FabSwingers.com forum: condoms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

So what's this post about? The reluctance of men to use them. Even in the same evening as having used one or two, he might still try and get in unjacketed. I have experienced the majority of men being like this.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I would consider doing....just wrong. I'm sure not all men are as you describe...maybe you pick some bad uns? Or am I a bit off track here?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

Nope, some are very good and you don't need to remind them, others will try it on xx

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now."

that's the dumbest thing ever ever read on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, Cambs or anywhere, no glove no love in my experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

condoms every time

I was taught right by my parents - come prepared

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now."

Well next time you fuck wet concrete, I do so hope it's actually quick drying cement

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

I'm in Cambs and I've always got some with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a guy try to fuck me without condoms. They've all been really good. Only one guy forgot condoms for a meet, and it was back when I was using condoms for soft play, and it was a soft meet (so not quite the same thing).

Most guys have brought quite a few condoms, and one nice guy actually left us a few that we happened to say were nice.

Overall, the guys we have met have been great with condom use

-Courtney

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I always supply condoms when meeting xxx If the ones i have are a few months old i throw them and get new ones xxx Its a policy i stick by and people ive met apprieciate xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I can honestly say that I have only met two men like those you describe OP.

My most regular friend buys his in bulk and is always ready to suit up in any situation. He's adept at quick changes in club situations and never keeps me or any one else waiting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

condoms every time

I was taught right by my parents - come prepared "

Because they weren't?

Sorry I couldn't resist

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now.

Well next time you fuck wet concrete, I do so hope it's actually quick drying cement

You got there before me.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now.

Well next time you fuck wet concrete, I do so hope it's actually quick drying cement

Mortafied

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

I'm in Cambs and I've always got some with me

But do you use them is the point!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You always have to use condoms.

There is something worse than HIV/AIDS..

It's called children

AIDS will kill you , children are forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've notticed the oposite a few people when sat on top have tried to slip the tip in before ive got one on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see posts like this regularly but I have never met anyone who's tried not to use them. I don't have to ask, it's just a given.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

Not the majority and never with couples but yes, single men have turned up with no condoms and looked amazed when we produce them and yes they did have safe sex on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've notticed the oposite a few people when sat on top have tried to slip the tip in before ive got one on.

I apologise for the mental image of three woman sitting astride you

. Of course you may ne bi, but my image had women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once did someone try it wont be meeting him again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only experienced reluctance to use a condom once. That meet was cut short. Everyone else has turned up with condoms and has use them. I'm always surprised when i see the amount that have similar experiences to yours, OP.

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

I'm in Cambs and I've always got some with me

But do you use them is the point!"

Yes, it would be a waste having them with me otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see posts like this regularly but I have never met anyone who's tried not to use them. I don't have to ask, it's just a given. "

Maybe it's me. I must be so amazing that all thoughts of protection goes out the window and "he makes his move". My immediate response is to give the look of death, point at the cock and demand "condom"!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see posts like this regularly but I have never met anyone who's tried not to use them. I don't have to ask, it's just a given.

Just a thought, not sure if the look of death or the actual condom causes a withering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of turning up without one. Besides the total lack of respect, I would have no clue as to your sexual history and vice versa.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"I wouldn't dream of turning up without one. Besides the total lack of respect, I would have no clue as to your sexual history and vice versa."

One?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't dream of turning up without one. Besides the total lack of respect, I would have no clue as to your sexual history and vice versa.

One?"

I'm glad i wasn't the only one that thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see posts like this regularly but I have never met anyone who's tried not to use them. I don't have to ask, it's just a given.

Just a thought, not sure if the look of death or the actual condom causes a withering

I think it's just cos I look skanky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skyns perfect protection, never play without one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Skyns perfect protection, never play without one

You're my sort of man. I always provide as I use Skyns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't dream of turning up without one. Besides the total lack of respect, I would have no clue as to your sexual history and vice versa.

One?"

I'm not that lucky :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just Cambs, never been an issue for me & I've never had to ask.

Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe it's just Cambs, never been an issue for me & I've never had to ask.

Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it's just Cambs, never been an issue for me & I've never had to ask.

Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

And malteasers

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Condoms all the time when meeting in drab, it is just not worth the risk.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe it's just Cambs, never been an issue for me & I've never had to ask.

Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

And malteasers

And Pooch for some intelligent conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it's just Cambs, never been an issue for me & I've never had to ask.

Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

And malteasers

You had me at Malteasers...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Some guys go soft when it's rubber up time and make some lame arse excuse that they can't use them.

I tell them to go home and practice wanking with one on

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I only meet as a couple, but I have to supply my own as I'm allergic to latex. Cant even use Durex latex free ones. God knows what else I'm allergic to.

Everyone so far has been good about it. But then my other half would go nuts if they weren't.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now."

You know this as a fact?

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

"Wearing a condom is like fucking wet concrete so all rubber fannies can block me now.

Well next time you fuck wet concrete, I do so hope it's actually quick drying cement

You got there before me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Skyns perfect protection, never play without one

I find skyns split easy.

They do feel nice though so im guessing theyre maybe thinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found most guys on here that I've met have been really on the ball about using them.

Only one tried to claim it fell off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

So why would you not use the condoms the guy brought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p"

Try keeping them in your socks

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

Maybe it is a local thing...I feel like I've experienced this quite a lot!

Or maybe the people I've met just don't have the respect for me or their health that I'd hope for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p"

I tend to disagree matey.

A small fabric case like one for earphones tucked down the side of your undies is unobtrusive and easily done and can easily hold 3 or 4 love gloves. The ladies I have met compliment the creativity of being subtle and prepared. It makes meets go smoother.

And I end up giving other guys gloves in moresome scenarios.

It takes a little planning that's all.

#Justsaying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many years now as a single woman I've only ever had one guy who didn't supply his own condoms. No big deal as I had some.

I get it that sex is better without condoms but tough titties (not mine

) I want to minimise risks.

Do your stats match with mine ladies, or is it just Cambs?

Maybe it is a local thing...I feel like I've experienced this quite a lot!

Or maybe the people I've met just don't have the respect for me or their health that I'd hope for them. "

But they probably think you look clean. So it was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males. Also l have run into women who have tried to suggest sex without them and l have had to say no.

I cimment as someone who posted a thread last year about being in MMF situations and the other guys wanting to borrow my condoms. I now have a policy of not giving any away.

As for where do you put them. I have a variety of difference sized coin purses or washbags depending on whether it is a spa ,a club or a meet. The difficulty being fitting not only a variety of condoms including latex and flavoured in the purse but also lube and antibacterial hand gel. The issue with publicly holding condom containers is the concern that some women will discount the men that are prepared as chancers who will shag anything rather than seeing them as sensible and prepared.

I would also say sex with a condom cannot by definition be as pleasurable as sex without for male. But it is still pleasurable with a condom and as it can save your life, and save a person from infection l am always puzzled why people do not want to use them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males. "

Oh learn to read!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a little shagbag with condoms and mouth freshener

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p"

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males.

Oh learn to read!"
So what's this post about? The reluctance of men to use them. Even in the same evening as having used one or two, he might still try and get in unjacketed. I have experienced the majority of men being like this."!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males.

Oh learn to read!So what's this post about? The reluctance of men to use them. Even in the same evening as having used one or two, he might still try and get in unjacketed. I have experienced the majority of men being like this."!

Majority of my experiences! Hardly condemning ALL men! Hardly a sweeping statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

So why would you not use the condoms the guy brought?"

Because they may have had them in their wallet for 20 years. I don't trust them so use my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think."

That would be very useful. The only ones I have seen are too big though, they just look too clumpy.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think.

That would be very useful. The only ones I have seen are too big though, they just look too clumpy.

Take a look at Signature Latex.

They'd be happy to make a custom one in a different size or colour.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think."

I have a silver wrist wallet/clubber purse - you can fit 3 or 4 in. In Chams the other week a gent had an arm one made by Karrimor that he used when walking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males.

