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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

if you find the correct answer please let me know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking my current fab silver membership will be it for a while.

Unless I pop up in Edinburgh and need company

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Yeah me too ....

Im looking for a suitable partner .... not short of meets on here ... but yet to meet that special person ...

Ive kissed a lot of frogs .... I know that

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol "

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

"

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far... "

Well I would walk 500 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?"

Very! Haha

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

I was waiting for a 38 bus and a 38 bust came along

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

Well I would walk 500 miles "

i do believe you owe me a dance Mr Winger wheres my ball invite?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?

Very! Haha"

tried speed dating?..30 secs to spot a dick head? i havent lowered myself to that yet..but its possible

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was waiting for a 38 bus and a 38 bust came along "

lucky man...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

Well I would walk 500 miles

i do believe you owe me a dance Mr Winger wheres my ball invite? "

Blimey, I owe you a dance and tgnd a game of Backgammon, I'd better get ma finger out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotya my first time in ere lol thats two things I O U

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

Well I would walk 500 miles

i do believe you owe me a dance Mr Winger wheres my ball invite?

Blimey, I owe you a dance and tgnd a game of Backgammon, I'd better get ma finger out "

yeah im a patient woman, but still....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

Well I would walk 500 miles

i do believe you owe me a dance Mr Winger wheres my ball invite?

Blimey, I owe you a dance and tgnd a game of Backgammon, I'd better get ma finger out

yeah im a patient woman, but still.... "

You ever thought about hooking up with Shag

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally."

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have met most of my previous partners down the pub, don't know whether that's a good thing or not lol

i travelled and met last one in america, the one before in australia...and people complain that 2 hours away, is too far...

Well I would walk 500 miles

i do believe you owe me a dance Mr Winger wheres my ball invite?

Blimey, I owe you a dance and tgnd a game of Backgammon, I'd better get ma finger out

yeah im a patient woman, but still....

You ever thought about hooking up with Shag "

i dont like haribo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?

Very! Haha

tried speed dating?..30 secs to spot a dick head? i havent lowered myself to that yet..but its possible "

Not yet! I have thought about it though! Just to see how ridiculous it can be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?"

I don't, and I don't particularly have any. You can kind of tell what people are like though through talking to them though, to a degree at least.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

I don't, and I don't particularly have any. You can kind of tell what people are like though through talking to them though, to a degree at least."

would you like some?...hehe

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?"

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits "

haha ive actually done that..i seem to build rapport with men, by perving on the same women

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits

haha ive actually done that..i seem to build rapport with men, by perving on the same women"

Seems like we'd have to share her then

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits

haha ive actually done that..i seem to build rapport with men, by perving on the same women

Seems like we'd have to share her then "

im having issues with sharing right now..maybe its because i am unfulfilled sexually...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits

haha ive actually done that..i seem to build rapport with men, by perving on the same women

Seems like we'd have to share her then

im having issues with sharing right now..maybe its because i am unfulfilled sexually... "

Awww (((HUGS))), I know the feeling though. I have had offers, but not acted on them as yet, so I've only got myself to blame I suppose

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

When you are having a romantic meal with your date, just slip into the conversation that the waitress has a cracking pair of tits

haha ive actually done that..i seem to build rapport with men, by perving on the same women

Seems like we'd have to share her then

im having issues with sharing right now..maybe its because i am unfulfilled sexually...

Awww (((HUGS))), I know the feeling though. I have had offers, but not acted on them as yet, so I've only got myself to blame I suppose "

i want the taboo of fab, a relationship deeper than a puddle

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You only get mucky if you jump in puddles

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You only get mucky if you jump in puddles "

i prefer deep oceans, plenty of room to swim and dive about...and im more kinky than the average, i do believe...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You only get mucky if you jump in puddles

i prefer deep oceans, plenty of room to swim and dive about...and im more kinky than the average, i do believe..."

It would be nice to find out

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You only get mucky if you jump in puddles

i prefer deep oceans, plenty of room to swim and dive about...and im more kinky than the average, i do believe...

It would be nice to find out "

the feeling is mutual ace..but you know that already x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need kink dating...

swings & roundabouts out...

Mating & Dating

I think OP "Meet Up" is a great start

Mwah x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Backs away from the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We need kink dating...

swings & roundabouts out...

