FabSwingers.com forum: Disrespectful

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Took my 3 children out for a roast dinner Sunday lunchtime. My two boys aged 18 & 16 and my 8 year old daughter. As I went to the ladies I was 'recognised' and approached by a guy from fab. He asked if I could chat with him for 5 mins, I explained I was out with my children and suggested he send me a message. When I go back to join my family the guy then comes over to our table and says how he thinks I am stunning and would hate to miss the opportunity of getting my number! I was fuming! My boys were uncomfortable and my daughter confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block.

Invasion of privacy, take face pic's off.

Tell him to take a running jump.

So people don't understand how this works do they.

Knob

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Total lack of respect and privacy.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Such a tit!! Was he d*unk???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*some * not so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang out of order!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Oh crumbs.

That's bang out of order

Hope you and the kids are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not cool.

But you always run that risk when your face pics are on line for all and sundry to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dafuq

What a fucking creep!

Why people feel the need to approach people they "possibly recognise" off the internet is beyond me.

I actively avoid people I know whilst out and about, can't be arsed making that shitty small talk and pretending you care

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ask him for his work address so that you can pop in and see him there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God my worst nightmare!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats awful i hope the kids never picked up what was going on please report and block so sorry you had such a bad experience thankfully he is in a minority (i hope anyway ) xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not surprised you had every right to fume

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not a nice thing to happen and I hesitate to tell people to change their behaviour because others can't moderate theirs but it is a risk you run if your face pictures are so easily available on here.

Having said that he's a fool.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"So not cool.

But you always run that risk when your face pics are on line for all and sundry to see "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't see why I should have to remove face pics, he should have just shown some respect! Don't think he was d*unk but who knows.

My boys were embarrassed - at that age.....don't like to see their mum getting chatted up!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I have spoken with people from here in work, but they knew where I worked as we had been chatting on here prior. Just spoke as friends would and went on with our day. Nothing seedy. That guy sounds like a right creep. Probably thought you'd be so worried he would out you as a swinger you'd give him your number. What a prat.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Don't see why I should have to remove face pics, he should have just shown some respect! Don't think he was d*unk but who knows.

My boys were embarrassed - at that age.....don't like to see their mum getting chatted up!

What a bloody creep!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don't see why I should have to remove face pics, he should have just shown some respect! Don't think he was d*unk but who knows.

My boys were embarrassed - at that age.....don't like to see their mum getting chatted up!

I don't see why you should either, all I say is there will always be people like him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So inappropriate! Unfortunately there are going to be people on here who have no clue how to behave with discretion, hence my lack of public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And blokes wonder why they are finding it harder and harder on here to find meets IDIOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope this never happens to me when I'm out with my son. If I looked uncomfortable my son wouldn't be happy and he's not a small man. My girls wouldn't be happy either. I don't know what reporting would achieve though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I can't believe somebody would do that what a total lack of respect and abuse of confidentiality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow wtf.

How is someone that socially broken?

Correct response to "im woth my kids"

"Oh shit, sorry have s nice evening"

*hasty exit*

Not follow over to said kids and continue hitting on somone :/

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

That's terrible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mentioned this straight after to a guy I have been chatting with from here and he said he would have eye fucked me from across the room then sent me a message later......now that I don't mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Took my 3 children out for a roast dinner Sunday lunchtime. My two boys aged 18 & 16 and my 8 year old daughter. As I went to the ladies I was 'recognised' and approached by a guy from fab. He asked if I could chat with him for 5 mins, I explained I was out with my children and suggested he send me a message. When I go back to join my family the guy then comes over to our table and says how he thinks I am stunning and would hate to miss the opportunity of getting my number! I was fuming! My boys were uncomfortable and my daughter confused. "

Wow that's dreadful

I recently went in a pub before Christmas and noticed 3 guys I chat too off fab no one approached and I talk to them daily

I agree report and for privacy take face pics down and share them with the guys you want to meet

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

"I mentioned this straight after to a guy I have been chatting with from here and he said he would have eye fucked me from across the room then sent me a message later......now that I don't mind!

Cant Beat Old Fashioned Manners..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok so heres my honest opinion on what you shouldve done . You shouldve kick him right in nuts and a quick swift jab right in the windpipe .

But thats my way of thinking

what a total knob head !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mentioned this straight after to a guy I have been chatting with from here and he said he would have eye fucked me from across the room then sent me a message later......now that I don't mind!

Cant Beat Old Fashioned Manners..

Haha....did make me laugh,never heard of 'eye fucking'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

"I mentioned this straight after to a guy I have been chatting with from here and he said he would have eye fucked me from across the room then sent me a message later......now that I don't mind!

Cant Beat Old Fashioned Manners..

Haha....did make me laugh,never heard of 'eye fucking' "

Think its the Next Step From "Undressing you " with their Eyes lol.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your face pictures off of your profile. And cover up your identifying tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never dream of approaching someone I saw on fab in real life. What an invasion of privacy.

He needs reporting and removing from the site.

This is supposed to be a safe community of people who respect one another and show the proper curtesy.

And you shouldn't have to remove face pics, because people on here are mostly respectful and decent people.

Sorry you had this experience and that your kids had to witness it.

Hope it doesn't put you off fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin. "

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's disgraceful definitely block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same type of guy that would walk up to a porn star and publicly announce he had a wank last night over her latest movie. It's shit but hardly surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why ive now put all my face pics in friends

only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin. "

Report him for what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report and block.

Invasion of privacy, take face pic's off.

Tell him to take a running jump.

So people don't understand how this works do they.

Knob "

Report what to whom? To admin? What do you expect admin to do in this situation?

Yes the guy was totally out of order,but there's nothing admin can do about people approaching each other away from the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site."

Hmm, good point. Usually calmer at thinking these things through, but was so outraged thinking of myself in the OP's shoes, that I spoke without thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site."

I do have his username as he sent me a message 10 minutes later! And the message even states how he couldn't resist approaching me.....saved it so could show admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad form is that - and he has done himself out of any chance - what worries me about people like that is if they are that stupid when you are with your children what would they be like elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site.

I do have his username as he sent me a message 10 minutes later! And the message even states how he couldn't resist approaching me.....saved it so could show admin"

Oh in that case they may be able to help.

Jesus though i do wonder about some people.

He's not a bit autistic or anything is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site.

I do have his username as he sent me a message 10 minutes later! And the message even states how he couldn't resist approaching me.....saved it so could show admin"

nothing to lose from showing it to them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow, what a creep, hope you got his username so you can report his behaviour to Admin.

Well admin couldnt do anything.

Because it might all be made up (not saying it is) but admin can only act on what is internal to the site.

I do have his username as he sent me a message 10 minutes later! And the message even states how he couldn't resist approaching me.....saved it so could show admin

Oh in that case they may be able to help.

Jesus though i do wonder about some people.

He's not a bit autistic or anything is he?"

Hahaha

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you have issue with another member, it's best to report them to Admin and block them.

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