Majority of my experiences! Hardly condemning ALL men! Hardly a sweeping statement."

You may have meant to say that, but l suggest that is not how it reads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think.

That would be very useful. The only ones I have seen are too big though, they just look too clumpy.

Take a look at Signature Latex.

They'd be happy to make a custom one in a different size or colour."

They look great, thanks!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males.

Majority of my experiences! Hardly condemning ALL men! Hardly a sweeping statement.

You may have meant to say that, but l suggest that is not how it reads."

Not to you perhaps but it read that way to me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

In clubs as a guy though youve got no where to put them, they have to stay in the locker women jave bras for storage :p

Wrist wallet?

I have a friend who now makes latex wrist wallets because guys at fet clubs were complaining latex doesn't tend to have pockets and they had nowhere to keep cash and stuff.

The concept would work as well in a swinging club, I'd think.

That would be very useful. The only ones I have seen are too big though, they just look too clumpy.

Take a look at Signature Latex.

They'd be happy to make a custom one in a different size or colour.

They look great, thanks!

They'd be pretty easy to make in fabric too, if you didn't fancy latex.

Although latex is wipe clean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP's statement is another sweeping generalisation about men. There are always a few who will try it on but condemn them and not all males.

Majority of my experiences! Hardly condemning ALL men! Hardly a sweeping statement.

You may have meant to say that, but l suggest that is not how it reads."

I wrote exactly what I meant to write "I have experienced the majority of men being like this". How can you perceive that not to be what is written?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

So why would you not use the condoms the guy brought?

Because they may have had them in their wallet for 20 years. I don't trust them so use my own."

So why does it matter if men have them or not, when you don't trust their condoms if they have them?

Why would they trust that yours were in date, or hadn't been tampered with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go prepared.....and while the jacket isn't the nicest of overcoats it's the safest....... And I'm a safety boy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

So why would you not use the condoms the guy brought?

Because they may have had them in their wallet for 20 years. I don't trust them so use my own.

So why does it matter if men have them or not, when you don't trust their condoms if they have them?

Why would they trust that yours were in date, or hadn't been tampered with?"

I might be slightly miffed if he didn't have a condom but wouldn't be all that bothered. I understand why men don't carry them.

Not saying they would trust mine. Just saying what I do.

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over a year ago

" Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

It may be my size or shape, but only ever had slipping condom issues with skyns.

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over a year ago

"OP, I have found that many men in clubs aren't carrying condoms and expect me to supply them. I find that annoying. I wouldn't use theirs anyway but I want to know they are prepared to be safe.

This for me too.

Had some try and go without but not many. A firm stare sorts them out.

So why would you not use the condoms the guy brought?

Because they may have had them in their wallet for 20 years. I don't trust them so use my own.

So why does it matter if men have them or not, when you don't trust their condoms if they have them?

Why would they trust that yours were in date, or hadn't been tampered with?

I might be slightly miffed if he didn't have a condom but wouldn't be all that bothered. I understand why men don't carry them.

Not saying they would trust mine. Just saying what I do.

Fair point, well made

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"I always go prepared.....and while the jacket isn't the nicest of overcoats it's the safest....... And I'm a safety boy!!!

Cheesiest quote of the day! Lol

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over a year ago

A little man bag with a few bits in works for me, saves running back to a locker. And as others have mentioned, I have also had women say they wouldn't mind if I didn't wear them, I guess there are some men and women who are more risk takers than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to go anywhere where's there's a 'no shirts, no shoes policy'.

Cover up people, it's nippy out there.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

It may be my size or shape, but only ever had slipping condom issues with skyns. "

Even in the regular size? I can imagine the extra large or the extra lubricated ones might be slippy for some.

I have the full range if you wish to test which provide the best performance for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Oh and I prefer Skyns, latex free

At the moment we're all heading to Taffs as he has the Skyns.

It may be my size or shape, but only ever had slipping condom issues with skyns.

Even in the regular size? I can imagine the extra large or the extra lubricated ones might be slippy for some.

I have the full range if you wish to test which provide the best performance for you.

Oh I like your style

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