Mating & Dating

I think OP "Meet Up" is a great start

Mwah x

"

Yeah i just need to finish shagging all the fit people here forst :p

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd like to think that meeting via friends is a good option, where you may stand a greater chance of having shared interests.

It depends upon the extent that you'd like swinging in your life, to some extent. For many of us it could be hard to leave it behind.

If swinging is preferred then fab is probably your best bet, coupled with the benefits of swinging friends.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

If anybody finds the answer give us a nudge and share please xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to think that meeting via friends is a good option, where you may stand a greater chance of having shared interests.

It depends upon the extent that you'd like swinging in your life, to some extent. For many of us it could be hard to leave it behind.

If swinging is preferred then fab is probably your best bet, coupled with the benefits of swinging friends."

Swinging isn't really an issue tbh.

Its fun but its not something I'd hold in any value compared to a person i loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm keeping my eye on this thread.....

I'd love to find a man to build a relationship, but as someone said about dating sites, they are more shag than dates...

Maybe its an age thing, but I find all my friends are married or in relationships and do coupley things at weekends, so I become a lonely flutter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take up yoga.. Plenty women there...or hot yoga... They wear less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah me too ....

Im looking for a suitable partner .... not short of meets on here ... but yet to meet that special person ...

Ive kissed a lot of frogs .... I know that "

Ditto. I need one to turn into a kinky prince

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

They say that 80% of new relationships are founded online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take up a hobby that involves mixing with others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doing things, general socialising and networking. Online dating seems like a great idea but didn't really work for me personally.

how do you bring up your kinks in normal social environments though?

I don't, and I don't particularly have any. You can kind of tell what people are like though through talking to them though, to a degree at least.

would you like some?...hehe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?"

So true! I get vanilla guys talking to me about 'filthy' sex with their partner because they had some porn on in the background! I feel like saying "yeah but it was still just the two of you right?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only get mucky if you jump in puddles

i prefer deep oceans, plenty of room to swim and dive about...and im more kinky than the average, i do believe...

It would be nice to find out

the feeling is mutual ace..but you know that already x"

Get a room you two

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x "

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it all about swipe left / right these days?

In an age of connectedness, we seem to be so disconnected from each other.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol"

I totally get what you are saying, people often say to me stop looking someone will come along when the time is right which I know but if I don't get out there then how am I going to meet anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I know when we go out on our bike and do the stopping off for refreshments thing there are girls....either hanging around looking at the bikes or with their own machines - that way you could combine your hobby/interests within a relationship. I am not sure if there are places like that close to you but I do know that the carousel in Southport (every weekend and most evenings) and the Scotch Piper pub in Lydiate (Wednesday and Saturday nights) are regular hangouts

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!"

No offence to your friend but I wouldn't take relationship advice off someone that has been married 5 times

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It is difficult as I would like kids so finding someone is kinda important to me I always worry that I will grow old lonely and get eaten by cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there."
just talk to people wherever you go opportunities arise ,trains are a really good place I've got chatting to several women that if I had wanted to could have took it further ,walking your dog ,clubbing ,take up salsa dancing women love to dance or here loads of women here looking for romance to ,their not all sex maniacs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!"

There was a thread on mumsnet that did the rounda where they all agreed men smiling at them made them fear they were soon to be raped...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol"

Smile at people in public. Go to a different pub, ask one of your work mates to set you up with someone, I'm trying to widen my circle of friends first, I shouldnt think it would take long for the op to find someone being fit and that!!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"It is difficult as I would like kids so finding someone is kinda important to me I always worry that I will grow old lonely and get eaten by cats "

Crazy cat lady in waiting I have the same fear and ask my niece if she doesn't hear from me everyday to come round and feed my cats and drag my corpse from the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

No offence to your friend but I wouldn't take relationship advice off someone that has been married 5 times "

This is very true......but if I'm out shopping etc with her, she always manages to get guys talking to her. We went away last Sumner and it was like I'm invisible. She's married and she points that out straight away by mentioning her hubby though. She's ten yrs older than me too, but she gets guys 40 ish chatting her up.....I feel like an ugly sister lol xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

No offence to your friend but I wouldn't take relationship advice off someone that has been married 5 times

This is very true......but if I'm out shopping etc with her, she always manages to get guys talking to her. We went away last Sumner and it was like I'm invisible. She's married and she points that out straight away by mentioning her hubby though. She's ten yrs older than me too, but she gets guys 40 ish chatting her up.....I feel like an ugly sister lol xx"

Some people has got the gift of the gab however some have pointed out I can look a bit stand offish I don't mean to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

No offence to your friend but I wouldn't take relationship advice off someone that has been married 5 times

She's certainly got the gift of the gab.....She's a brummie and isn't backwards at coming forwards....

