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"Not allowed to talk about other meets on here regardless of whether they are active members or not. If this is allowed then there's some ridiculous double standards here. " There are always worst meet threads in here, they never get closed by the mods. | |||
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"Or the ones from escorts advertising their "business"pages else where" Yes exactly | |||
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"Not allowed to talk about other meets on here regardless of whether they are active members or not. If this is allowed then there's some ridiculous double standards here. " Jeeeeeeees luv calm down, lol why so serious with me...... It was not me you know I never shot Kenedy, I was no were near the grassy maul that day as I have never been to the USA and I was not even born at the time | |||
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"Me! Im everyone's worst meet! Haha " hahaha sense of humour is a must on these forums hey | |||
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"Not allowed to talk about other meets on here regardless of whether they are active members or not. If this is allowed then there's some ridiculous double standards here. Jeeeeeeees luv calm down, lol why so serious with me...... It was not me you know I never shot Kenedy, I was no were near the grassy maul that day as I have never been to the USA and I was not even born at the time " If you're going to be facetious it was a grassy knoll! | |||
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"Not allowed to talk about other meets on here regardless of whether they are active members or not. If this is allowed then there's some ridiculous double standards here. Jeeeeeeees luv calm down, lol why so serious with me...... It was not me you know I never shot Kenedy, I was no were near the grassy maul that day as I have never been to the USA and I was not even born at the time If you're going to be facetious it was a grassy knoll! " So not Noel Edmonds then | |||
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"The worse meets are ones where people say they want one thing (usually to fit in with what you are seeking on your profile) and upon meeting actually want something different, arranging the meet in the hope they will persuade you to do something that you don't really want to do. This kind of meet is far worse than the 'no shows' and they sometimes get agitated and even accuse you of wasting THEIR time." I hate people like this. And yeah they do blame you for their manipulation of the situation so that you might feel guilty enough to go through with what they want - it doesn't work with me. Hardly had any guys like this get to the meet stage luckily. Makes you appreciate the decent guys 100 times more. | |||
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"The worse meets are ones where people say they want one thing (usually to fit in with what you are seeking on your profile) and upon meeting actually want something different, arranging the meet in the hope they will persuade you to do something that you don't really want to do. This kind of meet is far worse than the 'no shows' and they sometimes get agitated and even accuse you of wasting THEIR time. I hate people like this. And yeah they do blame you for their manipulation of the situation so that you might feel guilty enough to go through with what they want - it doesn't work with me. Hardly had any guys like this get to the meet stage luckily. Makes you appreciate the decent guys 100 times more." Does that really go on? | |||
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"The worse meets are ones where people say they want one thing (usually to fit in with what you are seeking on your profile) and upon meeting actually want something different, arranging the meet in the hope they will persuade you to do something that you don't really want to do. This kind of meet is far worse than the 'no shows' and they sometimes get agitated and even accuse you of wasting THEIR time. I hate people like this. And yeah they do blame you for their manipulation of the situation so that you might feel guilty enough to go through with what they want - it doesn't work with me. Hardly had any guys like this get to the meet stage luckily. Makes you appreciate the decent guys 100 times more. Does that really go on? " Unfortunately yeah. Some people will say anything for a fuck. The amount of 'submissive' guys who message me yet their profile says they're dominant. I point this out and they say they just wanna try something different (fair enough). Worst one was i met one socially and over messages he was wanting to be 'sub' and try it, then that changed to let's compare notes on being dominant...after meeting he wanting me to be sub to him. I hate being sub and vulnerable and always make this clear to everyone, i don't speak to him any more at all. Also had one guy try to force me to be submissive to him, it scared the shit out of me and i made him leave. On the other hand though i have had 2 dominant guys actually submit to me, which was a bit of a buzz tbh. | |||
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"When I was meeting as a couple met a couple who decided that they didn;t want a 4sum and just wanted an MFF although rather generously they did concede that I could play with my partner. They genuinely didn't see why the fact that I wouldn't be involved was a problem for us" That's why I found it harder to swing as a couple. | |||
