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Mummy tummy v dad bod

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are what we are what some people don't like about their bodies others may find sexy and alluring.

Attraction is not skin deep or what wobbly bits are where.

I have to admit I love a woman cuddly lumps mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

I learnt to embrace my wobbly, foldy, striped bumpy bits.

Hi five to the mums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its fetchingly known as the ghunt!

I look on mine as a badge of honour that gave me my daughter.

And try not to look for too long!!

Try a 'waspie' if you want to hide it a bit xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think if you like someone enough you'll be more than happy with the things that make them unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a mummy tummy beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

I learnt to embrace my wobbly, foldy, striped bumpy bits.

Hi five to the mums!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 2 csections. But from talking other mum friends, I've got off lightly. However the main negative result is the inability to selectively control my lower abs to tone there. Sit ups etc aren't possible. Even at my fittest, that's been an issue. It's frustrating but I figure that anyone who doesn't like it, doesn't have to have sex with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive. "

Your body is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my biggest insecurity! I swear I jumped the other day and mine clapped fuck my life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've got that And I don't like it

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I like women for who they are, a sexual deviant mind is far more important to me than body shape, I've met some fantastic sexy women with mummy tummies, wobbly bits and not so wobbly bits and I loved every minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You girls do realise that most of us guys don't mind/care. I have never been attracted to a woman and then put off by a 'mummy tummy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Your body is beautiful "

Haha, cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

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By *izz and jWoman
over a year ago

reading

Nothing wrong with wobble bits more to get hold of I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive. "

Jenni you look amazing! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well as ive got older ive learned that my body is a map of my life

4 kids lumps and bumps boobs long gone south

plus side they do keep my knees warm

and i happen to like my body its mine

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm taking heart in all the for mummy tums

Personally, the older I have got, I am leaning towards preferring the dads bod than ripped up. They are nice to look at, but not sure we would go there

The missus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

I have more than one of those folds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Jenni you look amazing! Xx"

JennieJ, Kianna and Testarossa are all on my Fuckit List, mum tums or not, they are all very sexy ladies!

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

Hate mine too, could do with a tummy tuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I love her wobbly bits. . .i need them.!

I'm a on the slimmer side of the spectrum so I need her to keep both of us warm during these harsh January nights

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Lady and come to that dad's to. At the end of the day we are all what we are so who gives a shit. If someone like you it really isn't just the outside that matters. I mean look at me I hit every branch as I fell off the ugly tree but do I give 2 shiny 1s do I fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady and come to that dad's to. At the end of the day we are all what we are so who gives a shit. If someone like you it really isn't just the outside that matters. I mean look at me I hit every branch as I fell off the ugly tree but do I give 2 shiny 1s do I fuck "

thats the most sense you have ever made Fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all look a bit daft naked no matter which of our bits dangle, flop or fold without support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker "

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!! "

You can bounce off my mummy tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too "

But I can't think of a rhyme for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too "

Yummy tummy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my biggest insecurity! I swear I jumped the other day and mine clapped fuck my life x"

your jump impressed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

You can bounce off my mummy tummy "

Tea first?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too "

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one. I had one before I gave birth. It's horrid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller "

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go."

Ah good luck hun . Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun . Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx"

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

You can bounce off my mummy tummy

Tea first? "

Tea and cake. Got to keep this tummy fed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has lovely curves but is losing them slowly, 3 stone in 6 months and more to come, but she will always be curvy and sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too "

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

one thing ladies you may have stretch marks or mummy tummys or even a tummy that you dont admire too long in a mirror

your all loverly in your own way as we look upon you, admire you, and yet we want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one thing ladies you may have stretch marks or mummy tummys or even a tummy that you dont admire too long in a mirror

your all loverly in your own way as we look upon you, admire you, and yet we want you "

Not everyone likes a woman with a hanging stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body "

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either. "

No one is making anyone feel ashamed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun . Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!! "

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too. "

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st off i am large all over.. but my daughter refers to that lower tummy region as 'the jelly belly'.. i just simply call it my 'apron'

even when i was slightly smaller ive worn chemise's when with a guy as its my largest physical insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years... )"

No, it wasn't bad tears. It overwhelmed me a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)"

This is exactly what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either.

