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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Give other couples or singles profiles that you may consider too attractive or "out of your league" a wide berth?

Or do you just "go for it" regardless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say never.

I check em out regardless and if its my bag and i am what they are after, i drop em a line.

If they get back to me, then great. If not i move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i bi pass the good lookin ones, i know id stand no chance so wouldnt wanna get rejected.. had loads of that and sick of lookin like a fool now :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give other couples or singles profiles that you may consider too attractive or "out of your league" a wide berth?

Or do you just "go for it" regardless?"

I'm always intrigued by the term "out of you league" because most people use it to describe looks: I don't!

To me a Daniel Craig look a like post man would not be in my league, I wouldn't notice him let alone play with him, but a High Court Judge who looked like Michael Parkinson I'd consider out of my league and that would be an added buzz when sitting on his face!

It's all part and parcel of my fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I consider anyone out of my league to start with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ish, i chat to alot of people and often they are so far away that there is no chance of meeting them so meeting isnt an option

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

yep distance isnt even out of our league,lol

recently chatted a couple from the usa on here,,,one day rodders we will be millionaires and head over for some fun,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is is out of order to admit to emailling older men, who arent so good looking instead of 'ripped muscular' younger lads just so that i avoid rejection??

btw men ive messaged your all lovely :D xx - LOL

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would I consider anyone out of my league to start with? "

You obviously very confident and happy with yourself (and quite rightly so), but there are others on here that maybe don`t share your self belief.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"is is out of order to admit to emailling older men, who arent so good looking instead of 'ripped muscular' younger lads just so that i avoid rejection??

btw men ive messaged your all lovely :D xx - LOL "

Having perused your pictures I honestly think you don't have a thing to worry about. You're a very pretty and sexy looking lady.

I hope you get a bit more confident as I genuuinly don't think you have anything to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration "

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you, I have never made the first contact, they come to me instead!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mind you, I have never made the first contact, they come to me instead! "

Ohhhhhh, to be a single fem on here.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age. "

Same here really, our kids are late 20's and somehow it doesn't seem quite right, but then again never say never lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age.

Same here really, our kids are late 20's and somehow it doesn't seem quite right, but then again never say never lol"

I prefer older men mid 30's to mid 40's and my dad is 42 - i just like what i like,, cant be helped.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age.

Same here really, our kids are late 20's and somehow it doesn't seem quite right, but then again never say never lol

I prefer older men mid 30's to mid 40's and my dad is 42 - i just like what i like,, cant be helped. "

we are moving to the south coast soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mind you, I have never made the first contact, they come to me instead!

Ohhhhhh, to be a single fem on here. "

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Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age.

Same here really, our kids are late 20's and somehow it doesn't seem quite right, but then again never say never lol"

Ya tarts.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"we tend to avoid profiles where we are out of the age range although it has been know (very rarely) for those who have a younger age range than we are to contact us, we then of course give it very serious consideration

The "age" issue often intrigues us. We often read verifications showing that couples in their 40`s /50`s have on occasion "played" with other couples in their early 20`s (not a critisism just an obsevation), we just wouldn`t consider such a situation regardless of their level of maturity, as we have sons and daughters of similar age.

Same here really, our kids are late 20's and somehow it doesn't seem quite right, but then again never say never lol

Ya tarts. "

Guilty as charged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently decided age is really just a number, and if a hot, cute and sexy 20 something wants to play with an old hag BBW like me, then who am I to argue?

So long as they are older than my children substitutes, and the cat is nearly 5 and the dog is nearly 4!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really think about attractiveness when deciding on a meet, its down to how we interract via messages, if we have things in common etc.

We had a meet with a young couple a few weeks ago. She was 26 and absolutely drop dead gorgeous, she wasnt skinny but curvy and just gorgeous, long red hair etc. Her partner was a fit young man in his mid 30s. We share a love of stockings and vintage underwear so the connection was made.

Now I know that when we met I couldnt compete with her beauty, shes 26, tall, beautiful, im 40 (ish) lol, small, saggy tummy from having babies, stretch marks, wrinkles. But I never felt second best, I felt a million dollars when we met as just as sexy as she, and thats because they were right for us. We didnt notice the age difference at all (though its great that my man of nearly 50 had a sexual experience with a woman half his age and she was very pleased with him, that makes me happy).

i dont approach the younger ones, but if they approach me and want me, heck it would be rude not to take them up on the offer

I wouldnt play with anyone younger than 25 though - I have knickers older than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just read the profile and if the profile gives us a feel for them we will contact them.

The pics are not the be all and end all, the way they come over on profile and subsequently in messages says more about peeps.

Don't know as the "too attractive" or out of league" concepts are relevant. If peeps really did come over as "out of our league" they would probs sound up themselves and would not appeal to us in anycase.

There are cases though where one or other of a couple is "not attractive enough". Nothing to be done about this no matter how you get on, you would not be able to fuck with them. Nowt wrong with chatting and being friends tho and ... never say never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont really think about attractiveness when deciding on a meet, its down to how we interract via messages, if we have things in common etc.

We had a meet with a young couple a few weeks ago. She was 26 and absolutely drop dead gorgeous, she wasnt skinny but curvy and just gorgeous, long red hair etc. Her partner was a fit young man in his mid 30s. We share a love of stockings and vintage underwear so the connection was made.

Now I know that when we met I couldnt compete with her beauty, shes 26, tall, beautiful, im 40 (ish) lol, small, saggy tummy from having babies, stretch marks, wrinkles. But I never felt second best, I felt a million dollars when we met as just as sexy as she, and thats because they were right for us. We didnt notice the age difference at all (though its great that my man of nearly 50 had a sexual experience with a woman half his age and she was very pleased with him, that makes me happy).

i dont approach the younger ones, but if they approach me and want me, heck it would be rude not to take them up on the offer

I wouldnt play with anyone younger than 25 though - I have knickers older than that "

What about next year?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i find that alot of ppl who say they are very attractive can be abit up themselves sorry if that sounds abit funny but they have no manners to even say no thank you,its like as if they look and say in ur dreams and delete u!lol

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