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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to send the first message.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You are wrong in your assumption that women never message first OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course Sir x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as guys can't message me, if I chat to them I always have to send the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this where we sign up to be inundated with FAF messages??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a nice surprise if a lady mssgs first I've almost given up messaging first to not get a reply or it being unread prolly due to it being missed

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Have had ladies message me first in the past. Some are now good friends. Very happy to receive more messages from you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to receive a little message this morning...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think Im more likely to get a message from the dead than a single fem on here!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I messaged a man first yesterday. ..and he wasn't the first man ever

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message men first... And not to be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a woman message me first but I blame my profile lol

Or perhaps I'm just not that appealing to the opposite sex,

Plenty of weirdos though perhaps that should tell me everything lol

Still love the site though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged 2 people off here, no response. Bloody timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay why not

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I'd love a first message from a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged 2 people off here, no response. Bloody timewasters! "

Hold your horses princess, have you forgot that were all being inundated with FAF messages

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I get one or two very occasionally. More would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged 2 people off here, no response. Bloody timewasters!

Hold your horses princess, have you forgot that were all being inundated with FAF messages "

Pfft! You have to be available to just me or I'm not interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it time to check my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received four messages from women in the three or four weeks I've been a member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be happy to receive a little message this morning... "

message sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message a few 'new' people every week, if I see anyone in the public pics etc that takes my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message a few 'new' people every week, if I see anyone in the public pics etc that takes my fancy "

I tend to go through the guys hot pics every so often and send a few messages from there. Shallow? Me? Nah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged 2 people off here, no response. Bloody timewasters!

Hold your horses princess, have you forgot that were all being inundated with FAF messages

Pfft! You have to be available to just me or I'm not interested... "

Haha! This is a revelation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message men (female half of couple here) - trouble is, a lot if them seem to assume that this means "whoa, I'm in there!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message a few 'new' people every week, if I see anyone in the public pics etc that takes my fancy

I tend to go through the guys hot pics every so often and send a few messages from there. Shallow? Me? Nah..."

Ha! I'm not really a fan of random cock pics and they tend to be all of cocks, so I keep out f there. Maybe I'm missing a trick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the odd message from a female first but not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't message any women on this thread as it appears being 60 I am out of most peoples age range!!!! But I certainly like receiving them

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By *ammskiMan
over a year ago

lytham st.annes


"I message men (female half of couple here) - trouble is, a lot if them seem to assume that this means "whoa, I'm in there!!!!""
. I,be had a few ,would love more from ladies, Wammski

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply "

Women message me first all the time... -_-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message a few 'new' people every week, if I see anyone in the public pics etc that takes my fancy

I tend to go through the guys hot pics every so often and send a few messages from there. Shallow? Me? Nah...

Ha! I'm not really a fan of random cock pics and they tend to be all of cocks, so I keep out f there. Maybe I'm missing a trick!"

I skip through the cock pics.

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Yes please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a very friendly woman. My reason for not messaging someone first, just for a chat, is they usually assume it will end in sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last "

well im happy that we chat old man haha x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock pics are hidden in friends only coz I know that cock pics are so popular on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply

Women message me first all the time... -_-"

oh il skip then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last

well im happy that we chat old man haha x x"

I am so happy we do too I've got a big smile on my face I will admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message a few 'new' people every week, if I see anyone in the public pics etc that takes my fancy

I tend to go through the guys hot pics every so often and send a few messages from there. Shallow? Me? Nah...

Ha! I'm not really a fan of random cock pics and they tend to be all of cocks, so I keep out f there. Maybe I'm missing a trick!

I skip through the cock pics. "
I don't have any cock pics!!

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nope, not had a first message from a woman. Seen loads asking to be contacted but always giving grief when you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last

well im happy that we chat old man haha x x

I am so happy we do too I've got a big smile on my face I will admit "

il admit so have i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done!

To clarify, I have mailed first a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply "

Any guy in particular or can I be in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a very friendly woman. My reason for not messaging someone first, just for a chat, is they usually assume it will end in sex."

It's true that.

