FabSwingers.com forum: Nice to just to chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know folks on fab it is so nice to just chat and make friends without the feeling of having to just meet for sex. Don't get me wrong sex is important to me but with the right person or persons.

I am looking for friends to chat with and maybe meet for a drink.

I think friendship is very important to me.

What do you all think or is it just a free for all thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I chat with people with no expectation of sex. Men tend not to chat with me because they think I want to suck their cock which is a load of bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have plenty of friends. I'm on fab for other things my friends can't provide.

I'm a bit perplexed by the 'free for all' comment. I certainly wouldn't be attracted to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chat with people with no expectation of sex. Men tend not to chat with me because they think I want to suck their cock which is a load of bollocks. "

more than happy to chat to men or women here or pm I am just happy to know I've got friends that understand me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have plenty of friends. I'm on fab for other things my friends can't provide.

I'm a bit perplexed by the 'free for all' comment. I certainly wouldn't be attracted to that. "
was not meant to be offensive and sorry if it was taken that way

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

"You know folks on fab it is so nice to just chat and make friends without the feeling of having to just meet for sex. Don't get me wrong sex is important to me but with the right person or persons.

I am looking for friends to chat with and maybe meet for a drink.

I think friendship is very important to me

What do you all think or is it just a free for all thing

I agree with you mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree totally

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thank you for the support

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know folks on fab it is so nice to just chat and make friends without the feeling of having to just meet for sex. Don't get me wrong sex is important to me but with the right person or persons.

I am looking for friends to chat with and maybe meet for a drink.

I think friendship is very important to me

What do you all think or is it just a free for all thing

I agree with you mate."

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have plenty of friends. I'm on fab for other things my friends can't provide.

I'm a bit perplexed by the 'free for all' comment. I certainly wouldn't be attracted to that. was not meant to be offensive and sorry if it was taken that way

No offence taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same - yep this is a sex site and that's the ultimate reason most of us are here, but if I can meet some nice people along the way and get to know them better on a social and friendly as well as sexual basis then it's all good!

My preference is for a social interaction before diving into the bedroom so I absolutely get where you're coming from.

Good luck my friend, I hope you find what you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat with people with no expectation of sex. Men tend not to chat with me because they think I want to suck their cock which is a load of bollocks. "

Which is a bit laughable really. I mean, in a swingers club or environment you would still talk to blokes in there without expectation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I love making friends on here just to socialise and chat with or ask advice on things. Not everything has to be about sex on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, I love making friends on here just to socialise and chat with or ask advice on things. Not everything has to be about sex on here

Absolutely, you get some folk who think everything is about trying your underwear on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, I love making friends on here just to socialise and chat with or ask advice on things. Not everything has to be about sex on here

Absolutely, you get some folk who think everything is about trying your underwear on.

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, I love making friends on here just to socialise and chat with or ask advice on things. Not everything has to be about sex on here

Exactly, flapjacks and meatballs are the way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, I love making friends on here just to socialise and chat with or ask advice on things. Not everything has to be about sex on here

Exactly, flapjacks and meatballs are the way forward!

Flapjack especially, and those meatballs were yummy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

This is one of the reasons I have no filters on. As I spend most of my time on the forums, It's always nice to just chat about anything. Have made quite a few friends and had a couple of meets because of this with a couple more in the pipeline

All is good in my books

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It can become difficult if one person starts chatting with a view to friendship and the other doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making friends is important i think . Some on here i found are very friendly . Whilst others think theyre king/queen of the swingers and all revenues from this site should be in there bank accounts . And they know everything there is to know about swingin . Im still unchatered teritory on here . And am blocked for some of my views . They didnt even chat or try to even act friendly . Which in my view aint nice at all

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Respecting others and I try not to be rude to anyone is important as well I think

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I chat with people with no expectation of sex. Men tend not to chat with me because they think I want to suck their cock which is a load of bollocks. "

I just wanna hold your hand and skip merrily off into the sunset and share your Haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat with people with no expectation of sex. Men tend not to chat with me because they think I want to suck their cock which is a load of bollocks. "

Men tend not to chat with me because all they want is someone to suck their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons I have no filters on. As I spend most of my time on the forums, It's always nice to just chat about anything. Have made quite a few friends and had a couple of meets because of this with a couple more in the pipeline

All is good in my books

when i first joined i was searching and sent messages . Got 1 or 2 replys . But after being on the forums . I aint as interested in searches . I think alot of you in the threads are the friendliest bunch iv spoken with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respecting others and I try not to be rude to anyone is important as well I think

i also try not to be rude . But some people iv found are so stuck up they take things the wrong way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few forumites I chat to regularly but who live so far away, the chances of meeting are pretty remote but I really enjoy our chats.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I love to chat and often used to respond chattily to messages which actually asked "would you like to chat?" This is actually code for "would you like me to ask three mornings in a row "how's u" then meet me?". So now I only chat with people who are far enough away for their chat request to be genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do pm people and if they reply it's a great feeling but if I get no reply I will not message again as I guess quite quickly they do not want to chat and move on

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I do think it's nice however if I were to just chat with everyone that suggested it is never have a life away from here

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone fancy fuck

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Making friends is important i think . Some on here i found are very friendly . Whilst others think theyre king/queen of the swingers and all revenues from this site should be in there bank accounts . And they know everything there is to know about swingin . Im still unchatered teritory on here . And am blocked for some of my views . They didnt even chat or try to even act friendly . Which in my view aint nice at all

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days "

The thing is this is a site generally based on first impressions of you, make a bad first impression the bridges are burnt you just have to accept it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I do think it's nice however if I were to just chat with everyone that suggested it is never have a life away from here "

What is this life away from here you speak of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days

The thing is this is a site generally based on first impressions of you, make a bad first impression the bridges are burnt you just have to accept it. "

This unfortunately is so true however new bridges can be built with others

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days

The thing is this is a site generally based on first impressions of you, make a bad first impression the bridges are burnt you just have to accept it.

