FabSwingers.com forum: Is having big boobs a pain in the arse?

By *oward1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Is having big boobs a bit of a drag? You always hear stories from women with big boobs having back pain and the like. And they usually say they wished they were smaller. Plus they must effect what clothes you buy. I guess they effect many aspects of daily life. What you can and can't do.

As a bloke I can't imagine what it's like having those things jiggling about in front of you 24/7. Quite cumbersome I'd have thought. I couldn't be doing with them myself. Then of course you get men perving at them all the time.

So I'm curious (not like that!) about what women think (even what smaller boobed women think). Pros and cons. A bit like having a massive cock (not that I'd know of course!) I'm guessing having larger boobs is not necessarily all it's cracked up to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More a pain in the back as my good lady tells me!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The back of the wardrobe I store mine in has seen better days.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

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By *oward1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"The back of the wardrobe I store mine in has seen better days. "

I'm guessing that's one of the less common problems

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By *oward1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

£50?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

Bloody hell!! Never even thought of that! I get most of mine from primark for well under a tenner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe going slightly off topic here but I work with children and I feel I have to cover up even slightly low tops make me feel conscious if it shows cleavage. Sometimes, in the summer it'd be nice to wear something slightly lower without worrying

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I didn't realise how much I didn't like my big boobs until they shrunk. They where never gigantically massive but I was always more than ample.

Everything had to be over the shoulder bolder holders, thick straps and backs of bras, now I can wear little dainty things with thin straps.

And although I still look after my boobs I don't have to take so much care with the underneath sweating and feeling like I'm in a steel cage most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying underwear is a pain. Clothes have started to fit better now that styles are changing. It used to be worse when I was a teen. You do find men look but it's not a big deal.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I get back ache my shoulders hurt from bra straps. Finding a reasonably priced pretty bra is a nightmare.

People talk to my Boobs and not my face.. Clothes don't fit properly.

However they did their job and I breast feed my children.

Glad I'm smaller now I've lost weight happy with size now but could be smaller

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

Bloody hell!! Never even thought of that! I get most of mine from primark for well under a tenner!

That's for your nothing special every day wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wanted big boobs but now I'm older I'm so glad I didn't get them

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By *oward1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I always wanted big boobs but now I'm older I'm so glad I didn't get them

I've never understood why there's so many women who want bigger. Whatever you've got is always enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

I agree then matching thong it's expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I have had smaller and larger- with my frame, I prefer larger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

I have had smaller and larger- with my frame, I prefer larger x"

i love my boobs and would never even consider having them reduced ...plus hubby adores them. lol i often look in the mirror and admire them and realise how lucky iam to have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine were massive but then shrunk abit but still a 32GG which is never good. People always used to talk to my chest. I would normally mention that they don't answer back but for one birthday my friend had me a t-shirt made with "my face is up here" and an arrow pointing up. Used to make me chuckle when people would read it out loud then register what it said. They tended to be more embarrassed than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True there are mildly irksome things about having a slightly more than ample pair; however I can put up with the impossibility of finding anyone who sells a 30gg for less than a king's ransom, the requirement to wear two industrial strength sports bras at the gym and the fact that I knock ornaments over when I lean across tables, as I love my jiggly, squishy twins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't swap my 36GGs for anything but bras are a lot pricier and harder to find, blouses never fit, and men can't take their eyes off them whatever I wear. Great for getting freebies, upgrades and served quickly though

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Apart from when it's lady time I love Mrs 38gg

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of the pubs I used to go in the hand dryer was by the toilet door and everytime I went out the door my boob would catch it and set it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I played a lot of sports and I hated having any boobs. I always wore sports bras, even to bed

Now that I'm older and don't play sports competitively, I do wish I had a little bigger - maybe a C cup. I think my body would be more proportionate (my lower half is too big for my upper half).

So I would say that for me, when I was active I did find boobs a hassle, but for my modern day to day lifestyle they don't get in the way at all.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love my boobs cos i take em off when i feel like

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Waiting for the thread is having a big cock pain in the arse.

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By *Sin or Not 2SinCouple
over a year ago

A hop skip n a jump

Trying to find fitted clothes that fit around my boobs and waist is impossible so always end up with clothes too big so look bigger than I am or give up with frustration

Can't play golf....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite attached to my boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boobs don't give me backache.

I honestly don't take much notice of them and it was only from being on here that I realised they are bigger than average.

That's because at my work, there are women with bigger boobs than me

My colleagues don't stare at my boobs, they look at my face when talking to me and treat me as a person.

The cost of bras is the only issue I have with having bigger boobs to be honest.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I wish mine were a little bit smaller - would be nice to just be able to pick a nice reasonably priced set up from a shop & know it will fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of buying bras lot he shopping a nightmare but I wouldn't want nit to have them. I like my curves and big boobs what come with it.

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By *oward1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"My boobs don't give me backache.

I honestly don't take much notice of them and it was only from being on here that I realised they are bigger than average.

That's because at my work, there are women with bigger boobs than me

My colleagues don't stare at my boobs, they look at my face when talking to me and treat me as a person.

The cost of bras is the only issue I have with having bigger boobs to be honest."

Just remind me of your work address again...I've forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough, they think women evolved boobs to imitate a front ass for attracting a mate!.

Are you a boobs or ass man, turns out your just ass men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

JJ? and i thought mine where big lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought mine were big at 34d before coming on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boobs don't give me backache.

