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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just wondering why people ask for for young and hung or must be good looking, does that mean they are better at sex than a normal slightly over weight person (as I am )and who decides who is Well endowed what is well endowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos that's what they want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it means that's what they're physically attracted to. Looks play no part in sexual prowess - however if I was with someone absolutely drop dead gorgeous who I fancied the pants off you can bet I'd up my game.

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

People are entitled to ask for what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are entitled to ask for what they are looking for"
ok that's fair enough I know that just wondering do fit young and hung make better lovers than say someone one like me who is your average slightly overweight person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well endowed is bigger than average, 7 inches and thick is what i'd like (or bigger). I don't enjoy small cocks so ask for the size i do like.

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London


"People are entitled to ask for what they are looking for ok that's fair enough I know that just wondering do fit young and hung make better lovers than say someone one like me who is your average slightly overweight person "

Impossible to say. Each to their own.. but I'd never try with someone I wasn't attracted to

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"People are entitled to ask for what they are looking for ok that's fair enough I know that just wondering do fit young and hung make better lovers than say someone one like me who is your average slightly overweight person "

There's no correlation as far as I'm aware between being 'good' at sex and age and cock length.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason I like a good beef burger and hate vegtables like broccoli (gah) personal preference.

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I love sprouts!!! Ah so that's why it ain't happening - worked it out now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason I like a good beef burger and hate vegtables like broccoli (gah) personal preference. "
ok thankyou people for replies there still hope for me yet then ha

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

Your status seems to assume because it's a sex site people will just have sex with anyone

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Cos that's what they want ?"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for Bruce Willis - because it's what I want. May have to wait a while but hey ho.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Your status seems to assume because it's a sex site people will just have sex with anyone"

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London


"I ask for Bruce Willis - because it's what I want. May have to wait a while but hey ho. "

He's usually around baddies on Christmas eve... May narrow your search down x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering why people ask for for young and hung or must be good looking"

Because this place is about fulfilling fantasy. And there's enough choice for everyone to be able to ask for what they want and get it without having to make do with whatever is available in the real world.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm just wondering why people ask for for young and hung or must be good looking, does that mean they are better at sex than a normal slightly over weight person (as I am )and who decides who is Well endowed what is well endowed "

Why do some men seem to think sex is all people want on here and, that anyone offering sex will do?

You still have to be attractive to them. You may be confused about the nature of the site but making a profile proclaiming, effectively, "I'm here, I have a cock and I can shag as well as the next man", and sending out random "I'd like to fuck you" messages isn't going to get you very far.

Very few, if any, women on here are here looking to have sex with anyone who offers.

The site is to facilitate people meeting other people for sex. Everyone still has their own desires.

Maybe you thought a "sex site" would somehow guarantee you sex? All you had to do was join and you'd be ears deep in fanny in less than 5 minutes? Sorry, this place is much like the real world in that attraction is necessary. The ratio of men to women probably makes it more difficult than the real world for a lot of men. Women can be very selective. We've got a lot of choice.

I'm here for exceptional meets. I can find ordinary absolutely anywhere, usually with much less hassle.

As for your status, lots of people want sex, lots of people meet for sex, you haven't found the ones that want sex *with you*. That's not the fault of the site or the people on it.

Does that mean you are out of luck here? No but it does mean you'll need to be patient and put in some effort to find the people that will want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so much competition on here and a massive amount of choice. Women can afford to be choosy and why not. There also has to be a physical

attraction from both sides for sex to be good.

On the other hand, not all women like well hung, fit men and prefer the average guy with a dad bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm too fussy to be a swinger. I decided last night. I have been to cams a fair bit and only had a few interactions. All of which I hated because I was basically taking one for the team. I have had interactions outside of fab which I loved. But this was my choosing. I don't fancy loads of people on here. The ones I do are either time wasters or too far away or don't fancy one of us. I'm doomed. I'm a rubbish swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is my fantasy life and i can afford to be shallow and Fuck guys i find physically appealing....and yes the sex is better with them as I'm turned on just by looking at them.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like the look of the "fit" guys but in reality I like a bit more padding on someone I am cuddling up to after a passionate night, looking that way doesn't make them any better in bed than your average build guy, it's all about how you connect that makes you a good lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate don't worry about size Queens lol we can compare them to other women like they do with men there not special. People can't help what their attracted too, for single men best not to rely on this site to find your fun .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm just wondering why people ask for for young and hung or must be good looking, does that mean they are better at sex than a normal slightly over weight person (as I am )and who decides who is Well endowed what is well endowed "

It just means that some people are shallow (like me)

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