Normally if I message someone first it's because I like their pics enough to want sex from them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last

well im happy that we chat old man haha x x

I am so happy we do too I've got a big smile on my face I will admit

il admit so have i "

Think I may need a road trip after pay day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread. "

"Victim" ha! I do hope responded positively in that regard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a very friendly woman. My reason for not messaging someone first, just for a chat, is they usually assume it will end in sex.

It's true that.

Normally if I message someone first it's because I like their pics enough to want sex from them!"

Well it is a swinging site so hardly want to exchange cooking recipies

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As I won't msg lady's 1st unless it's forum related it would be nice if they did me but guess I'm a acquired taste but hey I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many women message me first, its always nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread. "
that sounds painful victim lol

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If you're feeling friendly, message a couple aswell! Definitely open to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think Im more likely to get a message from the dead than a single fem on here! "
feel much the same as you...!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had many women message me first, its always nice"

I agree especially if they're new to the site and keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread.

"Victim" ha! I do hope responded positively in that regard "

He did indeed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a very friendly woman. My reason for not messaging someone first, just for a chat, is they usually assume it will end in sex.

It's true that.

Normally if I message someone first it's because I like their pics enough to want sex from them!

Well it is a swinging site so hardly want to exchange cooking recipies "

Not everyone is on here for sex....

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im happy to receive any message :O)

The motto should be : Make someone's day by sending a message right away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any ladies would like to message me I would love to chat. Can I be the first guy to say that "Sex isn't everything and sometimes friendship is more important"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now and then I get a message first but I'm pretty crap at sending the first message too if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread.

"Victim" ha! I do hope responded positively in that regard

He did indeed.... "

Lucky guy

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

We had a couple message us.... It was from the female half apparently.... Then after a few messages..... And a good 10 hours we got the exact same message.... There was us thinking we were special and that they meant what they said about the profile.... .... Bit no... They just spammed everyone they could in the hope they would get a reply.... Then forgot they had already sent the message....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm either to old or to far away but had some really lovely chats long may it last

well im happy that we chat old man haha x x

I am so happy we do too I've got a big smile on my face I will admit

il admit so have i

Think I may need a road trip after pay day lol "

be careful that i dnt hold you to that mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to do a spread bet between this post and the other one.

Even though it's probably the same lovely ladies on both.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've had ladies message first, Always happy to receive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread.

"Victim" ha! I do hope responded positively in that regard

He did indeed....

Lucky guy "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the odd message from a female first but not many "

My fb messaged me first, she wasn't interested on being friends , in conversation with other lady friends it is all about your profile and instant appeal via your pics... I still look grumpy in mine - thankfully I look better than I photograph apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not actively searching for anyone new ~ so if I message 1st like i did this week it's 'cos I've spotted my 'victim' in a forum thread. "
damn it wasn't me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fancy a fuck messages are doing well.

Don't know why men complain!

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

I would love a message from a lady

On the other thread but no luck there.

Warren

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

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Its not until I started running my profile like I do now that you realise how little effort most guys put into their profiles. Most are non existent one liners with nothing at all to go on. There are very few who stand out enough for me to message them which would seem making the effort as a guy worth while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

Its not until I started running my profile like I do now that you realise how little effort most guys put into their profiles. Most are non existent one liners with nothing at all to go on. There are very few who stand out enough for me to message them which would seem making the effort as a guy worth while."

Absolutely brilliant, I love it!!!

I'm never sure if men think they don't need to bother with profiles because swinger women will fuck anything.. or they just don't know what to write.

I'll do some research...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

Its not until I started running my profile like I do now that you realise how little effort most guys put into their profiles. Most are non existent one liners with nothing at all to go on. There are very few who stand out enough for me to message them which would seem making the effort as a guy worth while."
but think about it how many men ever impress a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

Its not until I started running my profile like I do now that you realise how little effort most guys put into their profiles. Most are non existent one liners with nothing at all to go on. There are very few who stand out enough for me to message them which would seem making the effort as a guy worth while.

Absolutely brilliant, I love it!!!

I'm never sure if men think they don't need to bother with profiles because swinger women will fuck anything.. or they just don't know what to write.

