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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot!

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wolf whistle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some ladders

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Stand naked...and wank looking in her direction

Of course I am only joking. You may freak her out!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot!

Thanks in advance"

She may not be aware that you can see however if you're 100% positive that she waited until she knew you were in the garden to do it approach her with a smile and say something like "you looked lovely when I saw you taking your clothes off"

However if you have the slightest doubt don't mention it and the next time you see her approach her in a friendly fashion with a view to striking up a conversation.

Getting a glimpse of a neighbour undressing in her own house in what she assumes is privacy means nothing.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Just put it in your Wank Bank and say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she clearly look at you as she did it?

You need to be CERTAIN that it was a deliberate action on her part before you say anything.

You will need to go in your garden more often and see if it happens again. Maybe (if there is a) next time you could just put a hand up/wave toilet her know you can see her....take it from there.

If you ask her about it and she was unaware or it was not deliberate then it could be very difficult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Stand naked...and wank looking in her direction

Of course I am only joking. You may freak her out!"

Lmao ..... At least she'd know !!

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By *explorer69Man
over a year ago

Tring


"Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim

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I second that.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

1. Take photo of her naked

2. Print photo out

3. Put your address on the back

4. Masturbate over photo

5. Post it through her letter box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thanks everyone! Not sure what I'll go with but ill have to put something together!...

Fingers crossed I don't get in trouble ayy lol

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... "

And you are from Letchworth

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot

Thanks in advance"

Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .

As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!

Faint heart never won fair lady .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom...

And you are from Letchworth "

Yhh I am??? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot

Thanks in advance

Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .

As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!

Faint heart never won fair lady ."

Tbh I just think it's hot how she looked out the window while doing it,and must of thought there's a possibility someone's watching. But goes ahead and does it anyways... my kinda girl!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot

Thanks in advance

Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .

As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!

Faint heart never won fair lady .

Tbh I just think it's hot how she looked out the window while doing it,and must of thought there's a possibility someone's watching. But goes ahead and does it anyways... my kinda girl!"

Don't assume that you know what she was thinking, that will get you in trouble. It's quite easy to assume that nobody can see you when you're in the privacy of your own home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said by brick top in snatch thinking can get u into a lot of trouble

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"

Don't assume that you know what she was thinking, that will get you in trouble. It's quite easy to assume that nobody can see you when you're in the privacy of your own home."

Totally agree!! HUGE assumption being made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups....I will take all messages into consideration

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups....I will take all messages into consideration "

Good, you have to remember this woman is inside her own home when she's undressing I don't think men (some men) fully realise how unsettling it would be for a woman to know that even there she isnt safe from them thinking her undressed body is a signal that she is up for sex.

Of course it might have been deliberate on her part but you tread a very fine line finding out.

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By *avlawMan
over a year ago

mountain view

One off incident can't be taken as a sign of intent.. See if this happens again

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do nothing. Treat neighbours with respect and help them to feel comfortable in their own homes. As well as with you. Find shags elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Take photo of her naked

2. Print photo out

3. Put your address on the back

4. Masturbate over photo

5. Post it through her letter box

"

Lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anonymous note through the door...

Similar situation next to us except it was orgasm noise lol.

One of my family members dropped a subtle hint via a note with a condom. Note,read, In the conservatory no one can hear you cum'.

Think he'd been watching re runs of Alien.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anonymous note through the door...

Similar situation next to us except it was orgasm noise lol.

One of my family members dropped a subtle hint via a note with a condom. Note,read, In the conservatory no one can hear you cum'.

Think he'd been watching re runs of Alien."

Best one yet! Might try the wave first see how she reacts, if positive I shall do the note...wish me luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the camera out, only joking.

Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups....I will take all messages into consideration

Good, you have to remember this woman is inside her own home when she's undressing I don't think men (some men) fully realise how unsettling it would be for a woman to know that even there she isnt safe from them thinking her undressed body is a signal that she is up for sex.

Of course it might have been deliberate on her part but you tread a very fine line finding out."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the camera out, only joking.

Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert."

I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Get the camera out, only joking.

Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert.

I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol."

In situations like this I always think its a good idea to imagine you have bad younger sister who is the one in her bedroom and a 25 year old man asks you for advice on how to approach her after he's been looking in at her undressing. It sometimes helps see it from the other side of the coin.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I always feel these sorts of things lead to overheard conversations that end with, 'and that's how I ended up on a register'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Get the camera out, only joking.

Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert.

I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol.

In situations like this I always think its a good idea to imagine you have bad younger sister who is the one in her bedroom and a 25 year old man asks you for advice on how to approach her after he's been looking in at her undressing. It sometimes helps see it from the other side of the coin. "

A younger sister not bad younger sister.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I always feel these sorts of things lead to overheard conversations that end with, 'and that's how I ended up on a register' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim

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^^^^^This^^^^^......she may be mortified or slightly aroused ..who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got the half naked ironers behind us.

Always in state of undress at the window. They won't even return a 'hello' if you pass them out either.

Does my tits in to be honest.

F

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