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"Does that really go on?" On a lesser scale, put a limit on age of who you're looking for but don't filter the other age groups out, then open your filters to all men. You'll see something similar with loads of guys chancing it, messaging you saying ' i know i'm not what you're looking for but...' | |||
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"The worse meets are ones where people say they want one thing (usually to fit in with what you are seeking on your profile) and upon meeting actually want something different, arranging the meet in the hope they will persuade you to do something that you don't really want to do. This kind of meet is far worse than the 'no shows' and they sometimes get agitated and even accuse you of wasting THEIR time. I hate people like this. And yeah they do blame you for their manipulation of the situation so that you might feel guilty enough to go through with what they want - it doesn't work with me. Hardly had any guys like this get to the meet stage luckily. Makes you appreciate the decent guys 100 times more. Does that really go on? " You also find it with people who like certain 'taboo' activites (like w/s, breath control etc). Even though you state categorically you are NOT in to them on your profile they come out with things along the lines of 'well you never know unless you try it'. Unfortunately in the past when I was a bit more naïve I did have a few things forced on me and KNOW I don't like them and have no desire to 'try' them again. | |||
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"The worse meets are ones where people say they want one thing (usually to fit in with what you are seeking on your profile) and upon meeting actually want something different, arranging the meet in the hope they will persuade you to do something that you don't really want to do. This kind of meet is far worse than the 'no shows' and they sometimes get agitated and even accuse you of wasting THEIR time." This | |||
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"Lolol! The one who wanted me to drag him off to an alleyway, beat him ,piss on him and then rape him. I was like, uh, you didn't mention *any* of this before :/" | |||
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"Mine was humiliating. I now realise the guy was an arsehole but at the time it felt like my fault. I cba to type it out in detail but basically he just wanted to cum and he got out as fast as possible afterwards. Almost zero attention was paid to me. It was worse than it sounds from that brief synopsis though." I've had a meet like that. I told him next time to pay for a prostitute | |||
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"Mine was humiliating. I now realise the guy was an arsehole but at the time it felt like my fault. I cba to type it out in detail but basically he just wanted to cum and he got out as fast as possible afterwards. Almost zero attention was paid to me. It was worse than it sounds from that brief synopsis though." Had one like that recently. It's horrible, makes you feel like a free prostitute. Really upsetting tbh. | |||
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"Lolol! The one who wanted me to drag him off to an alleyway, beat him ,piss on him and then rape him. I was like, uh, you didn't mention *any* of this before :/ " Fuckin' tell me about it! I've never finished a date before with"I think you should fuck off now and get your train." He was so hot. And it was so wrong | |||
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"Lolol! The one who wanted me to drag him off to an alleyway, beat him ,piss on him and then rape him. I was like, uh, you didn't mention *any* of this before :/ Fuckin' tell me about it! I've never finished a date before with"I think you should fuck off now and get your train." He was so hot. And it was so wrong " You did it anyway, didn't you? | |||
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"Mine was humiliating. I now realise the guy was an arsehole but at the time it felt like my fault. I cba to type it out in detail but basically he just wanted to cum and he got out as fast as possible afterwards. Almost zero attention was paid to me. It was worse than it sounds from that brief synopsis though. I've had a meet like that. I told him next time to pay for a prostitute " This guy pretty much just wanted a wank but without having to do it himself. He'd been in a hotel watching porn all day and was frantically horny. He turned up early, before I was ready. He was naked and playing with himself about a minute after walking through the door. He wanted anal play, (my fingers in him), but I hardly had time to start before it was game over. Then he left. He texted saying he was sorry it was rushed and could we arrange another meet and do it properly. I decided to give him a second chance only to have him start totally ignoring me. Then a few months later he messaged me to say he wasn't going to beg but if I felt like chatting that would be cool. | |||
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"Lolol! The one who wanted me to drag him off to an alleyway, beat him ,piss on him and then rape him. I was like, uh, you didn't mention *any* of this before :/ Fuckin' tell me about it! I've never finished a date before with"I think you should fuck off now and get your train." He was so hot. And it was so wrong You did it anyway, didn't you? " I did not! He was 19! Ffs. If I weren't arrested, think what he'd be like after a bit of practice | |||