I must try not to be so reserved as I think I come over also as being standoffish....

Once I know someone I'm fine but it's getting over that first hurdle......getting them to smile at me lol xx

This is very true......but if I'm out shopping etc with her, she always manages to get guys talking to her. We went away last Sumner and it was like I'm invisible. She's married and she points that out straight away by mentioning her hubby though. She's ten yrs older than me too, but she gets guys 40 ish chatting her up.....I feel like an ugly sister lol xx

Some people has got the gift of the gab however some have pointed out I can look a bit stand offish I don't mean to be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

There was a thread on mumsnet that did the rounda where they all agreed men smiling at them made them fear they were soon to be raped...

"

This makes me sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop. "

Think I live in the wrong town......they call it gods waiting room as it full of old people...only old men would chat me up walking to the shop xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop.

Think I live in the wrong town......they call it gods waiting room as it full of old people...only old men would chat me up walking to the shop xx"

Even my local small station is packed with people at peak times. Men of all ages

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop.

Think I live in the wrong town......they call it gods waiting room as it full of old people...only old men would chat me up walking to the shop xx"

Sorry, "God's Waiting Room" is usually the term that applies to Eastbourne, in Sussex!

I lived and worked in Eastbourne for a couple of years; finding young people (then) was well-nigh impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional "
its all about smiling and chatting making people laugh ,that thing earlier about smiling and making women feel they're going to be raped utter rubbish sorry but it is ,if its a weirdo smiling yes but they are in a miniscule minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop.

Think I live in the wrong town......they call it gods waiting room as it full of old people...only old men would chat me up walking to the shop xx

Even my local small station is packed with people at peak times. Men of all ages "

Think I need to get down to my local station....hope I won't look like a train spotter....note to self -- do not wear anorak!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol"

I work in a coffee shop plenry of people hang out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional its all about smiling and chatting making people laugh ,that thing earlier about smiling and making women feel they're going to be raped utter rubbish sorry but it is ,if its a weirdo smiling yes but they are in a miniscule minority "

Its a ad state of affairs when people dont smile at eachother anymore.

I always smile at people and often get looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol

I work in a coffee shop plenry of people hang out there x "

I've spent hours in Costas...no luck yet though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i do salsa like someone mentioned before we do love a guy who can dance its a great way to make friends in general

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think your right about it being online dominated now. Although I like that makes life a lot more easyer xxxxx

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Go to your local supermarkets. Smile at the men who carry just a shopping basket.Clues being meal for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

There was a thread on mumsnet that did the rounda where they all agreed men smiling at them made them fear they were soon to be raped...

This makes me sad "

Why it was on mumsnet, most of the women on there think sex is the devils work and men are just an inconvenience they have to endure to have children... Woe betide a man who smiles at them

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Sometimes the harder we look the less we see, just let it happen naturally x

But where do you go to let it happen naturally? :p

Cause in the course of an average week its possible not to encounter a single woman.

As in one woman not single as in unpartnered lol

I work in a coffee shop plenry of people hang out there x "

I found Paul in a coffee shop

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Think a Lt of us are getting fed up, and starting to miss certain things that only a relationship brings...with the right person of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a job as a barmaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think a Lt of us are getting fed up, and starting to miss certain things that only a relationship brings...with the right person of course!"

That's very true xx

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!

There was a thread on mumsnet that did the rounda where they all agreed men smiling at them made them fear they were soon to be raped...

"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think some are lucky and fall into relationships, then you get to the likes of me who kiss so many frogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional "

Why do you need to be chatted up? Can women not make the first move?