No one is making anyone feel ashamed! "

I wasn't suggesting you were. WaspHunter explained it better than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)"

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod! "

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

Perhaps we should keep quiet for fear of upsetting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Im proud of mine, its the after result of producing a beautiful child, why on earth would anyone, male or female hate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod! "

That's ok then I was starting to think I was wasting my time keeping myself in shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 kids and no mummy tummy in sight.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I think if you like someone enough you'll be more than happy with the things that make them unique "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies. "

I'm not. It's the reason i have a tummy. That is all I'm saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

Having a child doesn't have to give you stretch marks. Some of my friends who have had children don't have stretch marks or 'mummy tummies'. I guess it depends on the individuals body and their skin - everyone is different to everyone else.

On the other hand, I have a fat tummy and stretch marks. I've never had children. It's just my body is super sensitive to putting on weight and losing it again.

I think my might start calling mine my 'Batchelor of Arts Tummy' or possibly my 'Car Accident Bad Leg Stretch Marks'.

Giving things 'cute' names because you're a mum means that those of us who aren't mums struggle more to get our fat bits accepted. If a guy says 'oh you're a little bit fat' or 'you have some stretch marks' I can't just blame it easily on the fact that I've got pregnant three times and had a few babies. I'm just a person with a body. And bodies get fat bits and stretch marks. The sooner we just accept that rather than blaming it on things like motherhood, the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

I'm not. It's the reason i have a tummy. That is all I'm saying!"

I know, and I'm not saying you were. But other posts have stated that carrying children is the only "legitimate" reason not to be in shape and everything else is just laziness.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Nothing wrong with a lived in body. Everyone has their wants and needs, love what you have got. Anyone who doesn't is probably not worth bothering about.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies. "

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mummy tummy is refered to as the flap with the map of the london underground

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"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol"

But if that's your body in your profile pic there's nothing wrong with it?! I'm talking about calling obesity/morbid obesity 'dad bod' not a perfectly acceptable and normal body shape! I don't think all guys should have huge pecs and a six-pac by any means. X

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over a year ago

If you've never had children then you won't appreciate the changes that do occur to your body. I'm not saying I'm fat because i had a couple of kids. I'm saying i never had a tummy until i had kids. Since having children no matter what i do, i can't lose my tummy. So if i want to call it my mummy tummy why the hell should that offend anyone else??

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun . Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch..."

Under the knicker waistband

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over a year ago


"If you've never had children then you won't appreciate the changes that do occur to your body. I'm not saying I'm fat because i had a couple of kids. I'm saying i never had a tummy until i had kids. Since having children no matter what i do, i can't lose my tummy. So if i want to call it my mummy tummy why the hell should that offend anyone else?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun . Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch...

Under the knicker waistband "

I have a fascination with the before and after pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)"

Okey dokey, all the childless will bugger off then, I didn't realise comments were only permitted from parents.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

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"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years... )

No, it wasn't bad tears. It overwhelmed me a bit."

Same here! The fact that a rather lovely man could find me attractive & not be bothered by my hideous belly got a bit much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol

But if that's your body in your profile pic there's nothing wrong with it?! I'm talking about calling obesity/morbid obesity 'dad bod' not a perfectly acceptable and normal body shape! I don't think all guys should have huge pecs and a six-pac by any means. X"

Well I'm nowhere near where my weight for height should be!! Though I want that weight at 21 so god knows how they work it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've never had children then you won't appreciate the changes that do occur to your body. I'm not saying I'm fat because i had a couple of kids. I'm saying i never had a tummy until i had kids. Since having children no matter what i do, i can't lose my tummy. So if i want to call it my mummy tummy why the hell should that offend anyone else?? "

Exactly at my 6 week check up after my eldest the doctor took one look at ny tummy and said im sorry but your never getting rid of that without surgery xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women after child birth can get a weakness in the linea Alba that's the tissue that hold the abs together, some women will get something that's called diastasis recti this is where the linea Alba is over stretched & doesn't go back to its normal position causing the tummy to hang, it can sometimes be repaired by certain exercises & in other cases it needs surgery to repair, google it ladies I'm sure it will explain it better than I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had three sections my eldest weighed 12 pound 5, I had twins with my middle pregnancy the biggest of the twins was 11 pound 10, my belly will never be right carrying such big children then having my stomach muscles cut open three times to remove them

