex or even nudity.

What we want is a normal public environment but where it's buzzing and blokes are trying it on with the Mrs all the time. Loud, lairy, DJ's getting girls on stage or playing games etc. Or what we've tried recently is going into 'local' type pubs on Friday nights with the Mrs dressed in see through leggings or a short skirt, hoping to find groups of builders etc. She's got a fantasy about being the object of attention in a pub - passed around guy to guy kind of thing. But the environment isn't right... she gets chatting to guys and nothing happens.

Interested in suggestions in UK or abroad. We're due a holiday so have been looking at the 'Desire' type places in Cancun which look fun but reviews still say it's mainly all about what happens in the rooms. We're probably a bit old for Magaluf. We've tried places in the UK on summer bank holidays like Newcastle, Blackpool etc but not had much look. Same story people aren't looking to pull!

Thanks for any suggestions...

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Hi...

I know this is probably a strange thing to ask considering where I'm posting it, but I'm desperate for ideas. Cut to the chase, me and the wife (in our mid thirties) love going out and playing the bar game. Back in the late 90s / early 00's we used to go clubbing every Saturday not to dance but so she could dress up in the smallest skirt she had and wander round pulling guys, dancing, flashing, getting fingered etc. I loved it because I love to watch her in action. I'd just follow her round and guys would be trying it on left right and centre. I saw all sorts go on!

Fast forward 10 years and nightlife has gone to the dogs, people just don't go out to pull anymore. We're fed up of having dead nights in town and no action. I know we're older now but the Mrs is still really fit so it's not that. Been on here before a few times, and had a few swings, ie we've had guys come round and fuck her. But neither of us have really enjoyed it, just feels awkward. It's not the sex part we love it's the exhibitionism and the naughtiness of it. We don't feel we want to go to a swingers club because me joining in isn't our thing... and to be honest we don't like going anywhere where there is an 'expectation' of sex or even nudity.

What we want is a normal public environment but where it's buzzing and blokes are trying it on with the Mrs all the time. Loud, lairy, DJ's getting girls on stage or playing games etc. Or what we've tried recently is going into 'local' type pubs on Friday nights with the Mrs dressed in see through leggings or a short skirt, hoping to find groups of builders etc. She's got a fantasy about being the object of attention in a pub - passed around guy to guy kind of thing. But the environment isn't right... she gets chatting to guys and nothing happens.

Interested in suggestions in UK or abroad. We're due a holiday so have been looking at the 'Desire' type places in Cancun which look fun but reviews still say it's mainly all about what happens in the rooms. We're probably a bit old for Magaluf. We've tried places in the UK on summer bank holidays like Newcastle, Blackpool etc but not had much look. Same story people aren't looking to pull!

Thanks for any suggestions...

"

Ibiza

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Cap D'agde, fits all your requirements, look on the France forum for info.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Clubs like xtasia seem perfect for what you are looking for. I think you have swinging clubs wrong to. There's never been any expectation in any of the clubs we have been to. Of course if you went to a wet club then you'd be expected to lose your clothes quite early on but if you go to clubs with a nightclub style you wouldn't get that. Try a club like xtasia what's the worst that could happen? You don't go there again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...

I think we're a bit past Ibiza in all honesty.

Cap D'agde I've looked into in the past, and the nightlife looks very appealing, but for a holiday we're not really nudists.

Xtasia is a good shout. A non-swinger swingers club. Probably about as good as it gets I reckon. Thanks.

We're cheats basically. We want the fun side of swinging without the social investment. Easiest thing would be send the Mrs out with her girlfriends, but then I don't get to see anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ibiza or magaluf.. You are not to old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww so we dont go out and ask the question 'did ya kop off with anybody last night then ?'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You could always post a social, held in a traditional pub etc, and get the attendees mingling with the regulars, probably all having more of the fun you want. Ensure you permit enough single men along.

Otherwise around here there's still plenty of pulling going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Torcher garden

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By *punkslutandherCouple
over a year ago

near Keighley

What about Crete! Malia is full of people on the pull and even if there's a young crowd they'd love a cougar . We stayed in a village just outside of Malia so that we could enjoy relaxed days by the pool and not be bothered by 18-30 revellers when we didn't want to be and then it's a quick taxi to Malia when you're looking for fun and games

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