FabSwingers.com forum: Another question ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any ideas...? We have been on this site for a while now, Susie is very fussy with whom we meet, talk to, etc, however we have found a number of guys who have been extremely keen to meet us as a couple full of compliments very eagerly communicating etc etc but will never meet? Why we wonder.... They seem to just go away..

Is this site as pointless as it seem, just full of fantasists who get off just talking with us or are we doing something wrong? We are very polite and friendly so nothing we are saying can be doing it, photos exchanged again very happy bla bla bla..

Any ideas folks or similar experiences?

We are finding it all rather odd indeed...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut. If they want lots of sex type pics or sex chat they are probably just wanking fantasists.

When meeting as a couple I always used to try and chat on the phone to potential meets as I could get a better feeling of how likely they were to turn up, and also to prove that I'm female and knew about the meet. (Some 'couples' profiles are fake.) It would also give me chance to put them at ease.

We met a fair few people as a couple and never had a no show.

However it took many many mails before we found someone suitable.

By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"Any ideas...? We have been on this site for a while now, Susie is very fussy with whom we meet, talk to, etc, however we have found a number of guys who have been extremely keen to meet us as a couple full of compliments very eagerly communicating etc etc but will never meet? Why we wonder.... They seem to just go away..

Any ideas folks or similar experiences?

We are finding it all rather odd indeed..."

I cannot see any reason why any guy or couple would start chatting with you guys and then just fade away into the ether. I would love the chance to meet you both.