I've learned to accept my belly will always resemble a deflated balloon

But as the advert says ..if you don't like your imperfections somebody else will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol"

I agree with this, a lot of people male or female haven't got time for gyms, certainly doesn't make them lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we not make this a "if you had kids you'd understand" thread though? I've had 3 kids and I hate that attitude. I was a tubby mare before kids, flatish tummy but saddlebags. Now the thighs have sorted themselves out a bit but the tummy progressively got worse with each of my boys. The last one screwed it royally though by coming out of the sunroof. We all have our body hang ups, kids or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy. "

Theres not enough thumbs i can give this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy. "

I'm as fat as a hippo but I rarely sit on my arse. Same things work is long and busy. At home I end up running around after everyone and I have a really active social life. My issue is wrong food, the demon drink and no proper exercise (well except in bed). Probably be the same if I hadn't had a child.

You know what though? I don't really mind my extra baggage. The day it starts to mean I can't do things is the day I will probably re-evaluate my lifestyle. We're all different that what makes us interesting.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)

Okey dokey, all the childless will bugger off then, I didn't realise comments were only permitted from parents. "

No one including myself have said none childless cant post, what i said was the OP post was directed specifically at parents by calling it mummy tummy/dad bod, thus commented generated are going to be mainly about mummy tummies or dads bods, really don't get why people get so uptight when i have pointed out that theres nothing wrong with people answering what was asked on the actual OP.

No one has said in he thread that i can see anyway, that non parents have no excuse to not be figure perfect.

I personally feel everyone should be proud of their bodies, fat, thin, talk, short etc, as your bodies are you. If people don't like then their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol

But if that's your body in your profile pic there's nothing wrong with it?! I'm talking about calling obesity/morbid obesity 'dad bod' not a perfectly acceptable and normal body shape! I don't think all guys should have huge pecs and a six-pac by any means. X

Well I'm nowhere near where my weight for height should be!! Though I want that weight at 21 so god knows how they work it out. "

I'm with you there Hun! I'd describe myself as relatively slim but officially I'm on the overweight borderline as I'm big boned! Fortunately most guys who meet me don't make me stand on the scales!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)

Okey dokey, all the childless will bugger off then, I didn't realise comments were only permitted from parents.

No one including myself have said none childless cant post, what i said was the OP post was directed specifically at parents by calling it mummy tummy/dad bod, thus commented generated are going to be mainly about mummy tummies or dads bods, really don't get why people get so uptight when i have pointed out that theres nothing wrong with people answering what was asked on the actual OP.

No one has said in he thread that i can see anyway, that non parents have no excuse to not be figure perfect.

I personally feel everyone should be proud of their bodies, fat, thin, talk, short etc, as your bodies are you. If people don't like then their loss"

I can see what she's getting at - the post up their from peach perfect basically says that men have no excuse because they haven't had babies. So I guess the same goes for women who haven't had babies. But I definitaly agree we should be love our bodies more for what they do for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

I learnt to embrace my wobbly, foldy, striped bumpy bits.

Hi five to the mums!"

S

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Kinda happy with all I have. I like to call my stretch marks the 'map of the journey' Everything is who I am and only I can change the shape and size of me, but I am perfectly squishy for a good ole spooning sesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Your body is beautiful "

I'll second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not make this a "if you had kids you'd understand" thread though? I've had 3 kids and I hate that attitude. We all have our body hang ups, kids or not. "

Yes we do. I have no problem with that. What i do have a problem with is people with no experience of an issue claiming they are the all knowledgeable on a subject. How dare they tell me that childbirth isn't at least partly responsible for the shape my body is today? I'm not saying it was perfect before and if i never had kids it would be perfect now, but i think in this instance the argument stands that if you personally haven't experienced something, how can you ever know what its like.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"coming out of the sunroof. "

Love that Jennij

I've decided to have surgery on mine

Perhaps we can hold each others hand Vara?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually gone past the point of caring

I'm not loosing any sleep over what a guy on here who only wants a fuck and who I will never see again thinks about my stomach

That's just crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not make this a "if you had kids you'd understand" thread though? I've had 3 kids and I hate that attitude. We all have our body hang ups, kids or not.