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"One where I met someone and there photos must have been out of date by about 20 years. Looked nothing like them. Much much older then said he was and he was a d*unk mess. " i had the same happen to me. Much older bigger and d*unk... some issues going on and i politely became overly tired and retreated. | |||
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"Just the one where I got stood up 200 miles from home really. All others have been good, very good or at their worst, not so bad " you travelled 200 miles to meet someone? And they stood you up? Honestly one look at your profile and people should be traveling to you and offering to sacrifice a testicle for a night with you! | |||
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"Oh god, or that Persian guy... Fucking gorgeous... In the bedroom, top off, fit as... And then he remembered his wife and kid and fucked off. I was like, Noooooo!!!" Sometimes, I realise that being straight aint so bad after all... | |||
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"Or the Indian guy, but we don't talk about him" We? | |||
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"Had a few but no longer active members. The guy who I'd only seen a couple of his pictures of before he booked a hotel which was half way for both of us. Still 50 minute drive for me in the dark and I hate driving in the dark in unfamiliar places. Got there, didn't fancy him, said for us to drive to the garage, bought myself an egg and bacon sandwich meal deal, steak mcCoys and apple juice, pork scratchings and two pepperami's and got him to tickle my back whilst I watched take me out and ate my munchies, couldn't drive home cos I forgot to throw crumbs out the window and I didn't know where the fuck I was so had to stay there with him till morning, with him trying to poke his pathetic willy in my back, told him he can either leave or lay there quiet. " I'm the so-called "desperate single guy" and I wouldn't drive 50 minutes in he dark to a hotel to meet some random. Fuck that. | |||
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"Had a few but no longer active members. The guy who I'd only seen a couple of his pictures of before he booked a hotel which was half way for both of us. Still 50 minute drive for me in the dark and I hate driving in the dark in unfamiliar places. Got there, didn't fancy him, said for us to drive to the garage, bought myself an egg and bacon sandwich meal deal, steak mcCoys and apple juice, pork scratchings and two pepperami's and got him to tickle my back whilst I watched take me out and ate my munchies, couldn't drive home cos I forgot to throw crumbs out the window and I didn't know where the fuck I was so had to stay there with him till morning, with him trying to poke his pathetic willy in my back, told him he can either leave or lay there quiet. I'm the so-called "desperate single guy" and I wouldn't drive 50 minutes in he dark to a hotel to meet some random. Fuck that. " Hey I'm not some random, I'm fantastic. | |||
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"Had a few but no longer active members. The guy who I'd only seen a couple of his pictures of before he booked a hotel which was half way for both of us. Still 50 minute drive for me in the dark and I hate driving in the dark in unfamiliar places. Got there, didn't fancy him, said for us to drive to the garage, bought myself an egg and bacon sandwich meal deal, steak mcCoys and apple juice, pork scratchings and two pepperami's and got him to tickle my back whilst I watched take me out and ate my munchies, couldn't drive home cos I forgot to throw crumbs out the window and I didn't know where the fuck I was so had to stay there with him till morning, with him trying to poke his pathetic willy in my back, told him he can either leave or lay there quiet. I'm the so-called "desperate single guy" and I wouldn't drive 50 minutes in he dark to a hotel to meet some random. Fuck that. " I also wouldn't stay somewhere I didn't want to be. I'd leave and find my way back somehow, even if I didn't know where I was, (although how I could not when I'd driven there, I'm not sure). My 'phone has sat nav, or I'd have followed my nose until I found signs to somewhere familiar, or I'd go back to the garage and buy a map. Stay in a hotel room with someone I don't fancy with him poking me in the back with his cock? Not a chance. I'd probably have left very soon after deciding I didn't fancy him. Mind you, a guy one tried to persuade me to drive 150 miles to his place at something like 3am, (and then back again because I couldn't stay over). He promised me "the fuck of my life" and was very surprised when I declined. | |||
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"Had a few but no longer active members. The guy who I'd only seen a couple of his pictures of before he booked a hotel which was half way for both of us. Still 50 minute drive for me in the dark and I hate driving in the dark in unfamiliar places. Got there, didn't fancy him, said for us to drive to the garage, bought myself an egg and bacon sandwich meal deal, steak mcCoys and apple juice, pork scratchings and two pepperami's and got him to tickle my back whilst I watched take me out and ate my munchies, couldn't drive home cos I forgot to throw crumbs out the window and I didn't know where the fuck I was so had to stay there with him till morning, with him trying to poke his pathetic willy in my back, told him he can either leave or lay there quiet. I'm the so-called "desperate single guy" and I wouldn't drive 50 minutes in he dark to a hotel to meet some random. Fuck that. Hey I'm not some random, I'm fantastic. " Not you, him. "I'd just seen a couple of his pics" etc. | |||