I'm terrible at recognising when someone is attracted to me or flirting with me, I'm well known for it a "would you like to go for a drink?" would be great for me

As for looking for a relationship I honestly cant say never but I'm kinda held together with selotape and love where that aspect is concerned. I'm not saying no but 'proceed with caution, hard hats required'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky and fall into relationships, then you get to the likes of me who kiss so many frogs "

Yep my mum and dad met at 17, dads turning 70 next year

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream."

Where is the best place to meet single men?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think some are lucky and fall into relationships, then you get to the likes of me who kiss so many frogs

Yep my mum and dad met at 17, dads turning 70 next year "

My mum met my dad when she was 34 he was 26 they have been together 40 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married so I'm probably not going to be very helpful, but. ..

Guys have chatted me up in coffee shops and on the train. In both places, I was sitting alone and would have been receptive had I not been married. I think they are friendly environments for flirty chat.

As other have mentioned, MeetUp is a good site. You can choose different groups to join based on your interests and make new friends. I get that your hobbies are solo ones, but maybe if you're looking to meet someone you need to change that a bit? I've had guys hit on my on MeetUp, too. Again, I might have been receptive had I not been married.

I don't think it's that hard to meet people offline. It's just that lots of us are so used to having the Internet, and being loners that we don't give ourselves the opportunities anymore. Just change a few of your activities.

Btw- Marc gets all sorts of attention from young women while running our dog. If you have a dog you could try that, and take a breather by a hot woman

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to suggest MeetUp as well. It's not aimed at finding a relationship but if your problem is not meeting enough women generally it could help widen your social circle.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You only get mucky if you jump in puddles

i prefer deep oceans, plenty of room to swim and dive about...and im more kinky than the average, i do believe...

It would be nice to find out

the feeling is mutual ace..but you know that already x

Get a room you two "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional

Why do you need to be chatted up? Can women not make the first move?

I'm terrible at recognising when someone is attracted to me or flirting with me, I'm well known for it a "would you like to go for a drink?" would be great for me

As for looking for a relationship I honestly cant say never but I'm kinda held together with selotape and love where that aspect is concerned. I'm not saying no but 'proceed with caution, hard hats required'"

Haha ok fair point equality and all that. Ive never known a man give me any signals that he wabts to be chatted up. And to be hinest in my youth i didnt have the confidence. These days if i was single and i liked someone i would just say it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And i do salsa like someone mentioned before we do love a guy who can dance its a great way to make friends in general "

I can't dance at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met my late partner on line

we chatted for a few weeks online and over the phone

he was from Wales

and we both decided that he would come to mine for the weekend

well he came to mine and never went back home again

we had seven n half wonderful years together

so yes i think that online dating

is the best way to look for a

relationship

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"And i do salsa like someone mentioned before we do love a guy who can dance its a great way to make friends in general "

Occasionally go to Cuban Salsa nights, it's sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men? "

Alcohol aisle. Hang around by the speciality vodkas

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I've been chatted up by men at the train station and walking to the shop.

Think I live in the wrong town......they call it gods waiting room as it full of old people...only old men would chat me up walking to the shop xx

Even my local small station is packed with people at peak times. Men of all ages

Think I need to get down to my local station....hope I won't look like a train spotter....note to self -- do not wear anorak!!!!"
Don't forget to take a paper and pen and when you get home tick what you've seen off in your book lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Go to your local supermarkets. Smile at the men who carry just a shopping basket.Clues being meal for one. "

You'd be surprised how often that works for me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

Alcohol aisle. Hang around by the speciality vodkas "

I thought Miss Cheekychops had got the monopoly on that

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

So online dating it is then but not sure all that vanilla is for me full time need to build a relationship with someone with a bit of kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So online dating it is then but not sure all that vanilla is for me full time need to build a relationship with someone with a bit of kink "

we both had our kinky ways

so worked for us

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

Alcohol aisle. Hang around by the speciality vodkas

I thought Miss Cheekychops had got the monopoly on that "

Cheeky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And i do salsa like someone mentioned before we do love a guy who can dance its a great way to make friends in general

I can't dance at all "

Thats why you go lessons and learn with the women who dont know how either x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"if you find the correct answer please let me know x"

and me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This is a difficult one for me, I've never activily looked for a relationship in my life they've just happened. Met in all different situations. I personally would never use a dating site although I've had relationships where I've met people just online in general. I get chatted up in all sorts of places, I was in the place into for coffee on Sunday and some guy invited me to share his roast potatoes with him .but what I have found in general I tend to be chatted up more when I'm on my own than with a big group

Although if your out in a pub you do.