Yes we do. I have no problem with that. What i do have a problem with is people with no experience of an issue claiming they are the all knowledgeable on a subject. How dare they tell me that childbirth isn't at least partly responsible for the shape my body is today? I'm not saying it was perfect before and if i never had kids it would be perfect now, but i think in this instance the argument stands that if you personally haven't experienced something, how can you ever know what its like."

Oh maybe head back and re-read my posts until you understand that isn't what I said at all, by any stretch of the imagination.

And while you're at it, take your own advice about never having personally experienced something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not make this a "if you had kids you'd understand" thread though? I've had 3 kids and I hate that attitude. We all have our body hang ups, kids or not.

Yes we do. I have no problem with that. What i do have a problem with is people with no experience of an issue claiming they are the all knowledgeable on a subject. How dare they tell me that childbirth isn't at least partly responsible for the shape my body is today? I'm not saying it was perfect before and if i never had kids it would be perfect now, but i think in this instance the argument stands that if you personally haven't experienced something, how can you ever know what its like.

Oh maybe head back and re-read my posts until you understand that isn't what I said at all, by any stretch of the imagination.

And while you're at it, take your own advice about never having personally experienced something. "

I wasn't actually directing my comment at you......and I'm not sure what you mean by your last comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is going well ..

Cake anyone? (Yeah it's lazy I know .. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this is going well ..

Cake anyone? (Yeah it's lazy I know .. )"

Look what you started!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"coming out of the sunroof.

Love that Jennij

I've decided to have surgery on mine

Perhaps we can hold each others hand Vara? "

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative. "

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here 3 sections and long babies and only 5ft it did me no favours . I hate my tummy but it's there and apart from having a tummy tuck there's not much I can do about it X and def high five the beautiful mummies on here X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad Bod original post / Mummy Tummy the female equivalent.

I thought these were meant to be light hearted threads......

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think if you like someone enough you'll be more than happy with the things that make them unique "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a child.

Yes, my boobs have changed from breast feeding him.

But I actually had the flattest stomach I've ever had after having him by doing Weight Watchers and exercising.

Unfortunately, going through an acrimonious divorce meant I ate the wrong things and drank far too much wine.

So my body now is down to eating and drinking too much and not to giving birth.

And at my age, it's far harder to lose that tummy than it was when I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad Bod original post / Mummy Tummy the female equivalent.

I thought these were meant to be light hearted threads......

"

Well they were.. (I think!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad Bod original post / Mummy Tummy the female equivalent.

I thought these were meant to be light hearted threads......

"

When does anything on here stay light hearted

Come on you've been on here long enough you know the score by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I think you all look great girls.

You all have my appreciation

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad Bod original post / Mummy Tummy the female equivalent.

I thought these were meant to be light hearted threads......

When does anything on here stay light hearted

Come on you've been on here long enough you know the score by now "

I know, silly me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never really had a mummy tummy or if I did it was hidden by the fact I was so grossely overweight. My belly used to be solid and start from under my boobs down ending in my stomach apron. When I started to lose weight it went from being solid to softening up into for knows how many rolls. Now the weight is off I describe my belly as "unique" as there certainly isn't two that look like it. It's just skin. When I started losing weight I'd decided to have an apron removal and God nos what else.

I decided to have no work done (maybe my arms). My stomach reminds me of how I changed my life round, it has no affect on my life whatsoever. It doesn't show up when I'm wearing clothes. My partner really couldn't give a toss and the only people that might care is some random bloke on the internet.

I have one sentence on my profile to say I'm not perfect and that's it. I certainly feel no need to go into great detail, or keep going on about it. I find it an unattractive quality people going on about their imperfections on their profile.

