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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After losing my Mum recently, I've realised I dont have one now.

Tried talking to my oldest Daughter about it and she told me to shut up.

Do you have one ?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Surely your daughter IS your next of kin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two mums and one dad left

Several brothers and sisters too so guess I've a while before I run out of options

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely your daughter IS your next of kin?"

I dont know is she ?

Don't I have to have her permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my eldest son is mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your eldest daughter is yours.

I guess it goes out and out until you have no living relatives , even if they are distant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closest blood relative is your next of kin... But you can appoint anyone you want when giving next of kin details to hospitals, GPs etc.. Mine is a friend as no family and feel kids are too young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Closest blood relative is your next of kin... But you can appoint anyone you want when giving next of kin details to hospitals, GPs etc.. Mine is a friend as no family and feel kids are too young "

I understand why you've done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your eldest daughter is automatically ur next of kin and ur mother wasnt although u may have been ur mothers NOK ide google it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Husband is mine. He and kids named in my passport.

My sons best friend died at Xmas and even though he had a brother He was named in passport as first contact. So my son had to tell the brother then he took over.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Both my sons, didn't have to ask, on the death of my husband they just assumed the position x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mum has always been named as mine even when I was married.

Never thought about it until recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum has always been named as mine even when I was married.

Never thought about it until recently "

My mum was mine until she passed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't your daughter your next of kin?.

I always presumed your kids would automatically override your parents as next of kin.

Now I think about it, I'm not sure but if I died I'd presume my kids would inherit my money, not my mother or father?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't your daughter your next of kin?.

I always presumed your kids would automatically override your parents as next of kin.

Now I think about it, I'm not sure but if I died I'd presume my kids would inherit my money, not my mother or father?"

To be honest its not money I'm thinking about. Its funeral arrangements etc.

Made me seriously think about life insurance x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Their is a strict hierarchy when it comes to next of kin for legal matters. Mine is my dad as kids under 18

Husband or wife

Son or daughter

Father or mother

Brother or sister

Grandparent

Grandchild

Uncle or aunt

Nephew or niece

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Their is a strict hierarchy when it comes to next of kin for legal matters. Mine is my dad as kids under 18

Husband or wife

Son or daughter

Father or mother

Brother or sister

Grandparent

Grandchild

Uncle or aunt

Nephew or niece"

Checked on google and it says closest blood relative.

That excludes spouses then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If no will... Closest blood relative Inherits estate. If this is kids it is split equally. Unless married then spouse does... This includes any lawful debt and funeral costs. With will you can chose who you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your mum QOT. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've my mum left and sisters and brother, plus a few cousins, aunts and uncles.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Their is a strict hierarchy when it comes to next of kin for legal matters. Mine is my dad as kids under 18

Husband or wife

Son or daughter

Father or mother

Brother or sister

Grandparent

Grandchild

Uncle or aunt

Nephew or niece

Checked on google and it says closest blood relative.

That excludes spouses then ? "

For England & Wales for inheritance & mental health act purposes spouse comes 1st - you can check on www . gov . uk / inherits-someone-dies-without-will taking out the spaces

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It's something that is automatic unless you change it. I know I was my fathers for death purposes never really thought about it. Im sure spouses must be. If my mum died it would be my stepdad doing the death certificate and everything not me.

I have actually assumed my mum was mine fuck knows what would happen to me if my son was in charge

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Debt does not pass on unless it is joint debt. It becomes a debt of the estate & must be paid by the Executors if funds are left. Debts should be paid in following order

secured debts - mortgage or loans secured against property

Funeral costs & costs of administering the estate

Unsecured debts such as credit cards, utility bills, rent, council tax etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear about your mum QOT. X"

Thank you lovely x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm next of kin to one of my best friends as his brother lives abroad and I'm all he's got. My parents/brother are mine and I theirs.

Tricky when you're on your own. Speak to your daughter again. Shut up isn't great when you need her but I do think you can just put her down on forms etc and she'll deal with it as and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't your daughter your next of kin?.

I always presumed your kids would automatically override your parents as next of kin.

Now I think about it, I'm not sure but if I died I'd presume my kids would inherit my money, not my mother or father?

To be honest its not money I'm thinking about. Its funeral arrangements etc.

Made me seriously think about life insurance x "

Next of kin doesn't have to be the one who sorts those arrangements out, you could appoint an Executor of a Will and/or give someone the Power of Attorney.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Isn't your daughter your next of kin?.

I always presumed your kids would automatically override your parents as next of kin.

Now I think about it, I'm not sure but if I died I'd presume my kids would inherit my money, not my mother or father?

To be honest its not money I'm thinking about. Its funeral arrangements etc.

Made me seriously think about life insurance x

Next of kin doesn't have to be the one who sorts those arrangements out, you could appoint an Executor of a Will and/or give someone the Power of Attorney.

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Power of Attorney (once registered with the OPG) can makes decisions with regards to your finances &/or property whilst you are alive but do not have mental capacity to deal with them yourself (costs @£400 with a Solicitor but you can do yourself) but ceases on death & passes over to Executors if there is a will x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I named my daughters mum as strange as it sounds she's 1 of my closest friends. I guess legally it should be my son but as much as I love him to death my 13 year old has more sense. as for family I can see them fighting over my estate already but guess it would make for an amusing court battle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my son is as i dont speak to parents - but he lives in germany so if i sometimes say daughter

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ma mam died 2 days before ma 7th birthday and ma dad when I was 21. I have a half brother who emigrated to Australia with his dad before I was born.

I guess it must be one of my cousins, who are from Hull and are my mam's twin sister's children

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