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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would really like to meet an older woman to become friends with benefits with. I've been on here couple of months and still haven't yet been given the opportunity to have a meet lol? I'm defiantly perfectly sane. Without blowing my own trumpet Id say I'm good looking so what am I doing wrong? Is there any woman on here keen to meet someone of my age. I can travel or accom ect..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women will look at your profile before reading your message so I would start there and make it the best it can be to stand out over the many other guys that have messaged them. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women will look at your profile before reading your message so I would start there and make it the best it can be to stand out over the many other guys that have messaged them. Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See I'm no good at writing a heep load about myself and for my pictures I have them on friends only just simply due to wanting privacy. The amount of gay men I get messaging me on here throws me off having them in public so it seems like a no win situation lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I'm no good at writing a heep load about myself and for my pictures I have them on friends only just simply due to wanting privacy. The amount of gay men I get messaging me on here throws me off having them in public so it seems like a no win situation lol? "

Thats what message filters are for. I take fabs from guys as a compliment even if I am happy in my heterosexual bubble. Have a look at other profiles for a starting point...

And use a spellcheck. Some people find poorly written profiles offputting even if the content is ok.

Good luck fella

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"See I'm no good at writing a heep load about myself and for my pictures I have them on friends only just simply due to wanting privacy. The amount of gay men I get messaging me on here throws me off having them in public so it seems like a no win situation lol? "

Block all single men, problem solved.

Cougar come looking for you, best have something for them to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women will look at your profile before reading your message so I would start there and make it the best it can be to stand out over the many other guys that have messaged them. Good luck "

good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've took into account all of what you guys have said. Written slightly abit more about myself within my profile and blocked single men! Though still not keen on having my pictures public. Suppose I shall have to see if I notice a difference now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've took into account all of what you guys have said. Written slightly abit more about myself within my profile and blocked single men! Though still not keen on having my pictures public. Suppose I shall have to see if I notice a difference now "

You don't have to have face pics public - I just went to have a perv and no pics at all

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"See I'm no good at writing a heep load about myself and for my pictures I have them on friends only just simply due to wanting privacy. The amount of gay men I get messaging me on here throws me off having them in public so it seems like a no win situation lol? "

You seemed ok at blowing your own trumpet in your op.. I'd say good looking.

Confidence is good arrogance is bad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've took into account all of what you guys have said. Written slightly abit more about myself within my profile and blocked single men! Though still not keen on having my pictures public. Suppose I shall have to see if I notice a difference now

You don't have to have face pics public - I just went to have a perv and no pics at all "

Yup. No public pictures at all = no interest.

OP, you may not be good at writing but your profile needs to be an advert. At the moment, it just says you want sex and like women in high heels.

It is not going to have them begging to meet, is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it's arrogance at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well I've took into account all of what you guys have said. Written slightly abit more about myself within my profile and blocked single men! Though still not keen on having my pictures public. Suppose I shall have to see if I notice a difference now "

It's much better than it was.

You don't have to put pictures up it's your choice but you will have to accept that it will make things a bit more difficult. You're in a buyers market im afraid.

Good luck

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I wouldn't say it's arrogance at all. "

Of course, you wouldn't see it that way. However it's what others perceive which matters most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have pictures to send so just ask"

I'll guarantee most will not bother requesting your pics. Why would they with so much already on show?

You have received valuable advice on this thread, not least from Flamehaired.

Act upon it and you'll not go far wrong x

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