I don't meet stupid guys, I meet guys that are fully aware that very few people in this world have flawless bodies. Whether it's a mummy tummy, spots, scars or whatever else. I'm more than happy with the way I look and that's all that counts. I spend far more of my life fully clothed than I do naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums "

Somebody had to say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums "

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?"

It was helpful. Pointed out in a very small number of words the point I've been trying to make. But since no one can understand what anything is like unless they themselves have personally gone through it (apparently) I shouldn't be surprised that parents have no appreciation of the fact it's a bit shit to be continually told by society you're less of a woman because you can't or won't have babies.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums "

Oh you poor poor boy. Grabs the popcorn

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?"

No No! They have found us out! I'm a fake woman.

It makes it easy as I can just order replacement parts when things get iffy.

-Courtney

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums "

I was very real before I had my children

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Somebody had to say it "

Oh well, it wouldn't be complete without it.!

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?

It was helpful. Pointed out in a very small number of words the point I've been trying to make. But since no one can understand what anything is like unless they themselves have personally gone through it (apparently) I shouldn't be surprised that parents have no appreciation of the fact it's a bit shit to be continually told by society you're less of a woman because you can't or won't have babies."

Yet until that point no one was saying that?

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?"

Is he not entitlted to have HIS opnion on what HE thinks is a `real women`.

I use that term especially with mums as thats how I grew up, cuddly old mums looking after us kids. There didnt seem to be MANY slim sexy mums about.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

this went well

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Gotta love Thursdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with the curvy lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women & body threads ~great combo, not!

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

I love what I have - it's all mine, imperfections, little rolls as well. I pay good money for the yummy food I eat. Ja, is sexier than ever. I pike to love him more with a six pack. For me he is perfect xxxxxxxxxxxx

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over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?

Is he not entitlted to have HIS opnion on what HE thinks is a `real women`.

I use that term especially with mums as thats how I grew up, cuddly old mums looking after us kids. There didnt seem to be MANY slim sexy mums about."

I'm sorry, but whether or not I'm a woman is not a matter of opinion. If I'm not a mother, and never want to be, what does that make me? A man? Science might disagree. He could say that being a moother makes someone sexier...but real? No.

(please note, I realize this is completely off topic from the OP. )

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had 2 csections. But from talking other mum friends, I've got off lightly. However the main negative result is the inability to selectively control my lower abs to tone there. Sit ups etc aren't possible. Even at my fittest, that's been an issue. It's frustrating but I figure that anyone who doesn't like it, doesn't have to have sex with me! "

to tone that bit at the bottom sit ups don't work. There's this other exercise thing that helps, no idea what it's called, but you lay down bring knees up to tummy then kick up with legs together. Clearly it's too much effort for me lol but if you want to try toning it up, that's the best way. If it did bother me that much I'd be doing it, rather than a tuck due to the scars they leave x

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over a year ago


"I love what I have - it's all mine, imperfections, little rolls as well. I pay good money for the yummy food I eat. Ja, is sexier than ever. I pike to love him more with a six pack. For me he is perfect xxxxxxxxxxxx"

All you need is love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read my profile, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a mummy tummy, stretch marks, cellulite etc. It's all part of being a real woman!

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over a year ago


"The dads cannot have all the attention .

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)"

I would much rather a rotund stomach than a mummy tummy. Even when my tummy is flatter it still has the fold. Of course there is the spaghetti junction of stretch marks also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I took the real women comment to mean women with flabby bits, what the OP called a mummy tummy.

I didn't take it that he meant only women who had given birth were real women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people read to much in to people's thought and turn them in to facts.

Chill people . Send some love

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over a year ago


"To be honest, I took the real women comment to mean women with flabby bits, what the OP called a mummy tummy.

I didn't take it that he meant only women who had given birth were real women.

"

I did too

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over a year ago


"If you read my profile, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a mummy tummy, stretch marks, cellulite etc. It's all part of being a real woman! "

Oh no, another one...

Real women have stretch marks! Women who don't have stretch marks aren't real women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love all them bits on a woman makes a woman a real woman

to the mums

Oh God.

You didn't... did you? You didn't just say that having children makes you a 'real woman'?

No... tell me it was a typing mistake?

