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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im in two minds whether to train and diet my workmans tummy or to leave it alone and not become obsessed with it, would like to know couples views on whether they prefer theirs partners with abs or flabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rather like asking would someone prefer a drum or a glockenspiel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slim to fit. Not overly muscly but not overweight. A belly would be off putting, I try hard to keep my weight under control - my partner should do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had men with very defined abs,no fat and men with barrel bellies,lots of fat. They were all comfortable in their own skin,which was part of the attraction for me. There's no denying that flab isn't as beautiful as muscles,but for me it's not going to make me want someone. Will you be healthier with less flab? Do you need abs to make you feel better about yourself? Do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's rather like asking would someone prefer a drum or a glockenspiel?"

Glockenspiel. Drums are head banging for me,except bongos and a steel band. I like the tones of a Glock

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm a big girl I need a big man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im in two minds whether to train and diet my workmans tummy or to leave it alone and not become obsessed with it, would like to know couples views on whether they prefer theirs partners with abs or flabs"

Do you mean your choices are only the two extremes of train and get abs, or leave alone completely and let it get flabby?

Why not just try and be fit and healthy without going to either extreme?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do feel comfortable in my skin, I like a good naked strut around the house like the best of them, just intrigued to know womens views as my wife has the token 'your well fit ' answer to this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence and the ability to turn my mind on before my body is what catches me.

I've had my fair share of muscular fit men and also average/cuddly men, it was the personality that caught my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of flabs nor am I a fan of abs. However, i've put on a lot of weight lately and that needs shifting. Even i'm going through the same dilemma. But, a flatter stomach, with broader shoulders and even bigger thighs. Yes please.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It's rather like asking would someone prefer a drum or a glockenspiel?

Glockenspiel. Drums are head banging for me,except bongos and a steel band. I like the tones of a Glock "

I like the sound of a Glock...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ill try for the Flatter stomach I think, the sudden appearance of 'love handles ' over the festive period has made me alittle body conscious.

Heres to a new year of clubs and meeting fabulous peeps, happy fabbing people

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