A nice smile and just passing a bit of chit chat can work wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find a partner, have tried looking but then I lost all my marbles so have been too preoccupied trying to find them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before I joined fab I found a socialising website. Took ages to find! They have loads of get-together's every month that you can pick and choose - for a monthly fee - but quite a few events are free after that! Sounded pretty good to me - and seems a more natural way to meet nice people than dating - so at some point this year I'll try that if it's still there! Even if I meet someone i'd stay on fab for the forum banter and socials though! I'm very fond of my fab family!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional

Why do you need to be chatted up? Can women not make the first move?

I'm terrible at recognising when someone is attracted to me or flirting with me, I'm well known for it a "would you like to go for a drink?" would be great for me

As for looking for a relationship I honestly cant say never but I'm kinda held together with selotape and love where that aspect is concerned. I'm not saying no but 'proceed with caution, hard hats required'

Haha ok fair point equality and all that. Ive never known a man give me any signals that he wabts to be chatted up. And to be hinest in my youth i didnt have the confidence. These days if i was single and i liked someone i would just say it xx"

I think that's the confidence that getting older brings. As for being open to being chatted up I think any guy would welcome it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows. Haven't had a proper relationship since I broke up with my daughters father 6 years ago.

Met him when we were both 17 and used to see him every weekend in this particular nightclub we went to, I started speaking to his friends and went back to house parties for about a month then one night when everyone had crashed out we went to one of the bedrooms, not proud but both of us a little under the influence of things we can't discuss. Spent about 5 hours smoothing his willy and rolling it between my hands the same way you make a worm out of plasticine. Was also on my period and remember him coming to the toilet and asking if he could put a new tampax in and I let him. After that we drove to my house and got loads of clothes then to his parents house and there I lived for 9 years!

Only relationship if you can call it that was 2012/2013 guy off here from way up north of England, distance and age he was younger than me, didn't really work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

Alcohol aisle. Hang around by the speciality vodkas

I thought Miss Cheekychops had got the monopoly on that "

It was aimed at her. I'd be by the meat aisle watching who's buying steak for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive probably only been chatted up twice ever. I met my other half in a chat room b3fore they were a thing. We just chatted and then thought what the heck lets go for a drink.

When my friends found out they gave us a week but still together still happy. If somewhat none traditional its all about smiling and chatting making people laugh ,that thing earlier about smiling and making women feel they're going to be raped utter rubbish sorry but it is ,if its a weirdo smiling yes but they are in a miniscule minority

Its a ad state of affairs when people dont smile at eachother anymore.

I always smile at people and often get looks like "
what kind of world is it going to be if we let a small minority of perverts dictate wether we can smile at people talk to people talk to children that's life don't let them win interact

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"God knows. Haven't had a proper relationship since I broke up with my daughters father 6 years ago.

Met him when we were both 17 and used to see him every weekend in this particular nightclub we went to, I started speaking to his friends and went back to house parties for about a month then one night when everyone had crashed out we went to one of the bedrooms, not proud but both of us a little under the influence of things we can't discuss. Spent about 5 hours smoothing his willy and rolling it between my hands the same way you make a worm out of plasticine. Was also on my period and remember him coming to the toilet and asking if he could put a new tampax in and I let him. After that we drove to my house and got loads of clothes then to his parents house and there I lived for 9 years!

Only relationship if you can call it that was 2012/2013 guy off here from way up north of England, distance and age he was younger than me, didn't really work out.

"

You let him put a tampax in you... you do have a way with words lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before I joined fab I found a socialising website. Took ages to find! They have loads of get-together's every month that you can pick and choose - for a monthly fee - but quite a few events are free after that! Sounded pretty good to me - and seems a more natural way to meet nice people than dating - so at some point this year I'll try that if it's still there! Even if I meet someone i'd stay on fab for the forum banter and socials though! I'm very fond of my fab family! "

I'd be interested to know what the socialising site was but can't pm you xx

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there."