I'll do some research... "

Cool, have fun Fab should block all men from messaging women for a month to see if they actually would bother to make an effort but I think nothing would change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do message first. Not that often, but it does happen.I find the ones that do this whine less about inappropriate messages fron guys who don't match up to their expectations.They tend to go and find what they want

In general I'd say they are much better communicators to.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

why not..

mmm which one do I choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged guys before but it is rare. But that's only because there doesn't seem to be that many chaps in my area that I find appealing

Its not until I started running my profile like I do now that you realise how little effort most guys put into their profiles. Most are non existent one liners with nothing at all to go on. There are very few who stand out enough for me to message them which would seem making the effort as a guy worth while.

Absolutely brilliant, I love it!!!

I'm never sure if men think they don't need to bother with profiles because swinger women will fuck anything.. or they just don't know what to write.

I'll do some research...

Cool, have fun Fab should block all men from messaging women for a month to see if they actually would bother to make an effort but I think nothing would change!"

I agree about the men mail block. It would be a brilliant experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fancy a fuck messages are doing well.

Don't know why men complain! "

bet you getting loads of attention with them messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although its not often I have received the first message before and it does make you feel pretty good so I like it being not often to keep that feeling

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

A lot of the time to initiate a response I look at and fab the photos I like , and see if they take the opportunity to look at me.

There's been loads of times Its been ignored but I still go back and look then decide if I want to message or not.

It's all about the mood of the day whether I can be arsed actually messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be on the receiving end of a first message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd love to know these women who message first been on the scene for years and have yet to receive a msg first from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women who mail us first have always turned out to be fake profiles....but we live in hope that we shall have a genuine one someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all live in that hope lol there are a few genuine ladies on here but we still have yet to get a msg from them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to throw my name in the hat in this thread too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lasses are a fussy lot !

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So in the spirit of the new year 2016 message a guy first make his day ,this is about being friendly not about sex but no rules apply "

women and couples always message me first..... i be special!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be a ego booster if men send them the first msg , just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say I've had some lovely responses thank you to the ladies that have messaged me it's always a pleasure receiving messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think we'll have to move down south seems that women in the south msg peeps first instead of up here in the north :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send the first message but it is usually in response to something the person said on the forum rather than anything more

It's never a 'Fancy a shag?' message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think we'll have to move down south seems that women in the south msg peeps first instead of up here in the north :P

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To be fair it's northern lasses that have messaged me

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

I have been blessed to have ladies message me first before ... Infrequently I might add before I upset the chaps. Happy to be "victimised" in the spirtit of this thread. He stares at his inbox in anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do message first. Not that often, but it does happen.I find the ones that do this whine less about inappropriate messages fron guys who don't match up to their expectations.They tend to go and find what they want

In general I'd say they are much better communicators to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few women message me first... in for more though

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had my first ever message

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

Thank you kind lady - I couldn't have stared at my inbox for much longer without blinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to message guys I liked when I first joined the site but of all the messages I sent I never got a single reply from any of them so I stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I used to message guys I liked when I first joined the site but of all the messages I sent I never got a single reply from any of them so I stopped"

What idiots, surely any guy who uses the site knows what its about s if a young lady has taken the time and trouble to message you then at least have the decency to reply .... sorry rant over

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep"

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep"

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to message guys I liked when I first joined the site but of all the messages I sent I never got a single reply from any of them so I stopped"

Perhaps men don't like women to be forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a fancy a fuck message. I've always had a reply

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Send them a fancy a fuck message. I've always had a reply "

I never replied ....... D'oh ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to throw my name in the hat in this thread too! "

Mail this guy ladies!! He's hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send them a fancy a fuck message. I've always had a reply

I never replied ....... D'oh ... "

I never sent you a message. That's probably why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to message guys I liked when I first joined the site but of all the messages I sent I never got a single reply from any of them so I stopped

Perhaps men don't like women to be forward "

Actually I came to the conclusion I was just punching above my weight with the guys I was choosing to mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to throw my name in the hat in this thread too!

Mail this guy ladies!! He's hot. "

Ha! thankyou!

