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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the Christmas jumper

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's deffo the jumper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's shag? He's usually good at these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's lots of single men on here, and as you live in a large city, I can only assume that there's an even higher concentration of single men in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key....doh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't post stuff like this mate you are asking for it lol the lynch mob will be forming!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well your forum threads would put me off.

Try reading the advice on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag will be along soon to advise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad "

The rules here prevent us from commenting on your profile without a specific request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you looking for from this post? Pointers, attention or a profile review?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good things come to those that wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for profile advice, OP?

Aside from specific profile advice I can say that there are a fuck ton of single men on here and less women and couples. Sadly, it's a buyer's market. You have to stand out and it can take time.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good things come to those that wait "

Ohh looking at that bum I can't imagine you had to wait too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My, that's a long one, one of the longest I've seen on here

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

That you not actually got you correct age would put me off. Because you done it once it won't let you now change it back to 29.

Now either you got your age wrong twice, or you fibed to get round other people age filters . Either way that would put me off .

Also great to have a sense humour, but not sure a full joke is required to show you possess one . I think alot would star reading the joke and then loose interest in the rest .

Great you are making efforts with your profile and I wish you the best!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, read a couple of lines, saw it was a joke and stopped reading. As someone else said, you don't need to tell a joke to show you have a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks for the advice people appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too much text in your profile, which is unusual for a single guy to be fair.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad "

Personally, I find the profile a little negative and a bit derogatory. There are a few digs at different types of people, and (after the joke) you start off by complaining that nobody is interested.

If it was my profile, I'd lose the joke and rewrite the profile in a more positive way. There's loads of good bits, just take out the bad bits between them.

Also I think you could do a better face pic, you say you're clean and tidy but your first photo is you in work gear looking scruffy. You'd look better dressed smart ready for going out (the ladies love a suit).

Basically, a little bit of work and the profile could be loads better.

Cal

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'd be interested as to why you tell people to put the codeword in messages to you ?

Would you seriously turn down someone you thought was hot because you thought they hadn't read your whole profile ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad

Personally, I find the profile a little negative and a bit derogatory. There are a few digs at different types of people, and (after the joke) you start off by complaining that nobody is interested.

If it was my profile, I'd lose the joke and rewrite the profile in a more positive way. There's loads of good bits, just take out the bad bits between them.

Also I think you could do a better face pic, you say you're clean and tidy but your first photo is you in work gear looking scruffy. You'd look better dressed smart ready for going out (the ladies love a suit).

Basically, a little bit of work and the profile could be loads better.

Cal"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag will be along soon to advise... "
You know me to good and that is right, patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick look at your profile - firstly, not sure the joke adds anything. Secondly - don't 'hate' on the site members. It is possibly the worst but most common thing you can do on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 things people want to see from public pictures, full body, cock and face if people are willing to show it, otherwise send it with your first message.

As for profile text, lose the joke, take out the negative bits like 99% are looking for brad Pitt and and something about the others not being too choosy it whatever it was, just lose all that business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can we not just stop these threads??

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Yes, you are really that bad.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

A few changes required as already mentioned. Then good luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"can we not just stop these threads??"

If only...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've read it sounds like you want someone to take pity on you.

Cut it down to a paragraph, be more positive and don't sound so desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think your profiles that bad but more photos would be good.get rid of the pout and put a smilling one up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can we not just stop these threads??"

If you do not like these threads, there is no need to read beyond the opening post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback people ill make a few adjustments x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Wanna buy a new jumper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I've updated my profile now with a little help from you sexy lot is it any better any tweaks let me know thanks guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad "

In a word.....

Yes

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't like seeing guys with their tongues out in profiles and you're expecting people to put the words in to prove they have read your profile,that's not something I would ever do,I'd just move onto the next. Delete the last bit you've written as well.

but well done on actually writing something..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like seeing guys with their tongues out in profiles and you're expecting people to put the words in to prove they have read your profile,that's not something I would ever do,I'd just move onto the next. Delete the last bit you've written as well.

but well done on actually writing something..

"

This is almost exactly what I was going to say too.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Still don't know why you insist on a codeword.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll delete the code word too it's just that I read everyone's profiles and they insist on putting code words that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll delete the code word too it's just that I read everyone's profiles and they insist on putting code words that's all"

Yeah mainly women so there's at least a tiny chance the guy has read her profile and is actually what she's looking for.

Take out the code word, the bit about dressing like a chav but not being one, the bit about being a dirty rodent on the street, wtf!? Take out the institution sentence at the bottom of the profile.

Start new sentences with capital letters, the poking out tongue picture is off putting. There's more but do those couple of things first.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Please help me why cant I get a meet on here am I really that bad "

Delete your profile, start again. Use your REAL date of birth for a start. Change it by a day or 2 if you're paranoid.

Then, come back on here. Upload pictures of yourself smiling, not taking silly face selfies.

Promote yourself at every opportunity.

Read profiles before you waste your time messaging.

Have a variety of pictures on display.

keep trying, be patient.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

To the women here.

Give Swing high a tryout. He's a very personable guy. Haven't met him but we have mailed and he comes across as a nice sensitive bloke....and he's not bad looking good body and I'm sure will please you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Rachel "

If she's anything like my friend she'll be pissed you don't spell her name right! Rachael!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tongue out on your pic....eugh hate it when anyone does that...it's so Kerry Katona! even worse when a man does it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry Rachael xx

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos


"The tongue out on your pic....eugh hate it when anyone does that...it's so Kerry Katona! even worse when a man does it!"

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