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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When we chat to other couple's we are not the type who say hi how are you ?,

We usually write a short novel when chatting lol, so do you prefer those who contact you can hold a conversation rather than a few short words ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to play it the way I would if I was to approach someone in a pub or club, start of with a hi how are and a basic introduction then depending on the response take it from there. I don't really understand the profiles that say hi how are you get no reply, surely that's what's know as an ice breaker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tattoo by the way

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I tend to play it the way I would if I was to approach someone in a pub or club, start of with a hi how are and a basic introduction then depending on the response take it from there. I don't really understand the profiles that say hi how are you get no reply, surely that's what's know as an ice breaker lol"

I agree.. A too-long first message can come across as being too intense. A short ice-breaker is good and if they've got a bit of detail about you from your profile, and they like you, they'll respond (hopefully) and then you can get into longer conversational messages..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation all the way Just gets frustrating when its just 1 or 2 words.

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By *emmasimaginationTV/TS
over a year ago

Inverurie

Mentioning something from the profile is always good and gets the attention as it means you've taken the time to read. I've seen a lot of 'suk me now' first messages which safe to say don't get very far x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice tattoo by the way "

Thanks that was my first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it is. If I'm on my phone I can't be bothered to tap out long mails. Couple of sentences are fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice tattoo by the way

Thanks that was my first ."

Bet it won't be your last though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like essay long first messages as i feel awful if im not interested writing a one liner back.

Once i get chatting though i guess it depends what we are talking about xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to say hi how are you as an ice breaker . At least when its short and to the point your not getting your head baffled or waffled with potential lies and half hearted promises right ?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Conversation all the way Just gets frustrating when its just 1 or 2 words."

This. Just looks like they can't be arsed and trying to have a conversation with the 2 or 3 word repliers is often like trying to get blood out of a stone.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Conversation all the way Just gets frustrating when its just 1 or 2 words.

This. Just looks like they can't be arsed and trying to have a conversation with the 2 or 3 word repliers is often like trying to get blood out of a stone. "

No way!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm not the best for chatting online. I'm generally on my phone which can be a faff and if I'm interested in meeting then I want to meet not chat!

Thing is that in person I'm very chatty, just not online.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Conversation all the way Just gets frustrating when its just 1 or 2 words.

This. Just looks like they can't be arsed and trying to have a conversation with the 2 or 3 word repliers is often like trying to get blood out of a stone.

No way! "

It's okay when you have a hangover.

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