(slips Scarletstars a big wad of cash....)

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I've had some very nice messages thank you. It's very nice being contacted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to message guys I liked when I first joined the site but of all the messages I sent I never got a single reply from any of them so I stopped

Perhaps men don't like women to be forward

Actually I came to the conclusion I was just punching above my weight with the guys I was choosing to mail "
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I don't bother messaging,I can never find anyone who interests me and I'm too lazy to keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep"

Men can be very picky as well they don't all jump through hoops every time a Woman sends a message, I have my preference on who I would like to meet and stick by them if that only means getting 1 or 2 a year then so be it, And just because they have a moan about not getting replies or meets it doesn't always mean they aren't decent people

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Send them a fancy a fuck message. I've always had a reply

I never replied ....... D'oh ...

I never sent you a message. That's probably why. "

( whispers ) I was only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep

Men can be very picky as well they don't all jump through hoops every time a Woman sends a message, I have my preference on who I would like to meet and stick by them if that only means getting 1 or 2 a year then so be it, And just because they have a moan about not getting replies or meets it doesn't always mean they aren't decent people "

Well then good for you and fair play and every credit to you., I also am on here for quality over quantity and like to have a laugh as well as some good fun and friendship with women.........But lets face it and be honest most of the blokes on here would fuck crack of dawn if they could get up early enough.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to throw my name in the hat in this thread too!

Mail this guy ladies!! He's hot.

Ha! thankyou!

(slips Scarletstars a big wad of cash....)"

Put yer 'wad' away. I meant it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

No

[ that was the message ]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep

Men can be very picky as well they don't all jump through hoops every time a Woman sends a message, I have my preference on who I would like to meet and stick by them if that only means getting 1 or 2 a year then so be it, And just because they have a moan about not getting replies or meets it doesn't always mean they aren't decent people

Well then good for you and fair play and every credit to you., I also am on here for quality over quantity and like to have a laugh as well as some good fun and friendship with women.........But lets face it and be honest most of the blokes on here would fuck crack of dawn if they could get up early enough......... "

Changing my name to Dawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think we'll have to move down south seems that women in the south msg peeps first instead of up here in the north :P

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Im in the north.... I send messages first

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep

Men can be very picky as well they don't all jump through hoops every time a Woman sends a message, I have my preference on who I would like to meet and stick by them if that only means getting 1 or 2 a year then so be it, And just because they have a moan about not getting replies or meets it doesn't always mean they aren't decent people

Well then good for you and fair play and every credit to you., I also am on here for quality over quantity and like to have a laugh as well as some good fun and friendship with women.........But lets face it and be honest most of the blokes on here would fuck crack of dawn if they could get up early enough.........

Changing my name to Dawn. "

That reminds me of something I heard somewhere, probably in my English class:

"Morning has broken; somebody please fix it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well lets face it the blokes on here out number the women by about 30 to one so why the hell should they even think about sending a msg to a bloke when all that they have to do is log online and just sift through all the tons and tons of dick pics sent to them along with a msg thats reads fancy a fuck, or I am in your area right now can you meet to suck me off

Lets face it fellas every single woman on here can well afford to be very ver very picky and choosy and the sooner blokes realise that the better, maybe then they will stop getting all arsey with women over nothing and giving the rest of the decent lads a bad rep

Men can be very picky as well they don't all jump through hoops every time a Woman sends a message, I have my preference on who I would like to meet and stick by them if that only means getting 1 or 2 a year then so be it, And just because they have a moan about not getting replies or meets it doesn't always mean they aren't decent people

Well then good for you and fair play and every credit to you., I also am on here for quality over quantity and like to have a laugh as well as some good fun and friendship with women.........But lets face it and be honest most of the blokes on here would fuck crack of dawn if they could get up early enough.........

Changing my name to Dawn. "

Hello Dawn, your my DAVE now Dawn hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Msg sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm south I always message guys but then again I'm a flirt

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

ok ladies fire away hahaha oooohhhhh I could bulk delete if I got millions (I wouldn't though)

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"ok ladies fire away hahaha oooohhhhh I could bulk delete if I got millions (I wouldn't though) "

You got mi££ions?

