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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?

When you find that they do what actions do you take ?

Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?

I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc

If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment

I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 1%, and that is discounting friends/people who I have met or have chatted to previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really look at the "looked at me" for people to message or meet. I do look at it, but just because I'm a curious person.

If I see someone who looked, but didn't message or wink, I assume it is because they weren't interested, so I'm not likely to take action.

I do often look at the profiles of people who have looked at us, and will fab pictures if there are any that catch my fancy, but that's about it. If it is someone who has messaged us and is awaiting a reply, sometimes seeing them on the looked at me thingy will remind me to reply to them (because I'm shit at replying to PMs in a reasonable amount of time ).

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having looked to see who's looked or winked or friend requested, I have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less than 1% i think, what does baffle me is, quite a few guys that look at my profile have "Not looking for single men" on theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at it.... But if I did.. I wouldnt message any one off it, because I would assume If they where interested they would have messaged me x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't look at it.

If they were interested they would message.

The reason I'm in stealth mode is the 'i see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message' messages drove me nuts so I won't send them either.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I get quite shocked if I find a female has checked my profile out. Especially if they are less than 150 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quite shocked if I find a female has checked my profile out. Especially if they are less than 150 miles away"

You're right to be shocked those of us who aren't in stealth mode are rare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do look at it myself and mainly just fab pictures I like and sometimes comment on their status update,

I recon most of the people who look at me are forum related in some way anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it what the F5 key is for??

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Even if a couple look, I assume it's the guy checking out the (awesome) competition

C...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't check it much but when I do, if they looked and didn't wink or message I assume they looked and found I'm not what they are looking for so I don't contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when the same person looks at you numerous times in a short period but doesn't message that I find weird

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I only really look if I'm playing silhouette or cock bingo...

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Anybody who looks at me is a potential victim...

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I don't really look at the "looked at me" for people to message or meet. I do look at it, but just because I'm a curious person.

If I see someone who looked, but didn't message or wink, I assume it is because they weren't interested, so I'm not likely to take action.

I do often look at the profiles of people who have looked at us, and will fab pictures if there are any that catch my fancy, but that's about it. If it is someone who has messaged us and is awaiting a reply, sometimes seeing them on the looked at me thingy will remind me to reply to them (because I'm shit at replying to PMs in a reasonable amount of time ).

-Courtney"

This is basically what I wanted to write.. Sorry for kidnapping it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?

When you find that they do what actions do you take ?

Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?

I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc

If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment

I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"

if they look at me and don't message me i just assume that i wasn't their type and they aren't interested....i've never messaged anyone off my looked at me thingy.

i'm not chasing folk about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's when the same person looks at you numerous times in a short period but doesn't message that I find weird "

One time, before we changed to mode, I looked at a guy's profile. Then I told Marc to look because I was considering sending a message. So he looked. Then we looked together. We were considering messaging, but before we decided, we got a message from him asking why we were "stalking" him.

It was a joke, I think, to start discussion, but it really turned us off. And that's when we went all

-Courtney

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I can't tell wo's looked at me. But with so many people in stealth mode, it's not worth checking anyway. If people want me to know they can fab a pic, wink or write a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a clue but seeing as I'm looking for something quite specific it's probably extremely low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't tell who's looked at you not in real terms the women all use stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't tell who's looked at you not in real terms the women all use stealth mode "

Nah they just aren't looking at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't tell who's looked at you not in real terms the women all use stealth mode

Nah they just aren't looking at you "
hehe thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?

When you find that they do what actions do you take ?

Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?

I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc

If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment

I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"

I have my footprint left on then at least somebody can see I'm stalking them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it what the F5 key is for?? "

I've never used that, what does it do?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only really look if I'm playing silhouette or cock bingo..."

What the hell is cock bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?

When you find that they do what actions do you take ?

Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?

I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc

If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment

I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"

99% are blokes , not what im looking for at all lol , not for sex anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it what the F5 key is for??

I've never used that, what does it do?!"

Reload.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't look at it.

If they were interested they would message.

The reason I'm in stealth mode is the 'i see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message' messages drove me nuts so I won't send them either. "

It's not that we are not interested it's that we think why would you be interested in me

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I don't check it much but when I do, if they looked and didn't wink or message I assume they looked and found I'm not what they are looking for so I don't contact them."

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't look at it.... But if I did.. I wouldnt message any one off it, because I would assume If they where interested they would have messaged me x"
that's not always the case

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