FabSwingers.com forum: Before you lost your virginity...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did you read, watch, or research sex in any way?

I was partial to a bit porn but also remember reading lots of Mens Health columns on "how to be a dynamo in bed" and such like

I also stumbled across a sex manual when I was snooping in my aunt and uncle's house... They were away and I must have spent hours reading it and I do think it gave some great tips for when I eventually popped my cherry.

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

God, yes!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"God, yes!"

I remember reading a book of collected fantasies & recollections by Nancy Friday called Men in Love

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, there was no where to get any information in those days anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeps! I was an expert at porn by the time I lost my virginity.

-Courtney

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"God, yes!

I remember reading a book of collected fantasies & recollections by Nancy Friday called Men in Love"

Ooh My Secret Garden

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope no Internet when I was a kid and as hard as I tried I couldn't reach the top shelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I was pretty innocent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the teen magazine has had position of the week in it? They would give it a star rating for difficulty, a step by step guide of how to achieve it and a cartoon drawn couple adopting the pose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless reading Lady Chatterley's Lover and Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit (aaah, that explains one or two things) count as research!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was the teen magazine has had position of the week in it? They would give it a star rating for difficulty, a step by step guide of how to achieve it and a cartoon drawn couple adopting the pose."

More.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More magazine and the odd rudey bit in books and films. I hadn't arched any porn. Some of my friends lost their virginity a year or more before me so I think we'd been talking about sex for a while before I did it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember going through the services in Europe trying to peek at the dirty magazines and I think I started fingering myself when I was about 12!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope just dived straight in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's the one thing I suggest to vanilla playmates...... Read, research, explore and never say never.

One of the most frustrating things I find is when you meet someone who's totally closed off to trying new things because they've never tried it or think it's wrong. Things like outdoor sex (because someone might see), anal (because it will hurt), tying up (because it's too kinky), role play (because they feel silly).

I think exposure to different things at such a young age through porn, columns etc made me much more open to experimenting and finding out what I enjoy.

I'm rambling this now as I've just met someone who I like but she's very inexperienced and quite shy when it comes to talking about sex. Not sure we're compatible which is a real shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a porn magazine stuck in the hollow of a tree at the high school I went to! I think that was the point of reference for the whole school!

I bet we all fuck like pros because of that one porn mag!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"It's the one thing I suggest ... and never say never.

...anal (because it will hurt)..."

We can run some tests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I was a innocent young lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the one thing I suggest ... and never say never.

...anal (because it will hurt)...

We can run some tests?

Naaaa. Sounds painful to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should avoid age references before the thread gets closed

-Courtney

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

That's your fantasy of me isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had porn mags but I still didn't know until I had wanking/fingering sessions with a girl before I really knew where it went in lol and was probably 2 years after before I went all the way

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People should avoid age references before the thread gets closed

-Courtney "

Indeed they should.

I don't post enough as it stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Well if that was between 1986 and 1991 - chances are my arse was in there!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick"

Anyone who knows me knows what I'm really like

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

There was hardly any porn except soft mags.

But I used to fool around with one or two of my classmates. In physics. "Can I borrow your ruler" it'll cost you... so I rub his cock through his trousers..then meet in the toilets and rub each other...It was fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

That's your fantasy of me isn't it

No Bladey....... the only fantasy I harbour where you feature, involves root-veg.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

That's your fantasy of me isn't it

No Bladey....... the only fantasy I harbour where you feature, involves root-veg.......

Marrows

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick

Anyone who knows me knows what I'm really like

Think you forget we have met

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

That's your fantasy of me isn't it

No Bladey....... the only fantasy I harbour where you feature, involves root-veg.......

No way am I asking. You must think this is my 1st day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the lingerie pages in Kay's catalogue

Ohhh suit now it's coming back to me

Oh c'mon Bladey-boi...... we all know you got your jollies thumbing through the Y-front and string-vest section....

That's your fantasy of me isn't it

No Bladey....... the only fantasy I harbour where you feature, involves root-veg.......