Check your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait with baited breath...the male version of waiting by the phone...for the call that never comes...

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ermmmmmm

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"ok ladies fire away hahaha oooohhhhh I could bulk delete if I got millions (I wouldn't though)

You got mi££ions?

Check your inbox "

Stoopid ass postman never delivered it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a delight to find something in my inbox

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"I'd be happy to receive a little message this morning... "

Also will be happy to receive a message, I've instructed my PA to clear my diary for the next few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My.inbox is most welcomimg

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"I'd be happy to receive a little message this morning...

Also will be happy to receive a message, I've instructed my PA to clear my diary for the next few weeks "

Alternatively I'll just watch the FA Cup and Weep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single woman, but I do message people first. Its because I'm an annoying bugger.

-Courtney

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm not a single woman, but I do message people first. Its because I'm an annoying bugger.

-Courtney"

mehhhh what's up doc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So who got a date? Who got unexpected interest ? Who didn't get a kiss from a blind duck?

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

I think I'm going to have to put my filters back up .... this is ridiculous

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So who got a date? Who got unexpected interest ? Who didn't get a kiss from a blind duck? "

I never message a guy first, too busy reading all my incoming messages!!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"So who got a date? Who got unexpected interest ? Who didn't get a kiss from a blind duck?

I never message a guy first, too busy reading all my incoming messages!! "

incoming or arrived cos if you are reading the incoming I need to ask you for 6 lottery numbers pretty please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm going to have to put my filters back up .... this is ridiculous "
so none then

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

One of the most interesting topics in a long while, lets try and keep it going everyone weather you have had success or failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are always happy to receive

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Men are always happy to receive "

True

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex


"I think I'm going to have to put my filters back up .... this is ridiculous so none then "

Errrrm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are always happy to receive "
receive what may I ask x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are always happy to receive "

Certainly would be from you x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I have been known to message 1st if feeling really brave

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I am pretty sure that I've never been messaged first but hey I live in hope that 2016 is the year it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been known to message 1st if feeling really brave "
can you give us an example and why? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

messaged the 1 and happy to have got a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always msg first just don't get a reply

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Always msg first just don't get a reply "

By the sounds of it, your not alone but I still can't figure out as to why a guy nit respond to an initalmessage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So guys are we convinced did the women of fab message first and prove us wrong ,of course some guys get messaged first all the time and I'm nearly so jealous of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got in and late to the thread - I'm sure it's been said before up above but women do message first at times! And just as well as there's some serious lovelies with some serious filters up that I'm glad, every now and then, message through otherwise I'd never have found a few great little online buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a rarity im chicken

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

I'm in for some of you to be first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever message men. However the first one I ever did turned out to be fab x

It reinforces the belief that my instincts are spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to say that from this and the other similar thread today I've received some lovely messages. Thank you ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!"

let's test that theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!"

Snap! It's fine, I'm not in a corner crying.....I swear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!

Snap! It's fine, I'm not in a corner crying.....I swear "

Come cry with me lovely. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!

Snap! It's fine, I'm not in a corner crying.....I swear

Come cry with me lovely. Xx"

On my way....hot choc n fleecy blanket? xx

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Well happy new year to each and every one off you, I have messaged quite a few in this thread, got some very entertaining replies back too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit late...but I'm in

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!

Snap! It's fine, I'm not in a corner crying.....I swear

Come cry with me lovely. Xx

On my way....hot choc n fleecy blanket? xx"

OK OK all over to mine I'll be your cuddle monkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sent a few messages first .Not had a reply to all but hey ho, beauty of fab .See its not only men that don't get a reply!

Snap! It's fine, I'm not in a corner crying.....I swear

Come cry with me lovely. Xx

On my way....hot choc n fleecy blanket? xx"

Beautiful. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do......but I haven't had it happen for a little while.....so my mail box is open!

Message away ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, Nothing, I will have to wait for the spirit of the new year 2017 thread

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've had a few messages today from these type of threads.. you gotta be in it to win it.

Thanks to the ladies who messaged.

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