I honestly don't take much notice of them and it was only from being on here that I realised they are bigger than average.

That's because at my work, there are women with bigger boobs than me

My colleagues don't stare at my boobs, they look at my face when talking to me and treat me as a person.

The cost of bras is the only issue I have with having bigger boobs to be honest.

Just remind me of your work address again...I've forgot

We could do with some sexy men to perve over here so get your arse here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, 46F bra's aren't cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short answer, yes! Love them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tits hurt my back. I actually wish they were a bit bigger though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to have small per boobs, would make running less painful & I'd be able to wear certain style of clothes which I can't get away with now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd prefer to have small per boobs, would make running less painful & I'd be able to wear certain style of clothes which I can't get away with now."

This. I've had to buy a really tight, well-fitting sports bra and even then they're still banging around. It does make me slightly self conscious when on the treadmill.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Waiting for the thread is having a big cock pain in the arse. "

How about the "is having a big arse a pain in the boobs?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that I have ever had issue with big boobs...or medium boobs...or small boobs...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The only thing they're good for is keeping the boys happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More a pain in the back as my good lady tells me!"

Many a busy women suffers back ache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought mine were big at 34d before coming on here."

Peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is having big boobs a bit of a drag? You always hear stories from women with big boobs having back pain and the like. And they usually say they wished they were smaller. Plus they must effect what clothes you buy. I guess they effect many aspects of daily life. What you can and can't do.

Can't get a decent bra to fit me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise can cause them to hurt if you don't wear a decent bra .

Shoulder dents are the worst! But apart from that I'm quite happy with mine . Nobody has complained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine used to cause backache when they were an F cup, and i ued to always catch them on door handles (that really hurt).

Glad i lost weight and prefer my smaller boobs. Guys don't talk to my tits any more either.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

My are huge and have never caused me any pain or discomfort....my only problem is finding bras to fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have the bra and clothes issue, they don't give men any pain although if I could swap them I would - I have spent £40 each on sports bras in the last couple of months because normal shops don't do them in a J. Some clothes just make you look super fat because they don't cut in well under massive boobs and sometimes those that do make you look like you've a massive belly to match. I plan to have mine reduced and lifted within the next 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd prefer to have small per boobs, would make running less painful & I'd be able to wear certain style of clothes which I can't get away with now."

But yours don't half look amazing

I'd say they are pert as well

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I always wanted big boobs but now I'm older I'm so glad I didn't get them

I've never understood why there's so many women who want bigger. Whatever you've got is always enough."

Not necessarily

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes "

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?"

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Not had a perv of you in ages your looking damn good kid

now about that friends list

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Not had a perv of you in ages your looking damn good kid

now about that friends list

You only have to ask..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Looks like they did a great job x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Looks like they did a great job x"

Couldn't of been much worse than they were before!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Not had a perv of you in ages your looking damn good kid

now about that friends list

You only have to ask.. "

An offers much better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a pain in the ass but good for slapping Jack about the face with..... Ha love watching him catch them with his mouth. X

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Looks like they did a great job x

Couldn't of been much worse than they were before!

Was it done before or after we met because you looked good to me then no matter what

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"A pain in the back rather than a pain in the arse..... oh and a pain in the bank account, there are only a few places that sell decent bra's in a JJ cup and don't expect change from £50

As an ignorant guy

How much should bras cost?

I don't see much change from £20 for 3 boxer shorts -

I've had bras from £8 - £35 you can tell the difference after a few washes

So 5o each is a lot

I am assuming women have around 10-14 sets?

If you get up above a G cup they are impossible to get in high Street stores, places that go bigger tend to be very expensive.

I have about 40 at last count but went a bit bra shopping crazy after I had mine done

Looks like they did a great job x

Couldn't of been much worse than they were before!

Was it done before or after we met because you looked good to me then no matter what "

7/8 years ago now. No way I'd of been flouncing round half naked before!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Mine are less big than they used to be but still annoying. I have a list of high street stores to avoid since although I can now buy clothes under a size 16 they all have different ratios and half of them are cut so they fit everywhere but my boobs. I have given up wearing shirts with buttons since I have to safety pin in between each one to stop gaping. Bras are still expensive. I can only buy some lingerie (babydolls, basques etc.) if the store does a special DD+ range since I spill over the top of normal ones. I can't easily play bass or guitar since they get in the way. I have to wear vests underneath anything low cut or with a wrap front at work or I risk boob pop out, which makes me too warm. I sometimes get comments about them from random strangers and get called a feminazi when I tell them they're out of order. Their size means they look great in a bra and flop sadly when I'm naked. And I'll probably think of other downsides in a bit. Mind you, I'm sure if I didn't have them I would moan about that. It's like wanting curly hair when mine is straight and I learnt my lesson about appreciating what you already have from that by having a shocker of a perm done.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh, and I can't wear anything backless or with dainty straps since I need them harnessing. And I really like a Bardot or boat necked top or frock and can't wear them since a strapless bra doesn't give me enough support and the clear strap ones always show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some dresses can look really classy on some women.. Some Dresses on me makes me look like a slut..

That's the only hindrance for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could imagine getting black eyes if they are too big whilst running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some dresses can look really classy on some women.. Some Dresses on me makes me look like a slut..

That's the only hindrance for me

Oh and reaching on top of the coffee machine for a cup without my boobs pressing a button.

And mine arnt even that big

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