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"Had a few but no longer active members. The guy who I'd only seen a couple of his pictures of before he booked a hotel which was half way for both of us. Still 50 minute drive for me in the dark and I hate driving in the dark in unfamiliar places. Got there, didn't fancy him, said for us to drive to the garage, bought myself an egg and bacon sandwich meal deal, steak mcCoys and apple juice, pork scratchings and two pepperami's and got him to tickle my back whilst I watched take me out and ate my munchies, couldn't drive home cos I forgot to throw crumbs out the window and I didn't know where the fuck I was so had to stay there with him till morning, with him trying to poke his pathetic willy in my back, told him he can either leave or lay there quiet. I'm the so-called "desperate single guy" and I wouldn't drive 50 minutes in he dark to a hotel to meet some random. Fuck that. Hey I'm not some random, I'm fantastic. Not you, him. "I'd just seen a couple of his pics" etc. " Ahh right yeah, was very early days on here, 2011, remember watching take me out as I'd never seen it before! I'd spoken to him on the phone a lot leading up to it but it's what made me want socials after that night. | |||
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"I arranged to meet a guy who wanted me to suck him off. Ok he could accom, no problem. When I was on my way he changed the plan, txt me to say we would use the garage, ok I'm still up for it. Now when I pulled up and got out my car, he stood on his driveway on an estate with his cock out and asked me to suck him there in full view of all his neibours. I nearly shit myself , of course I refused to to it outdoors. I was laughing all the way home. Cheeky fucker ask for a veri. " Made me giggle! So funny. | |||
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"Did I tell you about the guy who lived with his mother?" Oh I had forgot I had one of those too | |||
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"When guys lie about there cock size and height.and having to go through with it anyway because I don't want it hurt the persons feelings. So prefer socials before anything now x" I can understand seeing how tall they are at a social but how the hell do you know if they've lied about the size of their cock when you're having a coffee in Costa? | |||
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"The woman who sent me phones of her and her daughter sadly she forgot to tell me she cropped herself out. And no I shot you not shortest meet ever" Photos for God sake | |||
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"I had the same happen to me the other day. We just got started and I stroked his cock just a bit and he bust all over himself, blamed it on my so say magic hands but I literally didn't even touch him x" Priceless, you've made my day | |||
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"Seriously out of date photos about 15 years (not from this site). He turned up with a rose and chocolates..." maybe he thought he was the milk tray man, did he arrive by jumping out of a helicopter ? | |||
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"I met a girl here. Chatted for ages exchanged pics and interests. So finally when we met she wasn't the girl in the pics. I don't mind body shapes or anything but when your thinking your meeting a gorgeous blonde size 8 and instead get a rather large older woman is a bit of a shock. Probably my worst meet yet." Did you continue to fuck her tho? | |||
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"I met a girl here. Chatted for ages exchanged pics and interests. So finally when we met she wasn't the girl in the pics. I don't mind body shapes or anything but when your thinking your meeting a gorgeous blonde size 8 and instead get a rather large older woman is a bit of a shock. Probably my worst meet yet." Same sort of thing that to me .Pictures slim tall male and in real life a fat short male .It was a social and I drove passed him as didn't recognise him .Socials always first but it has put me off. | |||
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"OK so typing this as quick as I can..... Pulled up in my new flashy company car to the roughest street I've ever been in. Knocked on the door and a snot nosed kid answered. She shoved the kid out the way and invited me in. Her entire family (with granny sitting with an oxygen tank) pointed and laughed at me. We went upstairs to her room and she locked the door behind me. I was dazed and confused and this was the first time I'd actually looked at her. She was horrific. To my eternal shame I went through with it and got the hell out of there. I was locked in, afterall " You should have reported her.... No need for man rape on here | |||
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"Mine was humiliating. I now realise the guy was an arsehole but at the time it felt like my fault. I cba to type it out in detail but basically he just wanted to cum and he got out as fast as possible afterwards. Almost zero attention was paid to me. It was worse than it sounds from that brief synopsis though. I've had a meet like that. I told him next time to pay for a prostitute " I am baffled.I have never met either of you but you know all about my modus operandi... | |||
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