To go back to your original question the short answer is to change some of your lifestyle choices and for vanilla dating then work, swimming pool, libraries and gigs have worked for me.

Online widens the pool and also means if you have a 'theme' to life then it can be targeted. 'The Long View' did a program exactly about this on radio 4 this week, interesting listening!

As for me I am a romantic eccentric, add a layer of swinging and another of kink (big time)then that is a hard conversation to start in Tesco!

Meh! life will happen, just get on with living it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have any friends that can do some matchmaking, friends of friends...?!

Or like Courtney suggested get yourself a dog. Years ago I used to see this guy the same time every morning in the park, over time our dogs got playing we got chatting which lead to a few dates.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

"

You are a lovely person

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

You are a lovely person "

Meant not

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there.

I think online dating is easy for men - because there are so many more women wanting relationships they can cherry pick generally.

I would say OKC would suit you, you can define some sexual criteria on there without taboo.

"

Like fab in reverse?

-Courtney

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there."

I think online dating is easy for men - because there are so many more women wanting relationships they can cherry pick generally.

I would say OKC would suit you, you can define some sexual criteria on there without taboo.

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By *all and ChainWoman
over a year ago

Truro

I'm with the OP, the male half of us was so far beyond even thinking of a relationshit as a possibility that lifelong batchelors used to point at him as a definition of a batchelor, literally had no interest whatsoever in a relationshit (not a typo, but an attitude)

The female half of us was ina relationshit but one that had run it's course, she was looking for sex, not love or a relationshit or the end of the relationshit she had at that time.

We met on here just over a year ago.

Instant mutual addiction, within a month she was moving in, and (vomit bags at the ready) it just keeps getting stronger and stonger.

It was as unexpected as being hit by a bus, I think the old saying about you can't go looking for it, but if it finds you, look out, holds true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

"

This is exactly how I feel. I guess some of us just aren't relationship material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP, the male half of us was so far beyond even thinking of a relationshit as a possibility that lifelong batchelors used to point at him as a definition of a batchelor, literally had no interest whatsoever in a relationshit (not a typo, but an attitude)

The female half of us was ina relationshit but one that had run it's course, she was looking for sex, not love or a relationshit or the end of the relationshit she had at that time.

We met on here just over a year ago.

Instant mutual addiction, within a month she was moving in, and (vomit bags at the ready) it just keeps getting stronger and stonger.

It was as unexpected as being hit by a bus, I think the old saying about you can't go looking for it, but if it finds you, look out, holds true."

We met on a sex site, over 4 years ago, like you it was instant and we keep getting stronger.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So I've been thinking a lot lately about starting to look for a relationship again.

Not right away probably a few months down the line but it has occurred to me outside of fab my social and work life is fairly isolated/male centric.

So that got me thinking whete the heck do you actually meet people?

In the past it was uni/college etc .

Is online dating the main way now?

My hobies are mostly either solo hobbies or male dominated so theres little chance there.

I think online dating is easy for men - because there are so many more women wanting relationships they can cherry pick generally.

I would say OKC would suit you, you can define some sexual criteria on there without taboo.

Like fab in reverse?

-Courtney "

Exactly! Blast, you copied my emoji typo before I got a chance to delete it haha!!

I've had far more luck on here finding 'something more', dating sites are just full of men wanting an nsa shag! Hot young men maybe, but even they get boring after a while.....

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

You are a lovely person

Meant not "

Lol. We need to go out and peruse these supermarket aisles. I'll be your wingwoman

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"if you find the correct answer please let me know x

and me "

Me too :3

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

This is exactly how I feel. I guess some of us just aren't relationship material."

Maybe it's because at the moment I'm not willing to compromise. I like my life.

Having said that, the longer I'm on Fab the less likely I am to find lurve I guess.

There are not many blokes out there who want a bisexual vodka swilling swingle!

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno


"A friend told me that I needed to smile at men more....this friend has been married 5 times, so I thought I'd try it.

It seems that either I'm just ugly or guys don't know how to smile back now!!"
or intimidated by your beauty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont search - these things have a way of finding you

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"if you find the correct answer please let me know x"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

This is exactly how I feel. I guess some of us just aren't relationship material.

Maybe it's because at the moment I'm not willing to compromise. I like my life.

Having said that, the longer I'm on Fab the less likely I am to find lurve I guess.