This unfortunately is so true however new bridges can be built with others

Yes but in order to do so you need to make a good first impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only used this site to chat to people/friends for months. Its been great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same - yep this is a sex site and that's the ultimate reason most of us are here, but if I can meet some nice people along the way and get to know them better on a social and friendly as well as sexual basis then it's all good!

My preference is for a social interaction before diving into the bedroom so I absolutely get where you're coming from.

Good luck my friend, I hope you find what you're after

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thank you my friend just seen this and happy days ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days

The thing is this is a site generally based on first impressions of you, make a bad first impression the bridges are burnt you just have to accept it. "

I've blocked people because of my impression of them at first but some have then grown on me with forum posts and I've unblocked them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but hey .... Smile on chest out . Happy days

The thing is this is a site generally based on first impressions of you, make a bad first impression the bridges are burnt you just have to accept it.

This unfortunately is so true however new bridges can be built with others

Yes but in order to do so you need to make a good first impression "

Horses for courses not every one will like everyone simple fact.

The old saying of you can please some of the people all the time. All the people some of the time. But not all the people all of the time

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

I love chatting on here. Think it's great and will always reply to people I find it polite

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I agree, I enjoy the chatting and social side as much as anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind chatting on the forum , but meaningless chat for the sake of it in pm's is not for us .

If a meet for sex isn't sorted within 2 messages we cease the chat .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good chat although it's a swinging site, I do prefer to get to know people before meeting. In my opinion there has to be a bit of a connection otherwise I may aswell go out and find someone to have a one night stand with, which I personally wouldn't do. I don't judge those who do though each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to chat and often used to respond chattily to messages which actually asked "would you like to chat?" This is actually code for "would you like me to ask three mornings in a row "how's u" then meet me?". So now I only chat with people who are far enough away for their chat request to be genuine."

Haha. I often tell people I like to chat before a meet. This often results in a dull one short sentence message from them that doesn't leave room for a conversation to evolve. If effort isn't put into a chat I'd hate to think what they'd be like in the sack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't mind chatting on the forum , but meaningless chat for the sake of it in pm's is not for us .

If a meet for sex isn't sorted within 2 messages we cease the chat .

I'm the same.i am not here to make friends that I'm sposed to keep chatting to.afraid to say,but I just want sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't mind chatting on the forum , but meaningless chat for the sake of it in pm's is not for us .

If a meet for sex isn't sorted within 2 messages we cease the chat .

I'm the same.i am not here to make friends that I'm sposed to keep chatting to.afraid to say,but I just want sex."

Thank you for your honesty at least I know where I stand on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respecting others and I try not to be rude to anyone is important as well I think

i also try not to be rude . But some people iv found are so stuck up they take things the wrong way . "

You can be rude sometimes. (Everyone is.)

But a lot of other people are rude to you. It's quite pathetic how they 'bait' you, bombarding you with rude posts yet claim to be innocent! Just ignore those types.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I love the social side of fab and love chatting and messaging people. I want to get to know people before I meet them, but some I know I'll never meet as they are so far away - but it's always good to make friends x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the social side of fab and love chatting and messaging people. I want to get to know people before I meet them, but some I know I'll never meet as they are so far away - but it's always good to make friends x"

Only a few miles down the road from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All is good in my books

Ooooer a couple in yer pipeline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i totally agree with you i love just having a chat laugh and a drink

for me sex isnt the b all and end all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i totally agree with you i love just having a chat laugh and a drink

for me sex isnt the b all and end all"

Sex is an added bonus but I never assume anything got to be a spark there in the first place.

I would never send a message with the words fancy a shag this is not my style at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree totally

Honey you are NOT average! Lovely figure!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree totally

Honey you are NOT average! Lovely figure!

I have to admit I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - and to answer the op - I tend to have my general chit-chat on the forums - and occasionally I'll continue a conversation with a forum friend in my inbox - or arrange to meet!

How much pure chatting I do depends on how much free time I have - like everyone else I guess!

I'm trying to spend a lot less time on fab this year though as there are other areas of my life I want to concentrate on - so I'll be offline in ten minutes - honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a good chat although it's a swinging site, I do prefer to get to know people before meeting. In my opinion there has to be a bit of a connection otherwise I may aswell go out and find someone to have a one night stand with, which I personally wouldn't do. I don't judge those who do though each to their own

exactly my thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh - and to answer the op - I tend to have my general chit-chat on the forums - and occasionally I'll continue a conversation with a forum friend in my inbox - or arrange to meet!

How much pure chatting I do depends on how much free time I have - like everyone else I guess!

I'm trying to spend a lot less time on fab this year though as there are other areas of my life I want to concentrate on - so I'll be offline in ten minutes - honest!!

Go on I dare you, don't you know the whole forum will talk about you when you're offline.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Definitely nice to talk to people even if there's no chance of sex from it. We are still new here so we can find out a lot from talking to people who have been here for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat and would be happy to meet socially. I travel a lot for work and sending a message can give the impression that I'm after a quick hook up. Which is not what I'm about. Although if we click socially who knows but I NEVER have any expectations of playing.

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