No way am I asking. You must think this is my 1st day

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Gosh yes my best friend even used to phone me up if there was a slightly raunchy scene on a film on telly so I could put it on. I swould examine anything I could get hold of from books to teach teenagers about their bodies to top shelf magazines.

I was always extremely inquisitive about sex and bodies.....

Still am to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday nights with film international on BBC 2 was a good old perv in our day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you read, watch, or research sex in any way?

I was partial to a bit porn but also remember reading lots of Mens Health columns on "how to be a dynamo in bed" and such like

Anyone else?

Nope I remember seeing a dirty mag down the ally and was mortified. The rest was just gossip with the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i didnt even ask friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I lost my virginity I was a right wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time before "the moment" was mainly natural.....

I think there are some of us who are naturally sexual creatures from a young age ......

After the moment of popped cherry then I started with page one of the book "joy of sex" and dedicated myself to trying everything in the book until the last page and haven't stopped learning since .....

Mwah x

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Encyclopaedia Brittanica and Jackie magazine is where I gained all my knowledge!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes, I read quite a few articles on sex and foreplay on sites like Ask Men as I was really paranoid about being crap in bed.

I did learn a fair bit from them and I do think it helped with both technique and nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick

Anyone who knows me knows what I'm really like

Think you forget we have met

*chokes on coffee* you didn't even know who I was until days later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always very inquisitive about sex and remember poring over the rude bits in Tropic of Capricorn. My older brother had a stash of porn mags which I pinched when the house was empty, so by the time it came to 'do the deed' I was more than prepared. It happened very naturally and was bloody awesome too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I studied the bulls in field down the road - modeled my approach on theirs.

Flared nostrils , stamp the ground under my feet then charged straight towards her.

Works every time, even now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top shelf magazines. Used to exchange them at school or buy them. Reading the letters of couples inviting others to join them, snooker, group sessions, sparked my interest in swinging.

Then there were the xxx mags I found when I was fourteen...showing anal, dp, dvp, group and gang. Bought in from abroad, Germany I think.

Of course with the internet, its so much easier to get hold of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to research 'how to kiss' and 'how to give a blowjob'

Didn't stop me actually blowing on a guys dick on my first time, he didn't know different and thought it was great! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No porn, just biology books and Seventeen magazines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a copy of Mayfair when I was 12/13....cracking girls in it I recall...but no education....unless you count classic cars in the middle of it any good. Obviously designed so you could fold it open on those pages so it wasn't obvious what you were reading...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"No, there was no where to get any information in those days anyway.

Nope same here .. learnt as I went along no one to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to loose mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have yet to loose mine

Oh really. ....

Like some help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have yet to loose mine

Oh really. ....

Like some help?

how very kind of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew what was where from a few tattered porn mags and the underwear section of the catalogue had a few fumbles with girls but no real research

Surprisingly good first time around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had most of my dads top shelf mags under my pillow by the age of 13 lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. I had researched a lot, talked a lot and seen some porn, for what it was worth. And then joined fab, to learn and ready to move now to the next level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, there was no where to get any information in those days anyway.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick

Anyone who knows me knows what I'm really like

Think you forget we have met

*chokes on coffee* you didn't even know who I was until days later

I think somebody has a really bad memory. I even remember our conversation and thinking what a good pint stand you would make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we moved to a new build house in the early 70s the estate was still being built and there was always loads of mags lyin around the site so could not help taking a few home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. I was a innocent young lady

Spits tea everywhere

Oi I was and I still am

That twice now go on let have the hattrick

Anyone who knows me knows what I'm really like

Think you forget we have met

*chokes on coffee* you didn't even know who I was until days later

I think somebody has a really bad memory. I even remember our conversation and thinking what a good pint stand you would make

Oooops

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

n/a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you read, watch, or research sex in any way?

I was partial to a bit porn but also remember reading lots of Mens Health columns on "how to be a dynamo in bed" and such like

Anyone else?

No I was still fairly clueless after much browsing through free range porn mags found in bushes,I'm pretty sure my first attempt at sex was just me shagging her thighs!

That was a long time ago and being older n wiser(debatable!)I now know to fumble around for the hole n ram it in......

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