There are not many blokes out there who want a bisexual vodka swilling swingle! "

We are so alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done dating sites but they don't really cater for what my needs are and I can't seem to find what I'm looking for maybe I need to broaden my standards

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men? "

There are quite a few single guys I know that go to the gym, or group classes like circuit training or insanity. I asked a girl out I got to know from going to circuit training class. Went on a few dates with her. I'm tempted to go start yoga classes if that's where the women are, if I don't meet any at least I'll improve my flexibility in the meantime.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

There are quite a few single guys I know that go to the gym, or group classes like circuit training or insanity. I asked a girl out I got to know from going to circuit training class. Went on a few dates with her. I'm tempted to go start yoga classes if that's where the women are, if I don't meet any at least I'll improve my flexibility in the meantime. "

You can fuck off with me going to insanity I'll be dead before asking him out on a date

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

There are quite a few single guys I know that go to the gym, or group classes like circuit training or insanity. I asked a girl out I got to know from going to circuit training class. Went on a few dates with her. I'm tempted to go start yoga classes if that's where the women are, if I don't meet any at least I'll improve my flexibility in the meantime. "

I might just start using the treadmill in the gym lol

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

There are quite a few single guys I know that go to the gym, or group classes like circuit training or insanity. I asked a girl out I got to know from going to circuit training class. Went on a few dates with her. I'm tempted to go start yoga classes if that's where the women are, if I don't meet any at least I'll improve my flexibility in the meantime.

You can fuck off with me going to insanity I'll be dead before asking him out on a date "

People of all shapes and sizes go, and all at different levels of fitness. Everyone has to start somewhere and you just take it at your own pace. I don't have a clue about yoga, my flexibility isn't the best but gotta start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have any friends that can do some matchmaking, friends of friends...?!

Or like Courtney suggested get yourself a dog. Years ago I used to see this guy the same time every morning in the park, over time our dogs got playing we got chatting which lead to a few dates."

I do have 2 mates in bands that keep inviting me to their gigs.

I might actually make a commitment to go some time.

Thing is im shit at aproaching people, if i dont know if somone likes me im awkward as fuck.

thats why i like fab you know instantly in the first interaction if the person likes you and is interested and with that hurdle out of the way im much more relaxed and calm and myself.

I need a shirt with a pair of buttons "interested or not" and invite peopel to press them at the start of conversation :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have any friends that can do some matchmaking, friends of friends...?!

Or like Courtney suggested get yourself a dog. Years ago I used to see this guy the same time every morning in the park, over time our dogs got playing we got chatting which lead to a few dates.

I do have 2 mates in bands that keep inviting me to their gigs.

I might actually make a commitment to go some time.

Thing is im shit at aproaching people, if i dont know if somone likes me im awkward as fuck.

thats why i like fab you know instantly in the first interaction if the person likes you and is interested and with that hurdle out of the way im much more relaxed and calm and myself.

I need a shirt with a pair of buttons "interested or not" and invite peopel to press them at the start of conversation :p"

If you don't want to go alone I'd go with you as a mate if you like? I'm sure we'll find you a lovely lass in no time! I could be your Aunt Peach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ice cream aisle in a supermarket might be a good place to look. Women looking for comfort after a break up,vulnerable and needing a friendly man who is an expert in ice cream.

Where is the best place to meet single men?

There are quite a few single guys I know that go to the gym, or group classes like circuit training or insanity. I asked a girl out I got to know from going to circuit training class. Went on a few dates with her. I'm tempted to go start yoga classes if that's where the women are, if I don't meet any at least I'll improve my flexibility in the meantime. "

Well you're certainly fit THX so a class like that would be a good idea - and if you meet someone they'd share your interest in fitness, which is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about creating a FAB masquerade ball ....?

Mwah

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Online dating is a bit of a funny world to me. I see lots of people on there expecting a lot while offering very little. A lot of women confuse looking for a relationship with looking for a fuck.

A woman over 30 or 40 with 3 or 4 kids ( some with different dads), not earning much, etc has got to be realistic in setting targets as long as finding a man is concerned.

I am under no illusions the same argument can be made for a man also.

In my opinion, this is the problem with (online) dating these days. People expect too much of potential mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found relationships come along when you least expect it. I've met women from filling up at the petrol station to shopping for clothes.