Is he not entitlted to have HIS opnion on what HE thinks is a `real women`.

I use that term especially with mums as thats how I grew up, cuddly old mums looking after us kids. There didnt seem to be MANY slim sexy mums about."

People who identify as women are real women.

That's it.

Nothing else.

No opinion needed.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative. "

It was meant to be lighthearted but my fault for not liking my mummy tummy .

Btw it's worse now I'm in my forties. Before, I could exercise and get it looking flat (dressed). Now it's just there arghh

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over a year ago


"To be honest, I took the real women comment to mean women with flabby bits, what the OP called a mummy tummy.

I didn't take it that he meant only women who had given birth were real women.

I did too "

I read it differently. What about the second guy who said it? Same thing?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love Mrs mummy tummy lumps and bumps in fact I love real woman with curves nothing more sexier than than well maybe the confidence to show it off but that's just my personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like waiting for buses you wait all thread for some "real woman" comments and two come along at once.

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over a year ago


"Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained. "

Hemorrhoid cream before bed on the area, and wrap in clingfilm. Old bodybuilding trick to tighten up skin. Definitely works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like waiting for buses you wait all thread for some "real woman" comments and two come along at once. "

Can only be a real woman on the site of you are fat. No.1 rule of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like waiting for buses you wait all thread for some "real woman" comments and two come along at once.

Can only be a real woman on the site of you are fat. No.1 rule of Fab."

Worked for benny hill in the Italian job lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I've got one too.....I wish it wasn't there I'm sure I'm alone because of it

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over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there"

doesn't bother me. Says more about the person saying it than those reacting to it

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"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow. "

I think it came from the statement implying very strongly that only females who have had children have any excuse for out of shape:

"Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion"

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over a year ago


"Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained.

Hemorrhoid cream before bed on the area, and wrap in clingfilm. Old bodybuilding trick to tighten up skin. Definitely works."

And it stays tight? My stretch marks are deep.

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over a year ago


"Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained.

Hemorrhoid cream before bed on the area, and wrap in clingfilm. Old bodybuilding trick to tighten up skin. Definitely works.

And it stays tight? My stretch marks are deep. "

I heard that cream is good for crows feet too.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow.

I think it came from the statement implying very strongly that only females who have had children have any excuse for out of shape:

"Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion""
but the person who said that is only covering up their own insecurities I think it's extremely sad that the only way some can deal with their issues is to put others down

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"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there"

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney"

did I say that how I saw it, I asked a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does there seem to be a trend for making sexual phrases sound childish these days?

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over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go."

Good luck ladies. Cosmetic surgery is nothing to be ashamed of. Thanks to instalments,it's affordable these days. I will never let my books go saggy. When they look like they're going that way, I'm booking myself in for cosmetic surgery. A confident woman is a sexy woman!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

doesn't bother me. Says more about the person saying it than those reacting to it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney

did I say that how I saw it, I asked a question"

And I answered it. Your question had implications. Or that's how it read to me.

-Courtney

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over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Good luck ladies. Cosmetic surgery is nothing to be ashamed of. Thanks to instalments,it's affordable these days. I will never let my books go saggy. When they look like they're going that way, I'm booking myself in for cosmetic surgery. A confident woman is a sexy woman!"

Boobs! !! Damn auto correct lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney

did I say that how I saw it, I asked a question

And I answered it. Your question had implications. Or that's how it read to me.

-Courtney"

and that maybe says more about you, rather then any implications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney

did I say that how I saw it, I asked a question

And I answered it. Your question had implications. Or that's how it read to me.

-Courtney

and that maybe says more about you, rather then any implications"

As I said - if that's how you see it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Really? Ok. If that's how you see it.

I personally dislike it immensely. Not in relation to my size, but in relation to motherhood. I've dealt with people my whole life who have said similar things to me for not wanting children.

Just because I object to it doesn't mean I'm insecure or that I'm doubting myself. It means I'm objecting to the use in that the context. Such is the nature of opinions and debate.

-Courtney

did I say that how I saw it, I asked a question

And I answered it. Your question had implications. Or that's how it read to me.