If you're going all out for a relationship I'd recommend online dating.

I don't like meeting women I date in the gym as if things go pear shaped it can be a little awkward for both parties especially if you both go regularly. I learnt that one quite recently.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"I'd like to know. I'm online dating sites and omg they are the worst! More a shag fest than here.

I'd like to find a partner who would also like to swing, but no one wants to entertain that idea with me on here either.

I am of no help.

Somewhere where women go? Pilates or some other bullshit.

i went to burleaque fitness tonight..id agree the teacher even was going on about all those little housewives going home and giving thier hubbies a show..i was like wtf am i doing here....all the women tittered.like it was a taboo thing to do....i was like, if only they knew..

depressing isnt it?"

Not depressing but odd that adults can be so coy. Reminds me of Woman's Hour; they thought they were being risque by talking about tampons.

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By *atNFabGirlWoman
over a year ago

D15

My mother says I should meet someone at Church (Southern Baptist American )

I would burst into flames the moment I walked in.

Online dating ..ewww

pub... too shy

who knows... but Good Luck to all of you that are looking.

Maybe ill meet someone at the Library, Rugby Match, on a plane , a train, the Grocery Store....

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"I think I'm undateable and probably not relationship material. I'm not sad about it. I've just accepted it.

Blokes do not chat me up in pubs or coffee houses...

I don't think there's anything significantly wrong with me in fact I'm quite nice.

In the meantime life goes on.

This is exactly how I feel. I guess some of us just aren't relationship material.

Maybe it's because at the moment I'm not willing to compromise. I like my life.

Having said that, the longer I'm on Fab the less likely I am to find lurve I guess.

There are not many blokes out there who want a bisexual vodka swilling swingle! "

I'm game!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Currently theres only one close friend i would consider a relationship with like me shes bi and into similar things xxx She says she doenst want a relationship again yet as her last two partners were abusive towards her which is understandable xx But we do have similar dreams and desires its amazing really xxx But im happy to wait till shes ready xxx

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I've found relationships come along when you least expect it. I've met women from filling up at the petrol station to shopping for clothes.

If you're going all out for a relationship I'd recommend online dating.

I don't like meeting women I date in the gym as if things go pear shaped it can be a little awkward for both parties especially if you both go regularly. I learnt that one quite recently."

You just took me back 15 years. It happened to me. I was fixing a petrol pump at a Tesco garage in Oxfordshire. A lady in her forties just walked up to me on that cold morning and handed me her phone number. The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found relationships come along when you least expect it. I've met women from filling up at the petrol station to shopping for clothes.

If you're going all out for a relationship I'd recommend online dating.

I don't like meeting women I date in the gym as if things go pear shaped it can be a little awkward for both parties especially if you both go regularly. I learnt that one quite recently.

You just took me back 15 years. It happened to me. I was fixing a petrol pump at a Tesco garage in Oxfordshire. A lady in her forties just walked up to me on that cold morning and handed me her phone number. The rest is history. "

Ha ha. This lady couldn't get her fuel cap off but I later found out it was a ploy to chat me up lol. I did have my uniform on at the time which probably helped as it's never happened when I'm in my civvies.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

well thats me snuffing it as a mad spinster then. Lol last time there was,a yoga class here it was all women and there ain't any MeetUp groups either. Oh and most of the online dating sites have the same 6 disturbing men on them locally. Hmm

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm just going to perv in the gym tomorrow I have a thing for muscled guys with loads of tattoos and beards yet I have to meet one that likes a chubster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to perv in the gym tomorrow I have a thing for muscled guys with loads of tattoos and beards yet I have to meet one that likes a chubster "

Look for a fitty once you've spotted one use some sort of push/pull piece of equipment, lat pull downs is the best, then ask if any of the fitties have some liquid grip for your beautiful little delicate lady hands!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"well thats me snuffing it as a mad spinster then. Lol last time there was,a yoga class here it was all women and there ain't any MeetUp groups either. Oh and most of the online dating sites have the same 6 disturbing men on them locally. Hmm "

Looks like yoga is where it's at to find the ladies then. I'm definitely gonna find a class and give it a go. Just imagining the positions I could get a super flexible lady into in the bedroom now.

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