-Courtney

and that maybe says more about you, rather then any implications

As I said - if that's how you see it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a mummy tummy before i even had kids lol...its a frigging kangaroo pouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there"

Neither for some women I would suspect.

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over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

doesn't bother me. Says more about the person saying it than those reacting to it "

Makes me think those who say it will say anything for the merest sniff of a meet.

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over a year ago


"Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained.

Hemorrhoid cream before bed on the area, and wrap in clingfilm. Old bodybuilding trick to tighten up skin. Definitely works.

And it stays tight? My stretch marks are deep. "

I'm not saying it's going to reduce massive skin overhangs or remove deep scars completely, but the shrinkage of tissue is quite immense, and yes, it stays that way permanently. I have used this with many female gym goers and they are amazed by the results. Works everywhere btw, back of arms, inner thighs etc. Not a great smell, and can be pricey given the amount used, but way cheaper and less painful than surgery.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

Neither for some women I would suspect. "

I get that cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I took the real women comment to mean women with flabby bits, what the OP called a mummy tummy.

I didn't take it that he meant only women who had given birth were real women.

I did too

I read it differently. What about the second guy who said it? Same thing?

-Courtney"

I've read the comment again ( the 1st one ) and yes I can see that it could be taken another way with the mums gesture.

I'm a tad loathed to say anymore, I don't want my thoughts being taken out of context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now for me the actual act of being pregnant and carrying a child for 9 months didn't really have that much impact on my body, not one single stretch mark BUT I pushed so hard that I burst a blood vessel under my eye it's like a tiny red spider vein thing, pisses me off! I weighed 11 stone 13lbs the morning I gave birth, had an almost 8lb baby, placenta weighs almost a stone doesn't it plus the extra blood and water in your body, I wore size 6 jeans home from the hospital though!

The thing that made me far wasn't the actual pregnancy it was the fact that I also moved out of my grandparents house the same time and no longer had my gramps cooking me tea which would be all his veg from the allotment, meats, proper home cooked food. For 9 months after having my daughter I ate a take away of some sort almost every night, didn't go to the gym. That's what made me fat, it's a simple case of not having to just be responsible for yourself anymore, don't have time to prepare all your meals and spend a couple of hours at the gym each day, have to work when you can, clean your house when you can, do school runs, take your kid to all the bastard after school classes that they do, all that stuff makes it a little bit harder to concentrate on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there"

I'm happy to pretend

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over a year ago


"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Good luck ladies. Cosmetic surgery is nothing to be ashamed of. Thanks to instalments,it's affordable these days. I will never let my books go saggy. When they look like they're going that way, I'm booking myself in for cosmetic surgery. A confident woman is a sexy woman!"

Don't leave them out in the rain, then ya books won't get saggy after being soggy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"does the words 'real women' really make people doubt themselves or it is reaffirming an insecurity that is already there

I'm happy to pretend "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow.

I think it came from the statement implying very strongly that only females who have had children have any excuse for out of shape:

"Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion""

I think it was destined to from the beginning, way before that comment was made.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow.

I think it came from the statement implying very strongly that only females who have had children have any excuse for out of shape:

"Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion"

I think it was destined to from the beginning, way before that comment was made."

It'll be back to the dad bod thread shortly. Can I guess the men are less critical of themselves than us real women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own reasons, problems, excuses, faults, hang-ups, envied and jealousies, prejudices, misconceptions.

Threads like this do nothing to help and seem to just reinforce the negative.

Couldn't agree more although this specific thread was directed to those with specifically mummy tummys. That appears to have offended those without. Somehow.

I think it came from the statement implying very strongly that only females who have had children have any excuse for out of shape:

"Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion"

I think it was destined to from the beginning, way before that comment was made.

It'll be back to the dad bod thread shortly. Can I guess the men are less critical of themselves than us real women?

"

I've been back to the dads thread, they're chilled....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm had the popcorn out for this thread, will now throw my hat in the ring

People are what they are, size, shape, tummy, scars, stretch marks, a parent, not a parent, slim, large

Everyone is real btw including me, do I have to validate that by telling everyone I've had 2 children? H

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over a year ago

The end.

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